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Posted:Apr 6, 2008 2:04 pm
Last Updated:May 12, 2008 11:16 pm 1489 Views
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JUST A REMINDER....... ABUSE OF THE HEART
EMOTIONAL ABUSE DOES NOT HAVE TO MEAN SHOUTING OR INSULTS
SOME OF THE FORMS OF ABUSE ARE AS FOLLOWS:
USING SARCASM AND HUMOR TO DEGRADE AND THEN
STATING [ I WAS JUST KIDDING ]
DISCOUNTING YOUR OPINION, INTEREST, AND BELIEFS.
WITHHOLDING CONVERSATIONS BY REFUSING TO ANSWER QUESTIONS AND NOT REPLYING WHEN SPOKEN TO.
ISOLATING THE VICTIM FROM FRIENDS,FAMILY AND NEEDING HER PARTNER'S PERMISSION TO GO ANYWHERE
CRITICIZING OR HUMILIATING THE VICTIM IN FRONT OF OTHERS PEOPLE.
CONVINCING THE VICTIM INTO FEELING GUILTY FOR THINGS THAT SHE HAD NOTHING TO DO WITH
RARELY TAKES RESPONSIBILITY FOR HIS BEHAVIOR OR FOR HURTING OTHERS
BLAMING, RIDICULING, INSULTING, SWEARING AND YELLING AT THE VICTIM.
THE ABUSER MAY THROW THINGS, PUNCH WALLS, BREAK THINGS,ECT.... IN ATTEMPT TO CONTROL THE VICTIM BY FEAR.
CONTROLLING ALL THE MONEY
FORCING THE VICTIM TO HAVE SEX
TELLING THE VICTIMS SHE IS "CRAZY"
NO MATTER WHAT ANYONES SAYS YOUR ARE NEVER RESPONSIBLE FOR YOUR PARTNERS ABUSIVE ACTIONS.
ABUSE IS NOT CAUSED BY ALCOHOL, OR DRUGS ,ANGER MANAGEMENT, PROBLEMS, OR PROVOCATION.
THE ABUSER MAKES THE CHOICE TO BE ABUSIVE
WE ARE MORE THAN CONQUERS THROUGH JESUS CHRIST OUR LORD
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CRY OF MY HEART/ FOREVER GRATEFUL
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Posted:Mar 27, 2008 2:07 pm
Last Updated:Apr 28, 2008 5:13 pm 3493 Views
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CRY OF MY HEART
By Terry Butler
It is the cry of my heart to follow
you, it is the cry of my heart to be
close to you. It is the cry of my
heart to follow you all of the days of
my life.
Teach me your holy ways o Lord
so I can walk in your truth. Teach
me your holy ways o Lord. and make
me wholly devoted to you.
Open my eyes so I can see, the
wonderful things you do for me, open my
heart up more and more, and make me
holy devoted to you.
FOREVER GRATEFUL
By Mark Altrogge
You did not wait more, to draw near to
you, but you clothed yourself with
frail humanity, you did not wait for me
to cry out to you, but you let me hear
your voice calling me.
And I am forever grateful to you,
I'm forever grateful for the cross,
I'm forever grateful to you,
That you cane to seek and save the lost.
Thank you all, for putting music and inspirational words back in my soul.
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HOW MANY OF U
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Posted:Mar 25, 2008 6:59 pm
Last Updated:Apr 9, 2008 9:32 pm 1676 Views
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HOW MANY OF U HAD TO WEAR SUN GLASSES ON THE LAST BLOG I WROTE LOLOLOL
DID ANY ONE UNDERSTAND IT! DON'T ANSWER THAT. LOLOLOLOL
JUST FOR FUN HOW MANY,IRISH MEN AND WOMEN DO WE HAVE ON THIS B.C. SIGHT?
SCOTLAND
ENGLAND
SWEDISH
DUTCH
GERMAN
NATIVE AMERICAN
AND PLEASE TELL JUST ALITTLE ABOUT YOUR HERITAGE.
SMILE, THANK YOU
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HOW GOD SEES YOU
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Posted:Mar 21, 2008 1:52 pm
Last Updated:Apr 11, 2008 6:09 pm 1916 Views
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REMEMBER THAT GOD IS THE ONE WHO GIVES YOU VALUE, NOT YOU OR ANYONE ELSE.
If we let others determine how we feel about ourselves,our opinions will change constanly.
GOD has given u the greatest compliment you could ever receive in this life-better than any women or man could give you in words.
HE calls u his masterpiece, HIS work of art that he wants to put on display and show off to everyone[ephesians 2:10
WHEN U FIND YOURSELF BECOMING DEPRESSED INSECURE OR DOUBTFUL, TURN TO GODS WORD.psalms is a great place to look for encouragement. GOD LOVES U SOOOOO MUCH.
DON'T DWELL ON NEGATIVE THINKING. We all have things about ourselves that we don't like.things you may secretly dislike about yourself are just the unigue attributes that GOD gave specificalLy to u.
HE loves you just the way you are.NO ONE CAN MAKE U INFERIOR WITHOUT YOUR CONSENT.
O MY LOVE,YOU ARE AS BEAUTIFUL AS.........SONG OF SOLOMON,
I AM ENTRALLED BY YOUR BEAUTY PSALMS
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THE SIX BIGGEST MISTAKES WOMEN MAKE WITH MEN
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Posted:Mar 21, 2008 12:32 pm
Last Updated:Apr 9, 2008 3:19 pm 1820 Views
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1. WOMEN ACT LIKE MOTHERS AND TREAT MEN LIKE .
2.Women sacrifice who they are and put themselves second in importance to the man they love.
3.WOMEN FALL IN LOVE WITH A MAN'S POTENTIAL.
4. Women cover up their excellence and competence.
5. WOMEN GIVE UP THEIR POWER.
6.WOMEN ACT LIKE LITTLE GIRLS TO GET WHAT THEY WANT FROM MEN.
My strong sisters in the lord educate me and teach me new mistates we make now !!!!!!!!!!!! CONSIDER AND HEAR ME O LORD MY GOD,ENLIGHTEN MY EYES PS. 13:3
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