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Blogs > christopher173 > frustrated


christopher173
(christopher sampsel) 50M
10 posts
12/29/2005 3:29 pm

Last Read:
3/5/2006 9:29 pm
AM I WRONG

Am I wrong for searching for Christian friends regardless of my marriage not going well or even the opposite sex. My purpose is to find friends and people who went through a divorce or is going threw one and can help me in my situation. it's HARD TO FIND GOOD PEOPLE TO TALK TO ANYMORE OR PEOPLE WHO STILL BELIEVE IN THE FAITH AND NOT JUDGMENTAL.Since I've been on this site I have met some nice people thank you guys for listening.

glamourgal 67F

12/29/2005 6:21 pm

 It is not for us to judge you. Your motivations for being on this site are between you and God. As long as you stay in His word, pray without ceasing and praise Him continuously, He will guide you.

You are right when you say it is hard to find people to talk to anymore. Especially Godly people. Most want to judge you for things they know not of.

You really have to be vulnerable if you want to share your heart with strangers. Some will be sincere but some will play on your emotions for their own gain.


savannahsmile
(Beverly B) 64F
21 posts
12/29/2005 9:19 pm

 Christopher, it isn't for us to judge you - that is true. If you're looking for people to advise you and support you - this seems to be the place.

I can't help but caution you in looking for validation outside of your marriage or your relationship with God. I don't know your situation but I do know that satan uses seemingly innocent intentions to turn our heads from the very things we should be focusing on. So the caution is this - be honest and pure in your thoughts and actions. Don't look to members of the opposite sex to lean on - seek out spiritually mature male mentors who can advise you. As long as you're married, looking for advise or consolation from the opposite sex is just going to muddy the water spiritually - your answers need to come from God, not man. God bless you.


Friendly402 61F

12/30/2005 6:30 am

 Christopher pray,and seek your answer's from God. Like the others
have said it's not for us to judge you, the only one that is to judge
us is Jesus himself. God bless you.




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