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Interpretation
(Darlene G)
57F
814 posts
5/16/2007 9:04 pm

Last Read:
5/22/2007 5:48 pm

Do you play nice?

Many people judge you according to who they want you to be, not who you are. Many people succumb to this idea and show the face of who they think they should be..contrary to what may be filtering through one's brain. lol

DISCLAIMER...This is not necessarily in reference to BC..it's life in general. Although it may not seem so, I do filter quite a bit.

That being said, how much of what slides past your brain actually comes out?
I only say what people want to hear...I want lots of friends, artifically obtained or otherwise.
I try to keep it mellow. I'm afraid what people will think if I completely speak my mind.
Every word I speak has been approved by God himself, so if you're offended, He wants it that way.
I tend to get my point across, but keep it nice...maybe cutting corners.
I'm completely honest but only with my close friends.
I say what comes into my head, but tone it down.
I lay it all on the table...too bad for you thin skinnned whiners.
Other condescending way to say that you'd never be blunt or rude that way.
Other other


_Frazzie 50F

5/17/2007 12:35 am

I was told once that I must subscribe to "on the brain and out the mouth"...


Interpretation replies on 5/17/2007 3:01 am:
LOL I feel ya. I have, though, put up a few roadblocks. The culture in Tampa is much different from what it is in Boston. They don't believe in straight-forwardness the same way here.
When in Rome...

Italian_sister
(Pat I)
70F
1788 posts
5/17/2007 4:50 am

I tend to tone down. Smaller causualty list.


moveinspace 87M

5/17/2007 5:52 am

I say what comes out of my mouth and brutally honest is the way to describe me. Yes it gets me in trouble sometimes, but I stay true to myself and you always know where you stand with me.


BlueEyedLady46 77F

5/17/2007 6:25 am

I have been told that I am too nice & too honest. The too nice part I don't really get but honesty is extremely important to be so what you see is what you get. LOL

I can do all things through Christ that gives me strength. Phil 4:13


Interpretation
(Darlene G)
57F
1316 posts
5/18/2007 12:55 pm

SO pretty much, most of the people who answered are fairly straight forward. The rest are still thinking and filtering. LOL


bluemoon6285 38M

5/18/2007 1:46 pm

I tend to keep my mouth shut. Otherwise, I'll stick my foot in it.


Windsage 61F

5/18/2007 1:54 pm

I dont know .. it would depend on the person and the situation .. some people I would be more straight forward with and others I would be more inclined to use 'kid gloves' with .. I think it depends on the person .. and situation ..

at times I can be a hell on wheels and others .. a bunny rabbit ..

I take each person and situation as they come to me ..

thought that IS the truth .. you DID ask what actually COMES OUT .. right??


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Randombird
(Melanie )
51F

5/18/2007 3:02 pm

It depends who the recipient is.

I am very open an honest...and people know me as that. They also know that the last thing I want to do is offend.

BUT if a truth IS a truth...then I WILL say it. But in LOVE.

What comes out? Usually the right thing! Sometimes not...I often speak BEFORE I think...or I think AS I am speaking!!!

With peace and blessings to you and yours in Christ. R. xx
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"For God so loved the world that He gave His one and only Son,
that whoever believes in Him shall not perish but have eternal life."
John 3.16


onamisionfromgod 58M
1317 posts
5/21/2007 6:38 pm

my first foot forward is always to be nice to people.

because of this,many times people will "TRY" to take advantage of me.

so then my second foot forward can be very tenacious,

so then my third foot forward can be like, i am a very nice person pleaase dont think i am mean..

so then my forth foot forward is like,oh well,i think you get the picture.........


Interpretation replies on 5/22/2007 2:52 am:
Sounds like a flip-flop LOL