Life After Goodbye!!!
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Posted:Feb 17, 2006 2:45 am
Last Updated:Sep 3, 2006 7:10 am 3469 Views
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Dear Readers,,,
I have read a book about Life After Goodbye and i wanted to share these to you all...
"Parting is such a sweet sorrow" Such sweet sorrow... No matter what many of us say, it is extremely difficult to say goodbye. Whether to a friend, a neighbor, an officemate, a boy/girlfriend, it hurts just the same...
When we have shared happy moments with someone, it is hard to let go. It is painful to go through life without that person who shared precious moments with us. It reallt takes a lot of psyching up before we convince ourselves that it is ok to let go. Yet, no matter how prepared we sometimes feel, it still hurt so bad when the actual time to say goodbye comes...
There is no painless way to say goodbye. There simply is no easy way. Though we know that life is full of comings and goings, we wish the "goings" part would be less. The rationale is simple. Why do we have to meet someone only to let go in the end. Why do we have to established strong bonds only to be forced to severe them? It is truly very painful. Very frustrating. Very depressing...
Loving someone only to say goodbye in the end has a very damaging affect on an individuals. When we are forced to say goodbye, it is like a part of us have been taken away. It feels like a void has suddenly formed and no matter how hard we try to fill it, it just doesnt fill up...
Saying goodbye makes us feel very empty and hollow. It can even traumatize us. Wouldnt it be easier if we do not build relationships anymore so that we wont be subjected to the harshness of goodbye? Wouldnt it be more logical to just look at people as temporary "accessories" to the environment and thus building a relationship is not necessary?
Unfortunately, these are all impossible. People, no matter how hard they try to shun from relationships (whether platonic or romantic), will still come across someone who will create a great impact in their lives. Because of this, pain is reaped when it is time to say goodbye.
Life changes when we let go of someone we love. This is especially true if we are often with that person. The signs and sounds do not change. The places are familiar yet, strangely, they are extremely different. You have to learn to readjust to your surroundings...
Many questions run through the head of a person after bidding someone a sad goodbye. Questions like "how do you let go of the things you shared?" "Should you continue all your plans? Or should you forget about them? Saying goodbye is really disorienting!!!
But since we have no choice but to concede to the fact that saying goodbye is a part of life, we have to learn to deal with it. We have to make it less painful when it comes. Less painful? Yes, we can actually make this sad event bearable. Remember that when someone leaves, someone new will come along. This new person will probably be even better then this one you bid goodbye. That person will also give you joy, share precious moments with you, and renew your enthusiasm. Like the one you parted from, They will help you grow and mould your personality...
Although saying goodbye is painful, it shouldnt leave a bitter aftertaste. A friend will most likely say that it is the philosophy of an escapist, but we still have to believe that things happen for a purpose. While we still cant seen what the reason is, it will eventually manifest. And when it does, we will know that something as painful as a goodbye has to happen for us to grow...
It is okay to feel low. It is okay to be sad. These are natural reactions of a person who lost someone he/she loves. Dont force yourself to be happy when you're not. Dont rush the healing process. Let time heal the wounds. But do not tie yourself down to pain. Theres still life after goodbye. It may seem very final and conclusive, but a fresh start happens after a bitter goodbye. Nothing in the world is permanent- and that includes the pain you feel now. Look forward to that brand new start. Keep your hopes high and know that you will recover from this episode...
Envelope yourself with comfort from people around you. You shouldnt go through this alone. Know that there are people around you who love you in the same intensity as the person you said goodbye...
In time, you will forget the pain. You might even lose the painful memories. But never lose the lessons you learned and the happy memories you had of the relatiosnhip. Keep them with you and remember them when the time comes that you need a fond memory to cheer you up...
Hope you learned alot from what you have read...Dont lose hope... Remember theres still life after goodbye and whats important is that you have move on into another chapter of your life....
GOD Bless,
Christine
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HAPPY VALENTINE
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Posted:Feb 14, 2006 4:52 am
Last Updated:Feb 13, 2007 8:59 am 3380 Views
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We loved with a love that was more than love...
HAPPY VALENTINE'S DAY to all...
