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1st Date 2/21/2010
The first date is always exciting. For women you're
wondering could he be the one, will he be tall dark and handsome,
or will he be a gentleman. The man may be wondering if she
will look like her picture, is she sexy, does she know how
to cook or is she anything like his mother. No matter what
you are thinking or wondering it is always good to be cautious
even on faith dating websites. Some ...
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let the Spirit of God apply them deeply on your heart and your service for Christ. 11/8/2009
Ezekiel 1:25-28 & 2: 1-3
There are five major points to be noted in the call and to
equip Ezekiel as a messenger of the Lord. These are still
important today for any believer who desires to serve the
Lord. Firstly, Ezekiel had a vision of God and His sovereignty.
Today we may not see visions as He did but we ourselves need
to be gripped by the same great important truths which impressed ...
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Can the caring ministry of Christ be seen in us - today and every day? 11/8/2009
Luke 4:14-21
The earthly life of Jesus Christ is a remarkable example
to us of how our lives should be day by day. There are those
who make more of His living example than they do of His death
for us. On the other hand we may perhaps tend to overlook
the wonderful work He did as He moved around the land of Israel.
In our reading today we have His declaration of His mission
to the world ...
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May God make this truth very clear to everyone of us as we look at this book together? 11/8/2009
Ezekiel 1: 1-5
Ezekiel was thirty years old when he became God’s messenger
to the Jews in Babylon. He was standing alongside an irrigation
canal called Kebar or Chebar, south of what we call Baghdad
today. But to Ezekiel that ditch was more than a canal. It
was a symbol of disappointment and frustration. That canal
reminded him, “God has failed His people.” Ezekiel ...
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All the way my Saviour leads me. 11/8/2009
Ezekiel 1:4-20
Did you have any difficulty reading or understanding this
passage today? You are not alone. Ezekiel had difficulty
himself even trying to describe what he saw. Notice how
many times he used the words “like” or “likeness”. He could
not write down exactly what he was seeing. He simply said
“It was like ...” But the hidden message is ...
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Collect the data 9/19/2009
The purpose of dating is basically to collect data about
the other person. That process takes time. I feel that if
a person doesnt have the time, they shouldn't bother
to date because it takes time to get acquainted with another.
I believe first dates should be non pressure-filled. Something
simple like meeting at a coffee shop, or lunch. Meeting
in the daytime gives us the advantage to look at ...
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be careful 8/3/2009
When going out on a date always choose a place not to far from
home it has to be in a public place always let some one know
where you are going and with whome.
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Marry or Not 5/1/2009
With the present Global Crisis that we are
experiencing right now, would it still be practical to
get married and have ? Or would rather live with someone
with no wedding plans and try every method not to have ....
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How To Stay Safe 9/23/2008
How to stay safe in the world today.
1. Avoid riding in automobiles because they are responsible
for20% of all fatal accidents.
2. Do not stay home because 17% of all accidents occur in
thehome.
3. Avoid walking on streets or sidewalks because 14% of
allaccidents occur to pedestrians.
4. Avoid traveling by air, rail, or water because 16% of
allaccidents involve ...
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Make the first date fun and impressive 7/24/2008
I like to meet a nice restaurant for a first date. I pray over
my meals and always ask if she would like to pray with me.
Facial expressions vary drastically. I'm a talker
but I know enough to keep talking until a subject is reached
that she has an interest. Never do I answer questions about
my ex, never. I don't really want to hear about hers
either. I keep it light and enjoy the ...
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Who's safe anymore? 7/24/2008
Honesty doesn't seem to always prevail when two people
connect on line. How do I know, really, just who you are?
This is supposed to be a "safe" site catering
to church folk or those wanting to know more about it. I have
had dates where after two sent/received communications
I was very convinced I wanted this date. I was right. The
next couple of first dates were disappointing because
they ...
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if you decide to meet 6/2/2008
personally I don't expect to meet folks from here unless
they live very near me, but if I was preparing to see someone....it
would be in a very public place and I wouldn't go alone.
Personal safety and common sense would be foremost in my
mind and I would check someone out by asking for references...eg
name of pastor and other references before I became very
involved with someone ...
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Red flag... penalty 15 yds! 3/8/2008
Hey folks... is it a common practice among men here to ask
a woman if they want to meet...? Without any 'how do
you dos' or previous discussion? I think that's
a little creepy and at the very least bad manners...
This is a copy of the first email I ever recieved on my first
day here and my response to them... it was titled... "Want
To Meet?"
"rudedude" is not the senders real ...
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Where? 2/9/2008
My last chance is here to meet a christian born again partner.where
else or how else can i meet a born again partner!
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when to remember past successes 11/25/2007
Remember past successes in time of Crisis Don’t always
remember your failure in the moment of crisis and challenges,
because that will weigh you down and weaken your spirit.
As a matter of fact what you need do in crisis moment is to
remember all your past successes no matter how little it
may be. The remembrance of your successes will enable a
huge assurance within you that would motivate ...
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Ladies Beware of This Man- Who Is on BigChurch-Now 10/25/2007
I'm a member on here- been on this site for about a month-I
meet a very nice guy(I thought) and real nice looking too-Well
he's a fruad & everything thats comes out of his
mouth are lies-I'm trying to warn you about this- so
if want to know who it is come to me and I'll be glad to
tell you who he is-he's hurt me real bad-and I know he's
got other women on here too-I'll give you a few clues-he's ...
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What type of feminine protection is???? 10/21/2007
Greetings all, I was just curious, like usual, as to what type of feminine
protection you ladies use???? NO NO, not that monthly thing.
I mean, like a gun, or knife, or your four older brothers,
or just the Wisdom of Discernment from the Lord, while keeping
your brothers on speed dial. What do you use?
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don't cancil out your faith 10/21/2007
don't cancil out your faith
When you declare God’s Word in faith over your challenges,
it’s so important that you don’t cancel out your faith with
doubt! In Mark 11:23 nkjv, Jesus said, "Whoever says
to this mountain, ‘Be removed and be cast into the sea, ’
and does not doubt in his heart, but believes that those
things he says will be done, he will ...
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We still have SCAMMERS on here!! 10/17/2007
Whatch out ladies! There are still scammers on here!! One
just tried to get me!! Claimed to be a widow from DC working
as a spillage engineer in the UK. Suddenly he had too!
Sent me a picture. Told me in our 4th email he was in love with
me and our meeting was God ordained. Spoke lots of poetry
and said, my love, my dear, sent ecards and bible studies.
I saw the clues but played along ...
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Keep Safe By Keeping A Spiritual Focus 10/13/2007
I think that one of the critical factors involved in keeping
safe in a setting like this is to not take any one at face value
or appearance value. Do not allow yourself to be swept off
your feet because someone looks like a movie star.
Clarify ahead of time the inner and spiritual qualities
that youare looking for in a future spouse or date. Pray
for guidance. Take time to interact first ...
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Online Predators 10/11/2007
Are those who seek vulnerable women and the only
on line predators? NO! These dating sites are also the play
ground of on line predators: there are lots of people that
I rate up in the ranks of molesters, these people are
those who only come to the dating site to sell a false hope
of finding true love. They blaitenly disobey the sites
rules and try giving whom they contact their supposed ...
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genuineness 9/2/2007
when we walk with genuineness of heart there will always
be some great measure of satisfaction left behind in the
mind even though it might sometimes be painful during such
genuine walk. so we must endeavour to always walk in genuineness
of mind at all time
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Nagging Doubts - Very Important 8/13/2007
Do we always listen to our nagging doubts or gut reactions?
If not, why not, aren’t they relevant?
As we interact with people in our respective communities,
there's the odd occasion that we meet someone and during
the first meeting(s) alarm bells are going off about them
- but for some reason we choose to ignore them and then we're
surprised when things go wrong.
When I ...
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be concerned about yourself 8/7/2007
You have to do more things for yourself because it is when
you are happy and doing well that you can do better for others.
If you don't take care of yourself, you can't help
others because it is out of what you are that you give out
others.
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Always Act now 8/5/2007
Do not procrastinate anything you can do now. to do that
is to lay foundation for failure. A failing spirit feels
it is not possible now., why a succeeding spirit feels if
not now when? and it can be done now.
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To be successful in life 8/3/2007
To be successful in life, always state what you want/desire
and go ahead and do necessary things that you need to lead
you to that which you want/desire. Mind you, success in
life is not limited to physical possessions but to everything
that stem from the heart. If we desire to please God the principle
is state it and do the necessary things that is required
of you to be able to please God. That ...
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meeting someone online 8/1/2007
My best friend meet someone from Africa online and made
a plane trip with her three to see him only four months
from meeting him. Am I crazy to be mad at her? She is my bestest
friend and I care for alot.
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how to make a woman happy 7/4/2007
some one sent this to me. -- How to Make a Woman Happy It's not difficult to make a woman happy. A man only needs to be: 1. a friend 2. a companion 3. a lover 4. a brother 5. a father 6. a master 7. a chef 8. an electrician 9. a carpenter 10. a plumber 11. a mechanic 12. a decorator 13. a stylist 14. a sexologist 15. a gynecologist 16. a psychologist 17. a pest exterminator 18. a psychiatrist 19. ...
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About our emotions 6/22/2007
A friend sent this to me and I felt it could be useful in here
It difficult to underestimate the power of a touch a smile a kind word a listening ear an honest compliment or the smallest act of caring all of which have the potential to turn a life around Life ends when you stop Dreaming, Hope ends when you stop Believing, Love ends when you stop Caring, Friendship ends when you stop ...
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smething about love 5/31/2007
Love as the most valuable requirement from everyone created
by God can not be reduced to knowing. To do that automatically
leads to is cheapness, which you agree is only possible
through utterances and writings. The love that is required
from humanity is not equal to knowing, I tried to draw your
attention to several examples of some relationships that
remain models while they lasted even till in ...
