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Purhearted 44F
66 posts
8/27/2013 11:34 pm
How to Pursue a Woman’s Heart

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How many times do we miss God's blessings because they are not
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Sojourner06 59M
1768 posts
8/28/2013 4:06 pm

...How to Pursue a Woman’s Heart....

I never understood this... to pursue a woman's heart, so she ends up being your spouse...

How can I convince a woman, that I am the right guy for her?
Is she not able to have an opinion of her own??

It might sound crazy for all the rest of you, but to me it make no sense...
If I am to find a woman of mine for being each others spouse, then it has to be the way - for her part to speak - that she fully (is that possible to know someone fully?) knows who I am, instead of seeing a commercial on heart-television, and wants to buy because I seems to be the only one for her (according to the commercial).

I have seen it a lot of times: I was interested in a quite interesting woman, but I was not the only one interested. So somewhere a competition started between the two who were interested in her...
Who could do it the best. Now I know the matter of the heart, is not the matter of the mind...
If you in your mind decides who you love and want to be your spouse, is it then love...?
On the other hand: "Love is not a feeling, it's an act of your will"... (Don Francisco).

My thinking is this: If she knows me as I am - the real Mogens, not my commercial - and she is not interested in me, because this other guy seems to be better - or having a better commercial - then I can only do one thing: let her choose, and respect her choice..
Even my heart is bleeding ...

Just some thoughts...


Mogens, Denmark

I Can Explain It To You, But I Can’t Understand It For You

Good News For Christian Man ABP

"REVELATION"


Purhearted 44F

8/28/2013 10:16 pm

    Quoting  :

I too think love is a choice, how else can you explain how two totally different humans decide to stay together for the rest of their lives. Chemistry always play a part, but unless a man or woman out there is willing to take you as you are and love you anyway, then the questions will continue for all the single ones.

How many times do we miss God's blessings because they are not
packaged as we expected?


Purhearted 44F

8/29/2013 3:49 am

    Quoting  :


Hi

Love this! Definitely true.


How many times do we miss God's blessings because they are not
packaged as we expected?


Purhearted 44F

8/29/2013 10:51 pm


meow33744! Are you still single? Talk to your brothers, some have it all wrong....


How many times do we miss God's blessings because they are not
packaged as we expected?


Sojourner06 59M
1768 posts
9/4/2013 2:06 pm

    Quoting Sojourner06:
    ...How to Pursue a Woman’s Heart....

    I never understood this... to pursue a woman's heart, so she ends up being your spouse...

    How can I convince a woman, that I am the right guy for her?
    Is she not able to have an opinion of her own??

    It might sound crazy for all the rest of you, but to me it make no sense...
    If I am to find a woman of mine for being each others spouse, then it has to be the way - for her part to speak - that she fully (is that possible to know someone fully?) knows who I am, instead of seeing a commercial on heart-television, and wants to buy because I seems to be the only one for her (according to the commercial).

    I have seen it a lot of times: I was interested in a quite interesting woman, but I was not the only one interested. So somewhere a competition started between the two who were interested in her...
    Who could do it the best. Now I know the matter of the heart, is not the matter of the mind...
    If you in your mind decides who you love and want to be your spouse, is it then love...?
    On the other hand: "Love is not a feeling, it's an act of your will"... (Don Francisco).

    My thinking is this: If she knows me as I am - the real Mogens, not my commercial - and she is not interested in me, because this other guy seems to be better - or having a better commercial - then I can only do one thing: let her choose, and respect her choice..
    Even my heart is bleeding ...

    Just some thoughts...

    Mogens, Denmark
Hi

Seems like no one wants to make a comment on this one.

I was hoping for getting some advises or clues on what to do...?





Mogens

I Can Explain It To You, But I Can’t Understand It For You

Good News For Christian Man ABP

"REVELATION"