My Ideal Person
In relationships I seek a genuine partner, a serious relationship that will turn something meaningful. It's very easy to find people who will wander into your life, play various games (that ultimately are self-interest based) & who will get scared away for various different reasons. I'm looking for a peer & that does not mean academic or otherwise - I'm talking about a real human being who from his free choice after having gotten to know me, can think & feel with heart & mind that our paths should be together & not separate & that I feel likewise to his. I'm looking for a man with a good heart & a brave personality. A sometimes stubborn, often thoughtful man who puts a great deal of effort in for no other reason then he feels that this is the "right thing to do" & enjoys being this way. A man who is affectionate and playful and not manipulative nor exploitive. We are both responsible for our own actions & decisions. I won't chase you & I won't tell you how to live your life. I do not seek a relationship that is ignorant of marriage. I'm not your "boss" & I'm not your "slave" – I just wanna be your partner. I'm seeking a serious long term relationship and more. Someone special to capture my heart and knows how to handle it with care, one who will cherish me and be willing to share life's greatest joys and sorrows.
My plans for the future are simply to be happy - wherever and however that comes about doesn't really matter. The kind of man I'm looking for has to be honest and trustworthy - beyond that other things are less important, but obviously there has to be some attraction both physically and mentally. Age, within reason, doesn't bother me at all. You're as young or old as you allow yourself to be and age is no barrier to loving someone. the other important thing is that the ideal man for me will be an equal partner, with both of us having equal say in every decision in life. My past relationships shown a vivid imaginations & unrealistic expectations with multiple hidden agendas. I've learnt it is far better to find a friend who may develop in time into a serious romance then to follow initial chemistry & intimacy only to later learn that the person you're with is nothing of the person you fell in love with, or worse that they are only in love with an illusion of who they think you are. I will be happy to make the most of the fact that we have found each other. I am looking for a strong, intelligent, self-confident man, who can allow me to experience what I have dreamt of since I was a little girl. I do not want to disclose what that is here, but I want to say that it isn't about S&M, or pain or bondage and the like. I am clever enough to know that there are better places to look for something like that than here. I've learnt its best to seek someone who will meet you half-way and seeks out a fair and equitable relationship with someone who is nice and enjoys my company