I believe that we get to, and have to, create relationships to be the way we want them to be... regardless of what other people think, or of what seems "normal". This takes open-mindedness, maturity and courageous communication. I strive for that in myself, and seek it in others...I believe that we get to, and have to, create relationships to be the way we want them to be... regardless of what other people think, or of what seems "normal". This takes open-mindedness, maturity and courageous communication. I strive for that in myself, and seek it in others.
I myself am a big-hearted, warm person... creative, intelligent, and flexible. Generous in spirit and manner. A little nerdy. A little adventurous (and trying to become more so…). Playful and a bit quirky.. Open to many possibilities, new experiences, and always learning. I value differences as well as commonalities...am not looking for a clone of myself! I can be a little shy at first, but warm up pretty quickly. I may not be anyone’s idea of arm-candy, but I am very sweet to those are open-hearted and open-minded.
I am kind of an old-school lesbian feminist who came of age in the 80's in the context of women's music and feminist activism. In some ways, that is still at the core of who I am. I am unconventional in appearance... pretty androgynous on the butch side of center. But I don't place a lot of stock in butch/femme roles or stereotypes. I can be cute and sexy in a big-ol’-dyke kinda way… *(-;
I enjoy women who are creative in any medium or modality... creative processes fascinate me. I appreciate beauty in many forms, especially the unexpected ones... and seek those who place more value in substance than surface. I find I'm drawn to women who flaunt their uniqueness and quirky qualities, who have the guts to be themselves in a conformist world. Most of my favorite people in the world are those who are/were nerds. In relationship, mutual attention and affection are important to me, as well as honesty (of course). I don't expect perfection by any means. Most relationships of value are not instantly easy. But I do expect willingness to explore, persistent hopefulness, open communication and mutual respect.
I am in the midst of the gradual break up of a long-term relationship. I expect that to be an ongoing factor in my life for a while. I am not seeking to replace that relationship right away. But I am looking to meet women outside of my current social circle (of mostly couples) for friendship, dating, companionship, mutual enjoyment and support, and intimacy if the chemistry is right. I cannot claim to be completely "baggage free"... and truly, I think that most people who make that claim are kidding themselves... but I do have pretty good boundaries, and don't need to dump my stuff all over you!
I deserve love, affection, respect, attention, admiration, appreciation and acceptance.... and so do you! If you like what you’ve read, drop me a line. We’ll chat and see if there’s anything there worth pursuing…I am kind of an old-school lesbian feminist who came of age in the 80's in the context of women's music and feminist activism. In some ways, that is still at the core of who I am. I am unconventional in appearance... pretty androgynous on the butch side of center. But I don't place a lot of stock in butch/femme roles or stereotypes. I can be cute and sexy in a big-ol’-dyke kinda way… *(-;
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