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Living on the edge
Posted:Jan 2, 2018 8:05 am
Last Updated:Dec 9, 2022 11:20 am

Turbulent times await those who whoa upon the earth, welcome to the year 2018 where many say, This is the year we take the express elevator to Hell, Going down
personally, I say we got time left, But??? then again who knows maybe we are on
a final collision course to the final day

in any event as glum as that may sound to many of you reading this blog today
the good news is? that, Only means that the time to clean out the world's trash
problem is soon at hand

No more annoying neighbors, friends, family members Oh you'll miss them when they are gone just not the crap they put you through in life, Single men and yes
even the woman can finally relax, No longer needing to worry about who that
special someone is that was "Suppose" to be in their life a long time ago and
just never got there

the sick/dying healed - the end is near be vigilant
For a friend
Posted:Oct 11, 2017 9:40 am
Last Updated:Dec 9, 2022 11:20 am

A senseless act took you away, it left a void where doubts, fears and other things now linger in a wide-open void, I can mourn for your loss, weep for your family and curse the very man who did this to you

but I shall not, Instead, I will love the sinner/hate the sin, Pray for his soul to be saved and for him to make peace with you and God, though he lay unconscious in a Hospital bed. I still believe there is a way he can achieve the forgiveness deep in his heart

It will not take away the sting in our heart we will miss you so but in the end God called you home

Rest in peace my friend

Dedicated to the memory of Patricia who was taken away at the age 46 due to domestic violence
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Lean not on your own understanding
Posted:Oct 11, 2017 9:34 am
Last Updated:Oct 24, 2017 7:17 am

The world today is a living mess and with each new passing day it just seems to get worse and worse, Our natural curiosity is to figure it out then be capable of explaining this phenomenon to others to help them make sense out of all the
chaos around them

but is our job?? I'd like to think that if we understand things not seen we can in some capacity explain it to others struggling to make sense, But what if we can not make sense of it all? explaining is hard to do in that case,

My point here today is?

lean not on your own understanding, what we can do to help others in need even if it is a fraction is just as much a help, Let there be no lingering doubts as to you having played your part, We're all in the fight and when everyone does there part the whole thing comes together like a well-laid plan
Posted:Sep 3, 2017 4:46 pm
Last Updated:Dec 9, 2022 11:20 am

In life, they say for it is better to give than receive and I agree, the look of unexpectedness on a recipient's face, When you "Bless" them with some
thing they never thought was coming? Is worth more weight than that of

one night Tonya and I wanted 7/11 it was pretty late, but when the urge
for munchies hits, You go for the satisfaction of cravings, Upon our
arrival there was a homeless man standing outside panhandling for
money, Didn't smell any good, Tonya took an immediate heart to
this guy and asked if "we" should help him?

I left it in her hands (to see what she would do. long story short! she
passed with flying colors, the man got food, drink and I believe there
was a desert in there?

and that comes to the point of my blog today

When we aim to help the down trodden, we should not look for any
return. Jesus spoke of this in? Matthew 6:3

But when you give to the needy, do not let your left hand know what your right hand is doing, so that your giving may be in secret. And your Father, who sees what is done in secret, will reward you. And when you pray, do not be like the hypocrites. For they love to pray standing in the synagogues and on the street corners to be seen by men. Truly I tell you, they already have their reward.…

To often we think the reward comes when someone else gives back via
money or something of materialistic value, However sometimes the real
giving is way better, so the next time you give? remember to think that
it pleases the father rather than looking for a hand out reward in return
What do you got to lose?
Posted:Jul 16, 2017 1:40 pm
Last Updated:Jul 17, 2017 4:12 am

Let's face it! Dating websites are a crap shoot, You may hit upon
Mr/Mrs wonderful, which turns into the long lasting marriage you
have always dreamed of? or, You find a long lasting friend that you
chat with having it never turn serious at all

so what about the missed opportunities?

