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Hisgrayce 53F
673 posts
8/5/2008 9:20 pm
When your leave.......what happens?


As some of you know, my is leaving in 2 weeks for college. Any advice or stories of how it went when your left? I would appreciate any! Stef and I have developed an amazing bond these last 4 years and believe it or not, I have had ZERO trouble with her. She never talks back, she does what I tell her, she's really into sports so I never had to deal with the drinking thing. I am so blessed to have her. Anyway, I am afraid I will just lose it as I walk away from her and I don't want to do that. I can do that later when she's not around. So, any suggestions?????

Tropical_Man 68M
6389 posts
8/6/2008 12:21 am

Know she will remember everything you stressed to her. Tell her how proud you are of her and how much you trust her and believe in her


Hisgrayce replies on 8/6/2008 6:33 am:
Yes, that's a good idea. I should write this all down because I don't think I will be much good on that day! Thanks so much!

chocnroses 69F
2405 posts
8/6/2008 12:38 am

Dont be afraid to let her know how much she means to you! GBU!


Hisgrayce replies on 8/6/2008 6:33 am:
Oh definately not! I tell her that all the time, but you're right, I never want her to forget it. Thanks so much!!

Cassiusclay 63M

8/6/2008 2:34 am

I guess I cannot go past what Karen has already said, blessings Debbie

Gods way is my way,...Clay


Hisgrayce replies on 8/6/2008 6:34 am:
Thanks so much for your thoughts Clay. I appreciate it a lot!!

pricelessjoy 73F
5916 posts
8/6/2008 3:00 am

((((Debbie)))) I have always heard that the best thing a parent can do for a child is to give them "roots" and "wings." Nothing can make it any easier to have your child leave your nest except to feel the joy of them "flying". And with the relationship that you and your daughter have, just remember, she will always come back to the nest. Love you sister!

May God Bless You in ABUNDANCE


Hisgrayce replies on 8/6/2008 6:36 am:
Always come back. Yes, you're right. My head says that it's time for her to go, to start this new part of her life and mine as well. However, my heart wants her to stay right here!!! Of course, that can't happen any more than turning back time! It's exciting and terrifying to me. Thanks so much for your thoughts and prayers Joy. Its means so much!

AlanB2 68M

8/6/2008 4:03 am

I was scared to death. We want to be there always. But they assured me they will be okay and they turned out awesome...It just takes time to readjust. My youngest daughter started calling me a stalker because i was text messaging her constantly. So I slowed down...Now she constantly text messages me...ha ha ..lol. You brought her up right...You'll see..GBY



‘HE will rule them with an iron scepter.’... He treads the winepress of the fury of the wrath of God Almighty.... On HIS robe and on HIS thigh HE has this name written:... KING OF KINGS AND LORD OF LORDS."


Hisgrayce replies on 8/6/2008 6:37 am:
Ok, good info. No excessive texting. Got it. You're right a new phase for her and for me as well. Yes, it will take some getting used to, but that's what the Lord is for isn't it. He's always there for us to lean on when we need it. Thanks so much for the info!!

1god2
(Nancy )
64F

8/7/2008 7:48 pm

I agree with everyone here --- there's no way not to be a mess. My younger daughter went off to college three years ago and I was alone in the apartment. It's always hard when she leaves but I think the thing that has carried me through is that she is coming back. She is not leaving the Earth and I can talk to her on the phone. At first, that is how I felt -- as though I would never see her again. Then, I realized that God didn't want me to feel that way and this is a chance for me to see who I really am. After spending many years being identified as the "Mom", I am now known for being me. When I walk in, I'm called by first name rather than by "Casey's Mom".

There's no doubt that I'd be more at ease if I had a special someone in my life. The enemy uses loneliness against me too often. Since I'm a standard member, it's not easy to contact you. If you ever see me in chat, stop in. I'll find a way to give you my contact info.


Nancy
Let us share one anothers burdens and so fulfill the law of Christ


Hisgrayce replies on 8/8/2008 2:45 pm:
Thanks so much. I guess I never thought about it...she's leaving my house, not the Earth. Ok. That's good. I'll email you then you can respond to it? That's how we can communicate!! Thanks for the response. Very appreciated!