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ruggedntender 75M
557 posts
10/25/2008 10:25 pm
The Bath.

No one is here for me to run a bath for. No one is here to run a bath for me.

Is there anyone who will even know or care if I take a bath? Do you have anyone who will know or care if you take a bath?

Why do we just go along without finding each other so we can share the bath and care if the bath is taken?

Yes I take the bath for my satisfaction, but I would rather I was taking it for you.

OH I have it ran as we speak. I have some oil and bath beads in it and will go soak my life away even if you don't care.

If you change your mind and decide to join me, just come on in. Have a great night as I am thinking of you, whoever you are.


pricelessjoy 73F
5916 posts
10/26/2008 8:04 am

You better hurry. Your water is getting cold!

May God Bless You in ABUNDANCE


Independance
(Patricia )
62F

10/26/2008 8:39 am

Geez! I don't want to rain on your parade, but this whole bath thing is bringing memories of the ex running baths for me and making me see him like a mother running the bath for her child, a BIG TURN-OF for me, so glad I divorced him

Life is an adventure.


ruggedntender 75M
502 posts
10/26/2008 9:53 am

    Quoting pricelessjoy:
    You better hurry. Your water is getting cold!
LOL, some of these independent women over here build their houses with their own hands and call them earth friendly with what they call only one faucet.. that is cold water only so they do not harm the environment with heating water. After talking to a couple of them I was inspired to write this post.. so so your comment has a bit more meaning than you might think. LOL Not a long way from here is where we had a lady in a tree for many months to save trees from being cut...


ruggedntender 75M
502 posts
10/26/2008 9:57 am

    Quoting Independance:
    Geez! I don't want to rain on your parade, but this whole bath thing is bringing memories of the ex running baths for me and making me see him like a mother running the bath for her child, a BIG TURN-OF for me, so glad I divorced him
See, that is why there is need for posts like this... Women who do not like pampered and attention are not for some men... but from what I hear there are plenty of men who will not do a thing for their woman and all is good I guess as there are a lot of women who do not think a man is a man unless he sits on the couch with a remote I am guessing?


NeedGodlyleader 63F
502 posts
10/26/2008 11:48 am

Well Hun, You can run my bath water anytime you wish, however I most of the time prefer a shower. Maybe it's because I am always in a hurry to just get it done. I wash my hair, put cream rinse in, bathe then shave legs and rinse hair. NO time to even think about the REAL relaxation part of the whole experience. I never had a man really want to DO these sort of things for me so, might be a little hard to get use to at first?? As long as it is not done in a "controlling" way, I think I could get use to it??Never know???


pricelessjoy 73F
5916 posts
10/26/2008 12:55 pm

    Quoting ruggedntender:
    LOL, some of these independent women over here build their houses with their own hands and call them earth friendly with what they call only one faucet.. that is cold water only so they do not harm the environment with heating water. After talking to a couple of them I was inspired to write this post.. so so your comment has a bit more meaning than you might think. LOL Not a long way from here is where we had a lady in a tree for many months to save trees from being cut...
That is funny - cold water only? BRRRR! The lady in the tree? Was it one of those huge beautiful redwoods??? I LOVE those trees. I might have done the same thing!

May God Bless You in ABUNDANCE


Independance
(Patricia )
62F

10/26/2008 3:35 pm

    Quoting ruggedntender:
    See, that is why there is need for posts like this... Women who do not like pampered and attention are not for some men... but from what I hear there are plenty of men who will not do a thing for their woman and all is good I guess as there are a lot of women who do not think a man is a man unless he sits on the couch with a remote I am guessing?
Nobody likes couch potatoes as far as I know rugedntender, I think couch potatoes are looser parasites that are usually fat and ugly,
But I think that a man who likes to polish a woman's toenails is manly enough

Life is an adventure.


ruggedntender 75M
502 posts
10/26/2008 5:18 pm

    Quoting Independance:
    Nobody likes couch potatoes as far as I know rugedntender, I think couch potatoes are looser parasites that are usually fat and ugly,
    But I think that a man who likes to polish a woman's toenails is manly enough
Oh man, there you go.. A man is being your generic mother running you a bath... He must have been a Pretty looking man as I am sure your Mother was a beauty.. OK OK, did I get my Silver Tongue wagggggging TOOOOOO silver. LOL.. OK, anyway a man is your mother and you are happy you divorced him, yep, he made you feel like a child.. BUT you are happy with him doing your toenails?

