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SELF 6/16/2018
Self
We come now to the last sub-heading under this general heading
of the attack upon the Christian in the realm of experience.
I have deliberately kept it until the end in order that I
might emphasize it, and because it throws light upon all
we have been considering hitherto. It is the attack of the
enemy upon us in the matter of self, or, the problem of self
as it is made acute by the ...
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Looking for a half? 4/13/2015
When I hear people say they are looking for your soul mate
panic! I can not find anything in this biblical statement.
During my conversion I have understood that the Lord Jesus
is sufficient to complete what was missing in me: to be loved
unconditionally (that he did so all on Calvary's Cross).
When reading Genesis 1:27, I read that God created man and
woman. Whole beings, not halves. Created man ...
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Worries and Anxieties 2/21/2015
Worry and Anxiety
One way in which the devil uses general discouragement
very frequently is through worry and anxiety. Here is a
subject in which temperament again plays its part. We have
already seen that the devil knows us much better than we
know ourselves, and he arranges his particular temptation
and approach along the line of our temperament. Some Christians
are naturally given to ...
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CHRISTIAN BREAK-UP LINES........... 9/7/2011
1. "I'm sorry, I've found someone more spiritual."
2. "I'm sorry, it's just not God's will."
3. "I feel called to the ministry very soon and very
far from you as soon as possible."
4. "I'm sorry, it could never work. I'm a
sanguine and you're a phlegmatic."
5. "God loves me and must have a better plan for my life."
6. "You know, I feel like I'm dating ...
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Forgive Thyself ... and the other party ! 6/12/2010
The most important thing that anyone can do when they are
coming out of the 'storms' of a breakup (relationship
or marriage), is to forgive themself, first and foremost
and the other party.
I was invited to go to a co-dependency meeting, where many
people shared their personal struggles of being a co-dependent,
or being depended upon, to the extent that their own personality
and ...
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When is enough, enough? 4/1/2010
I recently wrote an article about a realtionship that I
was in with a man that I had been seeing for over a year and
a half. Things have been off and on . I have been doing all
the work to try to keep this realtionship together because
I was very much in love with this man. A week ago I was talking
to him telling him that over the course of things between
us no matter what happens something ...
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healing through God's word. 3/13/2010
there are many people who are still hurting from past relationships
and they don't make room for healing to take place in
their lives. don't you know you don't need another
lover, what you need is healing through God's word!!
let me break this down, a bad relationship can affect you
mentally and emotionally.to enter into another relationship
so soon will only damage you the moore, why don't ...
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Breaking up is easy when you....... 1/29/2010
Greetings all, Breaking up is easy. Truely! Ahhh, I'm not talking
about the pain one feels when thier head screams "Why
couldn't this have worked", Or the; "My
fault's?", "Could it still be's?"
And the absolute topper, "Is it over for good's",
that we all experience in a break up....The easiest way
to Break up is to never yoke unevenly. Once we are in a relationship,
and find our foundations, ...
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the best man you can get, every girls dreem 1/20/2010
i'm from easten cape in south africa. i love the lord
and hope to get a lover of my life somone that i will love for
the rest of my life. somone that is not goner replace the
love i have for christ but be someone that i will love as a
blessing from him.mtshizanas at yahoo.com. please if
you are not intrerested do not bother.
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marrage 10/16/2009
some people get married to soon before they even get to know
their partner an that can cause a problem.
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Breakin up can be the right things to do. 9/25/2009
Recently, I dated a man for four months. He said he was a "Christian
man." For the first few months, I thought, I want to
marry this guy, and he really fell head over heals for me
too. But, as time went on, all of this "other"
behavior started rearing it's ugly head. You know,
cussing, me pulling out my wallet more than he was, me working
more than he was, sexual things. Now, if your a Godly ...
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be strong in what ever you wish to face 9/3/2009
Hello every one ,
how so ever read me shall not have discourage in life but
look forward to face the future and present in life , when
i was no one i was just used and dumped by so many people in
life , i met my ex on the internet dating , we exchange mails
every day and later on we now exchange phone number and then
we started communicating on the phone and the we feel our
selves ...
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Tribute for my Mom© by Phil Thomson 5/12/2009
Well known or Known well? A Tribute to Carol Thompson from her Phil
So many monuments erected to honor the well known. Gold leafed termite infested frames surrounded these
public lives Hyperbolic finger clawed reputations spread by the ravenous
appetites of the discontent.
Knees to dirt before these caldrons of self-glory. Why pay tribute to a silicone filled Hollywood ...
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the power of your thought 2/15/2009
One great asset that we have is our thought. Nothing not
even the almighty God interferes with it. But whatever
we give it to can make use of it, including situation of life
and circumstances; spirit and human. Our thought has an
awesome power that can do anything that comes to it, and
that can be used to do anything by whichever power will give
it to. As human, you control the awesome power of ...
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The Locker Room of Life© (Mid-life Meditation) by Phil Thompson 11/21/2008
THE LOCKER ROOM OF LIFE By Phil Thompson
The resultant smell of hard work–laying it on the line,
now permeates the locker room. The team sifts the action
of the first half through the filter of the pre-game strategy.
Dialogue–and then decisions are made. The team confidently
runs out onto the court for the second half with an adjusted
game plan in hand. ...
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WHILE YOU WERE MARRIED 11/2/2008
What was it like till everything fell apart ?? I mean the
good times and bad. What were they like, The sharing, the
love the warmth? Just everything ??
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The Bible Explained By The 10/9/2008
The Bible explained by , truth has been redefined.
One of my favorite jobs has been leading junior church.
I try to do more than baby-sit our church's beloved
little ankle-biters during their time in our special junior
church facility. Our aim is to give them a solid background
in biblical history. At the end of each year, we give them
pencils and paper and ask them to chronicle what they ...
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WAITING ON THE LORD 9/24/2008
WAITING ON THE LORD By Charles Stanley Timing is everything. You see this in war–attacking at
the wrong moment could cost you the battle. You see it in
the operating room–too fast, too short, too much, too little,
or too late would be a tragedy. You see it in sports, wherein
a delay could cost you the game. Of all the things in which
timing is important, however, it is in our ...
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What Do Men Want 9/21/2008
I am a big believer in the old school. I believe a man should
persue the woman, make that first call or e-mail. This is
what defines a gentlemen and gives men their right standing
in God. I simply cannot make that first hint or call. Maybe
an e-mail wink...So guys, let us gals know what you do, what
you believe in..Thankyou and God bless you greatly, Lou
aka Marylou...
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Held Together For Eternity: 9/15/2008
“For I reckon that the sufferings of this present time are
not worthy to be compared with the glory which shall be revealed
in us.” Romans 8:18.
A little boy was once asked to give a definition of “nothing.”
It was a difficult assignment, but the answer came quickly:
“Nothing is a balloon with the skin gone.” An older person
probably would ...
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* JOURNEY TO THE STARS * 8/17/2008
* JOURNEY TO THE STARS *
OUR --- JOURNEY BEGINS.... WITH THE GENTLE FLAPPING OF
WINGS... AS WE CAN SEE... FAR BEYOND OUR OWN GALAXY! FLYING
FREELY, JUST YOU ME! WE ARE CLOSE TOGETHER THAN WE'VE
EVER BEEN!
WITH NO FEAR, NOT A CARE... FOR WE ONLY HAVE EACH OTHER'S
LOVE TO SHARE!
OUR JOURNEY TO THE STARS! PASSES THRU TIME SPACE.... I HOLD
YOU CLOSE, AS I GENTLY KISS ...
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Divorced? Christian? Both? 6/28/2008
Can a divorcee claim she is a strong christian
woman? Does the bible forbid divorce no matter what? I take
these questions personally.
I was married for 6 years to my high school sweetheart. Yes,
we dated for several years before getting hitched, and
yes, we did live together out of wedlock. But somewhere
during our marriage I discovered the truth and accepted ...
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Lighten Up! 6/28/2008
With the knowledge that this is indeed a Christian dating
site, hopefully most of us have a reasonably solid 'Faith
base'. When first approaching another - do it mindfully,
really read their profile and take the time to actually
comment on something that struck you about what they said.
This way you are showing you PAID ATTENTION - and are engaging
that person directly.
Start slowly, say ...
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How Much Is To Much Coffee 4/14/2008
You Know you've Had Too Much Coffee When:
You can type sixty words a minute with your feet.
