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SongofSolomonD 46 M
10  Articles
The Right Thing at the Wrong Time Is Still the Wrong Thing   9/19/2008

The Right Thing at the Wrong Time Is Still the Wrong Thing Joshua Harris Author and Speaker Chapter five of "I Kissed Dating Goodbye" shows that when we pursue romance is a major factor in determining whether or not dating is appropriate for us.

And we can only determine the appropriate time to pursue romance when we understand God's purpose for singleness and trust His timing for ...


1 Comments, 21 Views, 4 Votes ,5.19 Score
yourprincesstobe 36 F
1  Article
when do you feel you in love   9/29/2007

when do you fell you in love i want to know


0 Comments, 42 Views, 5 Votes ,1.84 Score
stev00400 43 M
1541  Articles
genuineness   9/2/2007

when we walk with genuineness of heart there will always be some great measure of satisfaction left behind in the mind even though it might sometimes be painful during such genuine walk. so we must endeavour to always walk in genuineness of mind at all time


2 Comments, 28 Views, 3 Votes ,1.96 Score
ICorinthians13 66 F
2  Articles
How'd They Move So Fast??   6/15/2007

It's int'resting with some dates, Even if they're crippled and hard of hearing, Just mention that you're celibate, And see how quick they're disappearing!


3 Comments, 119 Views, 11 Votes ,4.66 Score
Ebonypriestess 60 F
10  Articles
Just Maybe   3/15/2007

Always put yourself in others' shoes. If you feel that it hurts you, it probably hurts the other person too....


2 Comments, 58 Views, 5 Votes ,4.12 Score
greatguyhere 41 M
1  Article
Really Get To Know The Person   1/22/2007

I've been a new member for a couple of weeks now and I've had a few hits. These hits are NEED TO BE MISSES. The women I've met saying we should be together and the only way to do so is send money to get them out of their situation.


9 Comments, 182 Views, 17 Votes ,6.80 Score
seriously_funny 35 M
2  Articles
Attraction isn't a choice!   1/12/2007

Guys, don't take it personally if you get shut down. Women don't decide to feel attraction for men. They don't consider all of his positive qualities, then add up all the dinners and flowers a man has purchased… and finally consider how “nice” he has been… then mentally say “OK, I’m going to feel attracted to him”.
It's either there ...


2 Comments, 184 Views, 30 Votes ,5.20 Score
I WISH I COULD HAVE BEEN WITH THEM THEN.”   11/29/2006

THERE'S A STUPID SONG: “WHEN JESUS WAS HERE WITH HIS DISCIPLES, I WISH I COULD HAVE BEEN WITH THEM THEN.” How ridiculous can you get? You have Him closer to you now than they had Him then. He was only with them then. Now He's in you, every moment of every day, for all eternity! He will never leave you nor forsake you. For lo, He is with you, even unto ...


0 Comments, 40 Views, 4 Votes ,3.25 Score
arttree76 47 F
2  Articles
being honest   9/24/2006

If your not interested in that person just be honest and tell them. Don't beat around the bush. If you don't tell them it will hurt them in the long way. And try to break it to them gently; following the golden rule. Treat others as you would have them treat you.


8 Comments, 266 Views, 43 Votes ,7.47 Score
kmart 42 M
2  Articles
Learning to say NO   9/12/2006

Many are the times that we try so much to live out of our own lives in order to please others and remain generally acceptable to friends, family and people around us.But for how long are we going to live lives that are not fulfilling because we cxan not stand up and say NO when its needed? When a person reaches a level where they can ably say NO when its necessary then that is what i call ...


1 Comments, 59 Views, 13 Votes ,4.49 Score
yoshi_p 32 M
1  Article
saying not to sex.   7/26/2006

yes i have had sexual relationships in the past, which makes me able to talk to you on this topic. it isn't easy saying NO, and that is why i have entered into sexual relationships before. i deeply regret NOT saving myself for the person who i will spend my life with, when god sends me that special somone. now i have to live with the mistakes that ive made when i could have listened to the ...


6 Comments, 332 Views, 53 Votes ,8.78 Score
blazin_kristin 35 F
1  Article
† HONESTY: an easy 5 step guide to saying "No Thanks." †   7/12/2006

First of all, relax before you read this. Breath from your stomach a few sighs (not from your chest), think of God's divine being, and know that everything is going to be fine.
Yes it may hurt your pride, or someone else's approval of you, and most of all the person you are saying "no thanks" to. However, God's approval is first and not people's approval.
...



2 Comments, 152 Views, 26 Votes ,4.54 Score
GMan2002 46 M
1  Article
The first meet   7/11/2006

Generally once you have decided to meet up for the first time it is wise to take a few precautions. You may have come to this conclusion through e-mails or even chatting on a mobile phone (you may or may not have been happy about giving this out).
Whatever the case you have both made the decision and are keen to meet face to face for the first time (eyeball each other).
...


