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kevin22
(Kevin Murphy) 46M
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12/14/2009 9:35 am
What Communicate Love to Women? Part 3

What Communicates Love to Women? (Part Three) by Barbara Rainey The Song of Solomon 2:16
"My beloved is mine, and I am his."

Continuing my top 10 list of romantic things you can do for your wife:5. Written notes, letters or cards. Recently, I was cleaning our bathroom and I found an old note from Dennis: "Have you found all your little notes around that say how much I love you?" He had once left notes like this all around the house, and I had a great time searching for them. I had taped this one on a closet wall in the bathroom just to remind me what a wonderful husband I had.
4. Going out on a date. Again, a date means time away, with no , just the two of you. A wife likes to be the focus of her husband's attention. She enjoys having a block of time where she has him all to herself.
3. Having special meals together. You can put the to bed a little early and have a quiet candlelight dinner at home. You can pick up your wife at her office at noon and take her for a short picnic.
2. Touch. I'm not talking about sexual touch here, but hugging, cuddling, caressing without expectation of a later payoff.
Many women never received much physical affection from their parents. So they grow up with a longing for physical touch, and if all they get from their husbands is touch that is tied to sex, they will begin thinking, He really doesn't love me that much. He just needs me for his own pleasure.
And finally we come to the end of my list:
1. Flowers. Many men never understand the power of flowers on women, and I'm not sure if I understand it myself. I think flowers say, "You are special." I think perhaps it's because flowers are so frivolous-they will wilt and die in a few days, but for that brief period of time you see a constant bright reminder that your husband loves you.
You'll note that a few themes run through this list: Women want to feel special. They want you to show love without an expectation of sex. For women, romance = relationship.

Prayer:

That God will enable you to keep romance alive in your marriage.

Discuss: Again, look through this list and ask your wife which items most communicate love to her. Talk about the equation: romance = relationship. Agree/disagree?



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