I have come to believe that there is a time for love to enter one's life--I'm hoping this is true. // My friends would call me humorous, loving and compassionate. Also that I spend too much time alone. I do like to be alone, however that took years to cultivate--I believe it is really an okayness with myself and my own company. I don't need to be distracted. I read steadily, dabble in self taught painting, write some poetry. I listen to Christian music or at least good lyrical non-Christian music. But I like country and classical. Actually, I like music except for . I like to go the the theatre when I can, and a good movie once in a while. Walking is good. I want to do more than I do, but I believe I need some coaxing. We all need teachers. I have been in the service industry for years. Also, a massage the--self employed until a bicycle accident left my collar bone in an unmendable place. So now I do that only for friends and family. I like to dance, sing in the car. I mostly like to smile and laugh and look for the good in all that I can. I do get discouraged--I look to God and the hope always rises once more. I love animals and had a black lab for 13 years--she just passed on this past August and I haven't even gotten close to not missing her. But I adopted a black cat and she and I are helping each other out. I have two grown ren--one just got married two weeks ago and the other is expecting her first in February. That is a true blessing. I believe I am a simple woman looking to love one last per with gratefulness and passion for the rest of the days God shall give.
My Ideal Person
I am looking for a man who is most of all honest and looking for a serious relationship, beginning with dating. I am not looking to date for the sake of company only. I am attracted to men who are spontaneous and humorous, perhaps hiding some shyness with that. I am quite healthy and fit so do expect the same, but not overboard--I don't want to waste time with over vanity. A good conversationalist at times, but able to be comfortable with silence. I would like to pray together, go to church together, be able and willing to communicate our needs and be accepting of each other. Chemistry is a funny thing--something I have no control over--it usually comes from the eyes. I am okay with children of any age or grandchildren, pets and farms and ranches. Love is what is important--respect, honor and mutual affection.
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