WOW foot fetish, or just liking the short skirt or .. Gollllly I bettttter stop.. LOL ... but but but see women.. we never know with women, what they say is OK even if it would seem to a man to be the same wimp out ways.. OK, it is back to how we hear love and it sure is not the way we would think we can say or show love, but ONLY the way our other hears it.

NOW, where are those pictures of your feet?


ruggedntender 75M
502 posts
10/26/2008 5:33 pm

    Quoting NeedGodlyleader:
    Well Hun, You can run my bath water anytime you wish, however I most of the time prefer a shower. Maybe it's because I am always in a hurry to just get it done. I wash my hair, put cream rinse in, bathe then shave legs and rinse hair. NO time to even think about the REAL relaxation part of the whole experience. I never had a man really want to DO these sort of things for me so, might be a little hard to get use to at first?? As long as it is not done in a "controlling" way, I think I could get use to it??Never know???
Thank you for the kind words.. well most of them kind... the controllllller word is one a person has to discuss a lot with a woman for sure as toooo many think way to much is controlling... no, not saying you or anyone, just one thing I have seen mentioned a LOT from so many women since I have been divorced.

NOW, the other thing that I have learned is to do a few little post like this to see how the women think. I find that many women will NOT refuse to have a man do much for them as they are SO SO SO SO independent, so take it as an insult and on and on.. Shooot you try to love them and you are stealing their LIBERATED woman from them.. OH yea they are Christan (only used as I know no other words to use) cause they say so.. yep yep but they DON'T need any man... Shine on shine on shine on..

Sure there can be things a person would rather not have done or help with, but that has to be discussed instead of the man slapped in the face.. and and and there has to be little things he can do for his woman as well as plenty he can help her with and and and things she does and helps him with. If the woman is so into not having the man do anything you can bet she might well be the first to run to all the other women, and who knows who all, running and shouting she does not get any help doing anything.. Yep, she probably doesn't and she sure wouldn't get my help cause I would be GONE.. outtta there, running and skipping my way to find Miss Homeless or court some lady out of a BigFoot cave.. Did I say I like hair.. OK OK not face hair or I guess even leg hair.. Wow, I better think this hair thing, but but well the legs don't go all the way up to the belly button you know.. Gottttta run yep I do.. cause I got my mouth over loading my .. well I do..


ruggedntender 75M
502 posts
10/26/2008 5:39 pm

    Quoting pricelessjoy:
    That is funny - cold water only? BRRRR! The lady in the tree? Was it one of those huge beautiful redwoods??? I LOVE those trees. I might have done the same thing!
Yep, it was old growth Redwood and it was durring some of real crazy protests going on.. You can google it I am sure.. She lived up there for a long time. I think she was a preacher daughter and came to visit her from the east as there was a real concern what was breaking laws and whos laws or who knows. LOL Of course they had about the same thing over a group planting at a park or university in the Bay Area this last winter seems to me. AND trust me, these Redwoods are beyond protected. way beyond as they should be.. way way beyond... LOL Did I say they have rights? LOL


HeavenlySights 71F

4/9/2010 10:05 pm

    Quoting pricelessjoy:
    You better hurry. Your water is getting cold!



ruggedntender 75M
502 posts
4/10/2010 12:57 am

LOLOL and and and I am sure it is beyond COLD and MOLDY cause that was RAN in 2008.. LOL .. BUT we got an NEW fresh batch of water shipppped in since then.. I just have fun with some of this stuff at times.. some see it, some don't LOL.. thank you for seeing the humor or fun..


ruggedntender 75M
502 posts
4/10/2010 1:08 am

I read some of your blogs and found they are read only and I could not leave comment.. THEY were good.. thank you for stopping in..


HeavenlySights 71F

4/10/2010 11:52 am

    Quoting ruggedntender:
    I read some of your blogs and found they are read only and I could not leave comment.. THEY were good.. thank you for stopping in..
Oh thank you for stopping in too! God bless.