My Ideal Person
First I am a self sufficient woman who can take care of herself, but seeks a significant other for companionship. I am looking for someone who puts God first in their life, who is caring, loving, kind, giving, supportive. Someone who has goals and aspirations. Someone who knows how to be a kid, but also knows when it's time to be serious. Someone who is willing be my friend first and for most. I'm tired of all the stupid dating games, and tired of one sided relationships. I believe two people in a relationship should be equally caring and giving. At times the scales tip but in the end it should all equal out. I have a lot to offer someone who is willing to do the same in return.

I believe past and present relationships weather they are with significant others,friends or family make up who we are and who we become. I have learned a lot from past relationships, good and bad. On the good side,I have learned that a true friendship can surpass a lot of hard times and problems. I have learned that there is no better feeling then truly being in love with someone and giving your all. I've learned that spending even a short amount of time with a significant other is better then not spending any time at all. I've learned that no matter how hard it might be to talk about how you feel or the issues you are having, it is better to communicate and deal with what is taking place, then to keep it all bottled up inside and then let it explode. I've learned that it's the little things that count in life. Like those times when someone picks up the phone just to call to say HI, and tell you they were thinking of you. I've learned that if you truly love someone you will be supportive and want what is best for them, even if your not part of that picture. I've learned it's easy to be blind to what is going on around you, and to open my eyes more, and be willing to listen to friends and family opinions. On the bad side, I've learned that people easily take for granted those things you do for them. I've learned that men can be gold diggers just as much as women can be. I've learned that no matter how hard you try if both of you are not giving a 100% into the relationship, it won't work. I've learned that I deserve better then some of my past relationships. I've learned that people you thought you could count on and be supportive won't always be there for you. I've learned that the people who mean the most to you can greatly disappoint you. But most of all I have learned that the past lessons are stepping stones to making me a stronger person, and preparing me for who I truly deserve

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Please describe your faith. How important is your faith to you?
I grew up in a Baptist Christian home and I attend church weekly. God is my life.

Which Scripture verses are most important to you?
Psalms 61: 1,2

Why is a Christian relationship so important to you?
I have tried dating men in the past whos life does not center around God, and it does not work. The relationships are lacking a lot. It is important to abide by what God has told us to not be unequally yoked.

Where did you grow up? Where have you traveled? What are some of your favorite places to visit?
It is good to share the same values, morals and life goals, to serve God.

What is your day like? Describe your daily routine.
Up early, go to work, go for a walk on my lunch break, sit in fun trafic, cook dinner, relax watching tv, or surfing the net.

What are some of your personal and spiritual goals?
Spiritual goal is to constant work towards improving my relationship with God. To spend more alone time with God. Personal goals, is to continue to improve my health. Working towards losing weight. Other goals to finish the repairs on my house. To also purchase a 69 Mach1 428cj.