5 Comments, 249 Views, 27 Votes ,6.82 Score
kre8iv1 59 F
6  Articles
You gotta have "Faith"   7/10/2006

Sometimes we can feel lonely in our singleness and that can cause us to act rashly. This is a song that has helped me through the years to deal with my singleness and celebacy. It is a secular song, but it will steer you in the right direction all the same.
"Well I guess it would be nice If I could touch your body I know not everybody Has got a body like you ...


3 Comments, 145 Views, 15 Votes ,4.97 Score
joyful0061 62 F
1  Article
No means No   7/4/2006

Why is it that men often do not get it, that when a woman says NO that it means NO, why do they think that the woman is playing hard to get. OK, we know that the world has thrown morals out of the window, but we as true followers of Christ should remember that God wants the relationship to be pure. I believe that we women need to respect ourself, if we do not do it ourselves, men ...


7 Comments, 145 Views, 14 Votes ,3.94 Score
bluesofty 44 F
7  Articles
Trouble with saying no!   7/1/2006

I hate this word with a pasion! Whether its someone asking me for a favour or simply peeps taking liberties i still struggle. I guess Joyce Meyer would call me a People Pleaser?? Is this a bad thing?


5 Comments, 117 Views, 9 Votes ,2.14 Score
stev00400 43 M
1541  Articles
Remember   6/19/2006

Remember what God has done for you and the successes you have had in life when discouragement tries to take you down, with that you can find yourself at the top of you mind again and be able to overcome worries


0 Comments, 32 Views, 5 Votes ,4.45 Score
N3604AR 39 M
1  Article
Why people do not respond   6/15/2006

I have spent some time sending emails on this site with no response. I think that this can be one of the most fustrating things about online dating. It seems like most people feel that no response is a loud and clear NO I AM NOT INTERESTED. This couldn't be farther from the truth. If somone sits down and takes the time to write an email Wouldn't writing a response however sort be a ...


14 Comments, 408 Views, 36 Votes ,6.00 Score
mysavior26 43 F
8  Articles
Modern Day Life and Rebuking Temptation   6/6/2006

I sat down to think about the reality of living in modern day life which pertains to satan!We can't go by what this world offers and the word sustains that, so Why do some women and men ...mostly younger ones find it hard to rebuke temptation when you have it in disguise or even plainly in front of you? Look reality is , sometimes we forget that our greatest loss is not what we need as in ...


1 Comments, 70 Views, 10 Votes ,5.38 Score
stev00400 43 M
1541  Articles
make progress and not excuses   5/31/2006

In life we all have desires aspirations and goals as well as objectives. And as we pursue these comes obstacles and difficulties but the difference between people who made it through is that unlike others who sees excuses they saw progress and possibilities. Therefore let us learn to make progress out of every situations and not excuses. People who had worked in this direction are read and ...


0 Comments, 15 Views, 5 Votes ,3.14 Score
stev00400 43 M
1541  Articles
it is more serious tolose hope than to sin   5/24/2006

Hope is an element that we all need in life to carry through the functions of in the face of the variety of life issues that we are confronted with in our everyday life. The importance of HOPE was made clear in the bible when the bible says of ABRAHAM that he hoped against hope. What that means is that even when there was no reason for Abraham to hope for a better thing, he choose to hope ...


0 Comments, 17 Views, 2 Votes ,3.12 Score
stev00400 43 M
1541  Articles
there is no perfect man or woman when it comes to relationship or marriage   5/21/2006

there is no perfect man of women when it come to relationship or marriage. all we need do is the determination to compromise and accept one another. both parties have the responsibility make the other perfect by working out the relationship for good. with this and focus on God things will always work


0 Comments, 20 Views, 3 Votes ,2.45 Score
stev00400 43 M
1541  Articles
Scammers new tricks   5/13/2006

Hello, just want to let you know that scammers have develop new ways of getting at people. In addition to the promise of marriage, and offer of business deal and request to transfer of huge money to your account, they now employ the tactics of telling their victim that the have one sickness or the other, or that they were involved in an accident, or one tragedy or the other that will ...


1 Comments, 85 Views, 8 Votes ,6.03 Score
BLESSED2239 47 F
11  Articles
FRIENDSHIP IS VERY IMPORTANT..   5/11/2006

WITHOUT GOD IT IS IMPOSSIBL, TO LOVE , TRUST, SHARE. HE GUIDS US IN EVERY WAY .WHAT A FRIEND WE HAVE IN JESUS, APPLY THE LOVE IN ALL THINGS TODAY AND ALWAYS , YOU SEE WHAT GOD CAN DO..... ...


