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Chris4Christ 59M
72 posts
8/17/2017 9:06 pm
Creeped out

Ok, let me start off by saying that this is more of a rant than an actual blog post.
If you're still interested, please read on!

I don't get on B.C. that often anymore due to a busy work schedule and doing my best to stay "plugged in" concerning church functions and serving the Lord.

Over the years I've noticed that I receive quite a few email notices of "so-an-so viewed your profile" for several days after being logged in.
Most are the typical shill accounts created by the kind folks at B.C. to make me seem desirable (like some 33 year old woman who looks like a model would want an old guy like me ) or at the very least, interesting.
Over the past month or so however there has been a particular female member who views my profile on an almost daily basis, sometimes multiple times in a day. In fact, in the short time that I have been on the site tonight she has viewed my profile THREE times!

While some might take this as flattering that someone seems so interested that they must view your profile and your pictures over and over again, to be honest it's starting to creep me out, especially since this members listing shows her as being in Bogota Colombia.

While it's very unlikely that she'll show up on my doorstep or be peeping through my windows like a stalker, should I be concerned, or just blow it off?

Has anyone else dealt with anything similar?