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1st Date   2/21/2010

The first date is always exciting. For women you're wondering could he be the one, will he be tall dark and handsome, or will he be a gentleman. The man may be wondering if she will look like her picture, is she sexy, does she know how to cook or is she anything like his mother. No matter what you are thinking or wondering it is always good to be cautious even on faith dating websites. Some ...


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linci88 49 F
7  Articles
let the Spirit of God apply them deeply on your heart and your service for Christ.   11/8/2009

Ezekiel 1:25-28 & 2: 1-3

There are five major points to be noted in the call and to equip Ezekiel as a messenger of the Lord. These are still important today for any believer who desires to serve the Lord. Firstly, Ezekiel had a vision of God and His sovereignty. Today we may not see visions as He did but we ourselves need to be gripped by the same great important truths which impressed ...


0 Comments, 3 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
linci88 49 F
7  Articles
Can the caring ministry of Christ be seen in us - today and every day?   11/8/2009

Luke 4:14-21

The earthly life of Jesus Christ is a remarkable example to us of how our lives should be day by day. There are those who make more of His living example than they do of His death for us. On the other hand we may perhaps tend to overlook the wonderful work He did as He moved around the land of Israel. In our reading today we have His declaration of His mission to the world ...


0 Comments, 5 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
linci88 49 F
7  Articles
May God make this truth very clear to everyone of us as we look at this book together?   11/8/2009

Ezekiel 1: 1-5

Ezekiel was thirty years old when he became God’s messenger to the Jews in Babylon. He was standing alongside an irrigation canal called Kebar or Chebar, south of what we call Baghdad today. But to Ezekiel that ditch was more than a canal. It was a symbol of disappointment and frustration. That canal reminded him, “God has failed His people.” Ezekiel ...


0 Comments, 4 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
linci88 49 F
7  Articles
All the way my Saviour leads me.   11/8/2009

Ezekiel 1:4-20

Did you have any difficulty reading or understanding this passage today? You are not alone. Ezekiel had difficulty himself even trying to describe what he saw. Notice how many times he used the words “like” or “likeness”. He could not write down exactly what he was seeing. He simply said “It was like ...” But the hidden message is ...


0 Comments, 10 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
zayina 60 F
1  Article
Collect the data   9/19/2009

The purpose of dating is basically to collect data about the other person. That process takes time. I feel that if a person doesnt have the time, they shouldn't bother to date because it takes time to get acquainted with another. I believe first dates should be non pressure-filled. Something simple like meeting at a coffee shop, or lunch. Meeting in the daytime gives us the advantage to look at ...


1 Comments, 11 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
mag414 75 F
6  Articles
be careful   8/3/2009

When going out on a date always choose a place not to far from home it has to be in a public place always let some one know where you are going and with whome.


1 Comments, 11 Views, 2 Votes ,5.20 Score
kharole 49 F
4  Articles
Marry or Not   5/1/2009

With the present Global Crisis that we are experiencing right now, would it still be practical to get married and have ? Or would rather live with someone with no wedding plans and try every method not to have ....


0 Comments, 5 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
Dundeal 67 M
6251  Articles
How To Stay Safe   9/23/2008

How to stay safe in the world today.

1. Avoid riding in automobiles because they are responsible for20% of all fatal accidents.

2. Do not stay home because 17% of all accidents occur in thehome.

3. Avoid walking on streets or sidewalks because 14% of allaccidents occur to pedestrians.

4. Avoid traveling by air, rail, or water because 16% of allaccidents involve ...


1 Comments, 16 Views, 4 Votes ,5.57 Score
young62man 75 M
2  Articles
Make the first date fun and impressive   7/24/2008

I like to meet a nice restaurant for a first date. I pray over my meals and always ask if she would like to pray with me. Facial expressions vary drastically. I'm a talker but I know enough to keep talking until a subject is reached that she has an interest. Never do I answer questions about my ex, never. I don't really want to hear about hers either. I keep it light and enjoy the ...


0 Comments, 16 Views, 2 Votes ,5.20 Score
young62man 75 M
2  Articles
Who's safe anymore?   7/24/2008

Honesty doesn't seem to always prevail when two people connect on line. How do I know, really, just who you are? This is supposed to be a "safe" site catering to church folk or those wanting to know more about it. I have had dates where after two sent/received communications I was very convinced I wanted this date. I was right. The next couple of first dates were disappointing because they ...


1 Comments, 32 Views, 7 Votes ,4.82 Score
spbpt 71 F
13  Articles
if you decide to meet   6/2/2008

personally I don't expect to meet folks from here unless they live very near me, but if I was preparing to see someone....it would be in a very public place and I wouldn't go alone.

Personal safety and common sense would be foremost in my mind and I would check someone out by asking for references...eg name of pastor and other references before I became very involved with someone ...


0 Comments, 23 Views, 3 Votes ,4.41 Score
skystar13 57 F
4  Articles
Red flag... penalty 15 yds!   3/8/2008

Hey folks... is it a common practice among men here to ask a woman if they want to meet...? Without any 'how do you dos' or previous discussion? I think that's a little creepy and at the very least bad manners...

This is a copy of the first email I ever recieved on my first day here and my response to them... it was titled... "Want To Meet?"

"rudedude" is not the senders real ...


1 Comments, 48 Views, 4 Votes ,5.57 Score
Where?   2/9/2008

My last chance is here to meet a christian born again partner.where else or how else can i meet a born again partner!


0 Comments, 26 Views, 1 Votes
stev00400 43 M
1541  Articles
when to remember past successes   11/25/2007

Remember past successes in time of Crisis Don’t always remember your failure in the moment of crisis and challenges, because that will weigh you down and weaken your spirit. As a matter of fact what you need do in crisis moment is to remember all your past successes no matter how little it may be. The remembrance of your successes will enable a huge assurance within you that would motivate ...


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Ladies Beware of This Man- Who Is on BigChurch-Now   10/25/2007

I'm a member on here- been on this site for about a month-I meet a very nice guy(I thought) and real nice looking too-Well he's a fruad & everything thats comes out of his mouth are lies-I'm trying to warn you about this- so if want to know who it is come to me and I'll be glad to tell you who he is-he's hurt me real bad-and I know he's got other women on here too-I'll give you a few clues-he's ...


3 Comments, 157 Views, 15 Votes ,5.12 Score
JustChristian1 60 M
3  Articles
What type of feminine protection is????   10/21/2007

Greetings all, I was just curious, like usual, as to what type of feminine protection you ladies use???? NO NO, not that monthly thing. I mean, like a gun, or knife, or your four older brothers, or just the Wisdom of Discernment from the Lord, while keeping your brothers on speed dial. What do you use?


3 Comments, 35 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score
stev00400 43 M
1541  Articles
don't cancil out your faith   10/21/2007

don't cancil out your faith

When you declare God’s Word in faith over your challenges, it’s so important that you don’t cancel out your faith with doubt! In Mark 11:23 nkjv, Jesus said, "Whoever says to this mountain, ‘Be removed and be cast into the sea, ’ and does not doubt in his heart, but believes that those things he says will be done, he will ...


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Silver12b 61 F
16  Articles
We still have SCAMMERS on here!!   10/17/2007

Whatch out ladies! There are still scammers on here!! One just tried to get me!! Claimed to be a widow from DC working as a spillage engineer in the UK. Suddenly he had too! Sent me a picture. Told me in our 4th email he was in love with me and our meeting was God ordained. Spoke lots of poetry and said, my love, my dear, sent ecards and bible studies.

I saw the clues but played along ...


0 Comments, 56 Views, 5 Votes ,1.84 Score
vivacious17 65 F
6  Articles
Keep Safe By Keeping A Spiritual Focus   10/13/2007

I think that one of the critical factors involved in keeping safe in a setting like this is to not take any one at face value or appearance value. Do not allow yourself to be swept off your feet because someone looks like a movie star.

Clarify ahead of time the inner and spiritual qualities that youare looking for in a future spouse or date. Pray for guidance. Take time to interact first ...


1 Comments, 12 Views, 3 Votes ,4.41 Score
buggs6306 53 M
2  Articles
Online Predators   10/11/2007

Are those who seek vulnerable women and the only on line predators? NO! These dating sites are also the play ground of on line predators: there are lots of people that I rate up in the ranks of molesters, these people are those who only come to the dating site to sell a false hope of finding true love. They blaitenly disobey the sites rules and try giving whom they contact their supposed ...


0 Comments, 26 Views, 2 Votes ,3.81 Score
stev00400 43 M
1541  Articles
genuineness   9/2/2007

when we walk with genuineness of heart there will always be some great measure of satisfaction left behind in the mind even though it might sometimes be painful during such genuine walk. so we must endeavour to always walk in genuineness of mind at all time


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Ebonypriestess 60 F
10  Articles
Nagging Doubts - Very Important   8/13/2007

Do we always listen to our nagging doubts or gut reactions? If not, why not, aren’t they relevant?

As we interact with people in our respective communities, there's the odd occasion that we meet someone and during the first meeting(s) alarm bells are going off about them - but for some reason we choose to ignore them and then we're surprised when things go wrong.

When I ...


1 Comments, 24 Views, 1 Votes ,3.70 Score
stev00400 43 M
1541  Articles
be concerned about yourself   8/7/2007

You have to do more things for yourself because it is when you are happy and doing well that you can do better for others. If you don't take care of yourself, you can't help others because it is out of what you are that you give out others.


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stev00400 43 M
1541  Articles
Always Act now   8/5/2007

Do not procrastinate anything you can do now. to do that is to lay foundation for failure. A failing spirit feels it is not possible now., why a succeeding spirit feels if not now when? and it can be done now.


0 Comments, 4 Views, 0 Votes
stev00400 43 M
1541  Articles
To be successful in life   8/3/2007

To be successful in life, always state what you want/desire and go ahead and do necessary things that you need to lead you to that which you want/desire. Mind you, success in life is not limited to physical possessions but to everything that stem from the heart. If we desire to please God the principle is state it and do the necessary things that is required of you to be able to please God. That ...


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callmeshye 53 F
1  Article
meeting someone online   8/1/2007

My best friend meet someone from Africa online and made a plane trip with her three to see him only four months from meeting him. Am I crazy to be mad at her? She is my bestest friend and I care for alot.