0 Comments, 15 Views, 4 Votes ,3.25 Score
stev00400 43 M
1541  Articles
Be a good listener   5/11/2006

Be a good listener, don't be hasty to conclude but be slow to talk. why it is possible for your tongue to get you into trouble when you talk much without restain, your ears will never get you in trouble. the more you listen the more you aquire knowledge, and on the contrary, the more you talk the more you give out yourself and exposses you weaknesses


0 Comments, 12 Views, 0 Votes
stev00400 43 M
1541  Articles
kind words are cheap but does great things   5/8/2006

Whenever we recieved KIND words from people around us we get excited and refreshed. tat means Kind words has a healing balm within it. But as often as we get KIND words from people we sometimes forget that they are cheap and costless. and if we do know that they are cheap and costless why then is it difficult for some of us to give this cheap and costless yet power source of great happiness ...


0 Comments, 16 Views, 2 Votes ,1.73 Score
stev00400 43 M
1541  Articles
Jesus still think the best for you no matter what   5/1/2006

Even when Jesus knows about you, and all you are but he choose to believe the best about you and for you. because he sees you not as you are but as you will be when he get through with you by his refinning power and fire. what a friend we have in him


0 Comments, 7 Views, 0 Votes
stev00400 43 M
1541  Articles
How much of God's image do you reflect   4/28/2006

The Bible says that we are created in the image of God, if that is true which I know is, how much of God's image do you reflect. when we so often think about ourselves and ourselves alone ignoring others who are in pain, in need or so. we ask God to show his power through us but how ready are we to allow him do just that, and we say God do you will but still we tell him how we want him to ...


0 Comments, 15 Views, 2 Votes ,3.81 Score
Punished Out Of Wedlock?   4/22/2006

a preacher told a pregnant woman, she was being punished. For getting pregnant out of wedlock. She decided not to have the baby, which she later found out, were twins. She took her boyfriend to the doctor appointment so she could discuss getting an abortion. the boyfriend, said no, because he wanted the . even though he already had 4 other , from a previous marriage, he also wanted these ...


5 Comments, 145 Views, 15 Votes ,5.43 Score
Charity53076 47 F
36  Articles
gas prices   4/21/2006

sign this petition to lower gas prices ITS LEGIT i got it off of channel 7 action news http://bigchurch.com if you cant get it off that site click on this site http://bigchurch.com PS give it to everyone u know


1 Comments, 19 Views, 3 Votes ,2.45 Score
stev00400 43 M
1541  Articles
the beautiy of anyday starts from the heart   4/20/2006

whene we go to bed at night we hope to see a wondeful and beautiful day starting from the next morning. but most often many people do not see the beautiful, because of the state of their heart at the dawning of a new day. for anyone to have a beautiful day his or her mind must be renewed to freshness and that can only come by the word of God and dedicating time to appreciate what the good ...


0 Comments, 11 Views, 0 Votes
stev00400 43 M
1541  Articles
christ is God's fulfillment for human   4/18/2006

God promised us good life and prosperity and all the abundance of confort. those promises are fulfilled in Jesus christ that is why Jesus Christ is God's everything for man's total need.


0 Comments, 20 Views, 0 Votes
rosebud1967 51 F
3  Articles
How many polite ways are there to say NO?   4/17/2006

Seeing the title of this section of the magazine really made me stop and think, just how many polite ways are there of telling someone 'no thanks'without them taking offence.
As a parent we learn ways of saying no to a chid, either by direct methods like, "mummy doesn't think that's a good idea", or "later on", and even "that's not very safe/good for ...


3 Comments, 178 Views, 20 Votes ,5.93 Score
stev00400 43 M
1541  Articles
True friend as Good health   4/14/2006

Many of us seek for peace and good health and many who find good health and peace out of carelessness loss it and become miserable. But the one thing that is equal good health is true friend. No wonder it is said True friendship is like sound health; the value of it is seldom known until it be lost. So when you have true friend cherish it and try to be one to others. But remember Jesus is ...


0 Comments, 5 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
stev00400 43 M
1541  Articles
no trumpets sound when the important decisions of our life are made   4/12/2006

While noise and trumpets are sounded when we make some decisions and or achieved some feat in life, it is interesting to know that no trumpets sound when the important decisions of our life are made. Destiny is made known silently, but then we are the shaper of our destiny. Even when God has destine us for greatness and many more good things, it is demanded of us to work according to the ...


0 Comments, 15 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score
stev00400 43 M
1541  Articles
our privillege in Christ   4/11/2006

Our privillege in Christ is the work of the Blood and the cross. The Blood deals with what we have done, whereas the Cross deals with what we are. The Blood disposes of our sins, while the Cross strikes at the root of our capacity for sin.
these are the great work of the cross and the blood. so that whoever that finds Christ finds a total relief from all forms of things that would ...


0 Comments, 3 Views, 1 Votes ,3.70 Score
stev00400 43 M
1541  Articles
your words, your dreams and your thoughts   4/8/2006

Your words, your dreams, and your thoughts have the power to create conditions in your life. What you speak about, you can bring about.
If you keep saying you can't stand your job, you might lose your job.
If you keep saying you can't stand your body, your body can become sick.
If you keep saying you can't stand your car, your car could be stolen or just stop ...


