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Urban_Hermit 70M
324 posts
7/17/2017 2:34 am

To me it seems she was materialistic, I wont say a gold digger as she wouldnt have looked at you to begin with, however she wanted you elevated to a higher financial position. It seems to me in many cases men hope the woman they meet will never change, but the woman seem to always want to change the man, ask any married man. Dare I say it's about the money? Find someone who is happy with you as you are, if you cant dont worry. Single is less stressful in a lot of cases. When it comes to the later years of life why work yourself to death for another's agenda, especially if you are happy with your basic circumstances now. The Lord knows our needs. God bless.

Judgement Day will be interesting.


Sojourner06 60M
1768 posts
7/19/2017 11:44 pm

Hi Mike & Urban.

- I'm just wondering what you expect from a woman being your spouse?
- and what's her purpose in your relationship/marriage?

And what's your own purpose in such a relationship/marriage?

Blessings



Mogens

I Can Explain It To You, But I Can’t Understand It For You

Good News For Christian Man ABP

"REVELATION"


Sojourner06 60M
1768 posts
7/20/2017 4:42 pm

Hi Mike.

I think we all get that you want to make it clear for all to read and understand that you don't care for materialism.

But you only answered 33,3 % of my questions...

So let's try again. God created Adam, and afterwards He took a rib and created Eve, the woman. What's her purpose in a relationship/marriage according to your understand of the Bible?

Blessings



Mogens

I Can Explain It To You, But I Can’t Understand It For You

Good News For Christian Man ABP

"REVELATION"


Sojourner06 60M
1768 posts
7/22/2017 1:25 am

Hi Mike.

Regarding your statements on materialism (cars; money; nice clothes a.s.o ) I would like to ask you one more question: do you believe it's Biblically a sin to have a huge amount of money; nice cars for millions and a lot of nice clothes. And let's add a million dollar house/home?

Meaning if people are rich and wealthy they sin and they can't be real Spiritfilled Christians; followers of Christ?

Blessings



Mogens

I Can Explain It To You, But I Can’t Understand It For You

Good News For Christian Man ABP

"REVELATION"


Sojourner06 60M
1768 posts
7/27/2017 11:43 pm

Hi Mike.

I can see you visited BC on a regular basis the last week - meaning every day - and you also writes you are open to questions "or afraid to hear criticism."

So what happened since you haven't written even one word after I wrote my questions?
You see I don't think the problem was her but you. She isn't a materialistic woman, it's just you who miss a lot of basic information on who and what God created you to be as a man. And who and what God created women to be.

Said in other words she was looking for her prince and you told her you could be her tramp.
- and then of cause there is all your hurt feelings. So it's easier to criticize her than to admit you did it wrong.
So my suggestion is to take a look at creation of man in the Bible and find out what it really says.
And stop behaving like Adam when he was confronted with the story of the Apple. By the way where were he when Eve was tempted?

Blessings



Mogens

I Can Explain It To You, But I Can’t Understand It For You

Good News For Christian Man ABP

"REVELATION"