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CHOICES JUST A REMINDER....... ABUSE OF THE HEART EMOTIONAL ABUSE DOES NOT HAVE TO MEAN SHOUTING OR INSULTS SOME OF THE FORMS OF ABUSE ARE AS FOLLOWS: USING SARCASM AND HUMOR TO DEGRADE AND THEN STATING [ I WAS JUST KIDDING ] DISCOUNTING YOUR OPINION, INTEREST, AND BELIEFS. WITHHOLDING CONVERSATIONS BY REFUSING TO ANSWER QUESTIONS AND NOT REPLYING WHEN SPOKEN TO. ISOLATING THE VICTIM FROM FRIENDS,FAMILY AND NEEDING HER PARTNER'S PERMISSION TO GO ANYWHERE CRITICIZING OR HUMILIATING THE VICTIM IN FRONT OF OTHERS PEOPLE. CONVINCING THE VICTIM INTO FEELING GUILTY FOR THINGS THAT SHE HAD NOTHING TO DO WITH RARELY TAKES RESPONSIBILITY FOR HIS BEHAVIOR OR FOR HURTING OTHERS BLAMING, RIDICULING, INSULTING, SWEARING AND YELLING AT THE VICTIM. THE ABUSER MAY THROW THINGS, PUNCH WALLS, BREAK THINGS,ECT.... IN ATTEMPT TO CONTROL THE VICTIM BY FEAR. CONTROLLING ALL THE MONEY FORCING THE VICTIM TO HAVE SEX TELLING THE VICTIMS SHE IS "CRAZY" NO MATTER WHAT ANYONES SAYS YOUR ARE NEVER RESPONSIBLE FOR YOUR PARTNERS ABUSIVE ACTIONS. ABUSE IS NOT CAUSED BY ALCOHOL, OR DRUGS ,ANGER MANAGEMENT, PROBLEMS, OR PROVOCATION. THE ABUSER MAKES THE CHOICE TO BE ABUSIVE WE ARE MORE THAN CONQUERS THROUGH JESUS CHRIST OUR LORD |
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4/9/2008 8:33 pm |
Amen Joanie, Good post GBY GT Eph 2:10 We are his workmanship (poiema, or poem, or work of art) created in Christ Jesus. God is an artist and you are His masterpiece!
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