1 Comments, 23 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score
Dundeal 67 M
6251  Articles
7 Days Of Inspiration   4/4/2006

Take one a day and feel great all week long!
Day 1: You are the sunshine of someone's life
Day 2: Courage is worrying "what if?" and trying anyway!
Day 3: Your dreams are like stars: Let them be your guiding lights!
Day 4: You have so much to be proud of!
Day 5: Learn from the past. Live in the present. Look forward to the future!
Day ...


0 Comments, 12 Views, 2 Votes ,3.12 Score
stev00400 43 M
1541  Articles
You can make yourself happy   3/23/2006

HAPPINESS IS SOMETHING WE CREATE IN OUR MIND, IT'S NOT SOMETHING YOU SEARCH FOR AND SO SELDOM FIND. so know that you can make yourself happy when you determine to do so


0 Comments, 17 Views, 4 Votes ,1.69 Score
stev00400 43 M
1541  Articles
The value of hope   3/21/2006

The value of hope is in hoping and there is no loss in hoping it only help one to realised that what you desire is possible and keeps one on the track of expectations and assurance of sometime to come. Therefore hope is not a lost or weakness but just strength.


0 Comments, 14 Views, 4 Votes ,2.47 Score
Hiskid1966 57 F
3  Articles
Happiness after heartbreak   3/20/2006

There once was a girl who thought she had the perfect life. She had a home and a car and a and a live in boyfriend. Things were going well when all of a sudden there was a death in the family. And while at the funeral God grabbed a hold of this girls heart and everything changed! God spoke to her and said:"you have done things your way long enough, and today you have changed your ways ...


1 Comments, 90 Views, 8 Votes ,4.41 Score
stev00400 43 M
1541  Articles
Forgiveness is total   3/20/2006

forgiveness it total, when you forgive you forgive and will see yourself loving that person again. The bible teaches that when we forgive we love. How would it be if Jesus forgive the most harden criminal and say he does not want to have anything to do with him. what if he has said that about you. So if you forgive you will have a lot to do with the peson so that person who forgives and ...


0 Comments, 12 Views, 3 Votes ,1.47 Score
Dundeal 67 M
6251  Articles
Victorious Secrets   3/19/2006

I started a blog a few days back about inner and outer beauty and it was funny to me in that in church this morning the preacher, preached on inner and outer beauty. A few of the points he brought up that I thought was something is that the average female is 5'3" and weighs 153 pounds and the average model is 5'9" and weighs 109 pounds. Society as a whole is brought up to worry and think ...


0 Comments, 33 Views, 7 Votes ,3.55 Score
Dundeal 67 M
6251  Articles
When God Speaks To Us   3/18/2006

God is constantly speaking to us. God expects us to hear Him and to keep His words in the front of our minds. What happens when we don't listen to God? More times then we care to mention we pay attention to the wrong voices. We don't question the thoughts or motives and we give voices are time and attention. The ideas that the new voice is putting in your head you enjoy ...


0 Comments, 43 Views, 11 Votes ,3.54 Score
stev00400 43 M
1541  Articles
The prayers that feed your soul   3/18/2006

A man may study because his brain is hungry for knowledge, even Bible knowledge. But he prays because his soul is hungry for God. Prayers made to God are beyond request, also foods for our tasting soul and when we sincerely pray there is a peace that exceeds human understanding that we receive from God.


0 Comments, 12 Views, 3 Votes ,1.96 Score
My boyfriend...is a possessive control freak.   3/17/2006

I dont know why i'm still with him. Maybe its because I'm afraid of being alone. Nah!
I can take care of myself. Who needs him?
Since day one, he's acted weird.
His name is Fred. He's in University, getting his Doctorate. He works for the government. Has lots of christian friends.
Yet, he's both verbally and physically abusive to me. He's a control freak. ...


7 Comments, 329 Views, 19 Votes ,4.97 Score
stev00400 43 M
1541  Articles
Knowing what you are will help plan properly   3/17/2006

A man is what he is, not what he used to be or what he ought to be. Butmany do not belief this. to belief what one is does not mean lack of faith or aspiration but it helps us to know the reality and to be able to adequately plann for improvement. For some people they belief in what they ought to be or what they use to be, niether of the two is a reality.one is past and the other aspiration ...


0 Comments, 17 Views, 2 Votes ,1.04 Score
stev00400 43 M
1541  Articles
Jesus kind ofl ove   3/16/2006

the Kind of love which Jesus Christ started and exhibits is that love, which forgives and pardons. Imagine what he did! He loves the unlovely, pardons the guilty, and forgives the sinner and birthed life in those who had no life. We are expected to do same


0 Comments, 10 Views, 2 Votes ,1.04 Score
stev00400 43 M
1541  Articles
courage is not the absence of fear   3/16/2006

Courage does not means the absence of fear or intimidation. But it means being scared to death, you saddle up and move on to achieve and or acomplish what you had intended. That moving on even in the midstof fearand intimidation to accomplish you goalor desire.