0 Comments, 61 Views, 3 Votes ,2.94 Score
stev00400 43 M
1541  Articles
how to make a woman happy   7/4/2007

some one sent this to me. -- How to Make a Woman Happy It's not difficult to make a woman happy. A man only needs to be: 1. a friend 2. a companion 3. a lover 4. a brother 5. a father 6. a master 7. a chef 8. an electrician 9. a carpenter 10. a plumber 11. a mechanic 12. a decorator 13. a stylist 14. a sexologist 15. a gynecologist 16. a psychologist 17. a pest exterminator 18. a psychiatrist 19. ...


0 Comments, 20 Views, 2 Votes ,3.12 Score
stev00400 43 M
1541  Articles
About our emotions   6/22/2007

A friend sent this to me and I felt it could be useful in here

It difficult to underestimate the power of a touch a smile a kind word a listening ear an honest compliment or the smallest act of caring all of which have the potential to turn a life around Life ends when you stop Dreaming, Hope ends when you stop Believing, Love ends when you stop Caring, Friendship ends when you stop ...


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stev00400 43 M
1541  Articles
smething about love   5/31/2007

Love as the most valuable requirement from everyone created by God can not be reduced to knowing. To do that automatically leads to is cheapness, which you agree is only possible through utterances and writings. The love that is required from humanity is not equal to knowing, I tried to draw your attention to several examples of some relationships that remain models while they lasted even till in ...


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Eradjoa 58 F
1  Article
Online safety   5/30/2007

Thanks Big Church for monitoring and taking note of those whom abuse this website. Recently I was penpaling with someone and I was getting a little suspicious.Then what do you know he has been removed for abuse. Thankyou for cleaning up and protecting others. Let us all be writing safely and let that little inner voice speak out loudly when we have rumblings that all is not what it seems.


0 Comments, 79 Views, 5 Votes ,4.45 Score
stev00400 43 M
1541  Articles
getting less hurt   5/25/2007

I try to reason how possible it is for one to get hurt and why do one get hurt in the first place. This was against the backdrop of the fact that getting hurt is often precipitated by someone else’s action towards us. Therefore from observation and the teaching of the scriptures, it is possible to reduce and, or in some cases eliminate the tendency of being hurt by someone, something or ...


0 Comments, 4 Views, 0 Votes
stev00400 43 M
1541  Articles
it is not enough to pray   5/16/2007

It is not enough to pray, it is also demanded that after you have prayed and ask God for direction that you begin to take action and do something in the direction of your freedom. Remember the Israelite have to spend more years in the wilderness because ten out of twelve spies sent to view the Promised Land discouraged them from taking action. One thing God will not do is to force you to take ...


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passionforJesus 55 M
1  Article
how to get right person for a date   5/11/2007



my advice for you is ask God to show you who is the right person for you for dating


0 Comments, 40 Views, 4 Votes ,1.69 Score
stev00400 43 M
1541  Articles
something good can be made out of little time   5/11/2007

don't always wait for a specific time to do something rightly, whatever time you got make the best use of it and try not to complain of no time as no matter how little the time is there can always be something good to make out of it


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Don't drive with anyone new- protect yourself   4/30/2007

When you meet someone new - and you go out on a date- don't let the person fool you into going somewhere that you haven't OK'd in advance. This includes driving yourself to where you are going and not getting into the fellow's car. For example- here's a real life example. On a first date from the internet- a fellow made arrangements to meet a lady at a retaurant. He chose the restaurant. He ...


0 Comments, 23 Views, 3 Votes ,2.45 Score
stev00400 43 M
1541  Articles
if you don't know, ask question   4/25/2007

Most people work with assumptions why other work with presumptions neither of this is good for anyone who want to succeed in any life endeavor. So it is good and more honorable that when you are not sure of something or don’t know something, the best thing to do is to ask, for he who ask question on an issue will hardly or not go wrong


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stev00400 43 M
1541  Articles
plan from what you are and not what you use to be or ought to be   4/16/2007

A man is what he is, not what he used to be or what he ought to be. But many people do not belief this. to belief what one is does not mean lack of faith or aspiration but it helps us to know the reality around us and to be able to adequately plan for improvement by prayers, studies and search for information. some people live their on what they ought to be or what they use to be, niether of ...


0 Comments, 2 Views, 0 Votes
celticgurl 50 F
1  Article
WOW   4/3/2007

I have recently joined this website in search of my soulmate/laughing partner. It's hard sometimes to meet men when you work a lot, etc., so I thought I'd give this a try. So far in the last 2 days I've found out that 1 guy I e-mailed back and forth with a few times has 2 profiles on this site ( completely different I might add!! ). Odd how I woke up in the middle of the night and had the urge to ...


2 Comments, 112 Views, 7 Votes ,4.82 Score
LIONOFJUDAH771 52 M
2  Articles
beware of pushy people   1/8/2007

because if they are rushing you to do things there way its therefore knot of the kingdom of THE MOST HIGH GOD AND THE LORD JESUS THE CHRIST THE ONE AND ONLY AMEN.LADIES DONT LET PUSHY MEN LEAD YOUR LIVES ALLOW GOD TO LEAD AND GUIDE YOU WITH ALL OF HEAVEN AMEN


2 Comments, 66 Views, 4 Votes ,4.80 Score
stev00400 43 M
1541  Articles
when you look back   11/10/2006

whenever you look back, see your achievement and learn from your mistakes but never you regret anything for they were but experience for you to be able to manage the present situation


1 Comments, 28 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
giftsoflove 45 F
6  Articles
COURTSHIP AND LOVE   11/3/2006

A time of Courtship and feelings of love are natural desirable progressions in a dating relationship.Becoming engaged to a person serves as a vauable learning exprience, exposing both people to many important feelings and dscisions.
How to deal with the intense desires assoiated with physical attraction and defining love are two very ...



3 Comments, 113 Views, 13 Votes ,3.98 Score
stev00400 43 M
1541  Articles
few things will catch your heart   9/23/2006

there are alot of things that will catch your eye, but few things will catch your heart, and once you verify them with the word of God and find out that they fall in line with HIS pur[ose for you, then PURSUE IT without restrains!


1 Comments, 29 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
stev00400 43 M
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dicovering your originality   8/27/2006

When you discover your originality, you wont want to be like any other person and no matter what others do, you will always see yourself as unique and then you will be able to pursue your goal without feeling odd or out of track. To discover ones originality we need to discover who we really are in Christ as we were originality created in the image of God. That notwithstanding, just know ...


1 Comments, 11 Views, 4 Votes ,2.47 Score
stev00400 43 M
1541  Articles
I chose to who I am   8/13/2006

I chose to be who I am and not what I think people would want me be, because in being whom I am will my help come from God through various channel as being whom I am make me plain before God in all my strength and weaknesses. To strive to be what people would want me be will cost one his or her destiny


0 Comments, 12 Views, 6 Votes ,3.08 Score
Nkama 37 F
1  Article
Fear of God & Respect   7/31/2006

Many claim that their born again....yes but remember that our bodies is enemy of what we believe(body require for world but spirit require heaven thing, So what we suppose to do?To stand according to God word leave by purity and respect our body as God temple and respect both partiner on dating moment coz that is dengeous part of courtship. Respect each ather untily marriage


0 Comments, 28 Views, 7 Votes ,1.26 Score
stev00400 43 M
1541  Articles
God sees his radiance in you   7/22/2006

God does not see mess in us but his well created image and the his radiance in you. so stop looking at you mess and focus on the good image of God you are


0 Comments, 27 Views, 3 Votes ,2.45 Score
stev00400 43 M
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tomorrow makes today past lesson   7/12/2006

Life only allows you to move forward, because when tomorrow comes you become a new person with past lessons. so always edeavour to learn some good experience from past lesson but don't carry the past along with you into tomorrow.


0 Comments, 11 Views, 2 Votes ,1.73 Score
thekeeperofasps 58 F
1  Article
scammer made a mistake   7/10/2006

Can we say busted? Singlleman01 tried to scam me with cheesy emails and I thought something wasnt right to start with and mentioned it to the person that hooked me up with this website and it just so happened he sent her the same word for word email he sent me.
Watch out for him his name is KEN MOORGAN HENRY or at least that is what he is calling himself anyway He is also from ...


4 Comments, 195 Views, 18 Votes ,3.94 Score
stev00400 43 M
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appearance is deceptive   7/8/2006

Never judge a book by its cover when there is so much more on the inside, just as you should never judge anyone by his look when there are so much more in his or her character or attitude. Just as book content, so also are the attitude and or character of anyone. The reason why you should read the content or see someone character and or attitude before making conclusion is that appearance ...


1 Comments, 14 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
bridget1967 55 F
6  Articles
please be careful!!   7/3/2006

i im sorry that i have to do this but i was dating a man off this web site and he was over loving and complimentary to me and well i guess he said all the things i wanted to hear. then as the weeks went by i noticed that his behaviour became less and less of that of a Christian and there seemed to be lies appearing .anyway then it came to light that he was using false names and dates of ...


8 Comments, 361 Views, 36 Votes ,6.69 Score
stev00400 43 M
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is it by force to marry?   7/1/2006

During a wedding reception; the groom was called upon to give his vote of thanks to his guests and this is what he came up with: I want to first of all thank the Lord Almighty for creating my wife and to also thank the pastor and his wife for lending us their wedding rings. Special appreciation to my landlord who lent us his car. I am most grateful to my boss for approving the loan I used ...


1 Comments, 54 Views, 6 Votes ,2.23 Score
marian_pop99 39 F
1  Article
I look for a good husband..   6/24/2006

I have 25 years and i'm tired to be unmarried. I want to know how is to be married and that i look for an husband that must look good (don't matter the age). Please contact me if u are really interested. SEE YA


2 Comments, 253 Views, 35 Votes
stev00400 43 M
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Remember   6/19/2006

Remember what God has done for you and the successes you have had in life when discouragement tries to take you down, with that you can find yourself at the top of you mind again and be able to overcome worries


0 Comments, 10 Views, 3 Votes ,2.45 Score
stev00400 43 M
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See Good in Others   6/9/2006

In life learn to see Good in people for every evil you identify in people blocks you from see your problems and mistakes as your attention is on the evil of others. really, it is better for my enemy to see good in me than for me to see evil in him.


