My Ideal Person
I am looking for someone who believes that a long lasting frelationship is based on common likes and dislikes. Someone who wants to be best friends. No not attached at the hip but someone that you feel comfortable with and someone that you feel that you can tell anything too and they won't judge you for your thoughts for feelings. Nor hold it against you just because you believe or desire something different than them. I believe that a couple can have a lot in common and still have their own individuality. I am interested in finding someone who is serious about dating and wants a long term relationship. I would like to get married again some where down the road. When it comes to health I am very sensitive about it. I have had a serious back injury that caused me to gain a lot of weight. I am now under the care of an excellent physician who is helping me get the weight off and it is working so I am interest in someone who is not hung up on physical appearances. On the inside I am just as normal as any other person or woman. Just bigger. I have the same feelings and desires as anyone else and I am sensitive to some of the nasty comments that have been made to me about my size. I walk a mile daily and it is working, but it takes times. So I am looking for someone who does not care if I am perfect on the outside, but who cares more for what is on the inside. I have two grown children. I cannot have any others. But I would love someone elses children as if they were my own. I have no problems with that. Large mixed families blend well together and just give you more to love. I have an 8 year old grandson who is a blessing to me. I would like my date to be someone relaxed, interested in me as I would be interested in him. Someone who could relax and enjoy a warm laughing conversation as we began to get to know each other. I would like him to be down to earth, honest, not worried about physical appearances. Not judgemental about my past as I would not be about his. Someone who loves the outdoors, animals and family along with the church as I do. I love traditions, the ones that I have built with my children and I want to build and honor traditions that my partner would bring to the relationship also. Iwoldlove my date to be adventurous, respectful of me as I would be of him, courteous in that he would open doors for me and yet modern in that if he forgot it or had his hands full it is no big deal. I tend to be attractedto people who are gentle and relaxed. Not afraid to strike up a conversation. I will know there is chemistry on the first date if I feel as if toward the end of the date I can lean over and just lay my head on his shoulder for just a second. My future goals are to just find someone who can be my friend for life and let the rest fall or build naturally. A good relationship takes time and friendships need to be built. Chemistry can be the same way. It may not be there on the first date, but given time it can be there and it can be something wonderful and worth waiting for.

Favorite films: Titanic is one of them, but I don't know that I have one in particular that I favor

What are your favorite musicians or bands?: I don't think I really have one

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