I am a 27 year old, work-at-home mom of two . God has brought me through alot and still continues to strengthen me daily. He is my peace and joy. Because of him and his mercy, grace and unconditional love . . . . I wake up every morning with a smile on my face waiting for the next challenge that I can, in return, give over to him. He is the only one that can take care of me, even I can't do it in the way that is best for me.
I am not religious by any means. . . just confident in the fact that God is my God and he is leading me where I need to go. I do go to church, I do pray and I do read my bible, and I don't hesitate to tell others about what God has done and what he is doing at this time in my life. But, I don't demand or pressure, or expect others to think like I do.
I am very open-minded, confident, accepting, relaxed, easy-going, patient, sincere, compassionate, understanding, low-maintenance, and have the ulitmate desire to raise my boys in the way that God would want me to. They are my life and therefore, you would need to understand that. God has, in essence, "loaned" them to me for their time on this earth . . . he thought enough of me and my abilities to raise and nurture His precious two , that he has given me the awesome responsibility to mold them to be mighty men of God.
I love to camp, hike, fish, walks in the park, travel, watching movies and eating out . . . I love to read, play video games with my boys, take them to the park and play, bike rides, rollerblading . . . I love to paint, decorate, clean and cook.
My goals in life are to travel more, meet a LOT of new people, strengthen my walk with Christ, do all I can to "give the world" to my boys and show them all this world has to offer. I am wanting to be more adventurous and experience new things, be a little wild and crazy, I guess, and not compromising my values and morals while doing so. I do want to get married again and have another but all that is dependent upon God and His desire for my life. Ulitmately, my goal is to be the best mom, , wife, sister, friend and companion that I can be. I am the only who can accomplish what God has destined me to fulfill, therefore I take that role on daily . . . the be the best ME that I can be.
My Ideal Person
I like a man who is honest, compassionate, accepting, sincere, caring, funny . . . one who loves kids and who allows God to guide him where he is to go. His relationship with Christ is very important and his ability to let God be the "pilot" of his life and he the "co-pilot". I've learned through life experiences that there is no better place to be than the "co-pilot" and I would like for him to be able to say the same thing. To know that God has his best interest in mind and therefore he can give up total control.
I like to spend time with people who look at the better side of people, ones who don't judge upon first appearance and looks at the best in everyone they come in contact with. I like men who are positive, always smiling and laughing . . Men who love life and live everyday knowing that it could be their last . . Men who are confident and secure in themselves, their walk with Christ, their future, their goals and desires . . Men who are very family-oriented and would do anything for their families. . And obviously, I'm looking for a man who ultimately sees his role in a relationship as the provider and protector of the woman, but also one who allows the woman to fulfill her role in the relationship and doesn't restrict her from being who God made her to be and doesn't restrict her from fulfilling what God wants her to fulfill. And I, in return, will support and encourage you to be and do all that God has purposed for you.
Any relationship, marriage or not, is about give and take and if you aren't prepared to do both, then you aren't ready for a real and true relationship. I'm ready to meet men who aren't all about receiving but who wants to give without expecting anything in return. Don't misunderstand that . . . I am a giver and love to give to who I am with, but I have been burned really bad in the past and wish to not go there again. I want to be able to give to someone and have them appreciate it and then be willing to give to me without condition. Any relationship is based on unconditionals . . . There should be no "you do this for me, and then I will do this for you" , or "you do this and then we will see if you have done enough for me to receive something in return" .
I know, thats alot of information, but I'm really not picky. I'm just looking for a real and true "gentle"man who wants a real and true "gentle"woman to spend time with.
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