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Why people do not respond 8/18/2007
I have spent some time sending emails on this site with no
response. I think that this can be one of the most fustrating
things about online dating. It seems like most people feel
that no response is a loud and clear NO I AM NOT INTERESTED.
This couldn't be farther from the truth. If somone
sits down and takes the time to write an email Wouldn't
writing a response however sort be a ...
14 Comments, 408 Views,
36 Votes
,6.00 Score
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How do u explain to another culture that u only date your own kind without acting racist? 12/28/2007
I am not attracted to east indian, european, african, or
asian men. I find that their cultures are too different
from my own, as well as I just do not like accents, I find them
very hard to understand. My parents are predjudiced and
I want their blessing on who I date so that there is harmony
in our relationship. Many times online I chat with guys
without pics because they are interesting. ...
8 Comments, 401 Views,
31 Votes
,0.84 Score
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saying not to sex. 6/23/2008
yes i have had sexual relationships in the past, which makes
me able to talk to you on this topic. it isn't easy saying
NO, and that is why i have entered into sexual relationships
before. i deeply regret NOT saving myself for the person
who i will spend my life with, when god sends me that special
somone. now i have to live with the mistakes that ive made
when i could have listened to the ...
6 Comments, 332 Views,
53 Votes
,8.78 Score
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My boyfriend...is a possessive control freak. 10/19/2006
I dont know why i'm still with him. Maybe its because
I'm afraid of being alone. Nah!
I can take care of myself. Who needs him?
Since day one, he's acted weird.
His name is Fred. He's in University, getting his Doctorate.
He works for the government. Has lots of christian friends.
Yet, he's both verbally and physically abusive to
me. He's a control freak. ...
7 Comments, 329 Views,
19 Votes
,4.97 Score
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"No Sex"!! 4/26/2007
Why is it so hard to find a man that believes and follow allof
god'd rules?
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Whay do they follow so and totally dis regard the others?
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I am looking for a man that respect the " No Sex Before
Marriage Rule". Unfortunately I'm getting
the idea that he does not exisit!
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I am divorced and have a 13 year old . I am interested in ...
7 Comments, 272 Views,
14 Votes
,6.34 Score
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being honest 7/11/2008
If your not interested in that person just be honest and
tell them. Don't beat around the bush. If you don't
tell them it will hurt them in the long way. And try to break
it to them gently; following the golden rule. Treat others
as you would have them treat you.
8 Comments, 266 Views,
43 Votes
,7.47 Score
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The first meet 12/8/2006
Generally once you have decided to meet up for the first
time it is wise to take a few precautions. You may have come
to this conclusion through e-mails or even chatting on
a mobile phone (you may or may not have been happy about giving
this out).
Whatever the case you have both made the decision and are
keen to meet face to face for the first time (eyeball each
other).
...
5 Comments, 249 Views,
27 Votes
,6.82 Score
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Attraction isn't a choice! 6/23/2008
Guys, don't take it personally if you get shut down.
Women don't decide to feel attraction for men. They
don't consider all of his positive qualities, then
add up all the dinners and flowers a man has purchased… and
finally consider how “nice” he has been… then mentally
say “OK, I’m going to feel attracted to him”.
It's either there ...
2 Comments, 184 Views,
30 Votes
,5.20 Score
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Really Get To Know The Person 8/8/2008
I've been a new member for a couple of weeks now and I've
had a few hits. These hits are NEED TO BE MISSES. The women
I've met saying we should be together and the only way
to do so is send money to get them out of their situation.
9 Comments, 182 Views,
17 Votes
,6.80 Score
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How many polite ways are there to say NO? 2/13/2007
Seeing the title of this section of the magazine really
made me stop and think, just how many polite ways are there
of telling someone 'no thanks'without
them taking offence.
As a parent we learn ways of saying no to a chid, either by
direct methods like, "mummy doesn't think that's
a good idea", or "later on", and even "that's
not very safe/good for ...
