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A FORMAL COMPLAINT ABOUT GORDY....WHAT DO YOU THINK ? I AM PUTTING IN A FORMAL COMPLAINT ABOUT HIM. HE HAS MADE SUBTLE THREATS AND I THINK HE COULD BE DANGEROUS...DO NOT LET THIS GUY KNOW ANYTHING PERSONAL ABOUT YOU. DOES ANY ONE BESIDES ME WANT TO PUT IN A COMPLAINT TO BC TO GET HIM OFF THIS SITE??  Isaiah 42:8 " I am the Lord; that is my name! And My glory I will not give to another, nor My praise to graven images." |
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Define "subtle threats". I kind of think that if you find a person bothersome, everyone should just completely ignore them and they will go away. It takes at least 2 to carry on an argument. Not many people will keep yammering on into silence. Perhaps he revels in the attention? Besides, just like determined scammers, all he need do is create another identity and come right back. Nothing accomplished by having him removed from the site except perhaps incite more vitriol. I've watched some of the round-and-round comments and blogs about him and from him--what a waste of energy that could be spent in loving, intelligent conversations. Just a thought. Eons ago, when I had the youth and smarts to be able to follow chat room conversations without getting my eyes crossed and losing my mind, I regularly visited one for Christians, and found that every night, the non-Christians would come in and say some outrageous things so they could watch the Christians behave badly. Sadly, they were never disappointed. Personally, I wouldn't want to be like that.
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7/16/2008 10:54 pm |
Kim, i am slightly in agreement with Amanda on this one but i would like to know where he is coming from in his beliefs and why he chooses this site as he doesn't seem to enjoy the fellowship nor believe in it. He may have a heart but to me it isn't evident, Pete also has a point about law enforcement. Blessings Kim Gods way is my way,...Clay
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Kim, i am slightly in agreement with Amanda on this one but i would like to know where he is coming from in his beliefs and why he chooses this site as he doesn't seem to enjoy the fellowship nor believe in it. He may have a heart but to me it isn't evident, Pete also has a point about law enforcement. Blessings Kim  Just kiddin! 
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This is illegal and BC can be sued for letting this behaviour persist...this is past annoying...he has made alot of threats but many have banned him so the evidence is gone. In Canada making threats is called assault level one. Written threats are worse.... verbal abuse is a crime!!! I am going to report him...anyone else?? I dont care what ones problem is you do not talk to people like this. Gordy quotes Inreference to Mia...Did you contact Rhonda? Someone do that yet? For some woman here at BC it IS the end of their world you asshole. Told you it's NONE OF YOUR BUSINESS WHY- and the best you can do is laugh? screww you "christian". AND YOU TOO "MOM TO BEAGLES". "MAKES YOU A BITCH" A IF WE TAKE YOUR HANDLE SERIOUSLY In reference to Clay You want to press your luck? Be a snide asshole some more. You have no clue whom you are or how wrong you are to even open your mouth at this point. About ANYTHING but asking how to help. "christian man" indeed. Be gone. This can and will be done without sinners like you Did you contact Rhonda? Someone do that yet? For some woman here at BC it IS the end of their world you asshole. Told you it's NONE OF YOUR BUSINESS WHY- and the best you can do is laugh? screww you "christian". AND YOU TOO "MOM TO BEAGLES". "MAKES YOU A BITCH" A IF WE TAKE YOUR HANDLE SERIOUSLY. Isaiah 42:8 " I am the Lord; that is my name! And My glory I will not give to another, nor My praise to graven images."
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I for one am complaining....those who feel the same then go for it. Isaiah 42:8 " I am the Lord; that is my name! And My glory I will not give to another, nor My praise to graven images."
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7/16/2008 11:11 pm |
Yes Kim, point taken, I hope you succeed Gods way is my way,...Clay
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Some are emailing me....others have put in complaints...watch out for him....unsafe....dont take his money.....Paw......signs are clear...be aware!!!! Isaiah 42:8 " I am the Lord; that is my name! And My glory I will not give to another, nor My praise to graven images."
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7/16/2008 11:17 pm |
Kim, Gordy may not be fluent in the love department but I know the whole side of the story and so does Clay,and Gordy and Mia knows Gordy does care about her.Gordy was trying to help someone in desparate need and he when pushed to the wall is human. You need to judge a situation by both sides. GBY Please remember to keep our soldiers in your prayers!!! Kristy
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Dont care...he has a record of this type of verbal abuse.....they will give him a warning...I know as I had to do this a year ago with another verbal abuser. He watched his P's and Q's after that. Everyone gets mad and spouts off sometimes but this guy is way out there... Isaiah 42:8 " I am the Lord; that is my name! And My glory I will not give to another, nor My praise to graven images."
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Offensive yes, "threats", maybe not so much. Sweethoney, has any of this been directed at you, or are you upset regarding what has been directed toward others? Mia and Clay don't seem nearly so angry. (I'm dangerously close to sticking my nose in where it doesn't belong here, so shutting up on that regard.) I'm curious, though. Why solicit the opinions of your fellow bloggers if your mind is made up and you "don't care" what they think?