Instant coffee takes too long.
You chew on other people's fingernails.
You answer the door, before people knock.
You sleep with your eyes open.
You go to sleep, just so you can wake up and smell the coffee.
You don't even wait for the water to ...
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Confessions of a People Pleaser 3/26/2008
Confessions of a People Pleaser
Being a people pleaser in my experience is tantamount to
being a doormat. ‘Smile and Nod’ are your vocabulary… if
you do this really well, everyone will like you, you will
have friends that will stick like glue, and they’ll call
you whenever they need something. Call them, and they will ...
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Lost Love: 2/16/2008
We had been goin' out for about two months. I still remember
the first time I met her. It was at a stormy football game.
She was tryin' to get out of the rain and she was soaked.
We both wound up standing beside each other under the bleachers.
We started in conversation and I found we were both 14. I
was surprised to meet someone this beautiful my age. We
stayed in touch for quite a while and ...
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LOVE AT FIRST WRITE 1/13/2008
I remember your first reply, ,, ,you captured my full
attention, i've read your profile over and over, it
speaks to me still!.Your pictures show a man that's
no stranger to tribulation, i can see the pain in your smile.
I can only imagine the many obstacules that God has had you
overcome to bring you were you are now. How painfull it must
be to walk in your shoes, my dearest love. I remember our ...
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Don’t Beat Yourself Up? 11/10/2007
“For thus says the LORD of hosts; …For he that touches you
touches the apple of His eye.” Zechariah. 2:8.
You are precious in the eyes of God. The Lord has given every
one of us a sense of self-respect, and this must not be opposed
too abruptly. God wants us to respect ourselves. It is the
privilege of everyone to so live that God will approve and
bless him. You ...
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Divorce and it's aftermath............... 11/6/2007
Divorce can be a very painful experience. Personally I
was devastated by my "discovery", and had HUGE
problems dealing with what my husband had done. It is not
uncommon for one to do things in which are totally unlike
themselves. They can act, speak, and do "crazy"
things while dealing with the pain.
Lack of sleep was a biggy for me. I sat up all night dwelling
on things. It was hard ...
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sometimes its good 11/5/2007
sometimes breaking up is good if you want to move on, don't stay in the relationship and if you dont
want to be there just because you feel sorry for the person,
or you are worried about how the person will react, you are
just hurting the person more, then you become a liar and
a cheater. think about it.
this is the melodymac from the poetic melody blog
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learning the value of patience in a realtionship! 10/31/2007
I have been seeing this guy off and on for 1 1/2 yrs. During
this time I have broken up with him 3 times. Only to have something
draw me back to him. I have prayed about this so many times.
And have even ask God to take this man out of my heart. I am
madly in love with him and I know that he loves me. But he can
be so inconsiderate at times. Not calling when he says he
will and working so ...
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steps to 9/18/2007
The Steps To Breaking Up The Steps To Breaking up when you need to do it, do it with
as little pain as possible! by owen
Just the words, break up, indicate a situation riddled
with impending pain and loss. Even if both parties involved
agree it is in their best interests to part romantic ways,
there is still a certain amount of loss attached. The best
way to approach a break up is to ...
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Forgiving others and Forgiving ourselves 9/12/2007
It is hard to forget the wrongs that others have done to us,
Or sometimes the wrongs we have done to others. For instance
abuse, whether physical, verbal, is not easily forgotten.
Or even mental abuse. Such as in a divorce where one or both
people think, that maybe there was something they could
or should have done to save the marrage. They blame themselves
and the pain that is felt is ...
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Break up advice 9/4/2007
In general, breakups happen because the two simply can't
find happiness together. Either one or the other realizes
that they aren't a perfect match and they decide that
it's time to move on. Often they move on, emotionally,
long before they move on physically. Aloofness, coldness,
a tendency to start arguments are all signs of someone beginning
to pull away.
Even though it can be the ...
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Sometimes 9/2/2007
Breacking up is hard.I still think about the special times
we shared.It was for the best.When I see couples walking
holding hands, It reminds me of us.A big smile and a laugh
is in my thoughts alot.I want you to be happy and have a good
life.Mostpeople wouldn't want you to be happy, But
That isn't me.I hope you have found that special person.
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Prayer For Today And For All Of You My Brothers And Sisters In Christ 8/28/2007
Please take a moment to relax your mind and humble your heart
to focus on Christ. Allow God, to be the only person on your
mind while you read this prayer. Friends that pray together,
stay together, there are a lot of hurting people on this
site in search of answers, prayers, forgiveness, etc.
Dear Lord, I thank You for this day. I thank You for my being
able to see and to hear this ...
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8/26/2007
(NOUN)
1) A mammal found extensively throughout the planet, often
clustered in groups in front of television sets (See SLOTHS).
Thought to be a member of Homo Sapiens due to physical similarities, though social and emotional behavior leads
many researchers to consider Teenagers to be a completely
different species altogether (See PARENTS) Very territorial.
(See ITS MY ROOM STAY OUT OF ...
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Friendship 8/1/2007
l think that its best when people break up, they should at
least be civil enough to seperate the lovingship or darlingship
to the friendship. l find it more bearable that way as you
will one day sit down and see what went wrong and laugh about
it and not repeat it again the next time round in your other
relationship........ think of a situation where
are involved, well being enemies is just ...
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Should I date someone at work??? 7/11/2007
Hey everyone,
I would like to see who thinks dating a coe-worker is good
or bad idea, and why they think that. I am not going to judge
anyone for there answers and I will consider them carefully.
I would just like to see what people think.
Thanks,
Lord
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Proverbs 31 woman 6/26/2007
In many male profiles I have noticed "looking for
the Proverbs 31 woman". I would like to put forth a
discussion regarding Ephesians 5:22-33.
The Lord has instructed both women and men to be a certain
way within a relationship. I see men looking for it, or at
least saying they want a Proverbs 31 woman.
Woman how come we are not doing the same? Looking for Ephesians ...
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Why is it so hard to say goodbye 6/19/2007
I have been in a few serious long term relationships in my
life that ended up
not working for verious reasons. A few
men just stopped calling me and stopped
taking my calls. No reason, no goodbye
...nothing. Just ignored me and hoped
I got the hint. How hard can it be to
tell a women that you aren't happy with
the relationship and want to stop dating.
I would much prefer that he ...
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RE-MARRIAGE FOR THE DIVORCED (update) 6/16/2007
In going through my old articles I have found this one. I
have since encountered new information which sheds a lot
of light on the matter, and exposes a long held misunderstanding.
I will leave the old article up, but I will post a response
that points here.
It has been long understood that in the Bible, that putting
one's spouse away meant divorce, but it does not.
...
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Memories after a breakup 6/9/2007
All of you get into a relationship because you feel euphoric
love for your partner. You love whatever your partner does.
That love makes you feel very good. You experience great
joy and feel special. All this changes over a period of time
for some of you. First you begin finding mistakes in each
other. Then you blame each other for small things. You blame
each other for not caring. You start ...
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Just wanted to change the number... 5/5/2007
Hi everyone, I have noticed for quite some time now the number
of articles on this subject has been at 666 and was surprised
that no one wanted to write an article to change it. So, this
article has nothing to do with breaking up as far as relationships,
just breaking up the horrible number that this column was
stuck on!!
God bless, have a great week...His4ever2006
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Through the fire... 4/29/2007
My fiancee just recently broke up with me. I'm a soldier
currently serving in Iraq. The pain I've felt over
the past month has been more than anything I've ever
felt before. But I've also realized that this is totally
part of His plan. See, the Lord has used this to get me closer
to Him than ever before. Ironically, I was reading Job for
the first time the week before this happened. ...
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COLD SHOULDER 4/26/2007
WHAT DO YOU DO WITH A DEAD RELATIONSHIP IN A MARRIAGE? staying
under one roof but separate rooms, giving cold shoulder
for almost ten years, refused to divorce or take any action.
did not show up at the lawyer office.
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Moving On 4/24/2007
We’ve all been there. Breaking up with someone you love
is one of the most painful situations you ever have to face.
In the aftermath of rejection, the hurt, the misery, the
loneliness and the feeling that the future just disappeared,
look as though they’ll go on forever. If you are the one being left, expect to be plundered by changing
feelings. You will vacillate from feeling ...
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trying to understand people! 4/15/2007
I have so far written 2 articles. And had some good responses.
