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 | JavaGirlTC said My 23-year marriage ended in divorce. At 43 years of age I wondered if I would even be able to find someone special. I longed for a Godly husband and it seemed that I kept getting hit on by octogenerians or guys interested in sex. I attended singles' Bible studies and other single events and it just seemed that the women were there looking for husbands and the men were hurting from broken relationships and didn't want any new ones. I began to get discouraged. I prayed that God would send me a Godly husband FAST! Every once in a while when I logged on to check my email, an ad for BigChurch would pop up. One day I had a strong impression to click on it and join. I thought, "What the heck, I can spring 20-bucks for one month just to see what happens." The very next day I had three emails from three great guys who seemed to be exactly what I was looking for. It was important to me to find someone who was strong in their Christian faith. These three men had exactly that, plus more! One of the guys, Greg, was looking for a wife who had a heart for the Lord. He had only a few days left on his BigChurch membership and he wasn't planning on renewing. The timing of our meeting was pretty amazing. We began to correspond daily by email and by phone. I was living in the West and he lived in the Midwest. One week after "meeting" on BigChurch he asked me to marry him! He flew me out to his city and put me up in a hotel. We spent five days together. I attended his church where he played guitar on the worship team and we went to lunch with his pastor. Three weeks later Greg flew out west and met my kids. It was only a couple weeks later that he moved my kids and me to the Midwest. Exactly three months to the day after meeting on BigChurch we were married! An odd thing is that after we met, the ads for BigChurch stopped appearing on my screen! Greg and I finding each other has been an answer to prayer for both of us. This all seemed to happen so fast and in such an unusual way. It was a little scary initially---meeting someone on-line, because you can never know if the person really is who they claim to be. But then again, even people you meet in person can misrepresent themselves. All I can say is be prayerful, be careful, and allow God to bring about a miracle for you. I know He did just that for Greg and I through BigChurch. |
| Godsgirl1949 said Hi, my name is Audrey. I signed up on Bigchurch.com in July 2004. My requirements for a husband were very unusual and narrow as far as the main population goes.I had met some friends, but no one really fit the bill until Stan came along.He is a wonderful, talented man of God, and on top of that, he is absolutely gorgeous! After a couple of emails, there were hours and hours of phone conversation.The next week, Stan flew out to see me.The moment we looked into each others eyes, we knew we were meant for each other.The time we spent together was short, but quality, confirming what God has intended for us as a couple. Stan bought me a beautiful committment ring before he returned to Missouri. We continue our phone conversations, I will be flying out to where he is in Dec. 2004 to meet his family. In January, he plans to relocate to North Carolina, where I am, we plan to be married in the spring.Thank you Bigchurch.com! for without you, and God using your site, Stan and I would have not found each other.Our heartfelt thanks to you Bigchurch.com!!!!!!! Godsgirl1949 Audrey and Stan | |
| Godsprincess88 said I'm not the typical person that would search for love or friendship on the internet. A friend recommended this site to me. I was skeptical at first but decided, hey it's a Christian site...I'll give it a try. And since then I thank my friend every day for telling me about this great site. There are soo many good people on here. I even met a guy on here. It may not be love but on the bright side I have a new friend whom without BigChurch I would not have met. Thanks for the memories BigChurch!! | |
| Jesus743 said I want to thank you for having us on as members. We found friendship through BigChurch in Sept. 2004, Jesus 743, Nun Louise Mcgee and A McDaniel. We talk every day by email. He is in Africa and I’m in Lawrenceville, GA. If it be God’s will, one day we will meet face to face. He is helping the refugees there and I do the same work here with the homeless. we are a lot a like. I just want to say thanks again. I pray that others meet someone like a friend I made. God bless you all. | |
 | rebornlady said After the divorce, I though it would be easy to marry again. Then, the reality showed me that it was not going to be so easy. It was different then, as I was not leaving my parents to live our own life. When marrying for the second time, I was inviting someone to join to my existing family, and this meant I had to be very wise! Here in bigchurch I had opportunity to make many friends and meet some of them, a great experience. When I first wrote to Otto, it was because I could see he speaks Portuguese among other languages. I never thought he would be my husband! But, as he had a daughter as old as my daughter and a son as old as my son, I knew he was able to see my children as his own children. Therefore, I decided we could be friends. We talked so many times on the phone, for long hours, and after 4 months he decided to visit me. Then I was sure he was the person I would like to have as my husband. After that meeting, we decided to pray and see