Especially to those who are inlove hehehe....
 Christine
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Restoring Broken Relationships!!!
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Posted:Feb 13, 2006 1:19 am
Last Updated:Jul 25, 2008 7:22 am 3578 Views
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I have read a book about restoring Broken Relationships and i wanted to share this to all of you...Its says that, In repairing a relationship, it's essential to realize that NO friendship is perfect, NO marriage is perfect, NO person is perfect. With the resolve that you are going to make a relationship work, you can develop peace treaties of LOVE and tolerance and harmony to transform a difficult situation into something beautiful....
JESUS Himself described for his followers what he came to do. He came to build a relationship with people. He came to take away enmity, to take away the strife, to take away the isolation that existed between GOD and man. Once he bridge that, once he overcome that, he said, "I will call you FRIENDS"...
So, LOVE each other deeply, because LOVE will cause many sins to be forgiven...
Hope you learned something about that...
GOD Bless,
Christine
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Plenty of Cash!!!
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Posted:Feb 12, 2006 8:49 am
Last Updated:Sep 3, 2006 7:16 am 3563 Views
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LIFE is more meaningful if you have plenty of CASH-
C- CHRIST
A- Assurance of
S- Salvation and
H- Holiness...
May you never run-out of CASH for the rest of your LIFE...
GOD Bless,
Christine
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JESUS stand up to the tests from the Devil!!!
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Posted:Feb 12, 2006 12:00 am
Last Updated:Sep 3, 2006 7:16 am 3422 Views
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Hello, my dear brothers and sisters in CHRIST,,,
I wanted to share with you this passage of the BIBLE, below. When I see that GOD, as JESUS, was able to stand up to the tests from the Devil, it gives me hope. There are many hardships in this life, that we all must deal with. The example of JESUS lets me know that. Each time JESUS is tempted, He uses scripture, for that is how we can stay strong!
The Temptation of JESUS (Matthew chapter 10, verses 1-11)
Then JESUS was led by the Spirit into the desert to be tempted by the devil.
After fasting forty days and forty nights, he was hungry. The tempter came to him and said, "If you are the of GOD, tell these stones to become bread." JESUS answered, "It is written: 'Man does not live on bread alone, but on every word that comes from the mouth of GOD.
Then the devil took him to the holy city and had him stand on the highest point of the temple. "If you are the of GOD," he said, "throw yourself down. For it is written: " 'He will command his angels concerning you, and they will lift you up in their hands, so that you will not strike your foot against a stone. JESUS answered him, "It is also written: 'Do not put the LORD your GOD to the test.
Again, the devil took him to a very high mountain and showed him all the kingdoms of the world and their splendor. "All this I will give you," he said, "if you will bow down and worship me." JESUS said to him, "Away from me, Satan! For it is written: Worship the LORD your GOD, and serve him only."
Then the devil left him, and angels came and attended him.
Blessings to you all,
Christine
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Inspirational Promises About LOVE!!!
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Posted:Feb 11, 2006 7:07 am
Last Updated:Mar 10, 2011 3:32 am 4029 Views
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I just wanna share this Inspirational Promises About LOVE which we can found in different verses in the BIBLE...
LOVE is patient and kind. LOVE is not jealous, it does not brag, and it is not proud. LOVE is not rude, is not selfish, and does not get upset with others. LOVE does not count up wrongs that have been done. LOVE is not happy with evil but is happy with the truth. LOVE patiently accepts all things. It always trust, always hopes, and always remains strong...1 CORINTHIANS 13:4-7
We know the LOVE that GOD has for us, and we trust that LOVE. GOD is LOVE. Those who live in LOVE live in GOD, and GOD lives in them...1 JOHN 4:16
The Father Himself LOVES you. He LOVES you because you LOVED me and believed that I came from GOD...JOHN 16:27
I give you a new command: LOVE each other. You must LOVE each other as I have LOVED you. All people will know that you are my followers if you LOVE each other...JOHN 13:34-35
For GOD so LOVED the world that He gave His only begotten , that whoever believes im Him should not perish but have everlasting life...JOHN 3:16
Hope you learned something about this wonderful Promises of LOVE...
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