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Online safety 5/30/2007
Thanks Big Church for monitoring and taking note of those
whom abuse this website. Recently I was penpaling with
someone and I was getting a little suspicious.Then what
do you know he has been removed for abuse. Thankyou for cleaning
up and protecting others. Let us all be writing safely and
let that little inner voice speak out loudly when we have
rumblings that all is not what it seems.
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getting less hurt 5/25/2007
I try to reason how possible it is for one to get hurt and why
do one get hurt in the first place. This was against the backdrop
of the fact that getting hurt is often precipitated by someone
else’s action towards us. Therefore from observation
and the teaching of the scriptures, it is possible to reduce
and, or in some cases eliminate the tendency of being hurt
by someone, something or ...
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it is not enough to pray 5/16/2007
It is not enough to pray, it is also demanded that after you
have prayed and ask God for direction that you begin to take
action and do something in the direction of your freedom.
Remember the Israelite have to spend more years in the wilderness
because ten out of twelve spies sent to view the Promised
Land discouraged them from taking action. One thing God
will not do is to force you to take ...
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how to get right person for a date 5/11/2007
my advice for you is ask God to show you who is the right person
for you for dating
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something good can be made out of little time 5/11/2007
don't always wait for a specific time to do something
rightly, whatever time you got make the best use of it and
try not to complain of no time as no matter how little the
time is there can always be something good to make out of
it
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Don't drive with anyone new- protect yourself 4/30/2007
When you meet someone new - and you go out on a date- don't
let the person fool you into going somewhere that you haven't
OK'd in advance. This includes driving yourself to
where you are going and not getting into the fellow's
car. For example- here's a real life example. On a first
date from the internet- a fellow made arrangements to meet
a lady at a retaurant. He chose the restaurant. He ...
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if you don't know, ask question 4/25/2007
Most people work with assumptions why other work with presumptions
neither of this is good for anyone who want to succeed in
any life endeavor. So it is good and more honorable that
when you are not sure of something or don’t know something,
the best thing to do is to ask, for he who ask question on an
issue will hardly or not go wrong
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plan from what you are and not what you use to be or ought to be 4/16/2007
A man is what he is, not what he used to be or what he ought to
be. But many people do not belief this. to belief what one
is does not mean lack of faith or aspiration but it helps
us to know the reality around us and to be able to adequately
plan for improvement by prayers, studies and search for
information. some people live their on what they ought
to be or what they use to be, niether of ...
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WOW 4/3/2007
I have recently joined this website in search of my soulmate/laughing
partner. It's hard sometimes to meet men when you work
a lot, etc., so I thought I'd give this a try. So far in
the last 2 days I've found out that 1 guy I e-mailed back
and forth with a few times has 2 profiles on this site ( completely
different I might add!! ). Odd how I woke up in the middle
of the night and had the urge to ...
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beware of pushy people 1/8/2007
because if they are rushing you to do things there way its
therefore knot of the kingdom of THE MOST HIGH GOD AND THE
LORD JESUS THE CHRIST THE ONE AND ONLY AMEN.LADIES DONT
LET PUSHY MEN LEAD YOUR LIVES ALLOW GOD TO LEAD AND GUIDE
YOU WITH ALL OF HEAVEN AMEN
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when you look back 11/10/2006
whenever you look back, see your achievement and learn
from your mistakes but never you regret anything for they
were but experience for you to be able to manage the present
situation
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COURTSHIP AND LOVE 11/3/2006
A time of Courtship
and feelings of love are natural desirable progressions
in a dating relationship.Becoming engaged to a person
serves as a vauable learning exprience, exposing both
people to many important feelings and dscisions.
How to deal with the intense desires assoiated with physical
attraction and defining love are two very ...
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few things will catch your heart 9/23/2006
there are alot of things that will catch your eye, but few
things will catch your heart, and once you verify them with
the word of God and find out that they fall in line with HIS
pur[ose for you, then PURSUE IT without restrains!
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dicovering your originality 8/27/2006
When you discover your originality, you wont want to be
like any other person and no matter what others do, you will
always see yourself as unique and then you will be able to
pursue your goal without feeling odd or out of track. To
discover ones originality we need to discover who we really
are in Christ as we were originality created in the image
of God. That notwithstanding, just know ...
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I chose to who I am 8/13/2006
I chose to be who I am and not what I think people would want
me be, because in being whom I am will my help come from God
through various channel as being whom I am make me plain
before God in all my strength and weaknesses. To strive
to be what people would want me be will cost one his or her
destiny
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Fear of God & Respect 7/31/2006
Many claim that their born again....yes but remember that
our bodies is enemy of what we believe(body require for
world but spirit require heaven thing, So what we suppose
to do?To stand according to God word leave by purity and
respect our body as God temple and respect both partiner
on dating moment coz that is dengeous part of courtship.
Respect each ather untily marriage
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God sees his radiance in you 7/22/2006
God does not see mess in us but his well created image and
the his radiance in you. so stop looking at you mess and focus
on the good image of God you are
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tomorrow makes today past lesson 7/12/2006
Life only allows you to move forward, because when tomorrow
comes you become a new person with past lessons. so always
edeavour to learn some good experience from past lesson
but don't carry the past along with you into tomorrow.
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scammer made a mistake 7/10/2006
Can we say busted?
Singlleman01 tried to scam me with cheesy emails and I thought
something wasnt right to start with and mentioned it to
the person that hooked me up with this website and it just
so happened he sent her the same word for word email he sent
me.
Watch out for him his name is KEN MOORGAN HENRY or at least
that is what he is calling himself
anyway He is also from ...
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appearance is deceptive 7/8/2006
Never judge a book by its cover when there is so much more
on the inside, just as you should never judge anyone by his
look when there are so much more in his or her character or
attitude. Just as book content, so also are the attitude
and or character of anyone. The reason why you should read
the content or see someone character and or attitude before
making conclusion is that appearance ...
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please be careful!! 7/3/2006
i im sorry that i have to do this but i was dating a man off this
web site and he was over loving and complimentary to me and
well i guess he said all the things i wanted to hear. then
as the weeks went by i noticed that his behaviour became
less and less of that of a Christian and there seemed to be
lies appearing .anyway then it came to light that he was
using false names and dates of ...
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is it by force to marry? 7/1/2006
During a wedding reception; the groom was called upon to
give his vote of thanks to his guests and this is what he came
up with: I want to first of all thank the Lord Almighty for
creating my wife and to also thank the pastor and his wife
for lending us their wedding rings. Special appreciation
to my landlord who lent us his car. I am most grateful to my
boss for approving the loan I used ...
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I look for a good husband.. 6/24/2006
I have 25 years and i'm tired to be unmarried.
I want to know how is to be married and that i look for an husband
that must look good (don't matter the age). Please
contact me if u are really interested. SEE YA
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Remember 6/19/2006
Remember what God has done for you and the successes you
have had in life when discouragement tries to take you down,
with that you can find yourself at the top of you mind again
and be able to overcome worries
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See Good in Others 6/9/2006
In life learn to see Good in people for every evil you identify
in people blocks you from see your problems and mistakes
as your attention is on the evil of others. really, it is
better for my enemy to see good in me than for me to see evil
in him.
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Bigchurch Scammer 6/6/2006
profile id luvis1 and fletchhisheart
check out http://bigchurch.com
fletchhisheart will contact u with his im 'kelvin
smith'...alias to same guy
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what make people look up to you is who you are 6/4/2006
It's not how much you have that makes people look up
to you, it's who you are. What you have is a factor of
your achievement or efforts. And that effort could be genuine
or not genuine depending on what spirit leads the one concerned.
But who you are, is a matter of your character and attitude
which would either my people to look up to you or look down
on you. So lets cultivate good ...
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Never sit down and grieve when you can find another way 6/2/2006
So many times in life we make attempts and effects at achieving
something laudable and something that would impact in
people’s lives as well as ours. But in most cases when we
come across problem we tend to put our haed down, back out,
back down or whatever there is that connot retreating from
attempting. But it could do much good if one never let his
head down, never give up and ...
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Never sit down and grieve when you can find another way 6/2/2006
So many times in life we make attempts and effects at achieving
something laudable and something that would impact in
people’s lives as well as ours. But in most cases when we
come across problem we tend to put our haed down, back out,
back down or whatever there is that connot retreating from
attempting. But it could do much good if one never let his
head down, never give up and ...
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So Good and so True about the Love of God 6/2/2006
THIS IS SO GOOD AND SO TRUE... If: A B C D E F G H I J K L M N O P Q R S
T U V W X Y Z Is represented as: 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 12 13 14 15 16
17 18 19 20 21 22 23 24 25 26 Then: H-A-R-D-W-O-R- K( 8+1+18+4+23+15+18+11)
= 98% And K-N-O-W-L-E-D-G-E( 11+14+15+23+12+5+4+7+5)
= 96% Yes, and B-e-a-u-t-i-f-u-l (2-5-1-21-20-9-6-21-12)=97%
But, A-T-T-I-T-U-D-E( 1+20+20+9+20+21+4+5 )= 100% AND, ...
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God can not accept anything from but Faith 5/29/2006
Christianity is a practice that is faith based, yet many
of us struggled to make people know that we love God, we strive
to do thing according to the rulse of the church and that
of God. some of us make sacrifices that is breathtaking,
and go ahead to despise those who can't make sacrifices.
we see people who don't do as we think God wants us do
as not truthful in the christian practices. ...
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What are you living for 5/27/2006
The utmost goal of everyone in life is to stick to what we
believe in and what we consider special, something we can
say we are living for. This varied from person to person
depending on our upbringing and environment as well as
virtue. Why some things people are living for could be disgusting
to others it is truly what they live for. As a matter of fact,
one way of evaluating what we think ...