3 Comments, 178 Views,
20 Votes
,5.93 Score
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Sex on t.v 2/11/2007
Have you noticed how when we are watching tv now how full
nudity sex scenes are becoming as common as breathing,
Are we just accepting that "Things will get worse"
and just doing nothing about it.
When i sit down to watch a film i do not want to see more sex
than stoyline, The producers seem to put scenes of this
nature in at every opportunity, I love a good film, but i'm
more ...
8 Comments, 161 Views,
14 Votes
,3.94 Score
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† HONESTY: an easy 5 step guide to saying "No Thanks." † 9/9/2007
First of all, relax before you read this. Breath
from your stomach a few sighs (not from your chest), think
of God's divine being, and know that everything is
going to be fine.
Yes it may hurt your pride, or someone else's approval
of you, and most of all the person you are saying "no
thanks" to. However, God's approval is first
and not people's approval.
...
2 Comments, 152 Views,
26 Votes
,4.54 Score
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Just be honest 7/15/2008
I may still be single and alone, but I've NOT gone through
what so many have in "bad" relationships. Why,
because I want a mate that meets God's standards and
the ONE God has chosen for me. I take dating seriously and
don't believe it is something to be "casual"
about. If there is just one thing that doesn't meet
the desire God has placed in my heart, no matter how much
I want to say ...
2 Comments, 146 Views,
29 Votes
,4.24 Score
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You gotta have "Faith" 11/13/2007
Sometimes we can feel lonely in our singleness and that
can cause us to act rashly. This is a song that has helped
me through the years to deal with my singleness and celebacy.
It is a secular song, but it will steer you in the right direction
all the same.
"Well I guess it would be nice
If I could touch your body
I know not everybody
Has got a body like you
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3 Comments, 145 Views,
15 Votes
,4.97 Score
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No means No 7/24/2007
Why is it that men often do not get it, that when a woman says
NO that it means NO, why do they think that the woman
is playing hard to get. OK, we know that the world has thrown
morals out of the window, but we as true followers of Christ
should remember that God wants the relationship to be pure.
I believe that we women need to respect ourself, if we do
not do it ourselves, men ...
7 Comments, 145 Views,
14 Votes
,3.94 Score
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Punished Out Of Wedlock? 9/5/2006
a preacher told a pregnant woman, she was being punished.
For getting pregnant out of wedlock. She decided not to
have the baby, which she later found out, were twins. She
took her boyfriend to the doctor appointment so she could
discuss getting an abortion. the boyfriend, said no, because
he wanted the . even though he already had 4 other
, from a previous marriage, he also wanted these ...
5 Comments, 145 Views,
15 Votes
,5.43 Score
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truth really hurts? 8/25/2006
true love doesnt rejoice in iniquity but in truth, i met
someone in person but right now he pressured me to get fiancee
visa but how will i tell him without hurting him NO THANKS,
give me time, lets pray about it yet i dont feel any connections
this time... how will tell him that. i want to be honest but
in what way will i let him know whats inside me without him
in pain hearing it...truth ...
2 Comments, 136 Views,
15 Votes
,3.90 Score
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How'd They Move So Fast?? 1/15/2009
It's int'resting with some dates, Even if they're crippled and hard of hearing, Just mention that you're celibate, And see how quick they're disappearing!
3 Comments, 119 Views,
11 Votes
,4.66 Score
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Trouble with saying no! 9/23/2009
I hate this word with a pasion! Whether its someone asking
me for a favour or simply peeps taking liberties i still
struggle. I guess Joyce Meyer would call me a People Pleaser??
Is this a bad thing?
5 Comments, 117 Views,
9 Votes
,2.14 Score
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Happiness after heartbreak 7/14/2007
There once was a girl who thought she had the perfect life.
She had a home and a car and a and a live in boyfriend.