0 Comments, 16 Views, 2 Votes ,3.81 Score
webchick 57 F
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Bigchurch Scammer   6/6/2006

profile id luvis1 and fletchhisheart
check out http://bigchurch.com
fletchhisheart will contact u with his im 'kelvin smith'...alias to same guy


3 Comments, 258 Views, 11 Votes ,3.17 Score
stev00400 43 M
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what make people look up to you is who you are   6/4/2006

It's not how much you have that makes people look up to you, it's who you are. What you have is a factor of your achievement or efforts. And that effort could be genuine or not genuine depending on what spirit leads the one concerned. But who you are, is a matter of your character and attitude which would either my people to look up to you or look down on you. So lets cultivate good ...


1 Comments, 13 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
stev00400 43 M
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Never sit down and grieve when you can find another way   6/2/2006

So many times in life we make attempts and effects at achieving something laudable and something that would impact in people’s lives as well as ours. But in most cases when we come across problem we tend to put our haed down, back out, back down or whatever there is that connot retreating from attempting. But it could do much good if one never let his head down, never give up and ...


0 Comments, 30 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
stev00400 43 M
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Never sit down and grieve when you can find another way   6/2/2006

So many times in life we make attempts and effects at achieving something laudable and something that would impact in people’s lives as well as ours. But in most cases when we come across problem we tend to put our haed down, back out, back down or whatever there is that connot retreating from attempting. But it could do much good if one never let his head down, never give up and ...


0 Comments, 21 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
stev00400 43 M
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So Good and so True about the Love of God   6/2/2006

THIS IS SO GOOD AND SO TRUE... If: A B C D E F G H I J K L M N O P Q R S T U V W X Y Z Is represented as: 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 12 13 14 15 16 17 18 19 20 21 22 23 24 25 26 Then: H-A-R-D-W-O-R- K( 8+1+18+4+23+15+18+11) = 98% And K-N-O-W-L-E-D-G-E( 11+14+15+23+12+5+4+7+5) = 96% Yes, and B-e-a-u-t-i-f-u-l (2-5-1-21-20-9-6-21-12)=97% But, A-T-T-I-T-U-D-E( 1+20+20+9+20+21+4+5 )= 100% AND, ...


0 Comments, 33 Views, 9 Votes ,4.92 Score
stev00400 43 M
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God can not accept anything from but Faith   5/29/2006

Christianity is a practice that is faith based, yet many of us struggled to make people know that we love God, we strive to do thing according to the rulse of the church and that of God. some of us make sacrifices that is breathtaking, and go ahead to despise those who can't make sacrifices. we see people who don't do as we think God wants us do as not truthful in the christian practices. ...


0 Comments, 30 Views, 3 Votes ,2.45 Score
stev00400 43 M
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What are you living for   5/27/2006

The utmost goal of everyone in life is to stick to what we believe in and what we consider special, something we can say we are living for. This varied from person to person depending on our upbringing and environment as well as virtue. Why some things people are living for could be disgusting to others it is truly what they live for. As a matter of fact, one way of evaluating what we think ...


0 Comments, 8 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
speeritwoman 66 F
4  Articles
About this 'meeting people online' business....   5/26/2006

Online ‘dating’ or relationship building as I would rather call it, has come under some question, both here and in some circles I move in. It is a normal thing to question as it is a relatively new medium for meeting people, and not very trusted with all the abuse of it that is out there. This does exist , but if you safeguard yourself, armed with the full armor of God, and ...


3 Comments, 140 Views, 15 Votes ,5.73 Score
stev00400 43 M
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it is more serious tolose hope than to sin   5/24/2006

Hope is an element that we all need in life to carry through the functions of in the face of the variety of life issues that we are confronted with in our everyday life. The importance of HOPE was made clear in the bible when the bible says of ABRAHAM that he hoped against hope. What that means is that even when there was no reason for Abraham to hope for a better thing, he choose to hope ...


0 Comments, 11 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
stev00400 43 M
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you can not do good before you are made good   5/23/2006

Good is what everyone desire to be associated with and no matter how wicked somepersons are they want to be seen as good or done good to. everyone on earth want people to treat them godd and want good things to always happen. the fact remains that the number of people who are good on earth determine the amount of good that will be experienced here on earth. There if we all endeavour to be ...


0 Comments, 14 Views, 0 Votes
stev00400 43 M
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there is no perfect man or woman when it comes to relationship or marriage   5/21/2006

there is no perfect man of women when it come to relationship or marriage. all we need do is the determination to compromise and accept one another. both parties have the responsibility make the other perfect by working out the relationship for good. with this and focus on God things will always work


0 Comments, 15 Views, 4 Votes ,3.63 Score
Knightc 65 M
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How to tell if the person is right for you.   5/14/2006

With in the first two dates you should go out for a meal. When you do watch how the other person treats other if they treat others rudely then in 3 to 6 months they will treat you the same believe you me. For the way they treat others is the way they will treat you, most people drop their guard when eating a meal. Has save me a lot of heart ack.


1 Comments, 61 Views, 7 Votes ,4.57 Score
stev00400 43 M
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Scammers new tricks   5/13/2006

Hello, just want to let you know that scammers have develop new ways of getting at people. In addition to the promise of marriage, and offer of business deal and request to transfer of huge money to your account, they now employ the tactics of telling their victim that the have one sickness or the other, or that they were involved in an accident, or one tragedy or the other that will ...


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Be a good listener   5/11/2006

Be a good listener, don't be hasty to conclude but be slow to talk. why it is possible for your tongue to get you into trouble when you talk much without restain, your ears will never get you in trouble. the more you listen the more you aquire knowledge, and on the contrary, the more you talk the more you give out yourself and exposses you weaknesses


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kind words are cheap but does great things   5/8/2006

Whenever we recieved KIND words from people around us we get excited and refreshed. tat means Kind words has a healing balm within it. But as often as we get KIND words from people we sometimes forget that they are cheap and costless. and if we do know that they are cheap and costless why then is it difficult for some of us to give this cheap and costless yet power source of great happiness ...


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Adjusting our attitude toward joy   5/5/2006

many a time we often wish and desire that every thing happening around us could and should get fit into our attitude and the way we want it to be. But this is wrong for that can never be possible because those things will always be and continue to be. the world can not change for you. the ups will always be there and the downs will never stop; what is possible is for everyone of us to get ...


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Jesus still think the best for you no matter what   5/1/2006

Even when Jesus knows about you, and all you are but he choose to believe the best about you and for you. because he sees you not as you are but as you will be when he get through with you by his refinning power and fire. what a friend we have in him


0 Comments, 13 Views, 3 Votes ,3.92 Score
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one is only defeated when he accept defeat   4/26/2006

No one is defeated until defeat is accepted as A reality by such individual. So that is why is is self defeating to quit or stop attempting what seems difficult


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Charity53076 47 F
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gas prices   4/21/2006

sign this petition to lower gas prices ITS LEGIT i got it off of channel 7 action news http://bigchurch.com if you cant get it off that site click on this site http://bigchurch.com PS give it to everyone u know


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stev00400 43 M
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the beautiy of anyday starts from the heart   4/20/2006

whene we go to bed at night we hope to see a wondeful and beautiful day starting from the next morning. but most often many people do not see the beautiful, because of the state of their heart at the dawning of a new day. for anyone to have a beautiful day his or her mind must be renewed to freshness and that can only come by the word of God and dedicating time to appreciate what the good ...


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Christ is God's fulfilment for human   4/17/2006

God promised us good life and prosperity and all the abundance of comfort. Those promises are fulfilled in Jesus Christ that is why Jesus Christ is God's everything for man's total need


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True friend as Good health   4/14/2006

Many of us seek for peace and good health and many who find good health and peace out of carelessness loss it and become miserable. But the one thing that is equal good health is true friend. No wonder it is said True friendship is like sound health; the value of it is seldom known until it be lost. So when you have true friend cherish it and try to be one to others. But remember Jesus is ...


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It's always too early to quit   4/12/2006

Life is full of great challenges and contradictions, and these we see our way to success and great achievement. No matter how long you have tried or how soon you have been on with your efforts, one thing to know is that It's always too early to quit. The knowledge of this will serve as a reservoir of strength to carry you through.


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no trumpets sound when the important decisions of our life are made   4/12/2006

While noise and trumpets are sounded when we make some decisions and or achieved some feat in life, it is interesting to know that no trumpets sound when the important decisions of our life are made. Destiny is made known silently, but then we are the shaper of our destiny. Even when God has destine us for greatness and many more good things, it is demanded of us to work according to the ...


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our privillege in Christ   4/11/2006

Our privillege in Christ is the work of the Blood and the cross. The Blood deals with what we have done, whereas the Cross deals with what we are. The Blood disposes of our sins, while the Cross strikes at the root of our capacity for sin.
these are the great work of the cross and the blood. so that whoever that finds Christ finds a total relief from all forms of things that would ...


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your words, your dreams and your thoughts   4/8/2006

Your words, your dreams, and your thoughts have the power to create conditions in your life. What you speak about, you can bring about.
If you keep saying you can't stand your job, you might lose your job.
If you keep saying you can't stand your body, your body can become sick.
If you keep saying you can't stand your car, your car could be stolen or just stop ...


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why couples most not denied each other the privilege of making love   4/6/2006

Partner should not refused the other the joy of marital bliss of making love. except for health reasons and for purpose of prayers which both must agree to. Therefore, Both the man and the woman in a marriage relationship has not right to refused his or her partner the enjoyment of marital bliss of making love. The reason is that such refusal has the propencity to cause unfaithfulness by ...


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the dept of our spirituality   4/4/2006

The depths of our spirituality does not depend upon changing the things we do, but in doing for God what we ordinarily do for ourselves


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Dundeal 67 M
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The Power Of Prayer   4/3/2006

A young university student was home for the summer. She had gone to visit some friends one evening and time passed quickly as each shared their various experiences of the past year. She ended up staying longer than planned, and had to walk home alone. She wasn't afraid because it was a small town and she lived only a few blocks away. As she walked along under the tall elm trees, ...


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after man sined in the garden life became a puzzle   3/30/2006

life has always a puzzle and will always be since the Man's sin in the garden of Eden. That is why Jesus came to help solve the puzzle. so the only way we can get the puzzle solved is to be situate in Christ. by that he carries us instead of us carrying ourselves. therefore life is a puzzle that can be solve through Christ


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Cracks can bring in light   3/28/2006

There is a crack in everything and that crack could be a channel of light. no matter how we dicover cracks in our lives or program, whether through pain or pleasure, we should know that within that lies a ray of light. let look out for that ray of light that will lead us to the place of success than brood over the woos and pains. with the presence of crack That's how the light gets in


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what you call failure is an experience to help you go forward   3/28/2006

When you think you have failed, you did not actually failed but have only had an experience, which should help you, avoid a pitfall to be able to move forward. When it seems you have failed, know that you have not failed; you have gained experience. For failure comes when you are unable to think on an issue. For as long as you can think and not worry on an issue you cannot fail. So Go ...


