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Tropical_Man 68M
6573 posts
2/14/2009 5:20 am
Some proof in the pudding Penelope


Your friends are lying to you..what else is new? Its what they do.

Here is an IM by Magoo showing he was pursuing by asking someone to find out things for him. Then later this man lies and says she was trying to seduce him? And that is put forth by the phony Gregg and Eli too. These people are loons. Its all going to be out here in the open. All because they would not simply apologize to the person they lied about. This could happen to any of you.

See I do not care if you get mad. I am not an avenging angel. I am not trying to be anything but a friend to someone who is being lied about. Unfortunately you are being duped by someone and I will come forth with more information. There is alot more. I got an email from Gregg where he comes off as a complete psycho

Earliest to latest.

Gary Thiessen

January 13 at 1:10am
Babe + !!! She looks so good she makes my eyes hurt!!! I know you wouldn't betray my trust....no worries there. Beautiful, she is, inside too. And that makes her even more attractive on the outside.
I've learned from experience (with a woman on BC) that I need to take my time....go slowly....and let the Lord create what HE wants to create. Sometimes inside info helps in the encouragement area.
She is a sweet, sensitive woman and I would be a fool to not stop and consider a romantic relationship with her.
I do think tho, that she knows that i am interested in her.
OK Gary, stop talking now..............
____________________________________________________________________

Gary Thiessen

January 13 at 7:23pm
((((((((Witheld))))))))))
I hope I didn't sound ungrateful for your offer to "quiz" xxxxxxx, because I do appreciate it.
On her profile on BC she said she is looking for "friends or pen pals" so I am taking my cue from that. I sense a lot of caution on her part.....and that is ok....in fact it is desireable on the internet especially.
You have become a good friend, and I appreciate you.

Name Witheld
January 13 at 9:18pm
I didn't think that at all! She called me today, left a message, we will see one another at some point. She seems very sweet and nice and caring. I can't wait to get to know her a bit better. But tell me something, how did you get to know her, was she on BC as well?

Gary Thiessen

January 13 at 9:37pm
I think her cautiousness, if she does have it, is related to men specifically. But then it might just be shyness. It's hard to tell from just written words.

She is very sweet and considerate and I did meet her on BC. I took a chance and if I remember, sent her a smile. She responded and we have been in email contact since. With all the fun we have here of FB, I invited her over here....and have gotten to know her even better since.

Name Witheld

January 13 at 10:14pm
Good ... now you just leave it in my capable hands and I'll keep you posted. If this thing is going to come to fruition, though, then you need to make a plan. Just giving you a friendly "heads up".

Gary Thiessen

January 13 at 10:30pm
Oh my!!!! Oh my!!!! You just hit my "make me nervous" button....lol

Thanks for the "heads up". I will have to confess that my brain works like a spread sheet doing an "if/then" computation...but still...Oh my!!!!

Name Witheld
January 13 at 10:34pm
LOL well it's not that complicated but have you thought about paying her a visit?

Gary Thiessen

January 13 at 10:59pm
I have, and it is only a 30 hour drive, but I would like to talk with her on the phone for a while first....that is just ME being cautious.

I'm not in any way suggesting that xxxxxxxx is at all like the woman I met (on BC) and was dating for 6 months last year, but having spent $6000 on that woman, or should I say "wasted" I'm a little gun shy about rushing into spending more money on someone.

We decided that I would drive down to Montana every 2 weeks. After we had exchanged vows over the phone, she ended up in bed with a guy she had met, in between my visit.

That's a long story short........sorry for moaning........

Name Witheld
January 13 at 11:02pm
First off, you need to fly. No doubt about it. So the two of you havn't exchanged ? How long have you known one another?

I'm sorry about that horrible woman, please don't let that experience jade you.


Gary Thiessen

January 13 at 11:20pm
The drive is no problem. I love driving. In fact, I bought a more expensive car than I really needed so that I would be able to just take off whenever I wanted.

After I left the ministry and before I started a business, I drove short haul for 6 months, and a 24-30 shift was common.....in one "sitting"

We started emailing periodically at the beginning of Nov. It was very sporadic on her part, so I assumed then, that when she said "friends/pen pals", that she was serious about that. So I didn't want to push her.

Name Witheld

January 13 at 11:29pm
Hmmmmmmm. Strikes me as kind of odd that she wouldn't have shared her phone number with you. Hmmmmmmmm.

