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Tropical_Man 68M
6573 posts
7/24/2008 7:56 pm
experts of the mind...................


We are made differently, men and women. We are wired differently. We both have brains and yet the way our brains get from point A to point B is entirely different.

Doesnt anyone want to know why?


kywong 69F
953 posts
7/24/2008 11:22 pm

OK - why???

One thing I have desired of the Lord, that will I seek:
That I may dwell in the house of the Lord all the days of my life,
to behold the beauty of the Lord,
and to inquire in His temple. Psalm 27:4


levs_514
(levi Nuas)
61F
1412 posts
7/24/2008 11:49 pm

God knows exactly what will going to happen if we think alike
........I still want to know WHY?.......

" We are fearfully and wonderfully made." Psalm 139:14a


Tropical_Man 68M
6389 posts
7/25/2008 5:26 am

Hi all....My point here is to try and get people, especially the men to understand this. Otherwise women get treated as one of the fellas and that does not work. It is one of the major issues with lack of emotional intimacy.

Think on this. Wisdom is called "she" in the word. I think part of the secret is found in this.


honest352000 53F
791 posts
7/25/2008 12:02 pm

    Quoting Tropical_Man:
    Hi all....My point here is to try and get people, especially the men to understand this. Otherwise women get treated as one of the fellas and that does not work. It is one of the major issues with lack of emotional intimacy.

    Think on this. Wisdom is called "she" in the word. I think part of the secret is found in this.
Why Dennis, I do believe you have made a very humble revelation. Hold tight to it, Let no man take what God has given.

All things work for the good of those who Love the Lord, Jenn friend


kywong 69F
953 posts
7/25/2008 2:34 pm

WOW Dennis - now all we need is some of the men to come and read this!!!

One thing I have desired of the Lord, that will I seek:
That I may dwell in the house of the Lord all the days of my life,
to behold the beauty of the Lord,
and to inquire in His temple. Psalm 27:4


kywong 69F
953 posts
7/25/2008 3:27 pm

Also Dennis - you've just been tagged!!! Please go to...

Zoom on in and meet and greet Tag game



One thing I have desired of the Lord, that will I seek:
That I may dwell in the house of the Lord all the days of my life,
to behold the beauty of the Lord,
and to inquire in His temple. Psalm 27:4


Tropical_Man 68M
6389 posts
7/25/2008 3:53 pm

I am sorry I do not do the tag thing I know I am a party pooper

Thanks for stopping by.

Honest352000 I am going to address this.


Tropical_Man 68M
6389 posts
7/25/2008 4:12 pm

Well, after my break up of my marriage I did a lot of studying. It started while I was still trying to have my marriage healed.

We all know the man is called to be a leader in the home. Priest and prophet if you will. Many women strive to be that proverbs 31 woman. Some just kind of ignore it. I think it is a little different than proverbs 31. I just believe that just as Christ changed many thing at the cross, marriage is one of them.

Many people in the past were assigned people to be married to. It was often for the so called betterment of the families involved. Can you imagine mom and pop saying, by the way here is so and so. You will be married and hopefully have many children.

Here is my point in Change ok? In the old covenant there were priests and they did for you. Sacrifices whatever if you were jewish of course.

But here in the New Covenant of Christ, each man is proclaimed the Priest and Prophet of his home. So he is called the head of the household. Thats a big responsibility. Equally as big is the Woman of the household.

Before I go any further, please realize I am commenting on a "Christian Marriage". In the scriptures I once read where the woman is regarded or described as a neck. That may not sound to glorifying, but in order for the head to function properly it needs to be grounded. The grounding is the neck. The neck is attached to the family unit or body if you will.

Before I go any further, remember wisdom is called "she". Then remember Proverbs 31. It is filled with a woman of wisdom. As a man seeking a godly wife I am drawn to Mercy because of her wisdom. I know we are partners because of this aspect of her that draws me like nothing else.

I know I can trust her. I know that we desire Gods best. I know that because of this inner aspect of wisdom that she will be a wonderful mother and wife.

Wisdom is just the bedfellow with instruction. Men are born with instruction. (Logic) We are innate in that. The issue that faces both men and women is if they will deviate from who God made them or not. Stray from wisdom ladies and you end up with a confusing life. Stray from instruction men and you will flounder forever.

Then there is the case of being equally yoked. If one is adept and the other deviated, where is true companionship and partnership?