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leave your worries and focus on God   3/27/2006

Why do you sit down and allowed your worries to overwhelm you. remember that you have jeus, just focus on him and he will focus on you problems and wories.


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knowing God's direction   3/25/2006

Blessed is the man who finds out which way God is moving and then gets going in the same direction.


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will the world cry when you die   3/23/2006

When you were born, you cried and the world rejoiced. Live your life in such a way so that when you die, the would world cries and you will go with rejoicing.


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You can make yourself happy   3/23/2006

HAPPINESS IS SOMETHING WE CREATE IN OUR MIND, IT'S NOT SOMETHING YOU SEARCH FOR AND SO SELDOM FIND. so know that you can make yourself happy when you determine to do so


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state police warning   3/21/2006

Someone forwarded this to me and i feel everyone should know this)
State police warning for online: Please read this "very carefully"..then send it out to all the people online that you know. Something like this is nothing to be taken casually; this is something you DO want to pay attention to.
If a person with the screen-name of Monkeyman935 contacts you, do not reply. DO ...


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dancin9899 64 M
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A couple "nuggets of truth" for dating   3/21/2006

A couple of things that have been tried and true(especially when I've violated one of them). Let me know if these ring true to you; or if I'm "off the wall"... 1) Don't date your neithbors. If the relation ship "goes south" it really makes it diffi-cult to stay friendly as neighbors. I thought I could rationalize this one when I took out my next door neighbor...and we were "going Dutch". ...


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The value of hope   3/21/2006

The value of hope is in hoping and there is no loss in hoping it only help one to realised that what you desire is possible and keeps one on the track of expectations and assurance of sometime to come. Therefore hope is not a lost or weakness but just strength.


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Forgiveness is total   3/20/2006

forgiveness it total, when you forgive you forgive and will see yourself loving that person again. The bible teaches that when we forgive we love. How would it be if Jesus forgive the most harden criminal and say he does not want to have anything to do with him. what if he has said that about you. So if you forgive you will have a lot to do with the peson so that person who forgives and ...


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The prayers that feed your soul   3/18/2006

A man may study because his brain is hungry for knowledge, even Bible knowledge. But he prays because his soul is hungry for God. Prayers made to God are beyond request, also foods for our tasting soul and when we sincerely pray there is a peace that exceeds human understanding that we receive from God.


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Knowing what you are will help plan properly   3/17/2006

A man is what he is, not what he used to be or what he ought to be. Butmany do not belief this. to belief what one is does not mean lack of faith or aspiration but it helps us to know the reality and to be able to adequately plann for improvement. For some people they belief in what they ought to be or what they use to be, niether of the two is a reality.one is past and the other aspiration ...


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bowflexteecia7at 64 F
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Dating is Practicing for Divorce   3/16/2006

THE GIFT OF SINGLENESS Giving Pieces of Your Heart Away
It was finally here–Anna’s wedding day, the day she had dreamed about and planned for months. The small, picturesque church was crowded with friends and family. Sunlight poured through the stained-glass windows, and the gentle music of a stringed quartet filled the air. Anna walked down the aisle toward David. ...


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stev00400 43 M
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Jesus kind of love   3/16/2006

the Kind of love which Jesus Christ started and exhibits is that love, which forgives and pardons. Imagine what he did! He loves the unlovely, pardons the guilty, and forgives the sinner and birthed life in those who had no life. We are expected to do same


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courage is not the absence of fear   3/16/2006

Courage does not means the absence of fear or intimidation. But it means being scared to death, you saddle up and move on to achieve and or acomplish what you had intended. That moving on even in the midstof fearand intimidation to accomplish you goalor desire.


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humility is to think of yourself less   3/16/2006

Humility is one of the greatest attributes of God and this was demostrated by Christ when he humbled himself to die on the cross even though he was equal with God. Hence the bible required us a of God to exhibit this triat of our hevenly father. But today many people have misplaced what humility is that they begin to think less of themself in a manner that is downgrading and religating. ...


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the world is either a tragedy or a comedy   3/15/2006

The world as it seems means different things to different people. However one can conviniently say that the world can be seen in two light - tragedy and comedy this depends on the ability of the individual in it to use the will power given to everyman by God. So to those who are multivated and directed by feelings the world is a tragedy, but for those who are directed by their thinking ...


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start with the neccessary and you will do the impossible   3/15/2006

Many of us fear starting off something for fear of falure and meeting difficulties. Even when it is a fact that difficulties abound everywhere, we have the confidence in God's promises to be with us in every situation. Therefore with faith just start by doing what's necessary, then what's possible, and suddenly you are doing the impossible


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The race is fdor those who continue   3/14/2006

Winning the race is a factor of persistence and continuity. For many who had hope it will be all over once certain amount of concentration and energy is exacted, they often loss out but those who persistently continue to push and attempt success has always be the end story. Jesus demostrated this in the Garden of Gethsemane. Hence the race is not always to the swift, but to those who keep ...


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Repentace does not save   3/14/2006

Repentace does not save but it exposes us to some truth of God's powers and abilities. Hence we should always delight in repenting from anything the holy tells our spirit man is not worthy of God's people. Though repentace does not save, it nontheless shows to all the sign that we realize what God has done in Christ Jesus.


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To love God is greater than to know him   3/14/2006

Knowing God is one thing that we all seek after and wish for other that we love. beyond this is a very significant issue and that is loving God. Without much labour the bible clearly stated that to love God is to love our nieghbours. Therefore we should seek to love God because to love God is greater than to know him


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How would you live your life   3/13/2006

For me, I would rather live my life as if there is a God, and die to find out there isn't, than live my life as if there isn't, and die to find out there is. So how would you live your life?


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I choose Goodness   3/13/2006

I choose goodness...I will go without a dollar before I take a dishonest one. I will be overlooked before I will boast. I will confess before I will accuse. I choose goodness.
I saw this somewhere and felt it could be useful to you all too


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Right is right no matter what   3/13/2006

At time many people battle with sticking to what is right, especially when it involves how many people really think such way. BVut the fact remains that what is right does not need debate or great surport to be right. Right is right, even if everyone is against it; and wrong is wrong, even if everyone is for it.


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living life as a of God   3/11/2006

The greatest thing is to be found at one's post as a of God, living each day as though it were our last, but planning as though our world might last a hundred years. But then, as of God we must know that Forgiveness is giving up the possibility of a better past.


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he who does not grow will be stale and dry   3/11/2006

In this Christian journey with the Lord growth is very essential and he who refused to grow will never experienced the greatest joy of salvation. Therefore, you just have to continue to grow, or you would just be like last night's cornbread--stale and dry with little or no usefulness. for our usefulness comes to light as we grow into the fulness of Christ. He who does not grow will be stale ...


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Making your ladder to heaven   3/11/2006

In your aspiration to make heaven what part do you need to play. Yes what you need do is to make a ladder for yourself by which you can sometimes go up to heaven to interact with God and Jesus Christ. That ladder is your prayer backed by faith in the resurrected Jesus. Each time you pray, each time you study the word of God you are building for yourself a ladder by which you could go to ...


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Prayers can change mountains into highways   3/11/2006

Many a time we are confronted with lots of life contradictions and situational pains. As we constantly met with these issues of life so do we sometimes miss out in the fight just because of our unwillingness and inability to stay onto prayers. At time we stay onto prayers but we wish it goes our ways even when God tewlls us that he has a plan for us. Hence many just give up and decide to ...


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Good works are determined by how much it pleases God   3/10/2006

Good work is evaluated on the basis of how much of God's love is found in it. Therefore every Christian should always remember that the value of his good works is not based on their number and excellence, but on the love of God which prompts him to do these things.


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sufferings can become an opportunity when given to God   3/9/2006

Suffering may be someone's fault or it may not be anyone's fault. But if given to God, our suffering becomes an opportunity to experience the power of God at work in our lives and to give glory to Him.


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Dundeal 67 M
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Ten Secrets Of Love   3/6/2006

* The First Secret: The power of Love
Love begins with our thoughts. We become what we think. Loving thoughts create loving experiences and loving relationships. Affirmations can change our beliefs and thoughts about ourselves and others. If we want to love someone, we need to consider their needs and desires. Thinking about your ideal partner will help recognize him or her ...


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Dundeal 67 M
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Why The Idenity Problems If You Are A Of God   3/6/2006

Through the blood of Jesus we should be made whole, if that statement in the bible is true and we know the bible doesn't lie then why do so many christians have a problem with their self worth or with their spiritual growth and maturity. I will tell you why it is because of satan and his deceptions that he plants for us. The devil has distorted the true identity of Christ that is ...


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willingness in mariage   3/6/2006

the willing and determination of parties in marriage to know and to compromised with one another give stability. but the adherent to ones attitude and character with the unwillingness to compromise lead to crisis in mariage


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Welcome to the month of marching forward   3/6/2006

Welcome to the month of March - the month of marching forward and a month of favour. I declare to you that the Lord will move you from where you are now to where He wants you to be. There are greater things ahead of you. Don’t settle where you are now. Look unto Jesus, the author and finisher of your faith. In Him we live and in Him we have our being. See you on top. Have a nice day ...


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God's Example Of A True Relationship   3/4/2006

Many a times we shy away from facing realities, yet we want the best that reality can offer to be in our possession especially in a relationship. The fact remains that God has laid down the best and basic princinple for a genuine and lasting relationship, whether between man and God or between man and man.That was what He did by sending Jesus to die for our sins, and also to creat ...


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Three basic guidance of life   2/28/2006

there are three basic guidance of life which when followed will lead one to some great level of satisfaction. these three grand essentials are something to do, something to love, and something to hope for. whatever anyone is or what to be these three foundamentals should be checked and when we do so with the abounding grace of God there wont be any limit in the our move to success


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Three basic guidance of life   2/28/2006

there are three basic guidance of life which when followed will lead one to some great level of satisfaction. these three grand essentials are something to do, something to love, and something to hope for. whatever anyone is or what to be these three foundamentals should be checked and when we do so with the abounding grace of God there wont be any limit in the our move to success


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love ca not be measured   2/27/2006

LOVE CANNOT BE MEASURED IN A LAB OR PROVEN IN A TEXTBOOK. YET IT, AND IT ALONE, IS THE SUBSTANCE OF ALL THINGS VISIBLE. WITHOUT LOVE, THERE CAN BE NO CREATIVITY. WITHOUT CREATIVITY, THERE CAN BE NO LIFE.


