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Louisiana 57F
308 posts
2/9/2009 5:46 pm
Sometimes life gives you the scraps.


I was driving home late last night in the 4x4 from Tamworth with the and a boot full of catalogues. Today we roll and deliver them to our town as I am the local contractor. Just over half way home, the car broke down. By the time the NRMA got to us it was way past midnight. They said that they would tow the car to the last town, Manilla but we would be stranded. I started to cry and asked the opperator how was I supposed to get home, and her answer was "that wasn't her problem, only the car was".

When the NRMA truck arrived, they sent out another car with it, and they offered to take us the rest of the way home. They said that considering the time of night (or morning lol) and that I had , they felt bad for me and offered to drive us the 40kms home. We piled all the junk mail into his boot and we finally got home at about 1:45am. Thankyou Lord!

My other car had been fixed and was waiting for me to collect in Manilla so I got up and walked to the bus stop to catch the bus back into Manilla, but there was no bus running today! Couldn't believe it! They stopped running the service on a Tuesday as of two weeks ago!

So with no local friends to call on for help, I started walking. I felt really alone and helpless. I had to get the other car so I could deliver the catalogues today was all I was thinking. I tried to hitch hike, but every car and truck just kept driving past. I felt determined that I was going to make it, even if I had to walk the whole way. I was wondering why no body stopped to help a lady out. I went outside of my self to do this, as I don't believe in hitching, and no one wanted to stop. I really felt discouraged and alone. By the time I had walked about 3 kms, an older couple picked me up and gave me a lift to Manilla as they were passing through. They were lovely and were only too happy to help out. Another kindness from total strangers.

When I told Ian what I had done, he was very cross with me, and he had every right to be. I have been too independant for too long! I need a man! Any takers out there? Tall dark and handsome say about 5'9"??? He would have to be my one true love though.

No just kidding. I can do all things through Christ who gives me strength, but sure is going to be nice to have you around permanently babe. I know you want to take some of that burden and pressure from my shoulders and be 'the man'. But I am the fortunate one. I can see light at the end of the tunnel. Some are not as fortunate as I am and will continue to be as I will have Ian here soon, then always!

Spare a thought though for those many women out there that are doing it hard and having to do these kinda things that we often take for granted. It's not what God had intended for us women as we are the nurturers and home makers. God made man to be the leader and provide these things for his wife and family. But if the family unit breaks down, often the woman has to fend for herself and do things she is not used too or even want to, but sometimes she has no choice.

Pray for single mums and ask the Lord how you can help or make a difference to those who are less fortunate. You men or abled womem out there, can you help someone check levels in her car or be of some other practicle help? The bible tells us to watch out for and take care of the widows in our communities. Most people think though that widows are just elderly woman who have lost their husbands in death. Even though it isn't specific in the bible, the greek/hebrew meaning for widow is " A gap, a void where a husband has left his wife or unto death" So to me that means widows are also deserted wives & mothers, or mothers having to flee from abuse etc, and who really need support especially when they don't have a network of family and friends around them. Who better to care for them, and that is the 'church'. The body of christ should be a refuge for these hurting and needy women.

The body of Christ is like a patchwork quilt! All stitched together with God's love.


pricelessjoy 73F
5916 posts
2/10/2009 5:45 am

I am glad to know that someone picked you up and took you to Manilla. One of the most stressful things for me is when my car breaksdown! I know it will be a huge relief for you to have Ian around permanently. GBY LYS!

May God Bless You in ABUNDANCE


ladylightwalker

2/10/2009 12:33 pm

I think God lets us go through something to show us how much we need our man. I had something happen similar right before Thomas came down here. I knew how much I needed him for sure. I didn't think I needed to go through all I did, but God allowed it, and I think I see why. LYS, and Thomas said..."The blessings' coming for y'all!! So send the praises up! God loves it when we praise Him in the storm!" Blessings, Thomas and Robin ...We just made an announcement. It should be up on blog soon.



"Love is Patient..."


Louisiana 57F
1177 posts
2/11/2009 3:03 pm

Hi Robin. Yes it has certainly been a testing time. I was also in 'big' trouble wif my man for hitching. Like I said i hadn't done that before, well once when i was young and escaping a situation. He forgives me, but has made me promise that I wouldn't do it again. Yes I need him more and more. The Lord is stripping away my indepenance steak and allowing me to slowly trust Ian for these things, through Him.
have arrived safely at Ian's, and it was sooooo good to see him and be with him again.

Can't wait for the news Sweety,

Blessings, Louise & Ian xxxxx

The body of Christ is like a patchwork quilt! All stitched together with God's love.


ladylightwalker

2/14/2009 8:43 am

Oh you have that independent streak too eh? lol I knew we are alot alike. God is helping me with that. Blessings to you both, R and T aka Mrs. NDN



"Love is Patient..."