It is very helpful to me to sit down and put my feelings into
words. I have alot of family and friends that I have talked
to about the things going on in my life. But I do believe that
this outlet has been very good for me. I know that I have alot
to learn about realtionships. I guess in general about
people. There are very ...
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love is in the air 4/13/2007
where i find my love
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Online dating breaking up 4/12/2007
I have friends involved in the 'online dating'
scene. Having just started myself, I don't have any
stories about breaking up as I'm still in the getting-to-know-you
stage with a few guys. However, she said that she may talk
to a guy for weeks and out of nowhere he stops the conversation
and doesn't make another comment. This is after sharing
a lot of themselves with that person. I'm certain ...
2 Comments, 63 Views,
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My Story (feed back please) 4/10/2007
Dear reader's
I have had to tell about my life for a few profiles.And to
respond to lady's asking for detail's about the
thing's I have been through
the last three year's.So after telling my story
half a dozen time's.I had gotten good at putting
the major event's togeather, in a digested form.
But by putting it all togeather, it read like the saddest
story, you've ever heard.So the ...
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It's hard to do 3/17/2007
Thinking back over break ups I've been through, each
has helped me learn more about myself, about life in general,
and certainly about being in relationship.
While earning my Master's degree in Human Development,
I interviewed a group of people who have suffered the loss
of love through divorce or death. In each case, these folks
talked about the journey of grief that took them from a ...
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test 3/16/2007
test
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love 3/15/2007
sab kuche .....
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I am breaking up 3/14/2007
I am breaking from whatever it is that kept holding me down.
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The Disappearing Act 2/22/2007
I'm no expert, but someone once told me that the soul
of good manners was the ability to put people at ease and
make them feel valued. That said, I'm going to use this
space today to discuss what I see as the most prevalent example
of bad manners in the single world: "The Disappearing
Act".
For those of you who are unfamiliar with this term, it's
what I call it when a person that ...
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comforting quotes... 2/19/2007
Maybe somebody has heard these before, but I like to remember
these quotes when I am faced with breakups and/or hardships...
"When one door closes, another one opens"
"Sometimes we look so long at the closed door, that
we don't notice the one that is opened right in front
of us"
I've been through enough breakups in my time to know
that every breakup has led to ...
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INSIGHTS ON DATING/NOT BY CHANCE 1/31/2007
Bonds of friendship will form more
quickly and discoveries about other person, will be easier
to make when parental approval prompts openness and consideration.
Dating is a way of learning the other person's personality
traits and also a way of having fun while building relationship.
During dating period, one discovers what character traits
blend best with his or her ...
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Me and God 1/15/2007
I was told me and God was really making.
God makes miracles happen.
God makes the sun and moon shine.
God makes the earth pretty.
God will always be with you.
God is a loveing and kind God.
I don't know if I will make it , But I know God will.
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Top 10 Things To Do With Leftover Turkey 12/29/2006
10. Turkey-filled Krispy Kremes
9. As seen on the Bob Vila Thanksgiving special, turkey
can be used as a caulking for leaky windows.
8. Let it get real hard and finally build your that tree
fort he's been wanting.
7. Remove the mummified one from the refrigerator from
last year to make room for this years.
6. Put carcass on head. Declare yourself ...
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Love is Cool 12/27/2006
God him self said that a man and a woman should not divorce,
that if you divorce it's a sin in the name of the lord..
So every body on here should prepare and follow teh lords
word, if your in love with a lady or a man. You should follow
the steps of the lord so u dont break up, cos if u marry u wont
just be in a broken family.. Amen
2 Comments, 130 Views,
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The Art of Romance : Camouflages of Conditional Love 12/26/2006
Romance is a very powerful tool of Manipulation. It is used
by many to counterfeit unconditional love and camouflage
the fostered feelings and emotions that feed our selfseeking
desires, creating a dangerous breeding ground for inordinate
affections, lusts, and sin.
2 Comments, 132 Views,
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the Lord is alway´s near..to you 12/25/2006
Jesus...your friend and gide..in every way.
Some year´s a go, in France...
I needed some money , to chances and stopt,
down the road....
I went to the left side of the road and ,
asked some people .
But the coudn´t , ..........
So I wash standing dar, sinking...and waiting.
............................
Than from the right side of the road......!
...
2 Comments, 59 Views,
12 Votes
,3.15 Score
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Not the worst way to break up? 12/3/2006
Aside from "I'm leaving you for ____"...
what's the worst way to break up?
I'm asking this so that hopefully someone in a bad relationship
may see this and see how NOT to have a "bad break up".
2 Comments, 40 Views,
3 Votes
,2.94 Score
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Picking Up The Pieces 11/28/2006
Alright, now I think that most of us on this site have probably
been shattered at least once or twice so hopefully I'm
not the only person here that feels this way. Ok, here goes,
in November of 2005 my fiance and I called it quits, now after
dating for just over 4 years I just didn't see anything
coming to be of any good use in a reasonably good future together.
With a break up after that ...
0 Comments, 67 Views,
4 Votes
,4.41 Score
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What happened??? (kind of long...) 11/25/2006
Hi, all. This kind of situation may have been alluded to
in other articles, but I felt I needed to write because the
sting of this relationship-that-never-was hurts...
a lot. A man from this website began talking with me EVERY
DAY through e-mails, IM's, and even phone conversations.
We had developed a really great relationship; both of us
felt like we could tell each other anything. I ...
6 Comments, 166 Views,
15 Votes
,6.50 Score
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when you look back 11/25/2006
whenever you look back, see your achievement and learn
from your mistakes but never you regret anything for they
were but experience for you to be able to manage the present
situation
2 Comments, 31 Views,
5 Votes
,2.49 Score
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Warning against false teaching !.... 11/14/2006
I enclose this sermon which our pastor preached this sunday
morning Warning against the false teachings of the recent
book that was published in 2001 "The Da vinci Code"
<br>
<br>
<br>
<br>
Sermon ‒ The naked Emperor puts on some ‘old’ clothes!
Opening slide 1.
<br>
Slide 2.
<br>
JUDE 1:3 “Dear ...
2 Comments, 109 Views,
11 Votes
,2.98 Score
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a lady who can't resist men 11/3/2006
a christian lady who can't resist men, has found herself
in the web of five men.not because she is afraid to say no, but
she thinks all of them love her.Though she goes to church
and has knowledge about fornication, she always says
yes to every man that propose to her irrespective of who
trhe man is.now she does noty know who to choose and stay
with for she has falling in love with all of ...
2 Comments, 49 Views,
5 Votes
,0.53 Score
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He left again 10/19/2006
Prepare yourself, this is a long one. I just had my 6 year
wedding anniversary. A little over 2 years ago my husband
went home to Nebraska for 2 weeks. He came back and not 5 minutes
after we walked in the door he told me he did not love me anymore
and wants out. (I admit, I was horrible to him the first 4
years of our marriage) I was crushed. I had just gone through
some pretty traumatic ...
9 Comments, 213 Views,
17 Votes
,2.98 Score
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Alone Again 10/18/2006
So you thought it would not come to this
and this time it was for real..but honey let me tell you....
Only God's existence fills us truly
And you should expect that life isn't a guarantee nor
the things it offers ,
Yes you could cry your eyes out and guys will stop eating,
some will eat more
And at the end there is only one Door....
That of Jesus and the salvation is a
...
2 Comments, 121 Views,
25 Votes
,4.24 Score
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what's wrong with waiting????? 10/9/2006
I have a question that I would love to hear your responses
to..both men and women. Here goes. Tell me why it is so bad
to wait on the Lord to send you someone? I have had my share
of invites to date, but if it dont feel right or if there is
a question then I dont want to be involved. I feel that when
the man the Lord has for me comes along, then there wont be
any questions, there will be a ...
1 Comments, 120 Views,
12 Votes
,3.15 Score
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The nasty D word 10/9/2006
I got married fairly young, I was 22. I loved him with all
my heart, I gave my life to him and did everything I could
with him. I swore up and down I would never ever get a divorce
before I met him, when I started dating him, when I married
him. Yet here I am. On the road of divorce, seeking release
from someone I thought I knew but realized I didn't.
He had a secret life, a life I didn't ...
5 Comments, 126 Views,
12 Votes
,3.51 Score
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A small service one sunday morning 9/23/2006
A husband and wife attend a small service at the local church
one Sunday morning. The man was very moved by the preacher's
sermon, so he stopped to shake the preacher's hand.