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Dundeal 67 M
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Life Is   2/26/2006

Life is an ADVENTURE, Dare it. Life is a BEAUTY, Worship it. Life is a CHALLENGE, Meet it. Life is a DREAM, Realize it. Life is ENDURANCE, Cope with it. Life is FRAGRANCE, Smell it. Life is a GAME, Play it. Life is HEAVEN, Make it. Life is an INITIATIVE, Take it. Life is a JOURNEY, Complete it. Life is KEROSINE, Burn it. Life is LOVE, Enjoy it. Life is a MYSTERY, Unfold ...


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HOW WE SOMETIMES MISS OUT OUR BLESSINGS   2/24/2006

A young man was getting ready to graduate from college. For many months he had admired a beautiful sports car in a dealer's showroom, and knowing his father could well afford it, he told him that was all he wanted. As Graduation Day approached, the young man awaited signs that his father had purchased the car. <br> Finally, on the morning of his graduation, his father ...


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Scammers abound in Big church - be warned   2/23/2006

Scammers abound here I just want to place this again to alert well meaning brethren in here that scammers abound here. At time you might find it difficult to know them, but I trust God to continually expose them and give the sincere ones the discernment to identify these evil minded people. They pretend to be women when they are actually men, some pretend to be women when they are ...


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Dundeal 67 M
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Highway 109   2/19/2006

A drunk man in an Oldsmobile They said had run the light That caused the six-car pileup On 109 that night. When broken bodies lay about "And blood was everywhere, " "The sirens screamed out eulogies, " For death was in the air. "A mother, trapped inside her car, " Was heard above the noise; Her plaintive plea near split the air: "Oh, God, please spare my boys!" She fought to ...


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Dundeal 67 M
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How To Break Out Of A Rut   2/19/2006

Are you in a rut? Is your life predictable? Do you want an idea of how to change your life. Then read below, hope that it helps you. <br> The first thing you need to do is to assume responsibility for your own life. You control what happens in your life, nobody else. <br> Next accept that responsibility, don't try to blame others for your problems or situations. I ...


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Dundeal 67 M
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Want To Improve Your Life, Try A Few Of These   2/19/2006

Smile more. Listen more intently. Watch a discover something new. Do something totally silly once in a while. Be less critical of others. Encourage someone every day. Learn from your everyday failures. Tell people you love that you love them. Accept yourself for who you are. Be quick to forgive others and learn to forgive yourself. Treat yourself to something expensive or ...


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Charity53076 47 F
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UNCONDITIONAL LOVE   2/19/2006

A story is told about a soldier who was finally coming home from the war. He called his parents from San Francisco. "Mom and Dad, I'm coming home, but I've a favor to ask. I have a friend I'd like to bring home with me." "Sure, " they replied, "we'd love to meet him." "There's something you should know the continued, "he was hurt pretty badly in the fighting. He stepped on a land ...


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stev00400 43 M
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who brew the coffee   2/19/2006

A man and his wife were having an argument about who should brew the coffee each morning. <br> The wife said, "You should do it, because you get up first, and then we don't have to wait as long to get our coffee." <br> The husband said, "You are in charge of the cooking around here so you should do it, because that is your job, and I can just wait for my coffee."Wife ...


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your spiritual concern and your material needs   2/18/2006

A person should be more concerned with spiritual than with material matters, but the fact remains that whatever you may need materially wil need your spiritual attention as that will always take you to god who is able to supply your need and open a way for you to be supplied by human instrument. therefore people's material welfare is his own spiritual concern.


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the love of Jesus is like an ocean   2/18/2006

The love of Jesus is an ocean with no shore to bound it. And if anyone of us plunge into it, we carry with us all the possessions we have. The Lord knows what these possessions are- the souls God have seen fit to link with our individual soul.


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the love of Jesus is like an ocean   2/18/2006

The love of Jesus is an ocean with no shore to bound it. And if anyone of us plunge into it, we carry with us all the possessions we have. The Lord knows what these possessions are- the souls God have seen fit to link with our individual soul.


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Life is meaningless without love   2/18/2006

Life is meaningless withoutlove What would life mean without love andlove without light. The light brightens onlyin life which contains love. So never switchoff thatlight which shines in your life. God islight, Jesus is the source of life. God islove, therefore trustin him.


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Friendship is love withunderstanding   2/18/2006

Friendship is love withunderstanding. We are only as old as the age of our heart. The best way to have a special friend is tobe one. We are never rich enough to afford to lose a friend. Best friends will p[ainfully brings out the very best within you. Constant use and careful wear can not wear out the fabric of truefriendship.


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if you judge people you wont have time to love them   2/17/2006

One who knows how to show and to accept kindness will be a friend better than any possession, and such people tries their best to add value to the lives of those around them rather than judge or condemn them. The fact is that if you judge people you will have no time to love them.


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Two phases of human life   2/17/2006

In this world we live in two phases can be identifies with human development, which are symbolic. For when a baby is be born, he enters the world with hands clenched, that symbolises him/her saying, "The world is mine; I shall grab it." but as he grow older and become a full grown man or woman and as he begins to take some brushes from life, he leaves his/her hand, symbolysing him/her ...


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falling in love   2/16/2006

To fall in Love my dear is to reduce ourself to the position of love. the reason is that hate is tall and has all the growth of pride and arrogance, but love is humble. reduce to the status of love is not negative but positive, remember Jesus did it when he has to reduced himself to the level of mere man to die for us, and the bible says that because of that he got exalted ...


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don't stop planning no matter the difficulties   2/15/2006

no matter what you encounter in life as you move on never stop planning, ask God for wisdom to plan and keep up believing in His power to make your way fulfilled in him


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The word of God in our life   2/15/2006

What we do for a living should not determine or influenced our believe in God, rather our believe and faith in God should shape and infact have a lot to do with what you do for a living. in the same way we should avoid trying to justify or explain the word of God by our experinces but the word shoul be used to explain our experiences to see if we have done rightly or otherwise. when we ...


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salvation and going to church   2/15/2006

Salvation begins from the heart but it is more than just saying I believe in Jesus. It includes doing the will of God, and going to a church (the gathering of believers) is one of those God's will. So it is impossible for one to be a christian and not go to church. A trully saved christian or person will find the gathering of God's people interesting and desirable, that includes going to ...


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stop working with your understanding and lean on God   2/12/2006

If you trully know God and believe in Him, stop working in your own understanding and decide to consult God in whatever you do and to let his word direct your path. Remember he said if you trust in him and lean not in your own understanding, he will direct your path


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Calling the last rite :- A joke   2/12/2006

A man is struck by a bus on a busy street in New York City. He lies dying on the sidewalk as a crowd of spectators gathers around. "A priest! Somebody get me a priest!" the man gasps. A policeman checks the crowd but finds no priest, no minister, no man of God of any kind. <br> "A PRIEST, PLEASE!" the dying man says again. Then out of the crowd steps a little old Jewish man of at ...


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Don't be silent in ignorance   2/12/2006

It is better for you to ask question about what you are ignorant off than keep quiet in your ignorance. for when you ask question about it you stop being ignorant about it, and when you keep quiet you continue to be ignorant about it


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Don't be silent in ignorance   2/12/2006

It is better for you to ask question about what you are ignorant off than keep quiet in your ignorance. for when you ask question about it you stop being ignorant about it, and when you keep quiet you continue to be ignorant about it


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Rules from God   2/12/2006

1. WAKE UP!!! Decide to have a good day. "Today is the day the Lord hath made; let us rejoice and be glad in it." Psalms 118:24 <br> 2. DRESS UP!!! The best way to dress up is to put on a smile. A smile is an inexpensive way to improve your looks. "The Lord does not look at the things man looks at. Man looks at outward appearance; but the Lord looks at the heart." I ...


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Rules from God   2/12/2006

1. WAKE UP!!! Decide to have a good day. "Today is the day the Lord hath made; let us rejoice and be glad in it." Psalms 118:24 <br> 2. DRESS UP!!! The best way to dress up is to put on a smile. A smile is an inexpensive way to improve your looks. "The Lord does not look at the things man looks at. Man looks at outward appearance; but the Lord looks at the heart." I ...


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God still does miracles   2/12/2006

God hasn't stopped performing miracles, it's us who have stopped believing that he does" We have to believe that he still performs miracles, so that we can have the miracles we have long prayed for. Just stop doubting and start believing him no matter what the circumtances says


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Attend to the needy   2/12/2006

Do not turn away from those who are in need, but share all things in common with your brother. Your heart shall not cling to the high and mighty, but turn to the good and humble folk. and remember that Where there is great love, there are always miracles.


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Wise facts   2/10/2006

Laying down your arms, surrendering, saying you are sorry, realizing that you have been on the wrong track and getting ready to start life over again from the ground floor - that is the only way out of a hole. <br> a friend sent it to me so enjoy it too


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The accident spot - A joke   2/10/2006

emiliaadinnah (2/9/2006 2:10:34 PM): A car was involved in an accident on a street. As expected, a large crowd gathered. A newspaper reporter who was very anxious to get this story could not get near the car. Being a clever and experienced reporter, he started shouting loudly, "Let me through! let me through!! I am the of the victim." The crowd made way for him ... Lying in front of the ...


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some facts of life   2/8/2006

Everything that is worthwhile in life is scary. Choosing a school, choosing a career, getting married, having --all those things are scary. If it is not fearful, it is not worthwhile A friend sent it to me and i felt it should be shared.


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balancing your personal conviction with God's word   2/8/2006

every live by his personal conviction as he or she journey along the pathway of destiny but no matter how our personal conviction is without a balance with god's word it will lead to frustration. so let always learn to balance our conviction with God's word for our lives


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Dating/general safety   2/7/2006

Dating/general safety <br> Add to this General Safety list these common sense dating safety rules: <br> Don't be afraid to say NO! If you're not comfortable with the way things are headed, run like hell. <br> When you are comfortable enough to meet for the first time. Meet in a busy (read, where there's a LOT of people) public place. <br> Get a picture ...


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When two fall in love - issues involved   2/7/2006

when two people fell in love. Just like you. While falling in love does ‘just happen’, staying in love never happens by itself. Love is simple but it is not easy. To be a special Valentine to your partner takes lots of energy, time, attention and love. If one of your goals this year is your relationship with your partner then Valentine’s Day is a great day to start. ...


