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Why Do Men / Women Post Differently? Men like to fix problems, theirs and other people's. We talk about our problems. Women like to vent daily their emotional experiences, not to be fixed, or for any advice please, but just to say it and get it out, and no comments except that it is understood. If us guys acted like women, we would be thought crazy, and likely given a beating for our own good. Strange thing is though, this is a lot of what women want from us, but just as strange is that us guys do not want much to hear women vent their days emotional experiences because we see and hear problems to be fixed. The first thing I think about when I hear a women vent is how can I fix this. And this is not what a woman wants. She just wants to be HEARD. There in is the problem for the blogs. Guys do not want to hear emotional explosions, but women want to express and hear more of it. Us guys are all about ideas. Women are mostly about feelings. So once again the difference between men and women is as wide as the Grand Canyon. WE can easily get on each others nerves. Women are about Chic-flick movies, and guys are about action movies. Get it? Advice. Women vent only to other women. If you bare your feelings to the world you can expect a lot of insulting comments from guys who do not understand and hate it. Guys confirm women's vent and women respect guys ideas of solution. To a woman, talk feelings, and a little ideas. To a guy, talk ideas, and ideas, and a little feelings. Go easy and learn to share carefully. I am trying to line dance at a filipino party. 
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this is all too emotional for me right now. cool pic btw
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this is all too emotional for me right now. cool pic btw
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