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Neet2005
(Anita P.) 61F

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12/23/2006 4:33 am

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Martha or Mary?

Are you a Martha or a Mary?

I used to be a Martha, concerned for details. As I have grown older I have stopped stressing over the little things and learned to relax.

I can work hard when hard work is necessary, but for the most part dust bunnies and unevenly baked cakes don't get to me anymore.

I don't mind leaving the dishes to soak instead of scrubbing them the second they get used; or hanging around in my grubbies when I know I will just be hanging around alone.

Now some people would view this as I am just getting lazy because I won't slave myself as hard as they do.

I don't think trying to relax and enjoy life rather than always striving for a sterile environment is so bad.

At one point in my life I used to get bent out of shape over every little jot and tittle, now, tidy is nice.

Just thought I would get your opinion on the matter.

Oh, yeah, here is the story of Mary and Martha so you can understand what I am referring to:

Luke 10:38 Now it came to pass, as they went, that he entered into a certain village: and a certain woman named Martha received him into her house. 39 And she had a sister called Mary, which also sat at Jesus' feet, and heard his word. 40 But Martha was cumbered about much serving, and came to him, and said, Lord, dost thou not care that my sister hath left me to serve alone? bid her therefore that she help me. 41 And Jesus answered and said unto her, Martha, Martha, thou art careful and troubled about many things: 42 But one thing is needful: and Mary hath chosen that good part, which shall not be taken away from her.

Indescribeable 66F

8057 posts
12/23/2006 6:24 am

Oh, I love this story, Anita. I can so much relate to your new demeanor. I use to be a Martha, but my Mary demeanor is not lazy, but I can say that my priorities have been re-arranged as I am sure yours have also. Have a happy holiday with your hubbie. Sheri

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Rebekka 77F

12/23/2006 6:26 am

I liken myself to Mary........sitting at the feet of Jesus.
Elizabeth

Isaiah5550 74M

1423 posts
12/23/2006 7:49 am

God grant you His peace...the appreciation of the BIG picture and NOT the minute details of all the pieces...

soaringwithchris
(stephen m. ) 67M

12/23/2006 12:43 pm

Just stopped by to say, Merry Christmas, Anita. By the way, I used to be just like you.
Now, when I get around to cleaning stuff, I appreciate it more. I haven't washed my car for over a month, it needs vacuumed, and the windows have those wiper marks. I keep things tidy now around the house, but I don't care if stuff is spotless. Better things to do in life! GBY, and thanks for being such a good friend this year. (Soaring with Christ and Chrissy)