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How two can agree   2/6/2006

yes two can really agree the problem we have today is selfishness a situation where each party in marriage want to satisfy himself or herself alone without the willingnes to make sacrifies for the confort of the other. as long as there is the willingnes to make sacrifice for the confort of the other person there will always be agreement


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about believing God   2/6/2006

I believe in God no matter what. I want you to know it that it takes your belief in God to accept christ and it still takes same belief to remain in God and to continue with Christ and to enjoy the benefit of christianity. there is no end to you believing in God once you are a christian and a redeemed of his glory.


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you and you memory   2/2/2006

One elderly couple is visiting another for supper. The two women go into the kitchen for a moment, leaving the men to talk.
One of the men says to the other, "The Mrs. and I went to the nicest restaurant last night."
"Is that right?" the other inquires, "What was it called?"
"That's just it, " he replies "I can't recall. "Say, what's the name of that red flower ...


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Recieving miracles from God - The Healing Touch of Christ   2/2/2006

recieving miracles from God has a lot to do with our disposition and what we really want from him as show in this story Three guys were fishing on a lake one day, when Jesus walked across the water and joined them in the boat. When the three astonished men had settled down enough to speak, the first guy asked humbly, "Jesus, I've suffered from back pain ever since I took shrapnel in the ...


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Recieving miracles from God - The Healing Touch of Christ   2/2/2006

recieving miracles from God has a lot to do with our disposition and what we really want from him as show in this story Three guys were fishing on a lake one day, when Jesus walked across the water and joined them in the boat. When the three astonished men had settled down enough to speak, the first guy asked humbly, "Jesus, I've suffered from back pain ever since I took shrapnel in the ...


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Fake profiles exist here - take note   2/2/2006

checking the profile thoroughly is avdisable but we should pray for decerning spirit to know pretenders, becuase i have seen men using female picture or other men picture that is not their to talk to people. So that is why My prayer is that God give true christian on this site the power of descernment to be able to avoid those who are out here to hurt and make others sad.


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Be definite about your relationship and stop assumming things   2/1/2006

More and more time people get themselves into problem because of assumption and latter blame it on the other person. If you and in a relationship be wise enough to discuss it. Especially if you find out that you want him or her. Never assume he or she is for you when both of you have not talked about it. don't try to be pushing when you feel he or she is not giving back the type you give ...


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Where wisdom begins   2/1/2006

Wisdom begins when we ask God to be our supply, for when God is your supply, you will never be shot of ideas and wisdom to carry on with life issues in crisis moment. 1king 3:9 says this "So give your servant a descerning heart to govern your people and to distinguish between right and wrong. for who is able to govern this great people."


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sources of true wisdom   2/1/2006

True wisdom does not come from men's philosophies and Ideas but from the insite giving by God to creation. the word is the best source of true wisdom. Colosian 2:8 says "Don't let others spoil your faith and joy with their philosophies, their wrong and shallow answers built on means thought and ideas, instead (learn) on what Christ has said."


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Came on to strong !!   1/31/2006

When I first joined this site I was really excited about meeting people. I completed my profile found what appeared to be a decent person and sent the "wink". Wow...he suddenly overwhelmed me with e-mails...calling me angel, etc and says he wants to come to the U.S. I had visions of "stalking" etc. It was kinda of scary.. I had listed my hometown and had given out some unique ...


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About false teachers   1/31/2006

The bible has already exposed what false doctrines are. What every christian need is not to be lazy about studying the bible. The Holy spirit is to help us understand what God want us to know. Lets encourage one another to go back to the study of the bible for that alone can show us what false doctrinws are without distraction.


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why people tell lies   1/30/2006

The reason why people tell lie is because the devil still very much influences men as long as this earth remain. when Christ shall come to establish his Kingdom there shall be no lies. and as many as genuiely Have christ finds it difficult to tell lies. There is no use telling lies because lies can only give you a temporal conform that will later be visited by a greater trouble and ...


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I have found my enemy - it is me   1/26/2006

I saw this and felt it could help someone here.
It took me more than 40 years (I'm a slow learner to figure out what my biggest problem was --- me.
Okay, maybe all along I knew it deep down inside..I just didn't want to admit it.
So after I had this magnificent illumination (duh!) I made a mighty resolution to do better and I thought that would take care of ...


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Anxiety is deadly   1/23/2006

Anxiety does not empty tomorrow of its sorrows, but only empties today of its strength. So you can see that anxiety is deadly. therefore stop being anxious


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Don't wait until the hour of battle   1/20/2006

"The reason why many fail in battle is because they wait until the hour of battle. The reason why others succeed is because they have gained their victory on their knees long before the battle came...Anticipate your battles; fight them on your knees before temptation comes, and you will always have victory.” Category: Prayer Author: Torrey, R.A


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Harmonize yourself with God first thing in the morning   1/20/2006

Most people jump into work first thing in the morning only to latter remember they have not prayed. for those people, Taylor Hudson advise thus "Do not have your concert first, and then tune your instrument afterwards. Begin the day with the Word of God and prayer, and get first of all into harmony with Him"


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Sex questions and answers   1/18/2006

1. Should Christians who have had sex get married whether they were heading to the altar or not? <br> The bible did not forbid anyone who had sex from marrying. The thing is that a christian who get married without having had sex with each other is honourable, just as being a virgin is honourable too. But wether you had sex or not does not determine how successful the marriage ...


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The Dance in Guidance   1/17/2006

Author: Unknown <br> When I meditated on the word guidance, I kept seeing "dance" at the end of the word. I remember reading that doing God's will is a lot like dancing. When two people try to lead, nothing feels right. The movement doesn't flow with the music, and everything is quite uncomfortable and jerky. <br> When one person realizes and lets the other ...


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In the school of faith   1/16/2006

In the school of faith you don't need to be know the end before making up your mind nor do you need someone's approval. All you need is just take the first step in faith. You don't have to see the whole staircase, just take the first step and you find out that there is another step and another stap and eventually you will reach your destination.


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BETWEEN QUITERS AND GOAL GETTERS   1/16/2006

THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN QUITERS AND GOAL GETTERS WHO KEEP ON THROUGH STORM AND STRUGGLE IN LIVES ENDEAVOURS IS A HOPEFUL HEART. HOPE SAYS, "NO MATTER HOW MANY TIMES I FALL, I WILL STAND AND START AGAIN." FOR A PERSON OF HOPE IS NOT ONE WHO NEVER FALLS, BUT ONE WHO PICKS HERSELF UP ONE MORE TIME THAN SHE FALLS.


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WHAT IT MEANS TO HAVE HOPE   1/16/2006

TO HAVE HOPE IS TO STAND AMIDST LIFE'S COLDEST, DARKEST STORM AND SEE THE GLORIOUS RAINBOW FORMING ON THE HORIZON. HOPE IS THE GUIDING LANTERN THAT LEADS US OUT OF THE DARKNESS OF THE FOREST AND INTO SAFETY OF THE CLEAR PLACES. IF IT WERE NOT FOR HOPES, THE HEART WOULD BREAK.


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Why you must not bother about what people say about you   1/16/2006

"Do not pay attention to every word people say, or you may hear your servant cursing you- for you know in your heart that many times you yourself have cursed others." <br> -Ecclesiastes 7:21-22


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another date at the movies!!!!   1/15/2006

Hello people . thank you for the responses. <br> I just got back from a date and the fella got very upset with me because I didnt give him a kiss or hug or hold his hand in the movie theatre. he got mad at me and told me that I was an unafectionate person! <br> What do you think about that?


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eddling in other peoples affairs   1/13/2006

don't think the bible says that we should not meddle into people's affiars. As a matter of Fact the bible says that if we see people doing wrong whether believers or unbelievers we are to call them to order or else thei blood will be require from us if we fail to. Read Ezekiel 3:18-20 we are to meddle in peoples affair to get them saved but not to destroy them


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LIVING IN HOPE   1/13/2006

TO LIVE IN HOPE MEANS TO EXPECT THAT OUR LONGINGS DESIRES WILL BE FULFILLED AS LONG AS WE CONSTANTLY HOLD TO THE FAITH WE HAVE FOUND IN GOD AND BELEIVE THAT SUCH FAITH HAS THE ABILITY TO INITIATE AND MANIFEST OUR FULFILLMENT. IN DOING THIS WE CANNOT HELP BUT NOTICE ALL THE WAYS IN WHICH OUR LIVES ARE BLESSED.


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people who run after riches   1/11/2006

"People who want to get rich fall into temptation and a trap and into many foolish and harmful desires that plunge men into ruin and destruction. For the love of money is a root of all kinds of evil. Some people, eager for money, have wandered from the faith and pierced themselves with many griefs." <br> -1 Timothy 6:9-10


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God will give you tread when you begin to weave   1/11/2006

many people want to be sure and certain of things before they start but many time this has made so many people to loss great opportunities. The fact is that God is able to give you the tread. So according to a german proverbs, "when Begin to weave, God will give you the thread."


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two are better than one   1/11/2006

"Two are better than one, because they have a good return for their work: If one falls down, his friend can help him up. But pity the man who falls and has no one to help him up! Also, if two lie down together, they will keep warm. But how can one keep warm alone? Though one may be overpowered, two can defend themselves. A cord of three strands is not quickly broken." <br> ...


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Never give up and sit down   1/7/2006

"Never let your head hang down. Never give up and sit down and grieve. Find another way. And don't pray when it rains if you don't pray when the sun shines." -Satchel Paige


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the meaning of character   1/7/2006

Character is doing the right thing when nobody's looking. There are too many people who think that the only thing that's right is to get by, and the only thing that's wrong is to get caught." <br> -J. C. Watts


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Run out of Energy?   1/5/2006

Have ever experienced when you TV remote wont work and you find out that the batteries need changed. And you run to your drawer where you kept the batteries, and found it empty or maybe one battery whereas you needed two? This is a crisis moment that is often replicated in marriages and relationships. <br> How easy it is in marriage to do things happily, busy with our lives, work ...


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Avoiding trouble and sorrow in life   1/4/2006

Many people seek to have peace in life and to avoid trouble and sorrow. To achieve this has only one way to seek God through Christ. For he that seeketh anything else other than God and the salvation of his soul through the death of Jesus Christ, will find nothing but trouble and sorrow. But he who seeks God will find God and the Joy of savation.