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About this 'meeting people online' business.... 5/26/2006
Online ‘dating’ or relationship building as I would rather
call it, has come under some question, both here and in some
circles I move in. It is a normal thing to question as it is
a relatively new medium for meeting people, and not very
trusted with all the abuse of it that is out there. This does
exist , but if you safeguard yourself, armed with the full
armor of God, and ...
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it is more serious tolose hope than to sin 5/24/2006
Hope is an element that we all need in life to carry through
the functions of in the face of the variety of life issues
that we are confronted with in our everyday life. The importance
of HOPE was made clear in the bible when the bible says of
ABRAHAM that he hoped against hope. What that means is that
even when there was no reason for Abraham to hope for a better
thing, he choose to hope ...
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you can not do good before you are made good 5/23/2006
Good is what everyone desire to be associated with and no
matter how wicked somepersons are they want to be seen as
good or done good to. everyone on earth want people to treat
them godd and want good things to always happen. the fact
remains that the number of people who are good on earth determine
the amount of good that will be experienced here on earth.
There if we all endeavour to be ...
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there is no perfect man or woman when it comes to relationship or marriage 5/21/2006
there is no perfect man of women when it come to relationship
or marriage. all we need do is the determination to compromise
and accept one another. both parties have the responsibility
make the other perfect by working out the relationship
for good. with this and focus on God things will always work
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How to tell if the person is right for you. 5/14/2006
With in the first two dates you should go out for a meal.
When you do watch how the other person treats other if they
treat others rudely then in 3 to 6 months they will treat
you the same believe you me. For the way they treat others
is the way they will treat you, most people drop their guard
when eating a meal. Has save me a lot of heart ack.
1 Comments, 61 Views,
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Scammers new tricks 5/13/2006
Hello,
just want to let you know that scammers have develop new
ways of getting at people. In addition to the promise of
marriage, and offer of business deal and request to transfer
of huge money to your account, they now employ the tactics
of telling their victim that the have one sickness or the
other, or that they were involved in an accident, or one
tragedy or the other that will ...
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Be a good listener 5/11/2006
Be a good listener, don't be hasty to conclude but be
slow to talk. why it is possible for your tongue to get you
into trouble when you talk much without restain, your ears
will never get you in trouble. the more you listen the more
you aquire knowledge, and on the contrary, the more you
talk the more you give out yourself and exposses you weaknesses
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kind words are cheap but does great things 5/8/2006
Whenever we recieved KIND words from people around us we
get excited and refreshed. tat means Kind words has a healing
balm within it. But as often as we get KIND words from people
we sometimes forget that they are cheap and costless. and
if we do know that they are cheap and costless why then is
it difficult for some of us to give this cheap and costless
yet power source of great happiness ...
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Adjusting our attitude toward joy 5/5/2006
many a time we often wish and desire that every thing happening
around us could and should get fit into our attitude and
the way we want it to be. But this is wrong for that can never
be possible because those things will always be and continue
to be. the world can not change for you. the ups will always
be there and the downs will never stop; what is possible
is for everyone of us to get ...
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Jesus still think the best for you no matter what 5/1/2006
Even when Jesus knows about you, and all you are but he choose
to believe the best about you and for you. because he sees
you not as you are but as you will be when he get through with
you by his refinning power and fire. what a friend we have
in him
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one is only defeated when he accept defeat 4/26/2006
No one is defeated until defeat is accepted as A reality
by such individual. So that is why is is self defeating to
quit or stop attempting what seems difficult
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gas prices 4/21/2006
sign this petition to lower gas prices
ITS LEGIT i got it off of channel 7 action news
http://bigchurch.com
if you cant get it off that site click on this site
http://bigchurch.com
PS give it to everyone u know
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the beautiy of anyday starts from the heart 4/20/2006
whene we go to bed at night we hope to see a wondeful and beautiful
day starting from the next morning. but most often many
people do not see the beautiful, because of the state of
their heart at the dawning of a new day. for anyone to have
a beautiful day his or her mind must be renewed to freshness
and that can only come by the word of God and dedicating time
to appreciate what the good ...
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Christ is God's fulfilment for human 4/17/2006
God promised us good life and prosperity and all the abundance
of comfort. Those promises are fulfilled in Jesus Christ
that is why Jesus Christ is God's everything for man's
total need
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True friend as Good health 4/14/2006
Many of us seek for peace and good health and many who find
good health and peace out of carelessness loss it and become
miserable. But the one thing that is equal good health is
true friend. No wonder it is said True friendship is like
sound health; the value of it is seldom known until it be
lost. So when you have true friend cherish it and try to be
one to others. But remember Jesus is ...
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It's always too early to quit 4/12/2006
Life is full of great challenges and contradictions, and
these we see our way to success and great achievement. No
matter how long you have tried or how soon you have been on
with your efforts, one thing to know is that It's always
too early to quit. The knowledge of this will serve as a reservoir
of strength to carry you through.
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no trumpets sound when the important decisions of our life are made 4/12/2006
While noise and trumpets are sounded when we make some decisions
and or achieved some feat in life, it is interesting to know
that no trumpets sound when the important decisions of
our life are made. Destiny is made known silently, but then
we are the shaper of our destiny. Even when God has destine
us for greatness and many more good things, it is demanded
of us to work according to the ...
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our privillege in Christ 4/11/2006
Our privillege in Christ is the work of the Blood and the
cross. The Blood deals with what we have done, whereas the
Cross deals with what we are. The Blood disposes of our sins,
while the Cross strikes at the root of our capacity for sin.
these are the great work of the cross and the blood. so that
whoever that finds Christ finds a total relief from all
forms of things that would ...
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your words, your dreams and your thoughts 4/8/2006
Your words, your dreams, and your thoughts have the power
to create conditions in your life. What you speak about,
you can bring about.
If you keep saying you can't stand your job,
you might lose your job.
If you keep saying you can't stand your body,
your body can become sick.
If you keep saying you can't stand your car,
your car could be stolen or just stop ...
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why couples most not denied each other the privilege of making love 4/6/2006
Partner should not refused the other the joy of marital
bliss of making love. except for health reasons and for
purpose of prayers which both must agree to. Therefore,
Both the man and the woman in a marriage relationship has
not right to refused his or her partner the enjoyment of
marital bliss of making love. The reason is that such refusal
has the propencity to cause unfaithfulness by ...
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the dept of our spirituality 4/4/2006
The depths of our spirituality does not depend upon changing
the things we do, but in doing for God what we ordinarily
do for ourselves
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The Power Of Prayer 4/3/2006
A young university student was home for the summer. She
had gone to visit some friends one evening and time passed
quickly as each shared their various experiences of the
past year. She ended up staying longer than planned, and
had to walk home alone.
She wasn't afraid because it was a small town and she
lived only a few blocks away. As she walked along under the
tall elm trees, ...
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after man sined in the garden life became a puzzle 3/30/2006
life has always a puzzle and will always be since the Man's
sin in the garden of Eden. That is why Jesus came to help solve
the puzzle. so the only way we can get the puzzle solved is
to be situate in Christ. by that he carries us instead of
us carrying ourselves. therefore life is a puzzle that
can be solve through Christ
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Cracks can bring in light 3/28/2006
There is a crack in everything and that crack could be a channel
of light. no matter how we dicover cracks in our lives or
program, whether through pain or pleasure, we should know
that within that lies a ray of light. let look out for that
ray of light that will lead us to the place of success than
brood over the woos and pains. with the presence of crack
That's how the light gets in
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what you call failure is an experience to help you go forward 3/28/2006
When you think you have failed, you did not actually failed
but have only had an experience, which should help you,
avoid a pitfall to be able to move forward. When it seems
you have failed, know that you have not failed; you have
gained experience. For failure comes when you are unable
to think on an issue. For as long as you can think and not worry
on an issue you cannot fail. So Go ...
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leave your worries and focus on God 3/27/2006
Why do you sit down and allowed your worries to overwhelm
you. remember that you have jeus, just focus on him and he
will focus on you problems and wories.
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knowing God's direction 3/25/2006
Blessed is the man who finds out which way God is moving and
then gets going in the same direction.
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will the world cry when you die 3/23/2006
When you were born, you cried and the world rejoiced. Live
your life in such a way so that when you die, the would world
cries and you will go with rejoicing.
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You can make yourself happy 3/23/2006
HAPPINESS IS SOMETHING WE CREATE IN OUR MIND, IT'S
NOT SOMETHING YOU SEARCH FOR AND SO SELDOM FIND. so know
that you can make yourself happy when you determine to do
so
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state police warning 3/21/2006
Someone forwarded this to me and i feel everyone should
know this)
State police warning for online: Please read this "very
carefully"..then send it out to all the people online
that you know. Something like this is nothing to be taken
casually; this is something you DO want to pay attention
to.
If a person with the screen-name of Monkeyman935 contacts
you, do not reply. DO ...
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A couple "nuggets of truth" for dating 3/21/2006
A couple of things that have been tried and true(especially
when I've violated one of them). Let me know if these
ring true to you; or if I'm "off the wall"...
1) Don't date your neithbors. If the relation
ship "goes south" it really makes it diffi-cult
to stay friendly as neighbors. I thought I could rationalize
this one when I took out my next door neighbor...and we were
"going Dutch". ...
2 Comments, 106 Views,
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The value of hope 3/21/2006
The value of hope is in hoping and there is no loss in hoping
it only help one to realised that what you desire is possible
and keeps one on the track of expectations and assurance
of sometime to come. Therefore hope is not a lost or weakness
but just strength.
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Forgiveness is total 3/20/2006
forgiveness it total, when you forgive you forgive and
will see yourself loving that person again. The bible teaches
that when we forgive we love. How would it be if Jesus forgive
the most harden criminal and say he does not want to have
anything to do with him. what if he has said that about you.
So if you forgive you will have a lot to do with the peson so
that person who forgives and ...