Reverend, that was the best damn sermon I ever did hear!"
The Reverend replied, "Oh! Why, thank you sir, but
please, I'd appreciate it if you didn't use profanity
in the Lord's house."
"I'm sorry ...
0 Comments, 43 Views,
7 Votes
,2.79 Score
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THE CONTROLLING MAN 9/21/2006
I thought I had met the perfect man about 4 years ago. We dated
for a while it was the most wonderful Loving time I have ever
had..till the day after we got married.He started to show
is true colors.He started telling me what I could wear and
couldn't wear, then he didn't want me to have
any friends.He would yell at me and throw fits for no reason.I
had the most perfect job going for me at ...
2 Comments, 109 Views,
17 Votes
,4.40 Score
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Why does God allow you 9/18/2006
Why does God allow you to face all these frustrations?
perhaps to teach you Patience, or to lean to depend on him, or
to give you time to seek Him out, to really get to known Him.
Tell Him what you need, & wait with patience, expectation, &
assurance.
GOD will surely hear your paryers...
1 Comments, 115 Views,
12 Votes
,3.68 Score
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Letting go of the hurt requires forgiveness 9/6/2006
There are so many songs that tell of broken hearts and not
being able to fall out of love with your x sweetheart.
My past experience with a breakup was someone that I loved
so much, that we kept breaking up and going back to dating
for over 3 years. This is basically because I am so persistent,
and I forgive so easily.
But, the hardest thing to forgive is his not ...
1 Comments, 68 Views,
10 Votes
,5.18 Score
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My personal breakup 9/5/2006
Breaking up is not always easy. Although, sometimes breaking
is the best thing that could happen. I know at the time when
it happens how could you possibly see what is gonna come
out of it. I was in a relationship which was not a godly relationship
when we broke up it was really hard on me I did not feel like
I had a purpose to live but thru the grace of God and his reassurance
and all of ...
2 Comments, 60 Views,
5 Votes
,3.14 Score
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Online breakups 8/27/2006
What's the best way to breakup with somone you've
onyl had an internet realtionship with?
Meaning you have never spoken on the phone or met. Simple,
just be up front with the person. Don't just not e-mail
or IM them anymore. For they may have gotten more out of the
relationship and thought it was going somewhere when in
fact it may not have been. Be honest, just like you would
in ...
1 Comments, 118 Views,
12 Votes
,5.10 Score
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How do you cope? 8/22/2006
I broke up with the love of my life after 5 years and it literally
broke me, 3 years on i still think of him. Is this common?
3 Comments, 297 Views,
20 Votes
,2.49 Score
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Heaven Is Ur Home 7/28/2006
Ur dream is Ur desire,
Ur desire is Ur sentiments,
Ur sentiment is Ur love,
Ur love is Ur heart,
Ur heart is Ur spouse,
Ur spouse is Ur future,
Ur future is Ur destiny,
Ur destiny is Ur ambition,
Ur ambition is Ur inspiration,
Ur inspiration is Ur motivation,
Ur motivation is Ur belief,
Ur belief is Ur peace,
Ur peace is Ur target,
Ur target is heaven and ...
1 Comments, 32 Views,
10 Votes
,2.19 Score
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Saving Faith!!! 7/20/2006
She took a long deep breath and grabbed
her suitcase unzipping it on the side, when her door opened
with a slight knock, without an invitation to enter.
“Hello!” It was James. “Thanks for telling me you were back, ”
he said vindictively and moved closer to her. Man, did he
look gorgeous. It was almost as if, she had forgotten what
effect he had ...
0 Comments, 71 Views,
7 Votes
,3.30 Score
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I Just Learned Something New 7/10/2006
For all those men who say,
Why buy a cow when you can get milk for free.
Here's an update for you:
Now days, 80% of women are against marriage.
WHY?
Because women realize it's not worth buying an entire
pig just to get a little sausage.
0 Comments, 111 Views,
14 Votes
,4.58 Score
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help 7/9/2006
I am 61 years old. one year ago, exactly, My husband and I
were packing up to go to a new job in Scotland. One night he
came bsck from a night out with his friend, and confessed
that he hadnt been playing golf the previous day, that he
had met up with an old friend (female) and that they had been
meeting on several occassions. That they were in love and
wanted to spend the rest of their ...
6 Comments, 202 Views,
7 Votes
,2.02 Score
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The Meek Shall Inherit The Grandmother's House 7/4/2006
I have found, in this day and age, that being a grandparent
has it's bountiful rewards as well as startling awareness
in the discovery of meekness; thereof. Perhaps you are
wondering, "What"? Let me back it up a couple
of decades.
When I was a , disobedience or disrespect for my grandmother
meant severe punishment from either herself or my parents.
I recall one incident in which my ...
1 Comments, 42 Views,
3 Votes
,3.92 Score
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Handling a Break up 6/24/2006
1. Keep PERSPECTIVE.
As the person who has been broken up with you will find that
you will feel disappointed, mad, angry, depressed. You
may even question your self worth. A root of bitterness
can easily spring up. Jealousy looks for a place to start
growing. It is easy to lose perspective, to feel terrible,
and to feel lonely.
In regaining perspective I have found it helpful to ...
0 Comments, 96 Views,
16 Votes
,7.39 Score
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Should I Have Fought For My Marriage 6/24/2006
After being in a marriage for fourteen years, my husband
left for work one morning and never came back. Being worried
not knowing whether he was dead or alive, I contacted his
best friend. I asked if he had seen or heard from him and that
I was going to call the police and file a missing person report.
When he told me not to do that, I knew right then, that he knew
more than he was ...
3 Comments, 209 Views,
19 Votes
,5.23 Score
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Count Your Blessings 6/23/2006
Count your blessings instead of your crosses;
Count your gains instead of your losses.
Count your joys instead of your woes;
Count your friends instead of your foes.
Count your smiles instead of your tears;
Count your courage instead of your fears.
Count your full years instead of your lean;
Count your kind deeds instead of your mean.
Count your health instead ...
3 Comments, 103 Views,
13 Votes
,4.99 Score
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Its sooo.....hard 6/23/2006
Hello ladies n gents.
I ended a three year relationship with a non christian girl
while I was not a dedicated christian and i am now single.
She was a very sensible and hard headed woman and at times
i reflect on the relationship and regret alot of the decisions
that i made and the fact that i neglected the relationship
in terms of basic friendship and honesty.
I can ...
3 Comments, 114 Views,
4 Votes
,2.47 Score
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Religion or relationship? 6/20/2006
Is Christianity about religion, relationship, or both?
5 Comments, 150 Views,
5 Votes
,4.12 Score
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Does time truly heal? 6/16/2006
I wrote an artical a year ago. I sometimes go back and read
it.Not sure why but I do. Each time I read it it brings back
those emotions. Does it mean I am not over it yet? I still
miss Doug. i often wonder how he is and whether I should call.
A girlfriend said oh just call and say hello like nothing
is wrong. But see it is. My heart still aches for him. I still
miss him and I am so very ...
10 Comments, 241 Views,
15 Votes
,3.90 Score
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Reasons For Divorce 6/11/2006
Some may wonder why our divorce rates are so high whether
you are christian or non christian. Last time I checked
they were over 50% either way. Anyway below are just a few
reasons that people have gotten divorce. Is it any wonder
why we are in the last days, cheers.
A man in Tarritville, Connecticut, filed for divorce because
his wife left him a note on the refrigerator that ...
1 Comments, 105 Views,
6 Votes
,2.23 Score
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The Computer Swallowed Grandma 6/11/2006
Yes, honestly its true.
She pressed 'control' and 'enter'
And disappeared from view.
It devoured her completely,
The thought just makes me squirm.
She must have caught a virus
Or been eaten by a worm.
I've searched through the recycle bin
And files of every kind;
...
0 Comments, 52 Views,
5 Votes
,3.47 Score
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Do Virgins Still Exist? 6/9/2006
We presently live in a world which has lost her morals.Sex, which
is supposed to be kept sacred between married couples has
been adversely & grossly hijacked beyond reach. Pornography
on the other hand becomes a marketable business-acceptable
too!
and ladies are now seen as sex objects.TV commercials
flaunt semi-naked ladies(sometimes teenagers) in order
to be attractive.Why all ...