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Missing the mark by focusing on immediate rewards   1/4/2006

Missing the mark by focusing on immediate rewards The haste for pleasure and rewards has caused so many their peace, fufillment and greatness in life. This is because many try to value the immediateness of rewards before taking a step. No wonder therefore that, for a small reward, a man will hurry away on a long journey; while for eternal life, many will hardly take a single step


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The Irony in Today's Christianity   1/4/2006

In christiandom today we find and see that religion and, or the church is not transforming people; rather it is being transformed by the people through their conviniencies and what is confortable with them. It is not raising the moral level of society; it is descending to society's own level of moral decadence gross contradictions of God's will and purposes for creation, and congratulating ...


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Why is it so hard to find a man that believes and follow allof god'd rules? Whay do they follow so and totally dis regard the others? <br> I am looking for a man that respect the " No Sex Before Marriage Rule". Unfortunately I'm getting the idea that he does not exisit! I am divorced and have a 13 year old son. I am interested in developing a long term relationship but I am getting pressured a lot b by men who don't believe in not having sex before marriage. what are you thoughts on this subject?


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Explaining James 2:14   1/4/2006

What is said in the passage [James 2:14 " faith without work is dead"] is like a two coupon train or bus ticket. One coupon says, "Not good if detached" and the other says, "Not good for passage". Works are not good for passage; but faith detached from works is not saving faith. that mean you must back your faith up by doing the right things and taking the right actions. ... Charles C. ...


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The relevance of meditation   1/3/2006

"Meditation is the skeleton key that unlocks the greatest storeroom in the house of God's provisions for the Christian." <br> The men who carry this key upon the chain of their daily life come into a knowledge and relationship that the "activist" and the restless ones have never known. With the solitude of the meditation room, there is produced a quality of life that must be ...


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the most important things in life   1/2/2006

In the midst of the froth and bubble of life, two things stand out like stone. These are Kindness in another persons's trouble, Courage in your own matter.. when we learn to do these two things we will no doubt be pleasing God.


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anyone can fall in love but only the commited can trully love   12/31/2005

ANYONE CAN FALL IN LOVE. YET ONLY THOSE WITH COMMITMENT AND CHARACTER CAN MAKE THE EVERYDAY RENEWAL OF THAT VOW. LOVE CANNOT BE MEASURED IN A LAB OR PROVEN IN A TEXTBOOK. YET IT, AND IT ALONE, IS THE SUBSTANCE OF ALL THINGS VISIBLE. WITHOUT LOVE, THERE CAN BE NO CREATIVITY. WITHOUT CREATIVITY, THERE CAN BE NO LIFE. NEVER UNDERESTIMATE THE POWER OF A LOVING TOUCH, A LOVING LOOK, A ...


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Warning concerning   12/22/2005

Several of us women have had to block this member. It is my suggestion you don't communicate with him at all. I reported him to the management and got no response.


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learning about trust from Ezra 4:3   12/21/2005

Ezra 4:3 ‘But Zerubbabel, and Jeshua, and the rest of the chief of the fathers of Israel, said unto them, Ye have nothing to do with us to build an house unto our God; but we ourselves together will build unto the LORD God of Israel, as king Cyrus the king of Persia hath commanded us.’ What this teaches is that we all should take heed, of whom we go partners with, and on ...


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KNOWING THE TRUE UNCONDITIONAL LOVE   12/20/2005

LOVE DICTATED BY "I WILL LOVE YOU IF..." IS NOT TRUE LOVE. TRUE LOVE SAYS, "I WILL LOVE YOU EVEN ....." LOVE IS THE GLUE THAT BINDS TWO SOULS TOGETHER IN COMMON EXPERIENCES, SHARED GOALS, AND MUTUAL DESIRES, EVEN THOUGH THEY EMANATE FROM DIFFERENT BACKGROUND


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focusing on our goal   12/16/2005

goals, desire, and ambitions are common things in life, <br> but while many would wish for the best as goal in life, only <br> <br> few are able to achieve their goals. But one important thing <br> <br> about achieving goals is the ability to face it and be able <br> <br> to identify alternatives that could give ...


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Screening by phone (ladies)   12/10/2005

Ladies-- When you feel comfortable - switch from emailing to the phone. Don't meet in person until you feel comfortable on the phone. You can find out a lot of info. on the phone that will help you make a decision whether you should meet or not. Then, you can go with confidence to meet him knowing that you did what you could do.


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Before you....(for the ladies)   12/10/2005

Before you fall head over heels in love with what you perceive someone to be ladies- protect yourselves and ask for a recommendation from someone like a pastor- this will make sure the fellow is who he says he is. Also make sure that his picture on the site- looks like him in person. I'd even go so far as asking him ahead of time to see his driver's license when you first meet. Then- you ...


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Picture   12/10/2005

It's really important to have your date first post a picture on this site- or any site that you're on. Don't go for them saying they will email it to your private email. I've read about this. This is what a married person will do so that none of his friends or his wife will see his posting and realize it is him. If you get flack- stand your ground- make sure he posts it publically. ...


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Cloudy or raining the sun never stops shining   12/10/2005

What everyone of us should know in our fight for live is that no matter how cloudy or raining the weather might be, the sun never stops shining, it light keeps beeming even though the rain and, or cloud covers the sky. This is the attitude we should have in our journey in live that no matter what the eyes of the Lord sees us and knows how it hurt us and so he prepares for us a comfort place ...


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LOVE and SEX ,which is most important   12/9/2005

As of God what we should seek to know is what is most important to God in our relationship with people and in marriages between these two. Both sex and love are important, but the most important of the two to God for us is love. When you have good love you we surely get the best sex experience in the world. But when you take sex first, i want you to know that no matter how good sex you can ...


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stev00400 43 M
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what men and, or women want   12/8/2005

what do men and, or women want? I think this is one of the error people go into often, when the begin to seek and search for what men and, or women wants in a relationship or marriage. I think what we should seek to know is what God want. If we do just want God want in marriages and relationship there is will be great peace. Human wants changes with time and circumstances ...


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stev00400 43 M
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The age for successful marriage   12/8/2005

There is centain age that one can say is conducive for marriage, for instance you can't ask an 11, 12, 13 14, 15, years old to go into marriage no matter the prsumed maturity. I think considerably 17 for women depending on culture and 21 for men is a conducive age to get married. but there is not limit beyond this, that u can be 90 or even more as long as you are strong enough to fulfil the ...


0 Comments, 10 Views, 1 Votes ,3.70 Score
stev00400 43 M
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Marriage is more than a union   12/7/2005

Marriage is more than just the union of two different person in matrimony, but it is the search for self perfection in his or her partner, that is you seek to be perfect enough as the right one for your partner and not desire that your partner become perfect for when we seek for individual improvement in marriage we will not see fault and hurt.


0 Comments, 4 Views, 1 Votes ,3.70 Score
stev00400 43 M
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The joy of life in Christ   12/7/2005

Many of us seek for that joy that knows no hurt and pain, that joy that suffers no dissappointment and regret, that joy that comes from deep within, that joy that never fade, that joy of life which give satisfaction. But that joy of life came be found in no other place than in Christ. In Christ can man find the Joy of life.


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stev00400 43 M
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If god had a refrigerator   12/6/2005

If God had a refrigerator, your picture would be on it. If He had a wallet, your photo would be in it. He sends you flowers every spring. He sends you a sunrise every morning. Whenever you want to talk, He listens. He can live anywhere in the universe, but He chose your heart. Face it friend, He is crazy about you! God didn't promise days without pain, laughter without sorrow, sun without ...


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stev00400 43 M
1541  Articles
If God had a refrigerator   12/6/2005

If God had a refrigerator, your picture would be on it. If He had a wallet, your photo would be in it. He sends you flowers every spring. He sends you a sunrise every morning. Whenever you want to talk, He listens. He can live anywhere in the universe, but He chose your heart. Face it friend, He is crazy about you! God didn't promise days without pain, laughter without sorrow, sun without ...


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stev00400 43 M
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You can d all by taking them one step after   12/5/2005

You can done all by taking them one step after another because attempting them all at the same time leads nowhere. In fact, No one can fully execute or finish any of all his vissions and goal when he wants to execute them all quickly and within same time. But the only one who does and execute all his vissions and goal with great success is the one who impliment and execute them one step at ...


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stev00400 43 M
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About anxiety   12/5/2005

Anxiety is not only a pain which we must ask God to assuage but also a weakness we must ask Him to pardon; for He's told us to take no care for the morrow. <br> C. S. (Clive Staples) Lewis


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stev00400 43 M
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A bend is an end   12/5/2005

A bend is not an end A bend on the road is not the end of it. So anyone who turns back becaus of a bend in his or her road of life will never gets to his or her destination. For there is a straight road and path beyond the bend for the bend you see afar on the road does not mean the end of the road.


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stev00400 43 M
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Knowing That God has plans for you   12/3/2005

there is not doubt that God knows the plan for our lives. I think the question is if we are aware that he knows. Because if we are, we wont say somethings we say and do somethings we do. we would only love him and believe that He knows the best plan for our life. then we could aba


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stev00400 43 M
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The meaning of living   12/3/2005

It will interest you to know that living is more than words as Halford E. Luccock has sumarised, that Living is learning the meaning of words. That does not mean the long ten syllable words we have to look up in the dictionary. The really great words to master are short ones work, love, hope, joy, pain, home, , life, death.


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stev00400 43 M
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the best way to get the right partner   12/3/2005

Many of us here and outside ther look for God sent partner and God perfected partner. at times we pray and pray fast and fast yet year in year out this God sendt partner seems elusive. But i want to let you know that the best way to find the God sent partner is to make ourselves a God sent one. For God can only send his love one to some who also has prepared himself or herself to be God ...


1 Comments, 41 Views, 4 Votes ,2.08 Score
stev00400 43 M
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how to kee a good relationship   12/3/2005

How to keep on in a relationship Recently I observed that why many people wish and hope for a good relationship, the do not at the same time prepare themselves for such desired relationship of peace, joy, and great love under the shodow of God. This the do by always expecting the other party in a relationship to be the one contacting, they are too busy to send a hi or hello mail, they ...


0 Comments, 6 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
roseofsharon73 62 F
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Our safe place is only in Jesus   12/2/2005

He that dwelleth in the secret place of the most High shall abide under the shadow of the Almighty. Psalm 91:1 <br> 4th vs. He shall cover thee with his feathers, and under his wings shall thou trust: his truth shall be thy shield and buckler <br> 11th vs. For he shall give his angels charge over thee. to keep thee in all thy ways. <br> Dating Safety is all ...


