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honeebee 62F
49 posts
11/10/2008 2:12 am
should i confront ????????????
if someone tries to do u wrong...by lying about u whch one of the choices is best to handle the situation
should u approach them ?...hopefully they may say SORRY
send a filthy dirty biker around to ruff them up?
write them off as a sick looser?
pray for the salvation of their soul?
thank God you witnessed their true colours?

If God brings you to it, He will bring you through it.


honeebee 62F
98 posts
11/14/2008 9:34 pm
    Quoting  :
yes Habibti it is ....and i found out this week he went and demanded to know what type of relationship my FRIEND was having with me ....talk about obsessed!!..............BEWARE....i also heard he found out another ladies home address with out her knowledge..then told her he knew where she lived.....weirdo !
If God brings you to it, He will bring you through it.


honeebee 62F
98 posts
11/13/2008 2:47 am
    Quoting  :
why thankyou kind sir....lol GBU
If God brings you to it, He will bring you through it.


ScottieDogLover
(Scottie (nickname) ) 66F
271 posts
11/11/2008 1:00 pm

 Hi Honeebee,

Liars seldom fess up when you confront them. When they do and they do apologize, you have to wonder if THAT is a lie too. Are they truly sorry or just saving their face at that point. As Jesus said "By their fruit you will know them" If their tree is producing lies, I agree with your choice of thanking God of sparing you any further anguish. And, yes forgiveness is a decision, but the process sometimes takes longer than we would like. Been there, done that and got the t-shirt and matching sweatshirt too!

May God comfort you with His compassion!

Scottie


honeebee 62F
98 posts
11/11/2008 3:16 am
    Quoting BelovedByHim:
    Cant vote on this one. You have not given us enough choices. Many times yes, It is best to confront, and the sooner the better. It is according to the relationship. Have you confronted the person before? Is this person saved? ect. Yes you should always prayer for the person.
i have decided not to confront him ...he knows the tangled lies he has sown....and he knows that he is not walking the walk but just talking the talk ...we do not have a relationship that is why he is being vindictive ...i went on a dinner date with him and found him to be somewhat pleasant although he chose to pray over me in tongues while we sat at gloria jeans coffee shop ....freaked me out ....then he turned really weird,....hating his kids ...and wanted to be romantic when i had given him definate NO WAY VIBES...he did not accept that and proceeded to tell people we were a couple .....i ran a mile away ....he claims to be saved yet his actions and words aare obvious signs that he is in a struggle ....i am praying the Lord works on him....GBU sister
If God brings you to it, He will bring you through it.


Louisiana 57F
1177 posts
11/10/2008 9:19 pm

 Well Rita, all I can say is what I voted for.. Thank God that you witnessed his true colours. The bible tells us that we should go to them in love, but that is mainly talking about your brother in a church type situation. Since Bigchurch has no accountability here and that you don't fellowship together in the same church I would suggest that you don't approach him, not unless you have a dad or brother and/or pastor to go with you. I do believe like Rhonda says and that they should be accountable, but like I said on your last post, he was never accountable for his actions, and never appologised, so I don't think that you will get far. Unless God Himself tells you to do so, I would suggest that you stay right away from him! We both know that he is a liar, but most of all the Lord knows. Tell God how much he has wronged you, and how hurt you are, and try and leave it up to Him to bring it into the light.

I am sitting back seeing that little by little the Lord is shinning His light onto the situation and that others will also find out the truth.

Blessings to you
The body of Christ is like a patchwork quilt! All stitched together with God's love.


BelovedByHim 62F

11/10/2008 10:55 am

 Cant vote on this one. You have not given us enough choices. Many times yes, It is best to confront, and the sooner the better. It is according to the relationship. Have you confronted the person before? Is this person saved? ect. Yes you should always prayer for the person.
Faith is not believing that God can - It's knowing that He will!




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