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looking4_mywings 63F
156 posts
5/7/2008 7:06 pm

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5/9/2008 9:39 am

Do You Remember or is it Just Me....

Ok this is for those of us who have been married before...Do you remember when you where dating...the person you would one day marry. How you could just look at them forever, it felt like. Just couldn't take your eyes of that face...and it just made you smile...They didn't have to do anything just sit there and let you look at them...Then You got married...and that stopped.

I don't know why but at church tonight...I was looking around at all the married couples...and how nice they looked together...and I just wondered do the ever just look at each other and say wow!!!

I went from there to when I was married and I just wondered when the amazement that this person is mine, he loves me... When did that deep feeling of being one stop....

As I sit there I prayed, God if you see fit to let me have that again...I want forget to look into his eyes and just feel that feeling of joy that just looking at him can give me...

Am I making any sense....I just can help but think that sometimes we don't even stop to look at this person we vowed to love till death do us part...like we did before marriage...

Just in a strange mood tonight......I think its called mellon collie or something, or maybe its just missing that someone to share with....ummm yep could be.

Good Night All...God Bless!! I'm going to snuggle up with my pillow.....



God is God, Good And Great.

I have no problem with you, believing what you believe...Just don't have one with me if I don't see it your way....


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looking4_mywings 63F
318 posts
5/9/2008 9:39 am

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Ok heres the wine but can I keep the guy for 10 more minutes...My feet never felt so good... and I have a feeling your not going to let him come back...GBU!!! Angel

God is God, Good And Great.

I have no problem with you, believing what you believe...Just don't have one with me if I don't see it your way....


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looking4_mywings 63F
318 posts
5/8/2008 7:25 pm

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Yes...sit back glass of wine...slippers...feet up....maybe a handsome guy to rub those feet..as mine hurt... and laughing all the way....Try it girl!!! Do you think guys will act as crazy as we BC Girls Did...lol Hey if not Red, Lisa...hehe

God is God, Good And Great.

I have no problem with you, believing what you believe...Just don't have one with me if I don't see it your way....


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looking4_mywings 63F
318 posts
5/8/2008 9:43 am

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I cked it out yesterday morning...nothing there....pumkin...Hehe GBU!! angel

God is God, Good And Great.

I have no problem with you, believing what you believe...Just don't have one with me if I don't see it your way....


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looking4_mywings 63F
318 posts
5/8/2008 9:42 am

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Oh My ...How about a girl...Say Red...He He Good to see you here...GBU!!!

God is God, Good And Great.

I have no problem with you, believing what you believe...Just don't have one with me if I don't see it your way....


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looking4_mywings 63F
318 posts
5/8/2008 4:21 am

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I'm with you...Thanks....Do you have a name Thumper? GBU!!!

God is God, Good And Great.

I have no problem with you, believing what you believe...Just don't have one with me if I don't see it your way....


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looking4_mywings 63F
318 posts
5/8/2008 4:18 am

    Quoting OceanBlue122:
    Angel, yep, I know what you mean....it's like love magnets in our eyes!!! And as long as the one we love does no wrong the magnet is strong, but as our mind picture grays, the love magnets weaken!!

    I'm glad your so full of love right now.....but sad that you can't share it with somebody special!!!

    Gee....us girls, we need a good and special man, don't we???

    But it's better to be without than to be with the wrong one!!!

    Be happy Angel!!!
Hey Lisa, I know what you mean...and what is with this, pretty ladys like us still....free....hmmmmm. And I'm happy just missing someone...hehe. GBU!!! Angel

God is God, Good And Great.

I have no problem with you, believing what you believe...Just don't have one with me if I don't see it your way....


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looking4_mywings 63F
318 posts
5/8/2008 4:16 am

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I did, I did....Yeah

God is God, Good And Great.

I have no problem with you, believing what you believe...Just don't have one with me if I don't see it your way....


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looking4_mywings 63F
318 posts
5/8/2008 4:15 am

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Hey Rod....Whats with the bananas and is that a candle your holding? Did I miss something...LOL. GBU!!! Angel

God is God, Good And Great.

I have no problem with you, believing what you believe...Just don't have one with me if I don't see it your way....


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looking4_mywings 63F
318 posts
5/8/2008 4:10 am

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Hi Jeff, Oh I do believe men have these feeling too. I know that now when God lets him come in to my life. I have a better understanding of what it takes to make love last...God has been teaching me some amazing things....GBU!!! Angel

God is God, Good And Great.

