I am praying for a best friend who, enjoys laughter, isnt afraid to talk and share his feelings, someone really special that is loving and understands men and women are different and our needs are different, we will respect each other, and strive to understand each other and laugh at our silly mistakes. We will support one another in hard times, and love each other through them. We will have a relationship so full of trust that that bond wont be broken by small insecurities. We will know where we stand and that is in each others arms. My best friend and I will enjoy traveling together, getting to know each others families good and bad and respecting them. We will communicate our feelings openly and honestly. We will enjoy outdoor activities as well as quiet moments together at home chatting about our day, or kids, families, etc. My best friend, will love me unconditionally as I will love him unconditionally. We respect the fact that we both are human and will make mistakes, but both of us will talk about them, and grow from them. We will give each other needed space to be independant and free to enjoy who we are as individuals as well as a couple.
God will be our center focus, and we will use him as our guide through our good times and bad. We will pray together, and have friendships with supportive God fearing people that understand the importance of him in our lives.
My best friend will celebrate birthdays, holidays, and successes with me and together we will smile, and laugh and embrace the happiness that goes along with these special times.We wont loose our focus on the important things in life, families, friendships and mostly being together and building something wonderful that lasts.
My best friend will be someone I respect, look forward to talking to, will hold me when I cry, and laugh with me when I am silly or do something goofy. I will do the same for him. We will embrace every learning experience in life and use it to grow closer every day. We will be a team. Two people striving for good things in life, who work hard during the week, but still love each other deeply and our loyalties and trust will be our foundation for true meaningful love.
I have often asked myself, what do I need to do to be a good partner. I think over time I have learned to be a good partner, we must not be self seeking, but yet set healthy boundries. It is important to know what you want out of life and not except less then that. It is okay to be who you are and to accept others for who they are. In order to be a good partner, I feel you must have a God centered life and follow the elements of 1 Corinthians 13. Being a good partner does not involve control or dominance, being a good partner consists of freedom to love by choice. I want a partner who loves me by choice. Who wants to be with me by choice, and yet who knows who he is and will work hard to achieve it. A good partner will be the Apple of both of our eyes, attractive, someone who takes good care of themselves emotionally first and of course physicallly. A good parent figure, someone who is respected by others but most importantly me, as I would hope they would respect me also.
There is no hurry to rush into love and romance. Its okay to be lonely sometimes, or to be alone. I have learned time alone is okay as it really makes us think about what is most important to us.
Thank you in advance for your interest and may God Bless both of us as we go through this journey together
My Ideal Person:
My ideal person will love God, be kind, generous with his love and affection, and an open communicator. He will be a good example for my son. He will be playful, have a good sense of humor, would be willing to be part of my family, and enjoy togetherness.
He must put God first, enjoy holding my hand in church and while we pray together. A good heart, genuine personality. If we are from different denominations, it is important that he understand that we need to be open minded about God and study together to learn the truth.
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