4 Comments, 265 Views,
17 Votes
,4.40 Score
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What Happened? 6/9/2006
I met a guy on a Christian website a few months ago. We hit
it off from the start. We had so much in common and talked
EVERY day even if it was to say have a blessed day before we
went to work in the mornings. I looked forward to hearing
from him everyday. We even had Bible study over the phone.
I absolutely loved that. I thought finally a man who shows
leadership and won't look to me to be ...
9 Comments, 428 Views,
26 Votes
,3.03 Score
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You walk with God....no matter how hard the road 6/7/2006
I was married for eleven years to a woman who didn't
love her self and couldn't believe I loved her. I tried
everything I knew to show her, my love was real. The last
six months we were married, she became cold and distant.
I asked her what was wrong, she told me she didn't love
me anymore. I asked her was she seeing someone else. (They
usually are) She told me she could care lesss ...
6 Comments, 284 Views,
29 Votes
,4.95 Score
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How to move on after half a life time 6/2/2006
I have been with my soon to be x-husband for over 24 years,
we split up in February right before Valentines day. It
has been an extremely painful marriage to begin with since
he had two affairs and then he met someone a week after we
split up. But even so, when you are with someone for that
long it is like ripping off your right arm! I've been
with him since I was 18 years old and now ...
3 Comments, 151 Views,
6 Votes
,3.37 Score
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Actual Excerpts From Military Officer Fitness Reports: 5/23/2006
* His men would follow him anywhere, but only out of curiosity.
* I would not breed from this officer.
* He has carried out each and every one of his duties to his
entire satisfaction.
* He would be out of his depth in a car park puddle.
* This young lady has delusions of adequacy.
* This medical officer has used my ship to carry his ...
0 Comments, 46 Views,
5 Votes
,4.12 Score
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Trying to walk with God 5/21/2006
Why is it that for some people break-ups are "easy",
and for others it's as if the world is falling apart?
When I was 18 I met a guy that was my world. He came to church
with me and our relationship was wonderful. We were together
for almost 3 years and then one day we were fighting and then
three days later he left me. I was so hurt. I cried all of the
time and tried to talk to him about ...
2 Comments, 162 Views,
10 Votes
,2.99 Score
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It's Never Easy 5/21/2006
It is never easy to break up with someone especially if you
love them sincerely and the person is not a christian. Have
you noticed that we as christians ten to fall in love with
the unsaved for some strange reason and find it difficult
to 'let go?' I just got out of a relationship myself
with an unsaved and I still love him to death. It was difficult
for me to let go but I finally did. ...
2 Comments, 208 Views,
32 Votes
,4.36 Score
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Broken Things 4/28/2006
Broken Things
"By reason of breakings they purify
themselves" (Job 41:25).
God uses most for His glory those people and things which
are most perfectly broken. The sacrifices He accepts are
broken and contrite hearts. It was the breaking down of
Jacob's natural strength at Peniel that got him where
God could ...
1 Comments, 82 Views,
11 Votes
,5.04 Score
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gas prices 4/22/2006
sign this petition to lower gas prices
ITS LEGIT i got it off of channel 7 action news
http://bigchurch.com
if you cant get it off that site click on this site
http://bigchurch.com
PS give it to everyone u know
1 Comments, 17 Views,
3 Votes
,3.43 Score
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Gas prices 4/22/2006
sign this petition to lower gas prices
ITS LEGIT i got it off of channel 7 action news
http://bigchurch.com
if you cant get it off that site click on this site
http://bigchurch.com
PS give it to everyone u know
1 Comments, 23 Views,
1 Votes
,5.00 Score
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Over Night 4/18/2006
It seems like it happened over night. We ate together, we
talked together, we held each other. Then one day he decided
he didn't want to come after a big argument. He did things
that got on my nerves. I felt he was childish at times. He
had trouble keeping a job. but he was caring, he loved me
for me. None of his flaws were worth me leaving him. I wanted
to stand by him. a couple of days ...
2 Comments, 132 Views,
8 Votes
,3.01 Score
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A New Relationship 4/18/2006
A New Relationship
”Jesus said to her, “Do not cling to Me,
for I have not yet ascended to My Father; but go to My brethren
and say to them, ‘I am ascending to My Father and your Father,
and to My God and your God.’" John 20:17
On the morning of the ...
1 Comments, 25 Views,
4 Votes
,4.02 Score
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lesson you learn from breaking up(in my opinion) 4/17/2006
relationships!after having three nasty break-ups in
the row..in my 25 years of my existance.iam convienced
relationships just turn you into an emotional wreck, I
always tell myself i have to stop having relationships
because my breakups are always nasty , besides that I'm
always the one left emotionally drained.the good thing
though is that i always learn something from each relationship
, ...
2 Comments, 135 Views,
12 Votes
,2.80 Score
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The Silent Treatment 3/27/2006
A man and his wife were having some problems at home and were
giving each other the silent treatment. Suddenly, the
man realized that the
next day, he would need his wife to wake him at 5:00 a.m. for
an early morning business flight. Not wanting to be the
first to break the silence (and LOSE), he wrote on a piece
of paper, "Please wake me at 5:00 AM." He left
it where he knew she would ...
1 Comments, 47 Views,
9 Votes
,3.85 Score
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Where Do You Go From Here? 3/4/2006
Now, In Corinthians 7:10, Paul is instructing believers
that Married Christians are not allowed to leave one another
for any reason. If you are married to a non-believer (what
most refer to as unequally yoked), you may let them go if
they wish to leave, but you may not leave them if they wish
to stay.
<br>
Now, In deuteronomy chapter 24, we are told that if our spouse
remarries, ...
3 Comments, 69 Views,
6 Votes
,3.37 Score
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What Idols Are You Following? 2/28/2006
With all the television, videos, movies, sports, etc.
we have a lot of chances to follow different idols or heros
in this world.
A little closer to home you have have a favorite man or a woman
that God has used in your life, pastor, teacher, parent,
or friend who has had a dramatic influence on you. Then one
day, you discovered they were human, and yes, that they
even make mistakes. ...
1 Comments, 28 Views,
6 Votes
,4.79 Score
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Scammers abound in Big church - be warned 2/27/2006
Scammers abound here
I just want to place this again to alert well meaning brethren
in here that scammers abound here. At time you might find
it difficult to know them, but I trust God to continually
expose them and give the sincere ones the discernment to
identify these evil minded people. They pretend to be women
when they are actually men, some pretend to be women when
they are ...
0 Comments, 53 Views,
6 Votes
,3.93 Score
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How To Survive A Heart Attack When Alone 2/23/2006
Since many people are alone when they suffer a heart attack,
without help, the person whose heart is beating improperly
and who begins to feel faint, has only about 10 seconds left
before losing consciousness.
However, these victims can help themselves by coughing
repeatedly and very vigorously.
A deep breath should be taken before each cough, and the
cough must be deep and ...
1 Comments, 32 Views,
5 Votes
,4.12 Score
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Don't stop planning 2/17/2006
no matter what you encounter in life as you move on never
stop planning, ask God for wisdom to plan and keep up believing
in His power to make your way fulfilled in him
1 Comments, 11 Views,
4 Votes
,4.41 Score
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RULES FROM GOD 2/17/2006
1. WAKE UP!!!
Decide to have a good day.
"Today is the day the Lord hath made; let us rejoice
and be glad in it."
Psalms 118:24
<br>
2. DRESS UP!!!
The best way to dress up is to put on a smile. A smile is an inexpensive
way to improve your looks.
"The Lord does not look at the things man looks at.
Man looks at outward appearance; but the Lord looks at the
heart."
I ...
1 Comments, 33 Views,
3 Votes
,4.90 Score
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i want to leave my husband 2/16/2006
i have tried to do my best to make him happy but nothing seems
to help.he is always lieing to me and will never talk to me
about anything but work and that hurts me alot.i try and
tallk to him about my day and that just does not matter to
him at all he is always wanting to change the subject.we
do not even have a moment in the bdroom either. i love to be
cuddled and that is not there at all ...
6 Comments, 112 Views,
11 Votes
,0.74 Score
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Is Dating really God's way? 2/16/2006
Has anyone in our American society ever questioned the
concept of dating since the bible says to "test all
things?"...And since the bible never mentions it?
The bible also says we are to be immitators of Christ. So
the question remains: "How did Jesus go about getting
his bride?" I know that he never dated.