Things were going well when all of a sudden there was a death
in the family. And while at the funeral God grabbed a hold
of this girls heart and everything changed! God spoke to
her and said:"you have done things your way long enough,
and today you have changed your ways ...
1 Comments, 90 Views,
8 Votes
,4.41 Score
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Scammers new tricks 9/5/2006
Hello,
just want to let you know that scammers have develop new
ways of getting at people. In addition to the promise of
marriage, and offer of business deal and request to transfer
of huge money to your account, they now employ the tactics
of telling their victim that the have one sickness or the
other, or that they were involved in an accident, or one
tragedy or the other that will ...
1 Comments, 85 Views,
8 Votes
,6.03 Score
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"Placing God first and Loving it" 11/17/2006
"A long road ahead and a vow to commitment".
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I have been through two marriages and a few engagements
in the past 25 years. I know one says "Wow" but
no excuses for me..I have made my own paths my own way and
have successfully lost at each relationship by not following
God's Devine Plan. I have searched deeply and souly
for answers as to why without ...
6 Comments, 81 Views,
10 Votes
,5.58 Score
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Honesty and Integrity are Key 10/27/2006
It all starts right here with you profile. If we are honest
with ourselves and other about who we are and what we are
looking for in a relationship then it is easier to remain
honest throughout the process. Ok. someone initiates
contact that you are not interested in. You have two choices
1.) Ignore them. and 2.) Reply with a short polite note saying
no thanks" If you have a clear reason ...
1 Comments, 76 Views,
71 Votes
,7.70 Score
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Modern Day Life and Rebuking Temptation 2/13/2007
I sat down to think about the reality of living in modern
day life which pertains to satan!We can't go by what
this world offers and the word sustains that, so Why do some
women and men ...mostly younger ones find it hard to rebuke
temptation when you have it in disguise or even plainly
in front of you?
Look reality is , sometimes we forget that our greatest
loss is not what we need as in ...
1 Comments, 70 Views,
10 Votes
,5.38 Score
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Learning to say NO 12/20/2007
Many are the times that we try so much to live out of our own
lives in order to please others and remain generally acceptable
to friends, family and people around us.But for how long
are we going to live lives that are not fulfilling because
we cxan not stand up and say NO when its needed?
When a person reaches a level where they can ably say NO when
its necessary then that is what i call ...
1 Comments, 59 Views,
13 Votes
,4.49 Score
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Just Maybe 11/23/2009
Always put yourself in others'
shoes. If you feel that it hurts you, it probably hurts the
other person too....
2 Comments, 58 Views,
5 Votes
,4.12 Score
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when do you feel you in love 3/24/2009
when do you fell you in love i want to know
0 Comments, 42 Views,
5 Votes
,1.84 Score
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genuineness 12/4/2007
when we walk with genuineness of heart there will always
be some great measure of satisfaction left behind in the
mind even though it might sometimes be painful during such
genuine walk. so we must endeavour to always walk in genuineness
of mind at all time
2 Comments, 28 Views,
3 Votes
,1.96 Score
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The Right Thing at the Wrong Time Is Still the Wrong Thing 1/8/2010
The Right Thing at the Wrong Time Is Still the Wrong Thing
Joshua Harris Author and Speaker Chapter five of "I Kissed Dating Goodbye" shows
that when we pursue romance is a major factor in determining
whether or not dating is appropriate for us.
And we can only determine the appropriate time to pursue
romance when we understand God's purpose for singleness
and trust His timing for ...
1 Comments, 21 Views,
4 Votes
,5.19 Score
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kind words are cheap but does great things 2/5/2007
Whenever we recieved KIND words from people around us we
get excited and refreshed. tat means Kind words has a healing
balm within it. But as often as we get KIND words from people
we sometimes forget that they are cheap and costless. and
if we do know that they are cheap and costless why then is
it difficult for some of us to give this cheap and costless
yet power source of great happiness ...
0 Comments, 16 Views,
2 Votes
,1.73 Score
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