I have no problem with you, believing what you believe...Just don't have one with me if I don't see it your way....


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looking4_mywings 63F
318 posts
5/8/2008 4:06 am

    Quoting Hisglory77:
    Angel;

    It doesn't make sense, but then it makes perfect sense.
    Right now, my G.F. and I are at the place you described, "the amazement that this person is mine, and loves me...I don't know why but at church tonight...I was looking around at all the married couples...and how nice they looked together...and I just wondered do the ever just look at each other and say wow!!!"

    Yes, Evonne and I do, and I'm pretty sure that most of the couples in my church still does. I also have little doubt that in years to come, that Evonne and I will continue to do so. Because unlike both our prior marriages...

    1, We are putting God first, even ahead of the other.
    2, We started with a close friendship instead of romance right away.
    3, We are keeping our relationship pure, and holy.
    4, We are getting pre-marital counselling from our leadership.
    5, We will follow the directives of our spiritual leadership.
    6, We will obtain the blessings of our parents before marriage.
    7, We frequently pray together.
    8, We are participating in ministry together.
    9, We are being realistic in our expectations.
    10, We have learned and are applying our partner's love languages.
    11, We are enjoying ourselves, and each other for who we are.
    12, We have set both short and long term goals for where we want to be, and to go as a couple.

    Will it be perfect? No. But it is and will be wonderful. This has been over 25 years in the making, and we have all eternity.
Sounds Great I am so happy for you guys....Go forth and multiply........unless you don't want too...GBU!!!

God is God, Good And Great.

I have no problem with you, believing what you believe...Just don't have one with me if I don't see it your way....


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looking4_mywings 63F
318 posts
5/8/2008 4:03 am

    Quoting  :

Awe Kiss, kiss, hug, hug, Welcome back girl its about time....all is well in blogland now that your back...GBU!!! Angel

God is God, Good And Great.

I have no problem with you, believing what you believe...Just don't have one with me if I don't see it your way....


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Hisglory77
(Byron )
66M

5/8/2008 1:02 am

Angel;

It doesn't make sense, but then it makes perfect sense.
Right now, my G.F. and I are at the place you described, "the amazement that this person is mine, and loves me...I don't know why but at church tonight...I was looking around at all the married couples...and how nice they looked together...and I just wondered do the ever just look at each other and say wow!!!"

Yes, Evonne and I do, and I'm pretty sure that most of the couples in my church still does. I also have little doubt that in years to come, that Evonne and I will continue to do so. Because unlike both our prior marriages...

1, We are putting God first, even ahead of the other.
2, We started with a close friendship instead of romance right away.
3, We are keeping our relationship pure, and holy.
4, We are getting pre-marital counselling from our leadership.
5, We will follow the directives of our spiritual leadership.
6, We will obtain the blessings of our parents before marriage.
7, We frequently pray together.
8, We are participating in ministry together.
9, We are being realistic in our expectations.
10, We have learned and are applying our partner's love languages.
11, We are enjoying ourselves, and each other for who we are.
12, We have set both short and long term goals for where we want to be, and to go as a couple.

Will it be perfect? No. But it is and will be wonderful. This has been over 25 years in the making, and we have all eternity.

Isaiah 66:2b; But to this one I will look, To him who is humble and contrite of spirit, and who trembles at My word.


OceanBlue122 58F

5/7/2008 8:15 pm

Angel, yep, I know what you mean....it's like love magnets in our eyes!!! And as long as the one we love does no wrong the magnet is strong, but as our mind picture grays, the love magnets weaken!!

I'm glad your so full of love right now.....but sad that you can't share it with somebody special!!!

Gee....us girls, we need a good and special man, don't we???

But it's better to be without than to be with the wrong one!!!

Be happy Angel!!!


looking4_mywings 63F
318 posts
5/7/2008 7:45 pm

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You too Sweet Red Rose...GBU!!! Angel

P.S. you didn't say if this made any sense........Nite

God is God, Good And Great.

I have no problem with you, believing what you believe...Just don't have one with me if I don't see it your way....


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looking4_mywings 63F
318 posts
5/7/2008 7:45 pm

    Quoting  :

You to Sweet Red Rose...GBU!!! Angel

P.S. you didn't say if this made any sense........Nite

God is God, Good And Great.

I have no problem with you, believing what you believe...Just don't have one with me if I don't see it your way....


Speaking Volumes
Blessings in The Now
TWENTYONE THINGS