0 Comments, 15 Views, 2 Votes ,1.04 Score
stev00400 43 M
1541  Articles
humility is to think of yourself less   3/16/2006

Humility is one of the greatest attributes of God and this was demostrated by Christ when he humbled himself to die on the cross even though he was equal with God. Hence the bible required us a of God to exhibit this triat of our hevenly father. But today many people have misplaced what humility is that they begin to think less of themself in a manner that is downgrading and religating. ...


0 Comments, 60 Views, 2 Votes ,1.04 Score
stev00400 43 M
1541  Articles
the world is either a tragedy or a comedy   3/15/2006

The world as it seems means different things to different people. However one can conviniently say that the world can be seen in two light - tragedy and comedy this depends on the ability of the individual in it to use the will power given to everyman by God. So to those who are multivated and directed by feelings the world is a tragedy, but for those who are directed by their thinking ...


0 Comments, 1 Views, 1 Votes ,3.70 Score
stev00400 43 M
1541  Articles
start with the neccessary and you will do the impossible   3/15/2006

Many of us fear starting off something for fear of falure and meeting difficulties. Even when it is a fact that difficulties abound everywhere, we have the confidence in God's promises to be with us in every situation. Therefore with faith just start by doing what's necessary, then what's possible, and suddenly you are doing the impossible


0 Comments, 24 Views, 2 Votes ,4.50 Score
stev00400 43 M
1541  Articles
The race is fdor those who continue   3/14/2006

Winning the race is a factor of persistence and continuity. For many who had hope it will be all over once certain amount of concentration and energy is exacted, they often loss out but those who persistently continue to push and attempt success has always be the end story. Jesus demostrated this in the Garden of Gethsemane. Hence the race is not always to the swift, but to those who keep ...


0 Comments, 18 Views, 3 Votes ,3.92 Score
stev00400 43 M
1541  Articles
Repentace does not save   3/14/2006

When we repent we are exposed to some truth of God's powers and abilities. Hence we should always see delight in repenting from anything the holy tells our spirit man is not worthy of God's people. Though repentace does not save, it nontheless shows to all the sign that we realize what God has done in Christ Jesus.


0 Comments, 8 Views, 0 Votes
stev00400 43 M
1541  Articles
To love God is greater than to know him   3/14/2006

Knowing God is one thing that we all seek after and wish for other that we love. beyond this is a very significant issue and that is loving God. Without much labour the bible clearly stated that to love God is to love our nieghbours. Therefore we should seek to love God because to love God is greater than to know him


0 Comments, 6 Views, 0 Votes
Dundeal 67 M
6251  Articles
Tomorrow Is Trash Day Here   3/13/2006

Gather up the fragments left over, so that nothing may be lost. (John 6:12)
I realize that out of the third world countries there are many scams going on. I also realize how many poor people they have over there. Poor for them and poor for us are two entirely different things. Tomorrow is my trash day. I take out two trash cans full of stuff and as I look at a lot ...


0 Comments, 13 Views, 4 Votes ,2.86 Score
stev00400 43 M
1541  Articles
How would you live your life   3/13/2006

For me, I would rather live my life as if there is a God, and die to find out there isn't, than live my life as if there isn't, and die to find out there is. so how would you live your life?


0 Comments, 3 Views, 0 Votes
stev00400 43 M
1541  Articles
How would you live your life   3/13/2006

For me, I would rather live my life as if there is a God, and die to find out there isn't, than live my life as if there isn't, and die to find out there is. So how would you live your life?


0 Comments, 1 Views, 0 Votes
stev00400 43 M
1541  Articles
How would you live your life   3/13/2006

For me, I would rather live my life as if there is a God, and die to find out there isn't, than live my life as if there isn't, and die to find out there is. So how would you live your life?


0 Comments, 7 Views, 0 Votes
stev00400 43 M
1541  Articles
Right is right no matter what   3/13/2006

At time many people battle with sticking to what is right, especially when it involves how many people really think such way. BVut the fact remains that what is right does not need debate or great surport to be right. Right is right, even if everyone is against it; and wrong is wrong, even if everyone is for it.


0 Comments, 15 Views, 0 Votes
Dundeal 67 M
6251  Articles
How Long Will You Wait?   3/11/2006

Many times over the years I have been impatient with God. As I wrote a week or so back, I have been without work now for almost 6 months, why I ask God? How many times a day do you get irritated at something that is not going your way. I get in the wrong line at a toll booth, a grocery store, a check out line in a store, the list goes on and on. I get impatient with me ...


