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I tag Reallysaved,Allamazed,Wright,Proverbs22, Poetic gent and Friendlychat.

"OTHER RED FLAGS"
Posted:Jun 10, 2006 8:32 pm
Last Updated:Jun 24, 2006 7:42 pm
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I POSTED TWICE ON WEBLING'S BLOG ABOUT RED FLAGS AND WAS DELETED BOTH TIMES.I FEEL THAT A FEW THINGS SHOULD BE SAID ON THIS ISSUE.MOST OF US HERE ARE DIVORCED.DO YOU GO THROUGH ANY DIVORCE WITHOUT PAIN? WEBLING REFERS TO PEOPLE THAT TALK ABOUT THE PAIN THEY'VE GONE THROUGH,AS UNHEALTHY AND CONTROLLING.HE SAYS THEY SHOULD'NT DWELL ON IT.WHO IS TO SAY WHEN ANOTHER IS HEALED FROM THE PAIN AND SUFFERING THEY HAVE ENDURED? HE SAYS,"IF A PERSON'S BEHAVIOR IS SUCH THAT IT CAUSES OTHERS TO TREAT THEM BADLY,WHY WOULD ANYONE WANT TO BE AROUND THAT PERSON ANYWAY."...NO ONE DESERVES TO BE ABUSED! AN ABUSER FEELS SO BADLY ABOUT THEMSELVES THAT THE ONLY WAY THEY CAN FEEL BETTER IS TO BELITTLE SOMEONE ELSE. MOST OF US ARE IN THE HEALING PROCESS.IT HELPS US TO TALK ABOUT IT.THATS WHY WE'RE HERE,TO HELP OTHERS.I WOULD SAY THAT A BIG RED FLAG IS SOMEONE WHO THINKS THAT THE ABUSED PERSON DESERVES IT!ANOTHER QUOTE; "GOD WANTS US TO BE UP-LIFTING AND CONSTRUCTIVE,NOT TO TEAR DOWN AND BE DESTRUCTIVE." AN ABUSER TEARS DOWN AND SHOULD NOT BE LIFTED UP AS THE "GOOD GUY"!!! JUDY
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" CAN BE SOOO FUNNY!!!"
Posted:Apr 8, 2006 5:02 am
Last Updated:Jun 11, 2006 5:07 pm
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My three year old grand- went with her mother to a baby shower last week.When she saw the pregnant woman,she asked her mother "why is that woman's stomach so big?" Her mother told her"that's where the baby is.My grand- looked puzzled for a while and then looked up at her mother and said "she ate a baby?."Her mother explained that daddy had planted a seed there and it grew into a baby.My grand- said""OH NO". Her mother asked " whats wrong?"and she said"I swallowed a seed."
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"HOW SATAN MAKES YOU SIN"
Posted:Apr 7, 2006 9:18 pm
Last Updated:Jun 24, 2006 7:39 pm
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The devil focuses on our strongest need and desire.He knows your weakness by watching the choices you make,the things you habitually show an interest in.He will lie to you in two ways about the needs in your life.First he tells you that you have a need that God can't meet.Second,he tells you that he is capable of meeting your need.He doesn't tell you the full truth about his capability to meet your need.Rather,he holds out evidence that he can meet your need.You need more excitement? Here,try this.You have a physical need?Here,this is for you. He won't tell you what adultery will do to your marriage,your ,your reputation.He won't caution you that sex can lead to an unwanted pregnancy,or that abortion will scar you for life emotionally.He won't remind you that alcohol leads toliver disease,nicotine leads to lung cancer.The devil never tells the full consequences of any sin---he holds out only for immediate self-gratification
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FINALLY...I THOUGHT NO ONE CARED!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Posted:Apr 6, 2006 8:12 am
Last Updated:Jun 11, 2006 5:08 pm
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Sorry folks that I don't have a picture yet. Its coming soon.I think there's still one in "Poems" under "ALONE AM I".I tag...........Reallysaved,Allamazed,Wright,Proverbs22,Poetic gent and Friendlychat.My response is on AnneMaries blog.Love you all!
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