Resting in Christ's unconditional love releases me from the pressure to perform for others. I can feel free to be myself. That is what I have been learning.
My Ideal Person
When a woman meets a man another's personality or appearance can stimulate a desire to get to know one another better. Of course, they eventually need to determine one another's integrity and character, and those two qualities are important to me. I also believe you should listen to your heart about qualities you desire. Many compose the body of Christ and in such a large body of believers Jesus gives us our uniqueness that attracts a certain type of individual. For me I like someone who is open to trying new activities or challenges. However, I truly believe you should not feel you need someone to feel complete. Also, popular psychology may advise overcoming a broken heart by dating as soon as possible again. However, when someone is on the rebound I believe you need God and time to heal your heart and not me! Furthermore, you cannot truly know someone without being face to face. People are complex and it can take a while to really get to know someone. Therefore, trust is a fundamental foundation in a relationship and that takes time to establish.
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