0 Comments, 10 Views, 2 Votes ,4.50 Score
Dundeal 67 M
6251  Articles
Living With The Consequence Of Sin   3/11/2006

Never take your own revenge, beloved, but leave room for the wrath of God, for it is written, "Vengeance is Mine, I will repay, " says the Lord (Romans 12:19).
You have forgiven a family member for a sin that they have done upon you and yet they continue to do the same sin to you over and over again. What do you do? You need to confront the person, let them know that ...


1 Comments, 12 Views, 3 Votes ,4.41 Score
stev00400 43 M
1541  Articles
he who does not grow will be stale and dry   3/11/2006

In this Christian journey with the Lord growth is very essential and he who refused to grow will never experienced the greatest joy of salvation. Therefore, you just have to continue to grow, or you would just be like last night's cornbread--stale and dry with little or no usefulness. for our usefulness comes to light as we grow into the fulness of Christ. He who does not grow will be stale ...


0 Comments, 2 Views, 0 Votes
stev00400 43 M
1541  Articles
Making your ladder to heaven   3/11/2006

In your aspiration to make heaven what part do you need to play. Yes what you need do is to make a ladder for yourself by which you can sometimes go up to heaven to interact with God and Jesus Christ. That ladder is your prayer backed by faith in the resurrected Jesus. Each time you pray, each time you study the word of God you are building for yourself a ladder by which you could go to ...


0 Comments, 4 Views, 0 Votes
stev00400 43 M
1541  Articles
Prayers can change mountains into highways   3/11/2006

Many a time we are confronted with lots of life contradictions and situational pains. As we constantly met with these issues of life so do we sometimes miss out in the fight just because of our unwillingness and inability to stay onto prayers. At time we stay onto prayers but we wish it goes our ways even when God tewlls us that he has a plan for us. Hence many just give up and decide to ...


0 Comments, 3 Views, 0 Votes
stev00400 43 M
1541  Articles
Good works are determined by how much it pleases God   3/10/2006

Good work is evaluated on the basis of how much of God's love is found in it. Therefore every Christian should always remember that the value of his good works is not based on their number and excellence, but on the love of God which prompts him to do these things.


0 Comments, 7 Views, 0 Votes
stev00400 43 M
1541  Articles
sufferings can become an opportunity when given to God   3/9/2006

Suffering may be someone's fault or it may not be anyone's fault. But if given to God, our suffering becomes an opportunity to experience the power of God at work in our lives and to give glory to Him.


0 Comments, 3 Views, 1 Votes ,3.70 Score
stev00400 43 M
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Welcome to the month of marching forward   3/6/2006

Welcome to the month of March - the month of marching forward and a month of favour. I declare to you that the Lord will move you from where you are now to where He wants you to be. There are greater things ahead of you. Don’t settle where you are now. Look unto Jesus, the author and finisher of your faith. In Him we live and in Him we have our being. See you on top. Have a nice day ...


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God's Example Of A True Relationship   3/4/2006

Many a times we shy away from facing realities, yet we want the best that reality can offer to be in our possession especially in a relationship. The fact remains that God has laid down the best and basic princinple for a genuine and lasting relationship, whether between man and God or between man and man.That was what He did by sending Jesus to die for our sins, and also to creat ...


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Dundeal 67 M
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Are You In The Majority, The Minority, Or God's Side   2/26/2006

In the old testament we read that 12 people were sent into God's promised land to the Israelites, despite the word of God, 10 came back and said no way, two came back and said yes through God all things are possible. Most christians can identify the two as being Caleb and Joshua, but how many of 10 that didn't agree can you name? Their names are just footnotes in history now ...


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Dundeal 67 M
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God Refines Us   2/25/2006

"God forbid that I should glory, save in the cross of our Lord Jesus Christ, by whom the world is crucified unto me, and I unto the world" (Gal. 6:14). <br> They were living to themselves; self with its hopes, and promises and dreams, still had hold of them; but the Lord began to fulfill their prayers. They had asked for contrition, and had surrendered for it to be given them ...


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Scammers abound in Big church - be warned   2/23/2006

Scammers abound here I just want to place this again to alert well meaning brethren in here that scammers abound here. At time you might find it difficult to know them, but I trust God to continually expose them and give the sincere ones the discernment to identify these evil minded people. They pretend to be women when they are actually men, some pretend to be women when they are ...


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carolinehampton 58 F
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not again   2/22/2006

A mother went to wake up her for church one Sunday morning. <br> "I'm N O T going, " the firmly stated. <br> "OH yes you are!" retorted the Mom. <br> "Give me one good reason why I should. Nobody likes me there." <br> "I'll give you three good reasons. It's good for you, everyone is expecting you to come, AND you're the pastor of the ...


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Dundeal 67 M
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You Don't Need To Get Discouraged   2/22/2006

I know from reading your blogs, seeing the emails that you send me, my own experiences, etc. it is very easy to get discouraged. Many times I have to remind myself with what I am about to share with you. I want you to think about a scenario. I come over to your home for your birthday. I bring you over a thousand presents. I promise you that one of them contains a check for 1, 000, ...


