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I'm an intelligent, talented, attractive, confident, capable woman who has been taking care of herself since 1999. You could say I'm tired of the single life now. I moved to a city (well not even really a city..lol) where I knew absolutely no one and have made a very good life for myself. I work as the bookkeeper/secretary for a large construction company, with many other side companies as well to keep me on my toes. Never a dull day in my office. But that doesn't mean I'm stuck here for the rest of my life. I'm ready to find someone as interested in settling down as I am. I love my church and either play the keyboard or work with music for 's church when I'm able to attend. God has always been my pilot, not co-pilot. So it is important to me to find someone who will be by my side at church. I'm not saying he would have to leave his church and join mine, I just want someone who is willing to go to church together, somewhere, as a I don't play games in a relationship and I demand monogamy! That translates, "I DON'T SHARE". :-) I make a good living, have a nice house I'm renting from my boss, and don't live near any of my relatives...haha. My is the closest and she is four hours away. I would like to see her more often, but if you have grown , especially one in college, you know what a challenge it is to get them away from their friends for a visit. I have a special , also, who lives in a care facility in Valdosta. It's a long story how he ended up in Georgia and me in Mississippi. Ask me and I'll tell ya all about it. Older men who come with grandchildren are encouraged to contact me. I want to grandma so bad, but my is just too young to start having yet. My will never have . I can't have any more but am open to someone who has either living with them or just visiting on the weekends. I love . To sum it all up, I'm not looking for someone I can live with, I'm looking for someone I CAN'T LIVE WITHOUT!!
My Ideal Person
I'm looking for a sincere, honest, trustworthy, hard-working, one-woman, romantic, sensual man who isn't looking for a maid or cook (I can do those things but that shouldn't be my primary job in a relationship), but rather is looking for a loving, sensual companion to spend the rest of his life with. I want someone who will be just as excited to see me when I walk through the door as I will be to see him. I want a Christian man who will be the Christian leader of my home and will sit by my side at church. What's on the inside of a man (his heart and soul) is so much more important than what is on the outside. He's gotta be a straight up man of integrity, or it just won't work.
What are your favorite television shows?:
Law and Order, All My Children, Vegas, Without a Trace,
Deal or No Deal
Favorite films:
The Matrix
What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Lynyrd Skynyrd, Gaither Vocal Band
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Please describe your faith. How important is your faith to you?
I was raised believing and continue to believe. Without God in my life I wouldn't have made it through the tragedies I've endured. Raising a severely mentally/physically disabled would have been impossible without my faith in God and all the prayers of my faithful friends.
Which Scripture verses are most important to you?
My favorite scripture say, "I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me!" That is the story of my life. Without Christ strengthing me I would not have been able to raise my son at home as long as I did.
Why is a Christian relationship so important to you?
A relationship without Christ as the center will never meet it's full potential. There will always be disagreements and pitfalls in a marriage. Without Christ as the center the arguments will become too worldly to allow the marriage to withstand the troubles.
Where did you grow up? Where have you traveled? What are some of your favorite places to visit?
I grew up in Greenville, Mississippi. I had the pleasure of touring the Holy Land when I was 17. I also spent a few days and nights in Rome, Italy. I moved to Georgia in 1997 and back to Mississippi (McComb area) in 2005.
What are your favorite activities both at Church and outside?
I love to play music. I think I'm a pretty good player. I played for my church in Georgia for over 5 years before I moved here. I will be playing for my niece's wedding in April. I'm pretty stoked about that! I have played some here. I have also directed the children's church music teaching them sign language to some beautiful songs.
What is your day like? Describe your daily routine.
I get up around 6:30am. Get ready for work. Drive the 3 minutes it takes me to get there. Do my job, somedays it's routine and somedays it is "turbulent"...haha. I usually come straight home after work and read or watch TV. I live in the boonie-boonies so I don't go to town too much unless I'm going for work. I go to bed between 8:00pm and 2:00am, depending on when I can get to sleep.
What are some of your personal and spiritual goals?
Personal goals - 1)Finish my accounting degree 2)Move my son to a care facility closer to me
3)Buy a Clavinova, or similar keyboard for home
4)Build my own home - the one I designed. But that is probably a long, long, long range goal..lol
Spiritual goals - 1)To become a better educated Christian. Meaning learn more of the Bible.
2)Get back into the music ministry full-time.
3)Spend more time teaching the kids in children's church to worship God through sign language.
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