0 Comments, 8 Views, 2 Votes ,3.12 Score
stev00400 43 M
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we should be bold to let go our pride   12/1/2005

Pride the bible says comes before fall, and this have denied many people of their happiness. When yo hold on to your pride you are bound to loss so many valuables. Many have lost someone they loved to their pride. But my counsel is that be willing to loss your pride to someone that loves you and whom you love that to loss some that loves you and tat you love to your pride.


0 Comments, 12 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
stev00400 43 M
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what we should do after been born-again   12/1/2005

When we are born again we have Christ and the Holy Spirit inside of us but that is not enough for us to fight the issues of life because that only takes us from condemnation to life. Having be saved we need to equip ourselves withthe weapon of war from the word of God, this most christians fall to do even some christians who were doing this sometimes fall back to mere haed knowledge of God. ...


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reallysaved 65 F
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Don't Trust Liars!   11/29/2005

I have seen it over and over again in the short time that I have been on this site - black men from Africa putting their location down as somewhere in the United States. (I don't know if the Africa women are doing this or not.) If they will hide their location from you, that should send up a huge flare for us women. They are putting the wrong location down as a pure deception. If ...


9 Comments, 210 Views, 20 Votes ,6.95 Score
stev00400 43 M
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true soulmate   11/28/2005

God's desire is for a man to cleave to the wife and live together forever till death and that is true soulmate. Yes this is the original plan of God and still remains his requirment from man though many today have tried to make it unimportant. God's desire id for a man to forever till date be united with the wife. Brethren why don't everyone just put away selfishness and love our wives and ...


1 Comments, 20 Views, 2 Votes ,5.20 Score
poppy37 55 F
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Con men and scams....   11/25/2005

Just a little word of warning to all of those trusting female Christians out there... This could also happen to you guys too! If you meet someone on line, (as I did on here)start communicating, things seem to be going well.... all is rosy UNTIL... they ask you to set up a bank account for them to pay money into or ask for your account details, or want to send you a bank draft to pay into ...


4 Comments, 210 Views, 16 Votes ,6.36 Score
stev00400 43 M
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Love is not hard   11/19/2005

I saw a post asking why is love so hard. But i find out that love is never hard as the bible teaches but our greet and selfishness made it seems it is hard. When we truelly love and willingly express it love is so simple and interesting.


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You strenght is in God   11/14/2005

No matter what you have don or achieved it is not the Lord that gives strenght and you should aknowledge and appreciate himf for that. By so doing he would do much more for you.


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to specify who we want is appropriate   11/5/2005

Though it is right to say that without giving specification we can find out man/woman, I want to tell you that God is a God of standard and we are expected to follow suit. So if we set a standard of what will want, that becomes our desire and when we place this before God, as long as it is not selfish, God would answer us cos he said tha desire of the righteous shall not be cut short. So ...


1 Comments, 28 Views, 5 Votes ,2.16 Score
traveller13 73 F
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Are we really as strong as we think ???   10/3/2005

1Cor 10:12 "wherefore let him that thinketh he standeth take heed lest he fall" When it comes to dating , there is a custom that two people follow. They go out alone .. at night...in the dark..where it gives the illusion that what ever is done..is hidden. So the temptations are a little more appealing. But is this dating safely? As a christian, I see ...


1 Comments, 70 Views, 9 Votes ,5.99 Score
stev00400 43 M
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One step at a time   8/30/2005

when you are into dating, it is good and honorablr to move one step at a time in understanding one another. For when you move more than one step it will be difficult for there to be a balance and could lead to confusion and or dissapointment on the long run


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There is a song   8/13/2005

There is a song, I am longing to hear I've waited for so long and shed many a tear... <br> Sometimes I think I hear the opening notes Eagerness floods my heart, eagerness to get lost in the melody My heart rushes in filled with anticipation and joy But all to soon it becomes a cacophony Tearing my heart apart with the raucous sounds Not the lovely melody for which ...


0 Comments, 113 Views, 15 Votes ,4.66 Score
joydancing 72 F
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Happily ever After   7/22/2005

Safety before and After. Happily trusting God before. Praying knees on the floor. Hearts protected, no open door. <br> Happily we chase after, Delighting in His character. Hopes laid at His feet, Passionately we seek, His personal intimacy, His royal majesty, His unique supremecy. <br> Happy without inhibition With pure hearted intention, like we adore ...


1 Comments, 58 Views, 13 Votes ,4.99 Score
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There is not paradigm for dating   7/19/2005

When you are dating, be open-minded and don't conceptualize your mind to a paradigm, because there is no formula for dating, as everyone is unique on his or her own. So, open-mindedness will help you to see things the way they are and there true realities. Then you can have good analysis of them in view of the appropriate responses.


0 Comments, 71 Views, 6 Votes ,2.51 Score
HawthorneHeights 39 M
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dating safety   6/8/2005

Don't date stalkers.


4 Comments, 206 Views, 14 Votes ,4.42 Score
Signs   5/7/2005

I remember hanging out with my brother in his room when we were teenagers. I asked him for a little advice about dating and he said: "Self-control is the best self-defense." <br> That advice has served me well. I've tried to never do anything that I'll wake up regretting the next day. <br> Most important though, is learning to say no. Remember, anytime you say no and ...


1 Comments, 105 Views, 17 Votes ,5.81 Score
conisings 57 F
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How to Date Safely   4/16/2005

Use a little common sense to keep yourself out of trouble. <br> Steps: 1. Meet in public places. If possible, double date or go out with a group of people. <br> 2. Go Dutch. By paying for your portion you won't feel as if you are under any kind of obligation. <br> 3. Remember that alcohol affects your judgment and lessens your inhibitions. If you ...


3 Comments, 145 Views, 33 Votes ,7.83 Score
EMPYS 48 F
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I kissed dating goodbye!   12/30/2004

I haven't read "I kissed dating goodbye" by Joshua Harris but I pretty much know what it is about, and I agree with it. I don't believe in dating as the secular world sees it. In order to maintain purity Christians need to keep the boundaries clear. You shouldn't get involved with someone physically at all until you both have discovered that you are totally compatible with one another and ...


4 Comments, 250 Views, 34 Votes ,7.19 Score
Good Morning!   12/6/2004

He spoke to firmament yielding lights Dividing this day from the first night. Saying let these signs be for the seasons. We count days and years for this reason. <br> The earth is enlighten'd from His Love Receiving the light from heaven above. <br> He then gave us a gift of two great lights. The bigger lites day; the smaller lites night. <br> He made ...


1 Comments, 54 Views, 4 Votes ,3.25 Score
Make Believe.com?   11/18/2004

We're living in a land of make believe and trying not to let it show. We plant illusions subtle seeds and share the fantasies they grow.
In this place we shade from others, perhaps mystery shines as light. After all it seems for now we've made ourselves a garden of delight.
But when we finely meet each other to reap as we believe, Will we not see the naked truth ...


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Some Men have unrealistic expectations, or else they just arent the "Man of God" they claim to be.   11/14/2004

I don't understand this scenario, maybe one of you here can help me to understand it. Not at this site, but another yet, Christian Site: I received an email that started out by saying "Your man of God has arrived"......at first I was just a little wary at the presumption here, don't worry, it get's worse. This man talked about how coming to the state/city I lived at was not too much ...


12 Comments, 431 Views, 32 Votes ,5.96 Score
Godsbaby71 43 F
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From single to married - the path of love...   7/25/2004

In the Biblical time, it was pretty much arranged for 2 people to marry, and they lived happily (sometimes), well the chosen ones did, Isaac, Jacob... Well, 'tis the modern age now, but God is still the same. If you faithfully walk before Him and serve Him the best you can - He is your father and He does see your lonely single heart! I believe that He knows what's best for us... Who ...


1 Comments, 91 Views, 44 Votes ,7.99 Score
sings4god4ever 39 F
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Watch out for wolf's in sheep's clothing!!   6/25/2004

Ladies and even gentlemen please watch out for wolf's in sheep's clothing.I was recently contacted by a man on this site that was interested in me. He e-mailed me and I e-mailed him back.We then decided to join yahoo messenger so that we could chat and get to know one another.Then we decided to start talking on the phone where he was such a sweet talker and knew all of the right things to ...


2 Comments, 278 Views, 62 Votes ,9.05 Score
happyherbi 68 M
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A Different Kind of Date   6/15/2004

My pastor hates traditional dating. Ok, "hate" is such a strong word, but he has a better idea. <br> Try inviting the person you're interested in to your church, to your Sunday School, to a church function or social event. That way you can observe the person in a social setting and how they behave around other people, folks you are already comfortable being around. These same ...


1 Comments, 76 Views, 65 Votes ,7.20 Score
Is there a different level of safety needed for Christians?   6/12/2004

Do you think that because we are on a Christian website, we can use less precautions when meeting for a first date? Is it safe to assume that people from this site are less of a threat to personal safety than someone from a secular dating site?


3 Comments, 76 Views, 38 Votes ,7.64 Score
ddmministry 60 F
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Are you thinking about marrying an Egyptian?   6/11/2004

If you think you're in love because of all the wonderful words your Egyptian friend has just told you, I really need to talk to you befor you say "I Do". I can give you some information that you really need to know. Are there any Good Egyptian Men? My answer is Yes. If they ask you if you want to hear their "SAD STORY" say NOOOOOOOO. Are there any Good Egyptian Men? Again my answer is ...


1 Comments, 93 Views, 38 Votes ,1.00 Score
KNOWING WHAT YOU WANT   4/30/2004

My friends i want to talk about this issue because many of us have been dissappointed or will be dissappointed because of not knowing what we want and sticking to it.We need to know first the qualities we are looking for in aperson, then we can go on to search for the MR RIGHT or MISS RIGHT.There are many people out there who are just pretenders;you look at aperson seems to be humble yet ...


0 Comments, 47 Views, 63 Votes ,6.99 Score
be safe when first meeting   3/23/2004

When you get to the point if meeting with someone that you have met online and have talked with on the phone here is my advise. 1. Have their full name and number. 2. Give that info to a trusted friend. 3. Arrange to meet in public. 4. Let that same friend you gave the info to know where you will be. 5. Take your own vehicle so that you can leave at any time and so that you ...


1 Comments, 82 Views, 80 Votes ,8.90 Score