My Ideal Person:
Speaking for myself: Physically,I don't really have a type-I guess I would just know,I really don't have a preference. I want a man to communicate with. I specifically want communication about feelings, needs, wants, hopes, dreams, problems, solutions, and all other things that can make a relationship work. I also want communication about expectations and plans. I would rather put things on the table than sweep them under the rug. I just want a man who can communicate, listen, and respond.
Like men, I also want a partner who will commit to the relationship for the long haul. I want a man who wants fidelity and values it as a cornerstone of building a relationship. Men know women want long-term commitment and fidelity, but sometimes misinterpret this desire as neediness. They may think women want the commitment for security reasons, to complete the woman or even to own the man.
That so not the issue with me, I want a man who enjoys what life has to offer. I want a man who knows how to play, who is not afraid to make a fool of himself, who lives his passions. I want a man of creative, intellectual, playful substance. I want a man who will care deeply about my needs and wants without losing himself in the process. I want a man who can recognize and acknowledge what he wants and address it; a man who can say no or yes, depending on which one is more true to his heart; a man who can give to his relationship and partner without sacrificing himself.
I want a man who knows where he is going career-wise, and is on the way to getting there (if he isn't there already) I want a man who has dreams and is working on making them happen. I want a man who uses the tool of money wisely, and knows how to be both frugal and generous. I don't care what he makes or what his career profession is.
Looking for someone that wants to be real ~ just honest talk and sharing. Seeking similar to enjoy life as it happens. Relationships are give and take and I would love to make that special someone happy too. Anyone can be stimulated by physical appearance but, if you can stimulate me on an emotional, spiritual and intellectual level, then perhaps that's something to be pursued.
Hey, we are all entitled to be selective and we are obviously on here seeking something...and to be honest with you I would prefer to meet someone with the same interests.