2 Comments, 71 Views,
4 Votes
,2.47 Score
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Giving When It Counts 2/15/2006
Many years ago, when I worked as a volunteer at a hospital,
I got to know a little girl named Liz who was suffering from
a rare and serious disease. Her only chance of
recovery appeared to be a blood transfusion from her 5-year
old brother, who had miraculously survived the same disease
and had
developed the antibodies needed to combat the illness.
The doctor explained the situation to ...
1 Comments, 32 Views,
11 Votes
,5.78 Score
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JUST LET HIM/HER GO!!!! 2/7/2006
Have you ever had a relationship with someone that didn't
act like the want you but surely didn't want anyone
else to have you either? They are charming, fun, good looking,
and know just what to say to make you smile and laugh. You
enjoy yourself with them but they never seem to be consistent
in the relationship. They leave you wondering if you really
have a relationship with them. They ...
0 Comments, 64 Views,
9 Votes
,5.14 Score
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My Resume, I Wonder Why I Can't Find A Job 2/5/2006
My first job was working in an Orange Juice factory, but
I got canned. I couldn't concentrate.
Then I worked in the woods as a Lumberjack, but I just couldn't
hack it, so they gave me the axe.
After that, I tried to be a Tailor, but I just wasn't
suited for it - mainly because it was a sew-sew job.
Next, I tried working in a Muffler Factory, but that was
too ...
1 Comments, 35 Views,
9 Votes
,3.21 Score
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DUMPED BEFORE WE GOT STARTED!!! 2/1/2006
Recently I met a gentleman online at one of those online
dating sites. We began to talk and share a little about ourselves
to one another. The first conversation was just about what
we were looking for and what our expectatons were.
He kept asking for a picture and I told him we would send them
together. It didn't happen so I didn't send one
either.
We had another ...
4 Comments, 95 Views,
2 Votes
,4.50 Score
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Don't Fight Evil w/out Christ 1/27/2006
"Whoever fights monsters should see to it that in
the process he does not become a monster. And when you look
into an abyss, the abyss also looks into you."
<br>
Friedrich Nietzsche
Beyond Good & Evil
0 Comments, 43 Views,
0 Votes
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Signs That You Are Getting To Old To Drive 1/23/2006
It takes more than four minutes to get out of your car.
When backing into a parking spot, you just back up
until you hear something.
It scares you to drive the speed limit.
The only thing you pass on the road anymore is the Amish.
You use cruise control because your leg fell asleep.
You inquired if the dealership could install magnifying
glass for ...
1 Comments, 19 Views,
5 Votes
,3.80 Score
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Why is love so hard? 1/13/2006
Why is it that when everything seems to be FINALLY be going
right in your life, something happens to bring you right
back down to the pit you were in at the very beginning?
<br>
I thought I had it all. I became a nurse at the age of 21. It
felt good to be so young and to have a stable career. I was
in the process of going back to school when my Daddy was killed
when he wrecked ...
6 Comments, 158 Views,
18 Votes
,5.99 Score
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Avoiding trouble and sorrow in life 1/12/2006
Many people seek to have peace in life and to avoid trouble
and sorrow. To achieve this has only one way to seek God through
Christ. For he that seeketh anything else other than God
and the salvation of his soul through the death of Jesus
Christ, will find nothing but trouble and sorrow. But he
who seeks God will find God and the Joy of savation.
1 Comments, 10 Views,
1 Votes
,2.40 Score
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Cowards 1/10/2006
I had a life changing break-up a few years back. The experience
left me very vunerable, angry, hurt, depressed, confused,
and insecure. I thought this person was the one.
<br>
He was a scientist. We hit it off as friends and as the year
pass we became even closer. By the end of the first year we
begin to talk about marriage and how long we wanted to wait
before we walk down the ...
0 Comments, 63 Views,
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Another Easy Lesson That You Can Explain To Your 1/6/2006
For this lesson you will need a table, a glass or cup and some
water. Start the lesson by filling the glass or cup with
water up to the brim. Next go to the side of the table so your
can see you and the glass or cup and just nudge the
table enough for the water to spill over the side. Then say
that something besides water spilled out of the cup, like
for me I would say that my diet coke ...
0 Comments, 41 Views,
8 Votes
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Nothing is sure.... 1/3/2006
I got a mango in my garden...sweet as can be...full of mystery, from
the original tree ..to share with you.....and the world
is full of seasons of anquish, of laughter....And it comes
to mind to write you this...nothing is sure ..nothing is
pure...and no matter who we think we are, we all get a chance
to be nothing.So many miles...so many doors.Some need
patience, some need force...all fall ...
1 Comments, 84 Views,
7 Votes
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Knowing That God has plans for you 12/29/2005
there is not doubt that God knows the plan for our lives.
I think the question is if we are aware that he knows. Because
if we are, we wont say somethings we say and do somethings
we do. we would only love him and believe that He knows the
best plan for our life. then we could aba
1 Comments, 23 Views,
0 Votes
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A bend is not an end 12/28/2005
A bend is not an end
A bend may seems like an end but it is never an end and whoever
that is discourage by a mere bend on the road and turn back
will never get to his or her destination. So people of God
move through the bend, for there is still a straight road
beyoind the bend on the road
1 Comments, 17 Views,
2 Votes
,2.42 Score
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Going back after a break up 12/28/2005
When theres a break up, I mean I real break up not an off again
on again relationship, I mean when both decide that they
should go their seperate ways and have been that way for...
lets say 3 months or more and the couple decide to get back
together.
Would that be a healthy relationship I mean we see it a lot
in the movies but what is the probability of that relationship
succeeding?
I ...
3 Comments, 88 Views,
7 Votes
,3.30 Score
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The past is not always harmful 12/26/2005
Even when the word of God wants us to move on forgeting the
pasty, it does not mean we should forget whatever that has
happened in the past. God wants us to remember the past but
only allow ourselves to be influenced by those positive
things of the past and be caution by the mistakes of the past
as where so that we can plan adequately for the future. The
past becomes harmful only when we ...
1 Comments, 30 Views,
1 Votes
,5.00 Score
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how to kee a good relationship 12/26/2005
How to keep on in a relationship
Recently I observed that why many people wish and hope for
a good relationship, the do not at the same time prepare
themselves for such desired relationship of peace, joy,
and great love under the shodow of God. This the do by always
expecting the other party in a relationship to be the one
contacting, they are too busy to send a hi or hello mail,
they ...
1 Comments, 30 Views,
1 Votes
,2.40 Score
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Be kind- say goodbye 12/22/2005
When you are breaking up with someone- be courteous. Remember
that person has feelings too. They are flesh and blood like
you are. If a person is nice- and just not the right one- don't
hide behind an email that you never answer. Say goodbye
with kindness. The wrong one is still a person too.
2 Comments, 52 Views,
8 Votes
,5.10 Score
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this is my first article that i can write for my darling 12/18/2005
dear my darling,
i can't talk to you "I love you" but i feel
happy and i can do any thing for that.
1 Comments, 31 Views,
3 Votes
,1.96 Score
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Who WE trying to Fool 12/14/2005
Looking for a woman/man that is well built, sexy, tall
and handsome, cute that is (pick 1) white/Black/other
decent. I am looking for the man/woman that God has for me.
<br>
How many times have you read a intro like this? Well let me
ask you one thing.........Who You trying to Fool?
<br>
God may have had someone for you until you just put limits
on him.
<br>
Most ...
3 Comments, 78 Views,
9 Votes
,5.78 Score
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It can be good for you 12/11/2005
Are you in a dating relationship where you just know that
your date is not the right one? Ending it as soon as possible
is best for your emotional health. So- it can be good for
you. Why prolong the agony for both of you. You only hurt
both of you to continue seeing each other.
1 Comments, 43 Views,
7 Votes
,4.57 Score
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You can do all by taking them one step atfer 12/9/2005
You can done all by taking them one step after another because
attempting them all at the same time leads nowhere. In fact,
No one can fully execute or finish any of all his vissions
and goal when he wants to execute them all quickly and within
same time. But the only one who does and execute all his vissions
and goal with great success is the one who impliment and
execute them one step at ...
1 Comments, 21 Views,
1 Votes
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breaking up 12/4/2005
breaking up is pain weather with love one, , or
friend.it painful even to think about it.