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7/17/2008 12:59 am |
I feel soo left out of these arguments  Why aint no one bitching about meeeeeeeeeeeeeee *grabs the popcorn again*
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If others want to put up with it fair enough but I will not. We can disagree without abusive behaviour. Many people have banned him so you dont know all the other junk he has said. Like directed to me....if I was a Muslim I would find you and stone you..Something to that affect...but like I said I deleted him and so have others.... but from now on he crosses the line and is abusive....calling someone a bitch and press your luck ....thats awefully close to another threat. I dont scare easy.....have a rather extensive support system .... Isaiah 42:8 " I am the Lord; that is my name! And My glory I will not give to another, nor My praise to graven images."
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YOUNG53M Feel free to handle it if thats what you want...I know an abusive man when I hear one....I would be doing others a disservice by not warning them to be aware and protect themselves. By defending his behavior you are condoning it. Especially coming from women...how very sad. Isaiah 42:8 " I am the Lord; that is my name! And My glory I will not give to another, nor My praise to graven images."
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rich903 Hi Gordy...only obvious who you are....better watch your words on my blog bub! Isaiah 42:8 " I am the Lord; that is my name! And My glory I will not give to another, nor My praise to graven images."
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MomT Its a sin in Gods Kingdom to touch his beloved! Isaiah 42:8 " I am the Lord; that is my name! And My glory I will not give to another, nor My praise to graven images."
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"But we are bound to give thanks alway to God for you, brethren, beloved of the Lord" (2:13) We are not only brethren, we are beloved, "beloved of the Lord", because God "hath from the beginning chosen (us) to salvation through sanctification of the Spirit and belief of the truth". Isaiah 42:8 " I am the Lord; that is my name! And My glory I will not give to another, nor My praise to graven images."
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7/17/2008 2:58 am |
SweetHoney, After reading all that you said, and thinking about it, Im with you, I sent a complaint to BC. People just shouldnt have to put up with this kind of thing. Good for you for doing this. I will also ban him permanently from my blog this time. That is why people get away with doing these things, because other people put up with it. ...Not to mention, its actually doing a disservice to Gordy himself, by allowing him to act this way he has gotten the idea that its quite acceptable to act this way, throughout his entire lifetime, probably. And people arent doing him any favors by continuing to tolerate his behavior. ((((Hugs)))) Jn:14:15: If ye love me, keep my commandments. --Jesus.
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7/17/2008 4:56 am |
He is what is known as a forum troll. Just being obnoxious, name-calling like a Jr. High Schooler and just generally attacking people with no substance to offer. Isn't it obvious?
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Claudia, even though doctrinally we have differences you have more common sense than most people on the blogs.....example in point of two people who disagree and yet can be nice and hey...even be friends. Isaiah 42:8 " I am the Lord; that is my name! And My glory I will not give to another, nor My praise to graven images."
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Since I live in Canada I go by Canadian law. You say even a racial slur here in our fine land and you are looking at trouble big time!! Thats why we don't have alot of the same social issues as USA. We don't throw people away in prisons but rather deal with the underlining problems. I am doing a presentation next week on restorative justice. When some one commits a crime it is against the person and community. Gordy is violating BC community. We should have sentencing circle. To be mean to him ? No! To discipline him....as I said to Aslan, if he stopped stalking me and being verbally abusive then I would unban him...no repentance.....still banned. Greg on the other hand has repented...unbanned...we are even friends now and he is on my personal email. Point? It is not helping someone by allowing misbehavior. Don't any of you people have kids? I have had 5 children...praise God all the oldest are responsible and have jobs....no drug addicts or major problems...why? I confront attitudes and my big beef is disrespect. You give me lip and you grounded! Isaiah 42:8 " I am the Lord; that is my name! And My glory I will not give to another, nor My praise to graven images."
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Frazzy Wazzy...good to see you, my dear....all is well? Isaiah 42:8 " I am the Lord; that is my name! And My glory I will not give to another, nor My praise to graven images."
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Yendor....greetings......nice to see you. Isaiah 42:8 " I am the Lord; that is my name! And My glory I will not give to another, nor My praise to graven images."
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NJBeliever Just to let you know....I picked you as one choice in my blind date on OceanBlue122 blind date blog. Purely platonic dude so don't put your sneakers on!  Reason? I absolutely admire a man with guts and who stands up for his principles....this is the reason why I don't feel inclined to many BC guys.... I also picked Steve(godlycook) and Dennis, who is spoken for, my loss but some very blessed gals gain!! Not just that, you guys have such dignity when you speak up for what you believe in, don't resort to insane childish behavior that most (trust me, I know this) men pull to get their points across. Good to see you! Isaiah 42:8 " I am the Lord; that is my name! And My glory I will not give to another, nor My praise to graven images."
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Hello Pete, as usual you stand up for truth. Isaiah 42:8 " I am the Lord; that is my name! And My glory I will not give to another, nor My praise to graven images."
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Just to let all you gals know....Gordys picture may not be Gordy...don't be fooled by his looks...and even if he had looks there is certainly no charm to go with it.....watch out for that rich blogger guy, he is probably Gordy....what, I want to unban the guy to open myself up to his abusive language...I think not!!! If he came near me in my fair country he would find himself in the clink! Isaiah 42:8 " I am the Lord; that is my name! And My glory I will not give to another, nor My praise to graven images."
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