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The prayers that feed your soul 3/18/2006
A man may study because his brain is hungry for knowledge,
even Bible knowledge. But he prays because his soul is hungry
for God. Prayers made to God are beyond request, also foods
for our tasting soul and when we sincerely pray there is
a peace that exceeds human understanding that we receive
from God.
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Knowing what you are will help plan properly 3/17/2006
A man is what he is, not what he used to be or what he ought to
be. Butmany do not belief this. to belief what one is does
not mean lack of faith or aspiration but it helps us to know
the reality and to be able to adequately plann for improvement.
For some people they belief in what they ought to be or what
they use to be, niether of the two is a reality.one is past
and the other aspiration ...
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Dating is Practicing for Divorce 3/16/2006
THE GIFT OF SINGLENESS
Giving Pieces of Your Heart Away
It was finally here–Anna’s wedding day, the day she had
dreamed about and planned for months. The small, picturesque
church was crowded with friends and family. Sunlight poured
through the stained-glass windows, and the gentle music
of a stringed quartet filled the air. Anna walked down the
aisle toward David. ...
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Jesus kind of love 3/16/2006
the Kind of love which Jesus Christ started and exhibits
is that love, which forgives and pardons. Imagine what
he did! He loves the unlovely, pardons the guilty, and forgives
the sinner and birthed life in those who had no life. We are
expected to do same
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courage is not the absence of fear 3/16/2006
Courage does not means the absence of fear or intimidation.
But it means being scared to death, you saddle up and move
on to achieve and or acomplish what you had intended. That
moving on even in the midstof fearand intimidation to accomplish
you goalor desire.
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humility is to think of yourself less 3/16/2006
Humility is one of the greatest attributes of God and this
was demostrated by Christ when he humbled himself to die
on the cross even though he was equal with God. Hence the
bible required us a of God to exhibit this triat
of our hevenly father. But today many people have misplaced
what humility is that they begin to think less of themself
in a manner that is downgrading and religating. ...
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the world is either a tragedy or a comedy 3/15/2006
The world as it seems means different things to different
people. However one can conviniently say that the world
can be seen in two light - tragedy and comedy this depends
on the ability of the individual in it to use the will power
given to everyman by God. So to those who are multivated
and directed by feelings the world is a tragedy, but for
those who are directed by their thinking ...
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start with the neccessary and you will do the impossible 3/15/2006
Many of us fear starting off something for fear of falure
and meeting difficulties. Even when it is a fact that difficulties
abound everywhere, we have the confidence in God's
promises to be with us in every situation. Therefore with
faith just start by doing what's necessary, then what's
possible, and suddenly you are doing the impossible
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The race is fdor those who continue 3/14/2006
Winning the race is a factor of persistence and continuity.
For many who had hope it will be all over once certain amount
of concentration and energy is exacted, they often loss
out but those who persistently continue to push and attempt
success has always be the end story. Jesus demostrated
this in the Garden of Gethsemane. Hence the race is not always
to the swift, but to those who keep ...
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Repentace does not save 3/14/2006
Repentace does not save but it exposes us to some truth of
God's powers and abilities. Hence we should always
delight in repenting from anything the holy tells our spirit
man is not worthy of God's people. Though repentace
does not save, it nontheless shows to all the sign that we
realize what God has done in Christ Jesus.
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To love God is greater than to know him 3/14/2006
Knowing God is one thing that we all seek after and wish for
other that we love. beyond this is a very significant issue
and that is loving God. Without much labour the bible clearly
stated that to love God is to love our nieghbours. Therefore
we should seek to love God because to love God is greater
than to know him
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How would you live your life 3/13/2006
For me, I would rather live my life as if there is a God, and
die to find out there isn't, than live my life as if there
isn't, and die to find out there is. So how would you
live your life?
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I choose Goodness 3/13/2006
I choose goodness...I will go without a dollar before I
take a dishonest one. I will be overlooked before I will
boast. I will confess before I will accuse. I choose goodness.
I saw this somewhere and felt it could be useful to you all
too
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Right is right no matter what 3/13/2006
At time many people battle with sticking to what is right,
especially when it involves how many people really think
such way. BVut the fact remains that what is right does not
need debate or great surport to be right. Right is right,
even if everyone is against it; and wrong is wrong, even
if everyone is for it.
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living life as a of God 3/11/2006
The greatest thing is to be found at one's post as a
of God, living each day as though it were our last, but planning
as though our world might last a hundred years. But then,
as of God we must know that Forgiveness is giving
up the possibility of a better past.
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he who does not grow will be stale and dry 3/11/2006
In this Christian journey with the Lord growth is very essential
and he who refused to grow will never experienced the greatest
joy of salvation. Therefore, you just have to continue
to grow, or you would just be like last night's cornbread--stale
and dry with little or no usefulness. for our usefulness
comes to light as we grow into the fulness of Christ. He who
does not grow will be stale ...
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Making your ladder to heaven 3/11/2006
In your aspiration to make heaven what part do you need to
play. Yes what you need do is to make a ladder for yourself
by which you can sometimes go up to heaven to interact with
God and Jesus Christ. That ladder is your prayer backed
by faith in the resurrected Jesus. Each time you pray, each
time you study the word of God you are building for yourself
a ladder by which you could go to ...
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Prayers can change mountains into highways 3/11/2006
Many a time we are confronted with lots of life contradictions
and situational pains. As we constantly met with these
issues of life so do we sometimes miss out in the fight just
because of our unwillingness and inability to stay onto
prayers. At time we stay onto prayers but we wish it goes
our ways even when God tewlls us that he has a plan for us.
Hence many just give up and decide to ...
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Good works are determined by how much it pleases God 3/10/2006
Good work is evaluated on the basis of how much of God's
love is found in it. Therefore every Christian should always
remember that the value of his good works is not based on
their number and excellence, but on the love of God which
prompts him to do these things.
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sufferings can become an opportunity when given to God 3/9/2006
Suffering may be someone's fault or it may not be anyone's
fault. But if given to God,
our suffering becomes an opportunity to experience the
power of God at work in our lives and to give glory to Him.
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Ten Secrets Of Love 3/6/2006
* The First Secret: The power of Love
Love begins with our thoughts. We become what we think.
Loving thoughts create loving experiences and loving
relationships. Affirmations can change our beliefs and
thoughts about ourselves and others. If we want to love
someone, we need to consider their needs and desires. Thinking
about your ideal partner will help recognize him or her ...
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Why The Idenity Problems If You Are A Of God 3/6/2006
Through the blood of Jesus we should be made whole, if that
statement in the bible is true and we know the bible doesn't
lie then why do so many christians have a problem with their
self worth or with their spiritual growth and maturity.
I will tell you why it is because of satan and his deceptions
that he plants for us. The devil has distorted the true identity
of Christ that is ...
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willingness in mariage 3/6/2006
the willing and determination of parties in marriage to
know and to compromised with one another give stability.
but the adherent to ones attitude and character with the
unwillingness to compromise lead to crisis in mariage
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Welcome to the month of marching forward 3/6/2006
Welcome to the month of March - the month of marching forward
and a month of favour. I declare to you that the Lord will
move you from where you are now to where He wants you to be.
There are greater things ahead of you. Don’t settle where
you are now. Look unto Jesus, the author and finisher of
your faith. In Him we live and in Him we have our being. See
you on top. Have a nice day ...
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God's Example Of A True Relationship 3/4/2006
Many a times we shy away from facing realities, yet we want
the best that reality can offer to be in our possession especially
in a relationship. The fact remains that God has laid down
the best and basic
princinple for a genuine and lasting relationship, whether
between man and God or between man and man.That was what
He did by sending Jesus to die for our sins, and also to creat ...
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Three basic guidance of life 2/28/2006
there are three basic guidance of life which when followed
will lead one to some great level of satisfaction. these
three grand essentials are something to do, something
to love, and something to hope for. whatever anyone is or
what to be these three foundamentals should be checked
and when we do so with the abounding grace of God there wont
be any limit in the our move to success
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Three basic guidance of life 2/28/2006
there are three basic guidance of life which when followed
will lead one to some great level of satisfaction. these
three grand essentials are something to do, something
to love, and something to hope for. whatever anyone is or
what to be these three foundamentals should be checked
and when we do so with the abounding grace of God there wont
be any limit in the our move to success
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love ca not be measured 2/27/2006
LOVE CANNOT BE MEASURED IN A LAB OR PROVEN IN A TEXTBOOK.
YET IT, AND IT ALONE, IS THE SUBSTANCE OF ALL THINGS VISIBLE.
WITHOUT LOVE, THERE CAN BE NO CREATIVITY. WITHOUT CREATIVITY,
THERE CAN BE NO LIFE.
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Life Is 2/26/2006
Life is an ADVENTURE, Dare it.
Life is a BEAUTY, Worship it.
Life is a CHALLENGE, Meet it.
Life is a DREAM, Realize it.
Life is ENDURANCE, Cope with it.
Life is FRAGRANCE, Smell it.
Life is a GAME, Play it.
Life is HEAVEN, Make it.
Life is an INITIATIVE, Take it.
Life is a JOURNEY, Complete it.
Life is KEROSINE, Burn it.
Life is LOVE, Enjoy it.
Life is a MYSTERY, Unfold ...
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HOW WE SOMETIMES MISS OUT OUR BLESSINGS 2/24/2006
A young man was getting ready to graduate from college.
For many months
he had admired a beautiful sports car in a dealer's
showroom, and
knowing his father could well afford it, he told him that
was all he
wanted. As Graduation Day approached, the young man awaited
signs that his
father had purchased the car.
<br>
Finally, on the morning of his graduation, his father ...
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Scammers abound in Big church - be warned 2/23/2006
Scammers abound here
I just want to place this again to alert well meaning brethren
in here that scammers abound here. At time you might find
it difficult to know them, but I trust God to continually
expose them and give the sincere ones the discernment to
identify these evil minded people. They pretend to be women
when they are actually men, some pretend to be women when
they are ...
