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Blogs > ICorinthians13 > GOD'S GALLERY


ICorinthians13 66F
726 posts
6/13/2007 2:18 pm
Can Married Couples Do ANYTHING THEY WANT IN THE BEDROOM?
A couple is married.They both agree to it. Can they do ANYTHING in the bedroom--including sado-masochism?Or are there limits?
Anything,as long as they both agree
"Lovemaking" should have a few boundaries, even in marriage


EphesiansSub 64F
1 post
6/23/2007 4:46 am

 Paul also said if they marry, they do not sin.


spiceangel15212 60F

6/20/2007 10:37 am

 Recently I have seen on tv that "stripper poles in the bedroom" is a new craze. I wonder what people feel about this? Is it ok, as a visual stimulation for your mate? Or is there a fine line here as well? Can I add this to the poll?

Also what about talking graphic to your mate? Some people are comfortable with it, and some find it repulsive.


ICorinthians13 replies on 6/30/2007 8:43 pm:
Sure, we can add stripper poles to the...uh...poll.
What does everyone think about that? Is it okay? Or is
this where "love"making ends? And would it lead to the
temptation for one or the other mate to go to a "real" strip
joint?

spiceangel15212 60F

6/20/2007 10:24 am
    Quoting  :
People are raised with different views of sex. Many people(even Christians)from what I hear/read discuss fantasies with their partners. I'm not condoning fantasies-I'm just stating a fact. Some people believe that oral sex is dirty, and some people don't. The problem is that the Bible is not too specific about what is allowed.


ICorinthians13 replies on 6/30/2007 8:47 pm:
You're right, the Bible ISN'T too specific. Does that mean
that, as long as no adultery is committed--physically OR mentally--
God doesn't really care WHAT married people do in the privacy of
their own bedroom??

spiceangel15212 60F

6/20/2007 10:19 am
    Quoting aloveableguy:
    As Christians part of what we should do is follow the principle Paul expoused in Philippians 4:8, Finally, brethren, whatsoever things are true, whatsoever things are honest, whatsoever things are just, whatsoever things are pure, whatsoever things are lovely, whatsoever things are of good report; if there be any virtue, and if there be any praise, think on these things.

    If we do that in the bedroom part of our married life then all things should work out well.

    In my view there ARE limitations, for instance i see no room for violence, no room for including a 3rd person, not even with both partners consenting.
Everyone has different sensitivity to degrees of pain-some people may find small drops of hot wax enjoyable, or ice-although that is not s&m

I think if it includes violence or degredation, it is wrong.

I agree with you about the 3rd person, but it seems that there is a fine line in some things??? Wouldn't watching porn also be considered including a 3rd/4th... person? I definately think it can be a form of fantasizing-or is this just another way for "visual" people to be stimulated?


muckyducky 45F
1 post
6/17/2007 9:49 pm
    Quoting  :
ummm.....HUH?!?!?!

I need some clarification in this post.
I am not quite certain if this is a statement or a question.


Virtuous71979
(Kerri ) 44F

6/17/2007 5:14 pm

 you all keep referring to "S&M". what does that stand for?? i think i lost track by reading everyone's responses.


ICorinthians13 replies on 6/30/2007 8:52 pm:
When I(I Cor. 13) talk about S&M, I'm talking about the giving
and receiving of pain for intensifying sexual gratification.
There are different levels, of course.
To some people, the handcuffing-one-person-to-the-bed routine is
S&M, even though no one might actually experience physical pain.
To other people, S&M isn't S&M unless you get out the whips or knives.

DixieMedic
(Melissa Anthony) 51F
40 posts
6/16/2007 5:36 pm

 Don't do it...unless you want to spend time in therapy, jail, or someplace else you don't want to be.


aloveableguy 75M
Ask me for a photo

6/16/2007 6:04 am

 As Christians part of what we should do is follow the principle Paul expoused in Philippians 4:8, Finally, brethren, whatsoever things are true, whatsoever things are honest, whatsoever things are just, whatsoever things are pure, whatsoever things are lovely, whatsoever things are of good report; if there be any virtue, and if there be any praise, think on these things.

If we do that in the bedroom part of our married life then all things should work out well.

In my view there ARE limitations, for instance i see no room for violence, no room for including a 3rd person, not even with both partners consenting.


Saphire3 56F
66 posts
6/14/2007 4:33 am

 Never been married so I may not have to experience to talk about this wisely but I believe what the bible says about the freedom we are given in Christ. S&M is heavy stuff and requires complete understanding for the two involved in marriage. Love should be the basis and the boundaries defined within it. What, where, why and when are questions to be answered by those God put together and information is vital for safety; so learn more to make an informed consent on S&M.
In my opinion, it is too heavy for me and its a no-go.
Jude 24-25. Amen!


sk2say 60M

6/13/2007 8:57 pm

 I love slutty sex in marriage (been in 15yr), but it carries a price (a tax) of been der dun dat .... and what was once great at first, becomes mmm, is it worth the EFFORT, lol


ICorinthians13 replies on 6/30/2007 8:58 pm:
I see what you mean...

walking_man
(Paul ) 85M
Ask me for a photo

6/13/2007 8:14 pm

 Whoa! The voting results surprised me a little after seeing the comments.

I agree with those who commented. And I guess it makes sense to me that those who voted for ANYTHING would not ahem... expose themselves here. I just wonder what else they may expose themselves to.


ICorinthians13 replies on 6/30/2007 9:02 pm:
Hmmm....Couldn't be that they kept their identities secret because
of a certain amount of---judgmentalism?Hmmm.....I wonder....

Independance
(Patricia ) 62F
Ask me for a photo

6/13/2007 6:30 pm

 S&M has no place in a godly marriage between christians, nor does marital .
Life is an adventure.


ICorinthians13 replies on 6/30/2007 9:05 pm:
What is your definition of marital ? Is that when one mate
forces the other? Or when the couple agrees to PRETEND that one is
the other? Or both?

crucified777 60M

6/13/2007 5:05 pm

 Marriage is honourable in all, and the bed undefiled: but whoremongers and adulterers God will judge....heb.13:4
Choose life,So that both you and your seed may live


ICorinthians13 replies on 6/30/2007 9:08 pm:
However, the poll has nothing to do with hookers or
adultery. It's between the husband and wife only. Now what?



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