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The Three C's of Very Attractive Men This is a fail safe approach for us guys to have most any woman we want, even if she is not right for us. Without these three, we are just planing to fail in most, if not all relationships. This is my disclaimer: it is my opinion, but it is based on my personal experience and others. 1. CASH. This is one of the hottest aphrodisiacs known to human kind for attraction especially for women. Rich girls just don't marry poor boys. This was the basis of the F.Scott Fitzgerald Movie, "The Great Gatsby". It is still true today. Men must have not only a job, but a good one. Its better to create your own business than work for someone, if you can. 2. CHARACTER. This means what it implies. A gentleman, kind, especially clean, honest, loyal are some words to describe it. A Christian woman wants a Christian man. Women who have compromised their need for a Christian man have always lived to regret it. To be in alignment with reality, we really need to have read the Bible, be a member of a Church, and pray regularly. We can lead spiritually, if and only if, we have gone there and done that. 3. COMMUNICATION. This is perhaps the hardest of the three. COMmunication is a personal expression of thoughts and feelings. A woman wants a guy's feelings perhaps even more than his ideas. When we talk about a man who is the strong, silent type, we mean not a guy who won't share his ideas or feelings, but a guy who will listen to a woman talk and talk. It is important to not, almost never, to contradict a woman. She is always right, more or less, but always right. Personally, I have been working on all three most of my life. I started out way behind in these three and the results were perdictable, as promised. I have made progress, but still am working on it. Jesus would never have been Lord and Savior if He lacked any in these three areas. He has unlimited CASH, impecable CHARACTER, and astonishing COMMUNICATION skills.  Seaworld, CA. |
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 Good post brother...Now what about the ladies??? I suppose we should get them to write it lol
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Hmmm, so u mean even tho I have such sexy thumbs, the babes aren't gonna go for me? Hmmph!!!
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 Not in hot pursuit for 'ole money bags'??? lol
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It's rich girls that won't usually marry poor boys. Many women, however without the background of riches, will be happy with a guys income if he can pay the bills, and maybe a little more. It's really hard for a woman to be with a buy who won't work, and it is really difficult for men sometimes because they know this.
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Good post brother...Now what about the ladies??? I suppose we should get them to write it lol
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Hmmm, so u mean even tho I have such sexy thumbs, the babes aren't gonna go for me? Hmmph!!!
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Of course you are a lady, and you deserve a guy at least equal to you. Sadly, women sometimes marry beneath themselves though. With your standards I am confident you will do better than that.
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These three areas work both ways I believe. I am sure you have prayed. Being alone is not good for most of us. Being together with the wrong person, as you said, is worse. Your best chances would be perhaps in a large church. The current figure is 20% of marriages happens from internet meetings. Mine happened here, but for a long time I benefited from the mirror effect maturing experience of BC and met several. Conflict is something the Lord allows and uses it for a growing experience, and it is part of any relationship bar none. It will be a part of every relationship. The best data on conflict is that it is a cry for love or intimacy, and not the problem at hand we think. What this means is we need to work on being close again and the seeming issue will often just take care of itself.
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Thanks for your essay! But I would take one of the three C's.  God bless you Shalom!
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