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Highway 109 2/19/2006
A drunk man in an Oldsmobile
They said had run the light
That caused the six-car pileup On 109 that night.
When broken bodies lay about "And blood was everywhere, "
"The sirens screamed out eulogies, " For death
was in the air.
"A mother, trapped inside her car, "
Was heard above the noise;
Her plaintive plea near split the air:
"Oh, God, please spare my boys!"
She fought to ...
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How To Break Out Of A Rut 2/19/2006
Are you in a rut? Is your life predictable? Do you want an
idea of how to change your life. Then read below, hope that
it helps you.
<br>
The first thing you need to do is to assume responsibility
for your own life. You control what happens in your life,
nobody else.
<br>
Next accept that responsibility, don't try to blame
others for your problems or situations. I ...
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Want To Improve Your Life, Try A Few Of These 2/19/2006
Smile more.
Listen more intently.
Watch a discover something new.
Do something totally silly once in a while.
Be less critical of others.
Encourage someone every day.
Learn from your everyday failures.
Tell people you love that you love them.
Accept yourself for who you are.
Be quick to forgive others and learn to
forgive yourself.
Treat yourself to something expensive or ...
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UNCONDITIONAL LOVE 2/19/2006
A story is told about a soldier who was finally coming home
from the war. He called his parents from San Francisco.
"Mom and Dad, I'm coming home, but I've a
favor to ask. I have a friend I'd like to bring home with
me."
"Sure, " they replied, "we'd love
to meet him." "There's something you should know the continued,
"he was hurt pretty badly in the fighting. He stepped
on a land ...
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who brew the coffee 2/19/2006
A man and his wife were having an argument about who should
brew the coffee each morning.
<br>
The wife said, "You should do it, because you get up
first, and then we don't have to wait as long to get our
coffee."
<br>
The husband said, "You are in charge of the cooking
around here so you should do it, because that is your job,
and I can just wait for my coffee."Wife ...
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your spiritual concern and your material needs 2/18/2006
A person should be more concerned with spiritual than with
material matters, but the fact remains that whatever you
may need materially wil need your spiritual attention
as that will always take you to god who is able to supply your
need and open a way for you to be supplied by human instrument.
therefore people's material welfare is his own spiritual
concern.
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the love of Jesus is like an ocean 2/18/2006
The love of Jesus is an ocean
with no shore to bound it.
And if anyone of us plunge into it, we carry
with us all the possessions
we have. The Lord knows
what these possessions are-
the souls God have seen
fit to link with our individual soul.
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the love of Jesus is like an ocean 2/18/2006
The love of Jesus is an ocean
with no shore to bound it.
And if anyone of us plunge into it, we carry
with us all the possessions
we have. The Lord knows
what these possessions are-
the souls God have seen
fit to link with our individual soul.
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Life is meaningless without love 2/18/2006
Life is meaningless withoutlove
What would life mean without love andlove without light.
The light brightens onlyin life which contains love. So
never switchoff thatlight which shines in your life. God
islight, Jesus is the source of life. God islove, therefore
trustin him.
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Friendship is love withunderstanding 2/18/2006
Friendship is love withunderstanding. We are only as old
as the age of our heart. The best way to have a special friend
is tobe one. We are never rich enough to afford to lose a friend.
Best friends will p[ainfully brings out the very best within
you. Constant use and careful wear can not wear out the fabric
of truefriendship.
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if you judge people you wont have time to love them 2/17/2006
One who knows how to show and to accept kindness will be a
friend better than any possession, and such people tries
their best to add value to the lives of those around them
rather than judge or condemn them. The fact is that if you
judge people you will have no time to love them.
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Two phases of human life 2/17/2006
In this world we live in two phases can be identifies with
human development, which are symbolic. For when a baby
is be born, he enters the world with hands clenched, that
symbolises him/her saying, "The world is mine; I
shall grab it." but as he grow older and become a full
grown man or woman and as he begins to take some brushes from
life, he leaves his/her hand, symbolysing him/her ...
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falling in love 2/16/2006
To fall in Love my dear is to reduce ourself to the position
of love. the reason is that hate is tall and has all the growth
of pride and arrogance, but love is humble. reduce to the
status of love is not negative but positive, remember Jesus
did it when he has to reduced himself to the level of mere
man to die for us, and the bible says that because of that
he got exalted ...
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don't stop planning no matter the difficulties 2/15/2006
no matter what you encounter in life as you move on never
stop planning, ask God for wisdom to plan and keep up believing
in His power to make your way fulfilled in him
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The word of God in our life 2/15/2006
What we do for a living should not determine or influenced
our believe in God, rather our believe and faith in God should
shape and infact have a lot to do with what you do for a living.
in the same way we should avoid trying to justify or explain
the word of God by our experinces but the word shoul be used
to explain our experiences to see if we have done rightly
or otherwise. when we ...
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salvation and going to church 2/15/2006
Salvation begins from the heart but it is more than just
saying I believe in Jesus. It includes doing the will of
God, and going to a church (the gathering of believers)
is one of those God's will. So it is impossible for one
to be a christian and not go to church. A trully saved christian
or person will find the gathering of God's people interesting
and desirable, that includes going to ...
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stop working with your understanding and lean on God 2/12/2006
If you trully know God and believe in Him, stop working in
your own understanding and decide to consult God in whatever
you do and to let his word direct your path. Remember he said
if you trust in him and lean not in your own understanding,
he will direct your path
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Calling the last rite :- A joke 2/12/2006
A man is struck by a bus on a busy street in New York City. He
lies dying on the sidewalk as a crowd of spectators gathers
around. "A priest! Somebody get me a priest!"
the man gasps. A policeman checks the crowd but finds no
priest, no minister, no man of God of any kind.
<br>
"A PRIEST, PLEASE!" the dying man says again.
Then out of the crowd steps a little old Jewish man of at ...
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Don't be silent in ignorance 2/12/2006
It is better for you to ask question about what you are ignorant
off than keep quiet in your ignorance. for when you ask question
about it you stop being ignorant about it, and when you keep
quiet you continue to be ignorant about it
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Don't be silent in ignorance 2/12/2006
It is better for you to ask question about what you are ignorant
off than keep quiet in your ignorance. for when you ask question
about it you stop being ignorant about it, and when you keep
quiet you continue to be ignorant about it
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Rules from God 2/12/2006
1. WAKE UP!!!
Decide to have a good day.
"Today is the day the Lord hath made; let us rejoice
and be glad in it."
Psalms 118:24
<br>
2. DRESS UP!!!
The best way to dress up is to put on a smile. A smile is an inexpensive
way to improve your looks.
"The Lord does not look at the things man looks at.
Man looks at outward appearance; but the Lord looks at the
heart."
I ...
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Rules from God 2/12/2006
1. WAKE UP!!!
Decide to have a good day.
"Today is the day the Lord hath made; let us rejoice
and be glad in it."
Psalms 118:24
<br>
2. DRESS UP!!!
The best way to dress up is to put on a smile. A smile is an inexpensive
way to improve your looks.
"The Lord does not look at the things man looks at.
Man looks at outward appearance; but the Lord looks at the
heart."
I ...
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God still does miracles 2/12/2006
God hasn't stopped performing miracles, it's
us who have stopped believing that he does" We have
to believe that he still performs miracles, so that we can
have the miracles we have long prayed for. Just stop doubting
and start believing him no matter what the circumtances
says
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Attend to the needy 2/12/2006
Do not turn away from those who are in need, but share all
things in common with your brother. Your heart shall not
cling to the high and mighty, but turn to the good and humble
folk. and remember that Where there is great love, there
are always miracles.
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Wise facts 2/10/2006
Laying down your arms, surrendering, saying you are sorry,
realizing that you have been on the wrong track and getting
ready to start life over again from the ground floor - that
is the only way out of a hole.
<br>
a friend sent it to me so enjoy it too
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The accident spot - A joke 2/10/2006
emiliaadinnah (2/9/2006 2:10:34 PM): A car was involved
in an accident on a street. As expected, a large crowd gathered.
A newspaper reporter who was very anxious to get this story
could not get near the car. Being a clever and experienced
reporter, he started shouting loudly, "Let me through!
let me through!! I am the of the victim." The crowd
made way for him ... Lying in front of the ...
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some facts of life 2/8/2006
Everything that is worthwhile in life is scary. Choosing
a school, choosing a career, getting married, having --all
those things are scary. If it is not fearful, it is not worthwhile
A friend sent it to me and i felt it should be shared.
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balancing your personal conviction with God's word 2/8/2006
every live by his personal conviction as he or she journey
along the pathway of destiny but no matter how our personal
conviction is without a balance with god's word it
will lead to frustration. so let always learn to balance
our conviction with God's word for our lives
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Dating/general safety 2/7/2006
Dating/general safety
<br>
Add to this General Safety list these common sense dating
safety rules:
<br>
Don't be afraid to say NO! If you're not comfortable
with the way things are headed, run like hell.
<br>
When you are comfortable enough to meet for the first time.
Meet in a busy (read, where there's a LOT of people)
public place.
<br>
Get a picture ...
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When two fall in love - issues involved 2/7/2006
when two people fell in love. Just like you. While falling
in love does ‘just happen’, staying in love never happens
by itself. Love is simple but it is not easy. To be a special
Valentine to your partner takes lots of energy, time, attention
and love. If one of your goals this year is your relationship
with your partner then Valentine’s Day is a great day to
start.
...
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How two can agree 2/6/2006
yes two can really agree the problem we have today is selfishness
a situation where each party in marriage want to satisfy
himself or herself alone without the willingnes to make
sacrifies for the confort of the other. as long as there
is the willingnes to make sacrifice for the confort of the
other person there will always be agreement
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about believing God 2/6/2006
I believe in God no matter what. I want you to know it that
it takes your belief in God to accept christ and it still
takes same belief to remain in God and to continue with Christ
and to enjoy the benefit of christianity. there is no end
to you believing in God once you are a christian and a redeemed
of his glory.
