I'm a Christian but do not attend any organized church and do not plan to. Looking for someone similar, no holy rollers, but believes in Christ and tries to follow His Path. I love reading, mostly fantasy/Sci Fi, true crime and psychology books.I'm into the metaphysical and my belief is that it all comes God. I'm an animal lover and you must be one too. I'm at a very comfortable place, financial secure time in my life, I have found inner Peace all thanks to God. I am not seeking someone to complete me, but rather to ADD to it. I've been described as very bright (not intellectual) and a great sense of humor. I figure I'll give this place a shot since it aligns with some of my values. I'm chubby/fat but parts of me look darn good. I'm Japanese with no ren and at this age, thank God I can't have any. I don't care if you do, but at this age, I assume your s are grown ups themselves and not tiny s. I have strong beliefs and yet most of the time I'm mellow and easy going. I have relationships with people that have lasted for over 30 years - I value friends when I find them, they are from all walks of life and all different shades. I love diversity, I do love change and I love technology.
My Ideal Person
I find that I have more commonality with someone who has the same cultural background as myself and I'm more attracted to orientals like myself. I find just a few non-orientals attractive, including haoles, but very few. My eyes always go to a Japanese or Chinese guy in public. I like a man to be a man, not Taisho, but to be strong. He has to have morals and integrity like myself, not have a lot of emotional and mental package (I've worked thru mines). Gotta tolerate my smoking and love animals yourself. I love ALL animals, even snakes. I don't like people who have a quick temper or get mad frequently. I'm a mellow person and don't like negative energies...nor braggats...need to be intelligent or be able to discuss subjects intelligently. I'm not into sports, but my ex b/f use to be and I'd go to games and stuff. I guess I am enjoying this peace in my life, doing what I wanna do, but looking for a dude to enhance it. I'm not into workouts and lifting and all that. I HATE hiking, I did it once a few years ago and it reminded me why I don't like it. But I wouldn't mind doing an easy one, i.e. I don't get all dirty and mosquito bitten, like the Aiea trail. I'm not into camping, and use to fish, but that's not high on my list. I come from a line of fishermen so being there and done that. I'm not high maintenance, and you shouldn't be either. If you are unable to form relationships with women, for whatever reason, pass me by too. Looks matter, but I kinda go for the off beat kind of guy...it's more of what is inside of you that will interest me...but at this age, most stuff are wrinkling, sagging and greying anyway. If you're looking for a young looking chickie or a hot body, it ain't me either.
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