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RichardPyle 79M
667 posts
10/29/2011 7:52 pm
A Civil War Memorial



World War II, Korean War, Vietnam War, the Unknown Soldier, Washington, Lincoln, Jefferson, King, all have their national memorials in Washington, D.C. Yet, the largest war by far is our nations civil war which has no memorial to all the Americans who bravely fought and died. Our nation, though once temporarily divided, is now united. Memories still linger. The number of dead of the civil war equals all the other American wars combined.

Tuesday, November 1, is all saints day. It is a day to remember and respect the memory of the dead. People in Asia are traveling far and wide to visit their ancestral home and light a candle for their relatives who have died. The purpose of memorials is not to right wrong or place blame.

Maybe even after 150 years since the beginning of the civil war it is still not yet time for a national memorial. But, I believe that someday there will be a time for this. Today we get along well with former combatants Japan, Germany, Vietnam, Russia, and so why not our past civil war? In my opinion, a national memorial would help everyone.


ladylightwalker

10/29/2011 8:23 pm

I agree. Good post. The ladies always decorate the soldiers graves (all soldiers) on Memorial Day here. It's nice. I have helped and it was a good experience. My brother died in Vietnam... everyone (well us ol' timers anyway, knows that, and my Dad fought in Germany), so thanks for these posts. Blessings



"Love is Patient..."


Exodus24 58M
750 posts
10/29/2011 9:08 pm

we have all been touched in some way by war.

i'm sorry about your loss ladlylightwalker.

God Bless You all


ladylightwalker

10/29/2011 9:48 pm

Exodus, yes, and ty. Gbu



"Love is Patient..."


RichardPyle 79M
701 posts
10/29/2011 10:23 pm

    Quoting ladylightwalker:
    I agree. Good post. The ladies always decorate the soldiers graves (all soldiers) on Memorial Day here. It's nice. I have helped and it was a good experience. My brother died in Vietnam... everyone (well us ol' timers anyway, knows that, and my Dad fought in Germany), so thanks for these posts. Blessings
The southern people of the US have also shown gracious courtesy and respect for all soldiers. I am really happy to see and feel people reaching out now to say farewell, and that the dead of this past civil war are going to be remembered. Brothers once in arms together, then in conflict, and now again in arms to together are perhaps our best common ground and rallying point to move ahead to a better tomorrow.

Some historians estimate as many as 850,000 died and many more were casualties of this civil war. I believe all of these people want to be remembered. When President Lincoln gave his address at Gettysburg he dedicated the war grounds not to just the North, but to all the brave men, North and South, who lived and died there. He said they gave their last full measure of devotion and that we could not equal that. Their lives and blood, he said, hallowed the ground more than the living ever could. If the people back then could show respect for each other, we today can at least continue on with their attitude of respect for all.


RichardPyle 79M
701 posts
10/29/2011 10:33 pm

    Quoting Exodus24:
    we have all been touched in some way by war.

    i'm sorry about your loss ladlylightwalker.

    God Bless You all
No one who has been in war, mine was Vietnam, can be untouched by it. As you said, we are all touched in some way by it. My experience in Vietnam has scared my life for ever. I will never be the same.

I know people today are showing much more respect for veterans and soldiers currently on duty. This is all to the good, but the best thing for American is to now keep out of wars. There is no way to communicate its meaning to someone not there, past or present. Personally, I do not want medals, ribbons, but just one thing. All I want is no more wars.


ladylightwalker

10/29/2011 11:27 pm

Richard, ty for your service, and I wish there could be no more wars. When Jesus comes He'll end it and make the heavens and earth new amen?! Blessings



"Love is Patient..."


Exodus24 58M
750 posts
10/29/2011 11:33 pm

I couldn't agree more......Our troops will be returning home soon enough thank the Lord.

Thank you for your service Richard....My family has been personally involved too.


RichardPyle 79M
701 posts
10/30/2011 3:24 am

    Quoting ladylightwalker:
    Richard, ty for your service, and I wish there could be no more wars. When Jesus comes He'll end it and make the heavens and earth new amen?! Blessings
I am okay, thanks. It is just that I have seen the tragedy of it and how awful it affects families. It is a family wound that never heals completely. Your best wishes are really appreciated. When Jesus comes then all of this will be forgotten as you said.


RichardPyle 79M
701 posts
10/30/2011 3:30 am

    Quoting Exodus24:
    I couldn't agree more......Our troops will be returning home soon enough thank the Lord.

    Thank you for your service Richard....My family has been personally involved too.
That is such good news that our troops will be returning home before the end of the year. My prayer now is no more, and I hope the country will not stand for it again. This occupy wall street protest around the country is the beginning of a public backlash to the helplessness so many feel regarding the direction of our country. We should remember to pray for them. Best wishes to you and your family.


RichardPyle 79M
701 posts
10/30/2011 1:12 pm

    Quoting ladylightwalker:
    I agree. Good post. The ladies always decorate the soldiers graves (all soldiers) on Memorial Day here. It's nice. I have helped and it was a good experience. My brother died in Vietnam... everyone (well us ol' timers anyway, knows that, and my Dad fought in Germany), so thanks for these posts. Blessings
There are battlefield memorials here and there around the country. I have often wanted to go to Gettysburg, but I don't know if I am emotionally ready for this. The site is not only sacred, but also reportedly one of the most haunted grounds in America. Before I go I need to be sure I have enough respect for what happened there.

What I am talking about is a national memorial for the civil war, not just places here and there. The ones in Washington, D.C. that I have visited are for the nation. They are visited daily by people from all over the world. They are an agreed upon place for the nation to meet and find some healing if possible and move on from that.

The experience people have at these national memorials is very moving. At Lincoln's memorial women were crying, also Roosevelt's, and I was very touched. At Arlington cemetery it was hard to even grasp what it represented. People were not allowed to talk in places above a whisper.


Exodus24 58M
750 posts
10/30/2011 2:29 pm

Gbu


RichardPyle 79M
701 posts
10/31/2011 3:09 pm

    Quoting  :

Thanks for that very nice poem. It really captures the essence of the call and service and the people that are affected by it all.