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you and you memory 2/2/2006
One elderly couple is visiting another for supper. The
two women go into the kitchen for a moment, leaving the men
to talk.
One of the men says to the other, "The Mrs. and I went
to the nicest restaurant last night."
"Is that right?" the other inquires, "What
was it called?"
"That's just it, " he replies "I
can't recall. "Say, what's the name of that
red flower ...
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Recieving miracles from God - The Healing Touch of Christ 2/2/2006
recieving miracles from God has a lot to do with our disposition
and what we really want from him as show in this story
Three guys were fishing on a lake one day, when Jesus walked
across the water and joined them in the boat. When the three
astonished men had settled down enough to speak, the first
guy asked humbly, "Jesus, I've suffered from
back pain ever since I took shrapnel in the ...
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Recieving miracles from God - The Healing Touch of Christ 2/2/2006
recieving miracles from God has a lot to do with our disposition
and what we really want from him as show in this story
Three guys were fishing on a lake one day, when Jesus walked
across the water and joined them in the boat. When the three
astonished men had settled down enough to speak, the first
guy asked humbly, "Jesus, I've suffered from
back pain ever since I took shrapnel in the ...
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Fake profiles exist here - take note 2/2/2006
checking the profile thoroughly is avdisable but we should
pray for decerning spirit to know pretenders, becuase
i have seen men using female picture or other men picture
that is not their to talk to people. So that is why My prayer
is that God give true christian on this site the power of
descernment to be able to avoid those who are out here to
hurt and make others sad.
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Be definite about your relationship and stop assumming things 2/1/2006
More and more time people get themselves into problem because
of assumption and latter blame it on the other person. If
you and in a relationship be wise enough to discuss it. Especially
if you find out that you want him or her. Never assume he or
she is for you when both of you have not talked about it. don't
try to be pushing when you feel he or she is not giving back
the type you give ...
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Where wisdom begins 2/1/2006
Wisdom begins when we ask God to be our supply, for when God
is your supply, you will never be shot of ideas and wisdom
to carry on with life issues in crisis moment. 1king 3:9
says this "So give your servant a descerning heart
to govern your people and to distinguish between right
and wrong. for who is able to govern this great people."
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sources of true wisdom 2/1/2006
True wisdom does not come from men's philosophies
and Ideas but from the insite giving by God to creation.
the word is the best source of true wisdom. Colosian 2:8
says "Don't let others spoil your faith and joy
with their philosophies, their wrong and shallow answers
built on means thought and ideas, instead (learn) on what
Christ has said."
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Came on to strong !! 1/31/2006
When I first joined this site I was really excited about
meeting people. I completed my profile found what appeared
to be a decent person and sent the "wink". Wow...he
suddenly overwhelmed me with e-mails...calling me angel,
etc and says he wants to come to the U.S. I had visions of "stalking"
etc. It was kinda of scary.. I had listed my hometown and
had given out some unique ...
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About false teachers 1/31/2006
The bible has already exposed what false doctrines are.
What every christian need is not to be lazy about studying
the bible. The Holy spirit is to help us understand what
God want us to know. Lets encourage one another to go back
to the study of the bible for that alone can show us what false
doctrinws are without distraction.
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why people tell lies 1/30/2006
The reason why people tell lie is because the devil still
very much influences men as long as this earth remain. when
Christ shall come to establish his Kingdom there shall
be no lies. and as many as genuiely Have christ finds it difficult
to tell lies. There is no use telling lies because lies can
only give you a temporal conform that will later be visited
by a greater trouble and ...
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I have found my enemy - it is me 1/26/2006
I saw this and felt it could help someone here.
It took me more than 40 years (I'm a slow learner
to figure out what my biggest problem was --- me.
Okay, maybe all along I knew it deep down inside..I just
didn't want to admit it.
So after I had this magnificent illumination (duh!) I made
a mighty resolution to do better and I thought that would
take care of ...
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Anxiety is deadly 1/23/2006
Anxiety does not empty tomorrow of its sorrows, but only
empties today of its strength. So you can see that anxiety
is deadly. therefore stop being anxious
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Don't wait until the hour of battle 1/20/2006
"The reason why many fail in battle is because they
wait until the hour of battle. The reason why others succeed
is because they have gained their victory on their knees
long before the battle came...Anticipate your battles;
fight them on your knees before temptation comes, and you
will always have victory.”
Category: Prayer Author: Torrey, R.A
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Harmonize yourself with God first thing in the morning 1/20/2006
Most people jump into work first thing in the morning only
to latter remember they have not prayed. for those people,
Taylor Hudson advise thus "Do not have your concert
first, and then tune your instrument afterwards. Begin
the day with the Word of God and prayer, and get first of all
into harmony with Him"
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Sex questions and answers 1/18/2006
1. Should Christians who have had sex get married whether
they were heading to the altar or not?
<br>
The bible did not forbid anyone who had sex from marrying.
The thing is that a christian who get married without having
had sex with each other is honourable, just as being a virgin
is honourable too. But wether you had sex or not does not
determine how successful the marriage ...
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The Dance in Guidance 1/17/2006
Author: Unknown
<br>
When I meditated on the word guidance, I kept seeing "dance"
at the end
of the word. I remember reading that doing God's will
is a lot like
dancing. When two people try to lead, nothing feels right.
The
movement
doesn't flow with the music, and everything is quite
uncomfortable and
jerky.
<br>
When one person realizes and lets the other ...
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In the school of faith 1/16/2006
In the school of faith you don't need to be know the end
before making up your mind nor do you need someone's
approval. All you need is just take the first step in faith.
You don't have to see the whole staircase, just take
the first step and you find out that there is another step
and another stap and eventually you will reach your destination.
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BETWEEN QUITERS AND GOAL GETTERS 1/16/2006
THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN QUITERS AND GOAL GETTERS WHO KEEP
ON THROUGH STORM AND STRUGGLE IN LIVES ENDEAVOURS IS A HOPEFUL
HEART. HOPE SAYS, "NO MATTER HOW MANY TIMES I FALL,
I WILL STAND AND START AGAIN." FOR A PERSON OF HOPE
IS NOT ONE WHO NEVER FALLS, BUT ONE WHO PICKS HERSELF UP ONE
MORE TIME THAN SHE FALLS.
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WHAT IT MEANS TO HAVE HOPE 1/16/2006
TO HAVE HOPE IS TO STAND AMIDST LIFE'S COLDEST, DARKEST
STORM AND SEE THE GLORIOUS RAINBOW FORMING ON THE HORIZON.
HOPE IS THE GUIDING LANTERN THAT LEADS US OUT OF THE DARKNESS
OF THE FOREST AND INTO SAFETY OF THE CLEAR PLACES. IF IT WERE
NOT FOR HOPES, THE HEART WOULD BREAK.
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Why you must not bother about what people say about you 1/16/2006
"Do not pay attention to every word people say, or
you may hear your servant cursing you- for you know in your
heart that many times you yourself have cursed others."
<br>
-Ecclesiastes 7:21-22
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another date at the movies!!!! 1/15/2006
Hello people .
thank you for the responses.
<br>
I just got back from a date and the fella got very upset with
me because I didnt give him a kiss or hug or hold his hand in
the movie theatre. he got mad at me and told me that I was an
unafectionate person!
<br>
What do you think about that?
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eddling in other peoples affairs 1/13/2006
don't think the bible says that we should not meddle
into people's affiars. As a matter of Fact the bible
says that if we see people doing wrong whether believers
or unbelievers we are to call them to order or else thei blood
will be require from us if we fail to. Read Ezekiel 3:18-20
we are to meddle in peoples affair to get them saved but not
to destroy them
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LIVING IN HOPE 1/13/2006
TO LIVE IN HOPE MEANS TO EXPECT THAT OUR LONGINGS DESIRES
WILL BE FULFILLED AS LONG AS WE CONSTANTLY HOLD TO THE FAITH
WE HAVE FOUND IN GOD AND BELEIVE THAT SUCH FAITH HAS THE ABILITY
TO INITIATE AND MANIFEST OUR FULFILLMENT. IN DOING THIS
WE CANNOT HELP BUT NOTICE ALL THE WAYS IN WHICH OUR LIVES
ARE BLESSED.
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people who run after riches 1/11/2006
"People who want to get rich fall into temptation
and a trap and into many foolish and harmful desires that
plunge men into ruin and destruction. For the love of money
is a root of all kinds of evil. Some people, eager for money,
have wandered from the faith and pierced themselves with
many griefs."
<br>
-1 Timothy 6:9-10
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God will give you tread when you begin to weave 1/11/2006
many people want to be sure and certain of things before
they start but many time this has made so many people to loss
great opportunities. The fact is that God is able to give
you the tread. So according to a german proverbs, "when
Begin to weave, God will give you the thread."
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two are better than one 1/11/2006
"Two are better than one, because they have a good
return for their work: If one falls down, his friend can
help him up. But pity the man who falls and has no one to help
him up! Also, if two lie down together, they will keep warm.
But how can one keep warm alone? Though one may be overpowered,
two can defend themselves. A cord of three strands is not
quickly broken."
<br>
...
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Never give up and sit down 1/7/2006
"Never let your head hang down. Never give up and sit
down and grieve. Find another way. And don't pray when
it rains if you don't pray when the sun shines."
-Satchel Paige
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the meaning of character 1/7/2006
Character is doing the right thing when nobody's looking.
There are too many people who think that the only thing that's
right is to get by, and the only thing that's wrong is
to get caught."
<br>
-J. C. Watts
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Run out of Energy? 1/5/2006
Have ever experienced when you TV remote wont work and you
find out that the batteries need changed. And you run to
your drawer where you kept the batteries, and found it empty
or maybe one battery whereas you needed two? This is a crisis
moment that is often replicated in marriages and relationships.