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Dundeal 67 M
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My Diets Rules That I Need To Follow, Doctor's Orders   2/21/2006

I went to the doctor last week and he told that I am overweight and that I needed to find a diet that I could stick to. Well after doing a google search and checking over the 1, 000, 000 plus diets sites on the web I decided to incorporate some of the ideas from a few of them and come up with my own diet routine. Anyway my diet rules are listed below, feel free to use any of them that you ...


1 Comments, 38 Views, 6 Votes ,3.93 Score
Dundeal 67 M
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Highway 109   2/19/2006

A drunk man in an Oldsmobile They said had run the light That caused the six-car pileup On 109 that night. When broken bodies lay about "And blood was everywhere, " "The sirens screamed out eulogies, " For death was in the air. "A mother, trapped inside her car, " Was heard above the noise; Her plaintive plea near split the air: "Oh, God, please spare my boys!" She fought to ...


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Charity53076 47 F
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UNCONDITIONAL LOVE   2/19/2006

A story is told about a soldier who was finally coming home from the war. He called his parents from San Francisco. "Mom and Dad, I'm coming home, but I've a favor to ask. I have a friend I'd like to bring home with me." "Sure, " they replied, "we'd love to meet him." "There's something you should know the continued, "he was hurt pretty badly in the fighting. He stepped on a land ...


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who brew the coffee   2/19/2006

A man and his wife were having an argument about who should brew the coffee each morning. <br> The wife said, "You should do it, because you get up first, and then we don't have to wait as long to get our coffee." <br> The husband said, "You are in charge of the cooking around here so you should do it, because that is your job, and I can just wait for my coffee."Wife ...


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the love of Jesus is like an ocean   2/18/2006

The love of Jesus is an ocean with no shore to bound it. And if anyone of us plunge into it, we carry with us all the possessions we have. The Lord knows what these possessions are- the souls God have seen fit to link with our individual soul.


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Friendship is love withunderstanding   2/18/2006

Friendship is love withunderstanding. We are only as old as the age of our heart. The best way to have a special friend is tobe one. We are never rich enough to afford to lose a friend. Best friends will p[ainfully brings out the very best within you. Constant use and careful wear can not wear out the fabric of truefriendship.


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angie4love 43 F
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truth really hurts?   2/17/2006

true love doesnt rejoice in iniquity but in truth, i met someone in person but right now he pressured me to get fiancee visa but how will i tell him without hurting him NO THANKS, give me time, lets pray about it yet i dont feel any connections this time... how will tell him that. i want to be honest but in what way will i let him know whats inside me without him in pain hearing it...truth ...


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Someone has contacted you and you're not interested?   2/17/2006

That's a tough one! I've had several people who contacted me and after chatting with them a bit, I've realized they weren't for me. But how do you let the other person know, without hurting their feelings or making them feel insignificant that you are not romantically interested in them? <br> A wise friend advised me to first be completely upfront with the person whom you are ...


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Two phases of human life   2/17/2006

In this world we live in two phases can be identifies with human development, which are symbolic. For when a baby is be born, he enters the world with hands clenched, that symbolises him/her saying, "The world is mine; I shall grab it." but as he grow older and become a full grown man or woman and as he begins to take some brushes from life, he leaves his/her hand, symbolysing him/her ...


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don't stop planning no matter the difficulties   2/15/2006

no matter what you encounter in life as you move on never stop planning, ask God for wisdom to plan and keep up believing in His power to make your way fulfilled in him


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The word of God in our life   2/15/2006

What we do for a living should not determine or influenced our believe in God, rather our believe and faith in God should shape and infact have a lot to do with what you do for a living. in the same way we should avoid trying to justify or explain the word of God by our experinces but the word shoul be used to explain our experiences to see if we have done rightly or otherwise. when we ...


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salvation and going to church   2/15/2006

Salvation begins from the heart but it is more than just saying I believe in Jesus. It includes doing the will of God, and going to a church (the gathering of believers) is one of those God's will. So it is impossible for one to be a christian and not go to church. A trully saved christian or person will find the gathering of God's people interesting and desirable, that includes going to ...


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mobettafriend 58 F
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Say "no" before you ever have to say "no"   2/13/2006

There are some things you know that you just won't do--Different things tempt different people. Illegal drugs are just not my thing. I don't think I am better than someone that has this problem. I was just spared from it by God's grace. <br> A friend of mine, A Jewish Rabbi, died in a tragic accident. He had written and published his own books. They were inspirational Christian ...