1 Comments, 47 Views,
3 Votes
,2.45 Score
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Wolf in sheep clothing will walk and smell different. 12/1/2005
I married a man that claim to be a Ordain Minister . I really
thought he was one of the sheep even though my spirit kept
saying different. This was my 1st marriage and his 5th(should
have checked him out). After being married for 4 months
he has filed for a divorce on March 10, 2005. This was also
something that he is use to doing when he is not happy(I forgot
to mention he has lots of ...
7 Comments, 314 Views,
17 Votes
,3.83 Score
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~*~*~ Snow Angel~*~*~ 11/28/2005
* * * Snow Angel * * *
<br>
Sleigh bells ringing
I hear the sound
of ’s laughter
somewhere
in the distance
a choir is singing
Silent night
<br>
people walking on their way…..
Smiles in greeting…
while passing on the street
As I walk on,
I hear the sound of snow
crunching beneath my feet….
<br>
<br>
...
1 Comments, 87 Views,
10 Votes
,4.78 Score
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Love is not hard 11/26/2005
I saw a post asking why is love so hard. But i find out that
love is never hard as the bible teaches but our greet and
selfishness made it seems it is hard. When we truelly love
and willingly express it love is so simple and interesting.
1 Comments, 31 Views,
3 Votes
,3.43 Score
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Goodbye means Hello...? 11/15/2005
Breaking up is easy. All you have to do is go your
separate ways, and by this time, the anger and sadness will
help you to this task. It's starting over that is the
hard part. Because every thing you have been through in
all your relationships lingers. The hurt, mistrust, resentment,
and (GOD forbid) the anger. All these things are in your
mind and even your heart, how can you bounce ...
0 Comments, 93 Views,
16 Votes
,4.01 Score
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break up don't mean enmity 11/7/2005
when you break up relationship, it should not be an occassion
for enmity because he or she whom you are breaking up with
is still a brother so don't become enemy because both
of you could not get along anymore.
1 Comments, 58 Views,
4 Votes
,4.80 Score
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Why not be honest? 10/10/2005
When choosing to break up with someone, why do some people
simply stop communicating? When you have an established
relationship, have been seeing each other for some time,
maybe engaged, it's been serious, then all of a sudden
one person just disappears and doesn't answer the
phone or emails anymore, and if you do run into them they
don't have an answer to why they don't talk to you ...
2 Comments, 131 Views,
17 Votes
,5.95 Score
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WHAT DO YOU DO IF YOU CAN'T TRUST NO ONE ELSE AFTER SEVERAL BREAKUPS. 10/10/2005
What do you do if can't seem to trust nobody after several
break ups?Is the question that puzzles so many.
After many break ups you feel you can't love and trust
again.You build walls of mistrust and suspicion around
yourself which can't allow anyone to come too close
because of the fear of being hurt again.If those walls are
not broken it may lead to loneliness.The only way you can
break ...
1 Comments, 157 Views,
22 Votes
,5.41 Score
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Forgiving is a totally selfish act, but one we should all make a part of our lives every single 10/5/2005
moment.
We are told to love our neighbour as ourselves, okay, so
when we do something we are not supposed to do, and none of
us can say we have never done any harm to anyone ever, so,
how come we do not hurt ourselves or cut off the hands or do
something harmful ?
Because we would never hurt ourselves.. so if we see someone
who hurt us.. as we see ourselves, then it would be ...
1 Comments, 69 Views,
4 Votes
,4.02 Score
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Brighter Future 9/30/2005
I just went through a break up with my girlfriend of 6 years.
She came to me on a Friday and told me that we had to talk. After
we talked she said she was ending the relationship. She
said she loved me but could not be with me. I went through
a rough two weeks. The only thing that helped me get through
my break up was giving it to God. When I focused on him, he
gave me peace. A week later I ...
0 Comments, 111 Views,
10 Votes
,5.18 Score
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An Honest Answer 9/26/2005
"An honest answer is like a kiss on the lips"
Proverbs 24:26
It would be great to know the motives of others who are seeking
a relationship online. Are people seeking revenge, relief
or the illusive attraction? If the truth were known I suspect
it would save a LOT of heartaches. Deeply pondering my criteria,
my listed qualities, my hope for specific character traits,
what ...
2 Comments, 96 Views,
9 Votes
,6.42 Score
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GOD'S BLESSINGS ON OUR WORK 9/10/2005
“You did not choose me, but I chose you and appointed you
to go and bear fruit--fruit that will last. Then the Father
will give you whatever you ask in my name.” - John 15:16
GOD’S BLESSINGS ON OUR WORK
<br>
Were you ever chosen last? Were you ever the one no one wanted
on his or her team?
Isn't it remarkable that God chose us in Jesus Christ! ...
0 Comments, 44 Views,
10 Votes
,3.39 Score
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It's Hard To Do 8/26/2005
As an unmarried Christian, one of the hardest things to
do well is end a dating or courting relationship. But, with
a little extra communcation and effort to be on the same
page from the begining, the end of a relationship can be
as much of a blessing as it is a trial.
Part of our problem is that we don't have the same understanding
of what the relationship is in the first place. ...
2 Comments, 79 Views,
20 Votes
,7.59 Score
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Female view needed on this. Men welcome to comment too. 8/26/2005
I 've known this girl at work (Robbin) for 9 months now,
though we've only been going out for just over 3 months.
She had a b/f at the time, but would always complain about
him being overweight, have no energy, not that attractive,
snored, could barely form sentences, etc, etc. she never
had b/f's in high school. She's ok looking, nice
shape, and blonde hair. I usually date more attractive ...
0 Comments, 36 Views,
101 Votes
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Stay-at-home-wife 8/25/2005
I have been doing research into what it takes to be a stay
at home wife and mother and have come across one article
where the writer speaks on Titus 2:4, 5. I will be the first
to admit that I have not gotten very far. Does anyone else
have any insight for me? Any verses? Thanks
1 Comments, 16 Views,
1 Votes
,1.10 Score
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After 20(!) yrs together can it be that bad???!!! 8/3/2005
I've read so many of the responses to this subject and
some made me mad because they made me mourn my 20 year relationship
with someone that I sincerely believed was an answer to
a prayer. So many things in our life were what others called
coincidental. But I believed they were ordered STEPS by
God. The responses I read brought me back to pleasant memories
that I could no longer share. I ...
1 Comments, 104 Views,
7 Votes
,3.30 Score
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Wonders Never Cease 7/29/2005
I read a really great post by another Big Church member who
wrote about falling in love with a non-believer. I found
myself smiling as she broke down her experience under those
circumstances - it was all too familiar!
<br>
I remember back in college when a guy I was dating met me at
my dorm to walk me to class. His eyes scanned the books of
my shelves and when he saw my Bible and ...
3 Comments, 225 Views,
15 Votes
,6.04 Score
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The thing that can bring break-up 7/16/2005
One of the numerous things that can help parties in a relationship
to get along without breaking up is to be able to seek and
identify any factor that can lead to break-up. When this
is done by both parties, they can be rest assured that they
will never have a break-up. But the fact is that many people
don't have the courage to accept the only thing that
can lead to break-up in a ...
0 Comments, 89 Views,
8 Votes
,3.25 Score
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The Honest Dishonesty 7/7/2005
When parties in a relationship sudenly stop to communicate
with each other, without telling each o the need to stop
communicating, it is jst the honest way of saying it is over.
But many would also see this as being dishonest in the sense
that there should have been a discussion, whether ormal
or informal about such impening break up, so that the two
parties woul be able to know their wrong ...
1 Comments, 76 Views,
5 Votes
,0.86 Score
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Banged up, Saddened? 6/29/2005
A LOVELY VALLEY - the Light of Psalm 46
God is my refuge, my rock, my strength.
A very present Help.
Jesus my sufficiency,
I bow to His Excellency.
<br>
My burden surrendered...
THERE, I receive His mercy.
In my weakness,
Trusting His authority,
His love cast out all fear.
Even as circumstances rage,
The perceived immovable...
Crumbled by His Word!
...
1 Comments, 54 Views,
2 Votes
,5.20 Score
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Moving On 6/26/2005
How is one suppose to move on after being destroyed emotionally?
My husband of almost 15 years informed me Christmas night
that he had fallen "in love" with someone else.
It was a total shock. He is gone a lot because of his job. The
last few weeks have all been a blurr. He has come home twice
to "try" to work things out but is not willing
to give her up. How do you ever get to the ...