<br>
How easy it is in marriage to do things happily, busy with
our lives, work ...
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Avoiding trouble and sorrow in life 1/4/2006
Many people seek to have peace in life and to avoid trouble
and sorrow. To achieve this has only one way to seek God through
Christ. For he that seeketh anything else other than God
and the salvation of his soul through the death of Jesus
Christ, will find nothing but trouble and sorrow. But he
who seeks God will find God and the Joy of savation.
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Missing the mark by focusing on immediate rewards 1/4/2006
Missing the mark by focusing on immediate rewards
The haste for pleasure and rewards has caused so many their
peace, fufillment and greatness in life. This is because
many try to value the immediateness of rewards before taking
a step. No wonder therefore that, for a small reward, a man
will hurry away on a long journey; while for eternal life,
many will hardly take a single step
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The Irony in Today's Christianity 1/4/2006
In christiandom today we find and see that religion and,
or the church is not transforming people; rather it is being
transformed by the people through their conviniencies
and what is confortable with them. It is not raising the
moral level of society; it is descending to society's
own level of moral decadence gross contradictions of God's
will and purposes for creation, and congratulating ...
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2006-01-04
Why is it so hard to find a man that believes and follow allof
god'd rules?
Whay do they follow so and totally dis regard the others?
<br>
I am looking for a man that respect the " No Sex Before
Marriage Rule". Unfortunately I'm getting
the idea that he does not exisit!
I am divorced and have a 13 year old son. I am interested in
developing a long term relationship but I am getting pressured
a lot b by men who don't believe in not having sex before
marriage.
what are you thoughts on this subject?
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Explaining James 2:14 1/4/2006
What is said in the passage [James 2:14 " faith without
work is dead"] is like a two coupon train or bus ticket.
One coupon says, "Not good if detached" and
the other says, "Not good for passage". Works
are not good for passage; but faith detached from works
is not saving faith. that mean you must back your faith up
by doing the right things and taking the right actions.
... Charles C. ...
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The relevance of meditation 1/3/2006
"Meditation is the skeleton key that unlocks the
greatest storeroom in the house of God's provisions
for the Christian." <br>
The men who carry this key upon the chain of their daily life
come into a knowledge and relationship that the "activist"
and the restless ones have never known. With the solitude
of the meditation room, there is produced a quality of life
that must be ...
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the most important things in life 1/2/2006
In the midst of the froth and bubble of life, two things stand
out like stone. These are Kindness in another persons's
trouble, Courage in your own matter.. when we learn to do
these two things we will no doubt be pleasing God.
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anyone can fall in love but only the commited can trully love 12/31/2005
ANYONE CAN FALL IN LOVE. YET ONLY THOSE WITH COMMITMENT
AND CHARACTER CAN MAKE THE EVERYDAY RENEWAL OF THAT VOW.
LOVE CANNOT BE MEASURED IN A LAB OR PROVEN IN A TEXTBOOK.
YET IT, AND IT ALONE, IS THE SUBSTANCE OF ALL THINGS VISIBLE.
WITHOUT LOVE, THERE CAN BE NO CREATIVITY. WITHOUT CREATIVITY,
THERE CAN BE NO LIFE. NEVER UNDERESTIMATE THE POWER OF A
LOVING TOUCH, A LOVING LOOK, A ...
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Warning concerning 12/22/2005
Several of us women have had to block this member. It is my
suggestion you don't communicate with him at all.
I reported him to the management and got no response.
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learning about trust from Ezra 4:3 12/21/2005
Ezra 4:3 ‘But Zerubbabel, and Jeshua, and the rest of the
chief of the fathers of Israel, said unto them, Ye have nothing
to do with us to build an house unto our God; but we ourselves
together will build unto the LORD God of Israel, as king
Cyrus the king of Persia hath commanded us.’
What this teaches is that we all should take heed, of whom
we go partners with, and on ...
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KNOWING THE TRUE UNCONDITIONAL LOVE 12/20/2005
LOVE DICTATED BY "I WILL LOVE YOU IF..." IS NOT
TRUE LOVE. TRUE LOVE SAYS, "I WILL LOVE YOU EVEN ....."
LOVE IS THE GLUE THAT BINDS TWO SOULS TOGETHER IN COMMON
EXPERIENCES, SHARED GOALS, AND MUTUAL DESIRES, EVEN THOUGH
THEY EMANATE FROM DIFFERENT BACKGROUND
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focusing on our goal 12/16/2005
goals, desire, and ambitions are common things in life,
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but while many would wish for the best as goal in life, only
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few are able to achieve their goals. But one important thing
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about achieving goals is the ability to face it and be able
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to identify alternatives that could give ...
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Screening by phone (ladies) 12/10/2005
Ladies--
When you feel comfortable - switch from emailing to the
phone. Don't meet in person until you feel comfortable
on the phone. You can find out a lot of info. on the phone that
will help you make a decision whether you should meet or
not. Then, you can go with confidence to meet him knowing
that you did what you could do.
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Before you....(for the ladies) 12/10/2005
Before you fall head over heels in love with what you perceive
someone to be ladies- protect yourselves and ask for a recommendation
from someone like a pastor- this will make sure the fellow
is who he says he is. Also make sure that his picture on the
site- looks like him in person. I'd even go so far as
asking him ahead of time to see his driver's license
when you first meet. Then- you ...
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Picture 12/10/2005
It's really important to have your date first post
a picture on this site- or any site that you're on. Don't
go for them saying they will email it to your private email.
I've read about this. This is what a married person
will do so that none of his friends or his wife will see his
posting and realize it is him. If you get flack- stand your
ground- make sure he posts it publically. ...
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Cloudy or raining the sun never stops shining 12/10/2005
What everyone of us should know in our fight for live is that
no matter how cloudy or raining the weather might be, the
sun never stops shining, it light keeps beeming even though
the rain and, or cloud covers the sky. This is the attitude
we should have in our journey in live that no matter what
the eyes of the Lord sees us and knows how it hurt us and so
he prepares for us a comfort place ...
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LOVE and SEX ,which is most important 12/9/2005
As of God what we should seek to know is what is most
important to God in our relationship with people and in
marriages between these two. Both sex and love are important,
but the most important of the two to God for us is love. When
you have good love you we surely get the best sex experience
in the world. But when you take sex first, i want you to know
that no matter how good sex you can ...
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what men and, or women want 12/8/2005
what do men and, or women want? I think this is one of the error
people go into often, when the begin to seek and search for
what men and, or women wants in a relationship or marriage.
I think what we should seek to know is what God want. If we
do just want God want in marriages and relationship there
is will be great peace. Human wants changes with time and
circumstances ...
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The age for successful marriage 12/8/2005
There is centain age that one can say is conducive for marriage,
for instance you can't ask an 11, 12, 13 14, 15, years
old to go into marriage no matter the prsumed maturity.
I think considerably 17 for women depending on culture
and 21 for men is a conducive age to get married. but there
is not limit beyond this, that u can be 90 or even more as long
as you are strong enough to fulfil the ...
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Marriage is more than a union 12/7/2005
Marriage is more than just the union of two different person
in matrimony, but it is the search for self perfection in
his or her partner, that is you seek to be perfect enough
as the right one for your partner and not desire that your
partner become perfect for when we seek for individual
improvement in marriage we will not see fault and hurt.
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The joy of life in Christ 12/7/2005
Many of us seek for that joy that knows no hurt and pain, that
joy that suffers no dissappointment and regret, that joy
that comes from deep within, that joy that never fade, that
joy of life which give satisfaction. But that joy of life
came be found in no other place than in Christ. In Christ
can man find the Joy of life.
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If god had a refrigerator 12/6/2005
If God had a refrigerator, your picture would be on it. If
He had a wallet, your photo would be in it. He sends you flowers
every spring. He sends you a sunrise every morning. Whenever
you want to talk, He listens. He can live anywhere in the
universe, but He chose your heart. Face it friend, He is
crazy about you! God didn't promise days without pain,
laughter without sorrow, sun without ...
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If God had a refrigerator 12/6/2005
If God had a refrigerator, your picture would be on it. If
He had a wallet, your photo would be in it. He sends you flowers
every spring. He sends you a sunrise every morning. Whenever
you want to talk, He listens. He can live anywhere in the
universe, but He chose your heart. Face it friend, He is
crazy about you! God didn't promise days without pain,
laughter without sorrow, sun without ...
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You can d all by taking them one step after 12/5/2005
You can done all by taking them one step after another because
attempting them all at the same time leads nowhere. In fact,
No one can fully execute or finish any of all his vissions
and goal when he wants to execute them all quickly and within
same time. But the only one who does and execute all his vissions
and goal with great success is the one who impliment and
execute them one step at ...
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About anxiety 12/5/2005
Anxiety is not only a pain which we must ask God to assuage
but also a weakness we must ask Him to pardon; for He's
told us to take no care for the morrow.
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C. S. (Clive Staples) Lewis
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A bend is an end 12/5/2005
A bend is not an end
A bend on the road is not the end of it. So anyone who turns
back becaus of a bend in his or her road of life will never
gets to his or her destination. For there is a straight road
and path beyond the bend for the bend you see afar on the road
does not mean the end of the road.
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Knowing That God has plans for you 12/3/2005
there is not doubt that God knows the plan for our lives.
I think the question is if we are aware that he knows. Because
if we are, we wont say somethings we say and do somethings
we do. we would only love him and believe that He knows the
best plan for our life. then we could aba
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The meaning of living 12/3/2005
It will interest you to know that living is more than words
as Halford E. Luccock has sumarised, that Living is learning
the meaning of words. That does not mean the long ten syllable
words we have to look up in the dictionary. The really great
words to master are short ones work, love, hope, joy, pain,
home, , life, death.