Gary Thiessen

January 13 at 11:31pm
I'm not surprised, generally the guy offers HIS # first, just for security sake. I've been waiting for some indication of interest from her.

Hmmmm, now I'm beginning to wonder if there has been some power room talk.............lol

Gary Thiessen

January 13 at 11:41pm
powder room lol

Name Witheld
January 13 at 11:44pm
I am surprised. But that's just me. The powder room can be a blessing or a curse ... nevertheless, I will find out what's going on. Stay tuned! Thanks for your kind words and your friendship.

Gary Thiessen

January 13 at 11:50pm
What surprises you??????

....so, why do I feel like I'm 16 again??? lol

I will leave my radio on............
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Name Witheld

January 14 at 12:06am
If I was interested in a guy I would want to talk to him on the phone as soon as possible, you learn alot from a person that way.

Sweet 16! Give me strength!! LOL.


Gary Thiessen

January 14 at 12:15am
ROFLOL

Name Witheld
January 14 at 2:49am
Yep, that's about right! I'll get back with you soon on this matter.

Gary Thiessen

January 14 at 3:00am
You asked me about having a plan? I am *possibly* going to Cuba on a missions trip around Easter. It can't be much extra to drive/fly there either before or after the trip.

Name Witheld
January 14 at 3:22am
Easter? That's almost a lifetime away ... we're not getting any younger, my friend!

Gary Thiessen

January 14 at 3:24am
I can be packed in 48 seconds and be there Saturday am

Name Witheld
January 14 at 3:25am
I dare you!!! I double dare you!!!

Gary Thiessen

January 14 at 3:29am
B.. b.. b.. but I can't call her until tomorrow night to see if she's not on another date or something
But I leave my suitcase partially packed for real, just in case......... jeans, socks, toothbrush plus pillow and banket in car......etc etc
_____________________________________________________________________

Gary Thiessen

January 14 at 5:24am
I just bet XXXXXX a dinner, that I could give her a picture of her house...I accidently found it
____________________________________________________________________

Gary Thiessen

January 14 at 5:40am
Would you believe I found 3 pics of XXXXXXX house on the internet....taken from the street, if you can believe it. I was tempted to bet her a dinner, if I could do it, but thought that might not be such a good idea, 'cause that could sound a little weird. I was just playing with Google Earth, and there her house was, in broad daylight

It's truly amazing what personal info you can find on the net for free. That woman I mentioned I dated last year, I found out where she had gone into hiding after her divorce....and only her knew the address....but it was on the net

Did you know that last year, in Vancouver, you could buy a D/L and credit card for $5.00 and even tho' you have the highest possible security on your own computer, that hackers can EASILY hack into businesses that have your personal info if they are using wifi?
_____________________________________________________________________

Gary Thiessen

January 18 at 3:55am
I pray you slept well last night. Take your meds if you need to!! I don't like having to take mine either, but the alternative is not appealing.

Regarding XXXXXX, did you see something in our bantering, that suggested I might be interested in her? I'm just curious. I've given her every opportunity to express an interest, including giving her my phone #, so far she hasn't bit. I think she and XXXXXX may have something going on. Either that, or she's just not ready to go beyond friends yet.

In the spirit of keeping my options open, their is a woman in our singles group, who I is expressing an interest in us getting to know each other. Her (14 years) and I had a fun time bantering with each other when we volunteered at the Gospel Mission, and we are talking about me mentoring him. I am planning to go on a Missions trip (which I think I mentioned to you), and she and her are also going (we both have a heart for missions). She is your age, but my first girl friend after my divorce was only 37 and she brought up the marriage topic......so with God, anything can happen.

Am I ranting, raving, whining, venting or just tired lol

Blessings to you ((((witheld))))
Gary


Independance
(Patricia )
62F

2/14/2009 7:40 am

After reading this I've made myself a mental note; NEVER CONFIDE ON ANYONE.

Life is an adventure.


Tropical_Man 68M
6389 posts
2/14/2009 10:56 am

well i would go further and say never lie about anyone like Gary did to Greg and Eli


Tropical_Man 68M
6389 posts
2/15/2009 6:37 am

what you just wrote is a smear. People cant be friends? Just friends without having bad things said about them because all they wish to be is friends?