3 Comments, 298 Views,
22 Votes
,3.85 Score
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The Agony & The Ecstacy 6/20/2005
It's been exactly one year since I broke up with my ex-boyfriend.
<br>
He hadn't crossed my mind until the other night when
I woke up, gasping. I'd had a terrfying nightmare that
he'd attempted to commit suicide. I saw him being rushed
in to an ambulance.
<br>
I woke up, shaken and trembling, grasping for my phone in
the darkness. I was so relieved it had been a dream! All ...
2 Comments, 191 Views,
12 Votes
,6.51 Score
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Love can sometimes hurt 6/17/2005
What do you do when you lose someone that meant so much to
you that you are left empty and aching? Why is it that when
love leaves, it hurts so much that you can't even cry?
What is the big deal about love anyway you mumble, seriously
considering that perhaps it's better to avoid loving
altogether!
<br>
By the very nature of loving, you open yourself up to possibilities. ...
1 Comments, 168 Views,
30 Votes
,7.55 Score
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The Hardest Thing 6/16/2005
The hardest thing in an inevitable break up is walking away
in a dignified manner and not stooping to verbal abuse and
mean petty pay backs aimed to hurt the other half but only
results in hurting one's self eventually. Then there
is the other extreme, where instead of wanting to inflict
as much pain and damage to the other party, the pain is inflicted
to self. This can range from mild to ...
1 Comments, 85 Views,
10 Votes
,3.78 Score
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When the other person does not say much. 5/25/2005
There is a book out that I have read recently about boundaries.
It is called 'Boundaries' by Dr. Henry Cloud.
A defanite read for anyone that wants a healthy relationship.
As a guy I asked this other person out and she was very pleasant.
Then I would call her at home and she sounded like she did
not want to talk. So I communicated by e-mail and wrote a
few notes to find one day it seemed ...
1 Comments, 116 Views,
11 Votes
,3.17 Score
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God, I Have a Question! 5/21/2005
Do you ever have questions - disturbing questions that
you have decided God MUST answer?
<br>
I have had some! In fact, I decided if God didn't answer
them, I would never come back to serving and worshipping
Him. That if He didn't profer answers and solutions,
I would go look up some other "God." You know
the feeling!
<br>
For me, I said 'No more, Lord!' I am tired of ...
1 Comments, 152 Views,
21 Votes
,4.36 Score
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God knows best! 5/17/2005
I would like to share with you what I have recently learnt.
GOD KNOWS BEST!!! Let me explain. I have known this all my
life, however, it has only become a reality in last 12 months.
I was engaged to marry this absolutely wonderful guy that
I loved very much. Through different circumstances we
broke up. I was so upset I thought that I could not go on, so
I leaned on God. It was the best ...
0 Comments, 130 Views,
23 Votes
,5.11 Score
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Coincidence? I don't think so! 4/26/2005
Warm Greetings!
<br>
A very remarkable occurence I will like for you to know about.
Let me say upfront that this really shouldn't be too
remarkable but because as Christians, we've allowed
ourselves be distracted, it is!
<br>
HERE IT IS: Just this evening, I entered my bedroom with
a list of questions for God. I was so weighted down I had to
ask Him why. Why was it that ...
1 Comments, 92 Views,
8 Votes
,4.64 Score
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If you love him set him free and watch him find someone new. 2/23/2005
How it all began seems strange now, but how it all ended still
leaves me breathless with pain. Sometimes I want to call
but I know I can't. I want to tell him I'm sorry if
I made him think I did not care. I have told him this before
but it was when the wound was fresh and I was desperate to
correct the horrible mistake I had made. At that time his
ego was crushed which to me seemed strange ...
0 Comments, 268 Views,
25 Votes
,4.57 Score
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Breaking up is hard to do... 2/20/2005
Especially if you are a christian and marriage is supposed
to be forever. But what does a person do when she is not in
love with her husband? Never was in love with him. He was
just a best friend when they married? How can one just up
and leave then? Or ask him to leave? HOW? This is where Iam
now. After 16 years I am finally ready to go and I don't
know how to tell him to leave, that it is ...
1 Comments, 39 Views,
45 Votes
,0.75 Score
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Natural Rhythm 2/20/2005
Listen to the rhythm you
can hear the natural psalm.
In Majestic silent mountains
and crashing of the sea
I see peaceful understanding
and it beckons unto me.
Behold the wonders of creation
in pealing colour'd song.
0 Comments, 5 Views,
1 Votes
,5.00 Score
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If your body gives out come live with me... 2/20/2005
Remember me always David
Take a part of me with you.
I am keeping a part of you.
I made a home in my heart
where you shall live
and be loved forever
I will shelter you there
Keep you safe.
Be with me still.
I will care for you.
You'll breath as long
as my heart beats,
Forever in my heart
A part of you shall live.
6 Comments, 110 Views,
14 Votes
,6.02 Score
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Life only play for you 2/12/2005
Life only play for you
<br>
You're only playing games
You life is only play
You can say, "I love you"
It cruel but not true...
2 Comments, 41 Views,
8 Votes
,0.70 Score
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What about G. Herpes? 2/5/2005
What about genital herpes? (or any other std for that matter)
<br>
As Christians and plain human beings, how are we to handle
finding someone that is a great person, loves the Lord,
could be a great mate for you, but not by their own fault had
contracted genital herpes? Do you go ahead and marry them
if it calls for it in the relationship, or should you not
consider that person to ...
1 Comments, 172 Views,
9 Votes
,3.00 Score
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Mother & Father 1/9/2005
There was a time I was happy in my life
There was a time I believed I'd live forever
There was a time I prayed to Jesus Christ
There was a time I had a mother
It was nice
<br>
Nobody else would ever take the place of you
Nobody else could do the things that you could do
No one else I guess could hurt me like you did
I didn't understand, I was just a
<br>
Oh ...
1 Comments, 59 Views,
12 Votes
,3.51 Score
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Darkness 1/3/2005
You say that we are evil
You say that we belive in satan
But have you given us a chance
<br>
You lock your doors when you see us
and give is evil glaces because we different
have you see us or do you look past us
<br>
you cover you like we steal them
and make us feel like out siders
but have you thought for a second
<br>
All we are in the eyes of Our ...
1 Comments, 71 Views,
10 Votes
,1.79 Score
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When love make you pain 12/27/2004
When love make you pain
<br>
When person
You love most of all
In this world
Cause pain for you
As knife in your heart…
And you suffer….
And he turns knife
In your heart
With every time…
<br>
When you feel
That he not love
How you love him
Blood flow down
From your soul…
And love ………Slowly ...
1 Comments, 49 Views,
9 Votes
,1.72 Score
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Is this breaking up thing 10 times harder that it was in out younget years 12/19/2004
Being so new to the dating thing for so many years I find many
relationships that are more and more difficult to break
away from. You know that there is not really a future for
you and him but you value the friendship and don't wwant
to let go of that, Seems I never practiced this seeing as
I married my highschool sweetheart and never had to say
goodbye, My X did all of the cutting ties, ...
4 Comments, 29 Views,
17 Votes
,5.81 Score
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Opportunity 12/6/2004
Breaking up is definately one of the hardest things to do.
It is a time you have to deal with a broken heart, confusion,
anger, and sometimes a sense of worthlessness. Within
all these emotions and heartache, there is one thing to
remember and cling to. That is that God lets things happen
for a reason, and most likely the breakup happened for a
very good cause. God wants to use these times ...
1 Comments, 87 Views,
25 Votes
,6.12 Score
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Hey wait a minute? 12/4/2004
I accidently posted this on this page, I was posting some
poems on the poem page, ,, Hey wait a minute since I'm
here and I read some of these articles, ,, ,I'd REALY
love to know something, ,, ,
How do some of you young ladies get away with this statment,
and I'm sure it's a popular one. I fell out of love?
If somone says they love you forever and you (me) accept
this confession, and ...
3 Comments, 21 Views,
3 Votes
,4.41 Score
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Another door 12/3/2004
Our lives are touched in many ways, by many people. Sometimes
the reasons that person is in our lives is misread and or
misunderstood. How I wish I could go back and open the doors
that I passed by, and keep shut ones that should not have
been touched at all. Loving someone is a silent choice made
by the heart. We cant fault others for our having loved them.
For, it is a road we alone have ...
2 Comments, 49 Views,
17 Votes
,6.10 Score
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