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the best way to get the right partner 12/3/2005
Many of us here and outside ther look for God sent partner
and God perfected partner. at times we pray and pray fast
and fast yet year in year out this God sendt partner seems
elusive. But i want to let you know that the best way to find
the God sent partner is to make ourselves a God sent one.
For God can only send his love one to some who also has prepared
himself or herself to be God ...
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how to kee a good relationship 12/3/2005
How to keep on in a relationship
Recently I observed that why many people wish and hope for
a good relationship, the do not at the same time prepare
themselves for such desired relationship of peace, joy,
and great love under the shodow of God. This the do by always
expecting the other party in a relationship to be the one
contacting, they are too busy to send a hi or hello mail,
they ...
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Our safe place is only in Jesus 12/2/2005
He that dwelleth in the secret place of the most High shall
abide under the shadow of the Almighty. Psalm 91:1
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4th vs. He shall cover thee with his feathers, and under
his wings shall thou trust: his truth shall be thy shield
and buckler
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11th vs. For he shall give his angels charge over thee. to
keep thee in all thy ways.
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Dating Safety is all ...
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we should be bold to let go our pride 12/1/2005
Pride the bible says comes before fall, and this have denied
many people of their happiness. When yo hold on to your pride
you are bound to loss so many valuables. Many have lost someone
they loved to their pride. But my counsel is that be willing
to loss your pride to someone that loves you and whom you
love that to loss some that loves you and tat you love to your
pride.
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what we should do after been born-again 12/1/2005
When we are born again we have Christ and the Holy Spirit
inside of us but that is not enough for us to fight the issues
of life because that only takes us from condemnation to
life. Having be saved we need to equip ourselves withthe
weapon of war from the word of God, this most christians
fall to do even some christians who were doing this sometimes
fall back to mere haed knowledge of God. ...
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Don't Trust Liars! 11/29/2005
I have seen it over and over again in the short time that I
have been on this site - black men from Africa putting their
location down as somewhere in the United States. (I don't
know if the Africa women are doing this or not.) If they will
hide their location from you, that should send up a huge
flare for us women. They are putting the wrong location
down as a pure deception. If ...
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true soulmate 11/28/2005
God's desire is for a man to cleave to the wife and live
together forever till death and that is true soulmate.
Yes this is the original plan of God and still remains his
requirment from man though many today have tried to make
it unimportant. God's desire id for a man to forever
till date be united with the wife. Brethren why don't
everyone just put away selfishness and love our wives and ...
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Con men and scams.... 11/25/2005
Just a little word of warning to all of those trusting female
Christians out there... This could also happen to you guys
too!
If you meet someone on line, (as I did on here)start communicating,
things seem to be going well.... all is rosy
UNTIL... they ask you to set up a bank account for them to
pay money into or ask for your account details, or want to
send you a bank draft to pay into ...
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Love is not hard 11/19/2005
I saw a post asking why is love so hard. But i find out that
love is never hard as the bible teaches but our greet and
selfishness made it seems it is hard. When we truelly love
and willingly express it love is so simple and interesting.
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You strenght is in God 11/14/2005
No matter what you have don or achieved it is not the Lord
that gives strenght and you should aknowledge and appreciate
himf for that. By so doing he would do much more for you.
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to specify who we want is appropriate 11/5/2005
Though it is right to say that without giving specification
we can find out man/woman, I want to tell you that God is a
God of standard and we are expected to follow suit. So if
we set a standard of what will want, that becomes our desire
and when we place this before God, as long as it is not selfish,
God would answer us cos he said tha desire of the righteous
shall not be cut short. So ...
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Are we really as strong as we think ??? 10/3/2005
1Cor 10:12 "wherefore let him that thinketh he standeth
take heed lest he fall"
When it comes to dating , there is a custom that two people
follow.
They go out alone .. at night...in the dark..where it gives
the illusion that what ever is done..is hidden.
So the temptations are a little more appealing.
But is this dating safely?
As a christian, I see ...
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One step at a time 8/30/2005
when you are into dating, it is good and honorablr to move
one step at a time in understanding one another. For when
you move more than one step it will be difficult for there
to be a balance and could lead to confusion and or dissapointment
on the long run
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There is a song 8/13/2005
There is a song, I am longing to hear
I've waited for so long and shed many a tear...
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Sometimes I think I hear the opening notes
Eagerness floods my heart, eagerness to get lost in the
melody
My heart rushes in filled with anticipation and joy
But all to soon it becomes a cacophony
Tearing my heart apart with the raucous sounds
Not the lovely melody for which ...
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Happily ever After 7/22/2005
Safety before and After.
Happily trusting God before.
Praying knees on the floor.
Hearts protected, no open door.
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Happily we chase after,
Delighting in His character.
Hopes laid at His feet,
Passionately we seek,
His personal intimacy,
His royal majesty,
His unique supremecy.
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Happy without inhibition
With pure hearted intention,
like we adore
...
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There is not paradigm for dating 7/19/2005
When you are dating, be open-minded and don't conceptualize
your mind to a paradigm, because there is no formula for
dating, as everyone is unique on his or her own. So, open-mindedness
will help you to see things the way they are and there true
realities. Then you can have good analysis of them in view
of the appropriate responses.
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dating safety 6/8/2005
Don't date stalkers.
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Signs 5/7/2005
I remember hanging out with my brother in his room when we
were teenagers. I asked him for a little advice about dating
and he said: "Self-control is the best self-defense."
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That advice has served me well. I've tried to never
do anything that I'll wake up regretting the next day.
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Most important though, is learning to say no. Remember,
anytime you say no and ...
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How to Date Safely 4/16/2005
Use a little common sense to keep yourself out of trouble.
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Steps:
1. Meet in public places. If possible, double date or go
out with a group of people.
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2. Go Dutch. By paying for your portion you won't feel
as if you are under any kind of obligation.
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3. Remember that alcohol affects your judgment and lessens
your inhibitions. If you ...
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I kissed dating goodbye! 12/30/2004
I haven't read "I kissed dating goodbye"
by Joshua Harris but I pretty much know what it is about,
and I agree with it. I don't believe in dating as the
secular world sees it. In order to maintain purity Christians
need to keep the boundaries clear. You shouldn't get
involved with someone physically at all until you both
have discovered that you are totally compatible with one
another and ...
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Good Morning! 12/6/2004
He spoke to firmament yielding lights Dividing this day
from the first night.
Saying let these signs be for the seasons. We count days
and years for this reason.
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The earth is enlighten'd from His Love Receiving the
light from heaven above.
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He then gave us a gift of two great lights. The bigger lites
day; the smaller lites night.
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He made ...
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Make Believe.com? 11/18/2004
We're living in a land of make believe and trying not
to let it show.
We plant illusions subtle seeds and share the fantasies
they grow.
In this place we shade from others, perhaps mystery shines
as light.
After all it seems for now we've made ourselves a garden
of delight.
But when we finely meet each other to reap as we believe,
Will we not see the naked truth ...
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Some Men have unrealistic expectations, or else they just arent the "Man of God" they claim to be. 11/14/2004
I don't understand this scenario, maybe one of you
here can help me to understand it. Not at this site, but another
yet, Christian Site: I received an email that started out
by saying "Your man of God has arrived"......at
first I was just a little wary at the presumption here, don't
worry, it get's worse. This man talked about how coming
to the state/city I lived at was not too much ...
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From single to married - the path of love... 7/25/2004
In the Biblical time, it was pretty much arranged for 2 people
to marry, and they lived happily (sometimes), well the
chosen ones did, Isaac, Jacob...
Well, 'tis the modern age now, but God is still the same.
If you faithfully walk before Him and serve Him the best
you can - He is your father and He does see your lonely single
heart! I believe that He knows what's best for us...
Who ...
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Watch out for wolf's in sheep's clothing!! 6/25/2004
Ladies and even gentlemen please watch out for wolf's
in sheep's clothing.I was recently contacted by a
man on this site that was interested in me. He e-mailed me
and I e-mailed him back.We then decided to join yahoo messenger
so that we could chat and get to know one another.Then we
decided to start talking on the phone where he was such a
sweet talker and knew all of the right things to ...
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A Different Kind of Date 6/15/2004
My pastor hates traditional dating. Ok, "hate"
is such a strong word, but he has a better idea.
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Try inviting the person you're interested in to your
church, to your Sunday School, to a church function or social
event. That way you can observe the person in a social setting
and how they behave around other people, folks you are already
comfortable being around. These same ...
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Is there a different level of safety needed for Christians? 6/12/2004
Do you think that because we are on a Christian website,
we can use less precautions when meeting for a first date?
Is it safe to assume that people from this site are less of
a threat to personal safety than someone from a secular
dating site?
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Are you thinking about marrying an Egyptian? 6/11/2004
If you think you're in love because of all the wonderful
words your Egyptian friend has just told you, I really
need to talk to you befor you say "I Do".
I can give you some information that you really need to know.
Are there any Good Egyptian Men? My answer is Yes. If they
ask you if you want to hear their "SAD STORY"
say NOOOOOOOO.
Are there any Good Egyptian Men? Again my answer is ...
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KNOWING WHAT YOU WANT 4/30/2004
My friends i want to talk about this issue because many of
us have been dissappointed or will be dissappointed because
of not knowing what we want and sticking to it.We need to
know first the qualities we are looking for in aperson, then
we can go on to search for the MR RIGHT or MISS RIGHT.There
are many people out there who are just pretenders;you look
at aperson seems to be humble yet ...
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be safe when first meeting 3/23/2004
When you get to the point if meeting with someone that you
have met online and have talked with on the phone here is
my advise.
1. Have their full name and number.
2. Give that info to a trusted friend.
3. Arrange to meet in public.
4. Let that same friend you gave the info to know where you
will be.
5. Take your own vehicle so that you can leave at any time
and so that you ...
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