if the Lord had plans for us together. For other four months we prayed and I did a fast every Saturday, and this time we had to pray without contact was very important. I wanted God to show me what I could not see. I did not only wanted the ideal person for me, but also I wanted to be the ideal person for him. Then, the day came when we could talk and we were sure about the guidance of the Lord. We got married 7 months later and it is wonderful to see how God has blessed our two families, now only one. And we know it is only the beginning of much more He has for us. I want to encourage people to keep seeking the face of the Lord while waiting for the soul mate. God really cares and He knows who is the best for you and also who needs you as you are. And if you ask Him, He will put both of you together. I wish I could express into words how happy we are! God bless you all! |
 | Teddienours said How understand the other? Maybe several women will have an advice to me ! Is there a way to keep the man we love ? Or it’s always impossible? The best maybe is to get marriage with a friend like made our grand parents? I’m a French woman, very believer and wise, alone since 17 years. I believed I met the good ones… Usually most of men wrote me are too young, under 30 and I’m 49, then I choice myself : his answer was exactly I wanted ! Perfect! We met in May and it was a really Honey Moon…. Everything was marvelous! We pried, we went at church together, we met my friends, we go out, and even we had some intimate and passionate relations. I loved him like never before him, my love to him was without limit ! We needed to separate ourseves because he is living in USA… In July, his second visit was a Hell ! He was completely different, selfish, liar.. And several days ago, I discovered on my own computer a letter he wrote to his mistress when I was at work. I had a chock! a big pain! I really thought a man knows so good the Scriptures, go at Church every Sunday, read Bible and pry every day make this bad thing! I don’ t understand! I know, we need waiting be married to sleep in the same bed, but I sincerely believed his is sent by Christ. In my heart he was my husband! No, I’m not mad! I had a strange dream in 2000 : I met my husband, his name begin with a K, his has lost a part of his hear, he doesn’t speak French… so when I sent my wink, I only saw him with a base ball cap, and I don’t see his name.. In an other side I almost forgot this dream.. I’m living in a Country where speak about religion or paranormal is not easy. Most of my friends and neighbors don’t believe in God. Is it possible Jesus answers our personal questions and help us to build a new marriage? I don’t understand anything and I hope somebody somewhere will help me and bring me a support. I'm crying whole the night and a part of the day. I think I never had a so big sorrow. Everything seem void and black. I will answer at you too. God bless you. T |
| Tabea said Durch bigchurch war es mir möglich, in den Kontakt mit Christen ganz unterschiedlicher Prägung zu kommen.Die Kommunikation in den chatroom ist nicht immer einfach, wenn man sich jedoch die Mühe macht, einzelnen Leuten zuzuhören und mit Ihnen eine Freundschaft aufbauen kann, ist dieses "Erlebnis" sehr bereichernd . Ich lebe in Österreich, daher ist es normal, dass ich persönliche Leute von bc in Österreich getroffen habe.Aber auch meine telefonischen Kontakte zu Freunden aus der bc comminity aus Amerika, Australien, Südafrika und Westeuropa will ich nicht missen. Eine Seite wie bigchurch gibt es im deutschsprachigen Raum nicht, ich bin sehr froh, dass ich Sie gefunden habe.Danke. | |
 | nonado said I have been off and on of these sites for about the last 6 or 7 years. Although I am not married yet that is ok I have met some wonderful Christian people who have added much to my life. One of the first friends I met lived in CA and I was in Texas. I contacted him but not as a potential mate. He said in his profile that he worked in the ministry and also did some counseling. I had a couple of questions I wanted his opinon on so I wrote. Long story short...we became the very best of friends. That has been about 7 years ago and he is still my best friend. He met someone else online and got married. It all went pretty fast for him and I am sorry to say it didn't work out. We are still best of friends. I guess my point is....life happens sometimes good and sometimes not so good. It is a wonderful thing to have people in your life through the thick and the thin. People who will encourage you and pray for you no matter what. Take your time on here and as far as that goes off of here too. It takes time to really learn a person. Make some good friends who will be there for a life time. They are priceless. God bless you all in your efforts to meet people who will enhance your life. Tonja (nonado) |
| rebornlady said We are so thankful to Bigchurch for providing us with a way to find each other! OttoHGies and me got married on the 21st of June! God has given us much more than what we could have ever asked, dreamed or prayed for. Our God is faithful! |
| mamahendro said Wow! It really can happen. I met Michael on May 15 - just a simple hello was all it took. On August 9 we got married! How cool is that! :-) He truly met my every desire in finding a God-fearing man, an example that my own sons can finally look up to! Praise the Lord! Thank you, BigChurch, for a great site! Michael and Christine Dunn | |
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