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Tropical_Man 68M
6573 posts
7/7/2008 7:33 am
Just talked to Mercy

We had one of our daily chats.She amazes me her attitude she tries to keep. She has just a set of shirts and a pair of jeans. Everything else was stolen including her skin creams and stuff for her hair.

Her face is breaking out and she has to wash clothes almost everyday. Yet she tries to keep a positive attitude. Things have not been great here either and we just pray and thank God.

Its all temporal. People ask me why I wait so long. Why her. Yeah, I have had other options. But for me in my heart, she is perfect for me. I am a homebody and yet a explorer and she is too.

There are just many things. She knows I am 52 and don't have the perfect body. Never did. But she is accepting. The Lord put it on my heart to start fasting and praying in bits and pieces regarding the future. Prayer is welcome.

My heart is committed to giving her the best life that I can. My desires have went from above surviving to flourishing. I want to make money now because I want to leave behind for her and our as well as my Cory and his eventual family. Life is changing for me at this point in my life.

Mercy and I want to write a book someday telling of how God put us together. Jean Maxwell will have a special place in that because God used her to help me to see that I need not be overwhelmed if I take a step at a time.

People that know me always say there is this soft side to Dennis. Yeah, I am a softie. That is what Mercy was drawn to. I always treated her with respect and kindness. I was and am always for her. I have had women who liked me ask how can I choose a Nigerian woman 6000 miles away and with no guarantee she will ever be here over them?

Well I have known her now going on 9 years. I have allowed her to hold my heart in her hands and guard it, She would rather die than compromise our Love. Thats why she had to leave her Job. She Loves the Lord. She was sexually harassed constantly by a man working there, and they would not fire him or separate him from her.

She would rather die, and I mean that than lose her dignity. It means everything to her. I have met very few people who have the character she does. Especially in the country that she lives in. It is one of the most corrupt and vile places that there is. Yet she stands out as a bright beacon, never compromising her faith.

Many jobs she can not even think of because one of the prerequisites is that the woman sleep with the boss. Otherwise you do not get hired. There are limited jobs to begin with.

Thats why there are so many young men posing as women to get money from guys here. They have nothing else.

The things that we talk about are such a blessing. The door is not fully open yet. And yes it is frustrating. But your treasure is worth persevering for.



floridagal2 66F
1960 posts
7/7/2008 9:50 am

Thanks for sharing...I will pray for you both; for God to make a way for you to be together.


He is no fool if he should choose to lose the things he cannot keep to gain what he can never lose.....Jim Elliott


Deena


Tropical_Man 68M
6389 posts
7/7/2008 2:01 pm

thank You


Tropical_Man 68M
6389 posts
7/7/2008 5:21 pm

I have known her 9 years, seen her on cam and we talk each day. Before I ever got involved I knew who she was.


Tropical_Man 68M
6389 posts
7/7/2008 5:25 pm

Lets see I have copies of her Passport, slip for her visa attempt, HS id and college id's, her college and HS classes and grades.


Tropical_Man 68M
6389 posts
8/10/2008 4:00 pm

she is my fiance' for 3 years now. I have known her this my 9th year