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zansuzi 61F
11 posts
11/23/2008 12:43 pm
Wall Intact Again


So, I wrote some time ago about my friend that disappeared from BC... removed her profile went away ... gone.. poof! I was saddened so. And now, I am sorry to say... I have come to understand why this would happen. So much the same, I'm much considering this myself and yet don't want to leave some I've come to know and love. I guess I need to stay out of the Friendship Room..... hmmm.. what a contradiction it is within itself.
Expect nothing and you won't be disappointed, that's what they say. Unlike me to expect nothing, I suppose. And how unfair of me to expect from others the same standard I set for myself. Don't get me wrong; I am far from perfect. Basking daily in my complete imperfectness! And yet, we reach a place where we think we know others and place them gently on a platform of conformity or honor or truthfulness and it's just a bit heartbreaking when they come crashing down. And break our hearts on the way to the ground.
How do you pick up the pieces of friendship when a person not only lies to you but accuses you of some very unkind things. I guess it comes down to not personalizing it and forgiving and loving. All I can say right now is this: some people are better loved from a distance.

Still loving... behind the wall that keeps me safe from the games that people play.

since1868
(Mike )
65M
79 posts
11/25/2008 2:27 pm

I cannot agree with you more!! I have not been in the rooms in months.
I always was hoping it would change.No more anger, jealousy,lies etc.
But then I realized this is the world.
And its best to pay little attention to the world.
God Bless Mike


eagle1705 58M

2/7/2009 11:36 pm

I do not know what to say about the wall blog, except this: Don't think about the walls you need to put up, keep praying the Lord God will not let his protection about you down. Love others as Christ loves us. Vengence is mine, I will repay.-the Lord God