Since, being on here, 89 have viewed me, several hotlisted
me, 1 has only come into communication with me, Could
this current blog jinx my next chances? we shall see

till then let's carry on

Of the (X) numbers of members here currently free or are
paying for the service via some plan a month, There is No,
mistaking that more than half the profiles will either go un-
noticed. Or. simply ignored by others who may take a quick
moment out to read the profile. Before moving onto the next
if there is a next of course

please do not get me wrong,

It is nice to have a woman who views my profile, sort through the
various pictures I've posted! (yes that is my mug) But why stop there?
dropping a line to find out more, May uncover more than you really
expected in the first place

common interests, movies, tv shows, books, sports, there are all
sorts of things that are freakishly similar when looking for the
mate you've always dreamed of

The 1 I have communicated with thus far! happens to be a nurse
my grandfather happened to be a doctor, Now, how would she or
I have known that, Unless someone took a chance to extend out
the Olive branch?

we wouldn't so allow me to encourage you to reach out! even if it
does not turn out to be the one you are meant to be with for the rest of your life! The least. we can do? talk with as many as we can, go from there

You do this and I guarantee

you will never be sorry you did, so quit being a stick in the mud
as Nike suggests |

Just do it

so do it already and be sure to drop a line telling us how
it went when you did?
Empty Void
Posted:Jul 9, 2017 4:00 am
Last Updated:Sep 3, 2017 4:35 pm

If you can never be happy when you are poor, then how can you
truly be happy when you are rich? - me

I've seen relationships come/go like the breeze! sometimes they
go because our expectations of the other are too high! Take my
last relationship - Please

we met online through E-Harmony by the 12th of September
she came down to the Lutheran Church in Hartford CT, to hear
the group I was in at the time lead worship


we talked for what seemed like for hours, she drove me home
then headed back to her home an hour away, During the course
of this relationship/courting period

It became clear we liked each other, things were good, few bumps
nothing major, There was, however, one thing wrong? Expectations
I understood she wanted me to work, get a car (eventually) even be
able to come out more often to see her

I did travel out her way via a bus, even took trips back to her
location. Staying quite often for long periods of time, That I
am afraid was not enough for her
it seemed to continually be about wanting more, An empty void
of things that could never fill the gap, she was really looking for?

April of last year,

She sent a Dear John text message, announcing that the relationship had to end, Rambled off a few things, As to why she felt it needed to end! But in the
end, it does not take material things to make one really happy

not a house, car, large bank account, A nice smile, Pretty looks,
Or buying of material possessions, Cars, diamonds, To make one

“Do not store up for yourselves treasures on earth, where moths and vermin destroy, and where thieves break in and steal. But store up for yourselves treasures in heaven, where moths and vermin do not destroy, and where thieves do not break in and steal. For where your treasure is, there your heart will be also. Matthew 6:19-21

My hope for you all is

To find the one you have been looking for? but do not fill the void
with the things you do not need, Enjoy the love you share with each
other. Let there be laughter, Joy, Peace, Not an empty void that can
never be filled by the things the world tells you, That you need in
order to have a successful, Long lasting marriage/life
Looking for love in all the wrong places
Posted:Jun 9, 2017 2:11 pm
Last Updated:Jun 16, 2017 11:01 am

One of the countries most prolific tunes is Johnny Lee's only hit (see title) I say that because of the world we live in today. It's a testament. To the lengths, we'll go to try and find Mr/Mrs right? Take the story of a former neighbor who moved in after the previous tenants moved out

Young, blonde quite attractive, I'm pretty sure that she married at an early age feeling like. This is the man who she'd be married to for the life of her. Things eroded as the marriage went along, Didn't stop them, From having 2 amazing now fully grown. 1 day needing some fun/excitement she decided to? Go out with her friend for a "Girls night out" The husband having now become a full dictator instead of a loving caring husband

ordered her home by a certain time!

That time came/went, when she arrived home he proceeded to beat her up, For? having come home so late, I never have seen the bruises, he left, She took pictures for what I believe was? To show Police of course they were never called,

Later on

they moved to a house, Were, He cheated on her, She returned the favor and did the same back to him.

Looking for love in all the wrong places

so what can you do to avoid this same issue?

* Pray - The Bible says Pray often without ceasing it is easy to become discouraged when things aren't changing right away. Hang in our timing
is but a mere fraction to the actual time spent answering our needs

* Listen - Our golden opportunities come when we least expect it
that small still voice may be saying? Over there, Pay attention to the


* Trust - the #1 killer of seeds is our interference, Remove yourself from the throne of your heart. If in God you trust? Then let him work, He doesn't need
us putting our hands into the mix

He supplies our every need, according to our daily walk, His grace is sufficient,
his mercy is renewed, His love never fails, It neither leaves nor forsakes us in
our desperate times, His Grace is everlasting

now stop looking for love in all the wrong places

He's got this NO worries

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