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stev00400 43 M
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stop working with your understanding and lean on God   2/12/2006

If you trully know God and believe in Him, stop working in your own understanding and decide to consult God in whatever you do and to let his word direct your path. Remember he said if you trust in him and lean not in your own understanding, he will direct your path


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Calling the last rite   2/12/2006

A man is struck by a bus on a busy street in New York City. He lies dying on the sidewalk as a crowd of spectators gathers around. "A priest! Somebody get me a priest!" the man gasps. A policeman checks the crowd but finds no priest, no minister, no man of God of any kind. <br> "A PRIEST, PLEASE!" the dying man says again. Then out of the crowd steps a little old Jewish man of at ...


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Don't be silent in ignorance   2/12/2006

It is better for you to ask question about what you are ignorant off than keep quiet in your ignorance. for when you ask question about it you stop being ignorant about it, and when you keep quiet you continue to be ignorant about it


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Rules from God   2/12/2006

1. WAKE UP!!! Decide to have a good day. "Today is the day the Lord hath made; let us rejoice and be glad in it." Psalms 118:24 <br> 2. DRESS UP!!! The best way to dress up is to put on a smile. A smile is an inexpensive way to improve your looks. "The Lord does not look at the things man looks at. Man looks at outward appearance; but the Lord looks at the heart." I ...


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God still does miracles   2/12/2006

God hasn't stopped performing miracles, it's us who have stopped believing that he does" We have to believe that he still performs miracles, so that we can have the miracles we have long prayed for. Just stop doubting and start believing him no matter what the circumtances says


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Attend to the needy   2/12/2006

Do not turn away from those who are in need, but share all things in common with your brother. Your heart shall not cling to the high and mighty, but turn to the good and humble folk. and remember that Where there is great love, there are always miracles.


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Wise facts   2/10/2006

Laying down your arms, surrendering, saying you are sorry, realizing that you have been on the wrong track and getting ready to start life over again from the ground floor - that is the only way out of a hole. <br> a friend sent it to me so enjoy it too


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kmart 42 M
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You Have A Right To A Right Relationship   2/9/2006

Many are the times when people consider many things that do not matter in a relation and end up in wrong relationships in the name of tolareting or keeping up with the people who have come there way. If you are not ready to accept that person i say you should say NO in the first place. This is because there's a level to which you might not be willing to keep up with this person and it hurts ...


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stev00400 43 M
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some facts of life   2/8/2006

Everything that is worthwhile in life is scary. Choosing a school, choosing a career, getting married, having --all those things are scary. If it is not fearful, it is not worthwhile A friend sent it to me and i felt it should be shared.


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When two fall in love - issues involved   2/7/2006

when two people fell in love. Just like you. While falling in love does ‘just happen’, staying in love never happens by itself. Love is simple but it is not easy. To be a special Valentine to your partner takes lots of energy, time, attention and love. If one of your goals this year is your relationship with your partner then Valentine’s Day is a great day to start. ...


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stev00400 43 M
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how two can work together   2/6/2006

yes two can really agree the problem we have today is selfishness a situation where each party in marriage want to satisfy himself or herself alone without the willingnes to make sacrifies for the confort of the other. as long as there is the willingnes to make sacrifice for the confort of the other person there will always be agreement.


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pray instead of getting worried   2/6/2006

when you are faced with problem pray about it instead of getting worried, and if those you know tell you about problem, we should pray for them and not worry about them and their problem. when you worry you focus on the problem but when you pray you see solution and answers and ways out. so lets learn to pray and not to worry


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ro_yal_ty 45 F
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another date at the movies!!!!   1/15/2006

Hello people . thank you for the responses. <br> I just got back from a date and the fella got very upset with me because I didnt give him a kiss or hug or hold his hand in the movie theatre. he got mad at me and told me that I was an unafectionate person! <br> What do you think about that?


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ro_yal_ty 45 F
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another date at the movies!!!!   1/15/2006

Hello people . thank you for the responses. <br> I just got back from a date and the fella got very upset with me because I didnt give him a kiss or hug or hold his hand in the movie theatre. he got mad at me and told me that I was an unafectionate person! <br> What do you think about that?


0 Comments, 21 Views, 1 Votes ,3.70 Score
stev00400 43 M
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two are better than one   1/11/2006

"Two are better than one, because they have a good return for their work: If one falls down, his friend can help him up. But pity the man who falls and has no one to help him up! Also, if two lie down together, they will keep warm. But how can one keep warm alone? Though one may be overpowered, two can defend themselves. A cord of three strands is not quickly broken." <br> ...


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ro_yal_ty 45 F
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"No Sex"!!   1/4/2006

Why is it so hard to find a man that believes and follow allof god'd rules? <br> Whay do they follow so and totally dis regard the others? <br> I am looking for a man that respect the " No Sex Before Marriage Rule". Unfortunately I'm getting the idea that he does not exisit! <br> <br> I am divorced and have a 13 year old . I am interested in ...


7 Comments, 272 Views, 14 Votes ,6.34 Score
goddess1967 56 F
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Sex on t.v   1/3/2006

Have you noticed how when we are watching tv now how full nudity sex scenes are becoming as common as breathing, Are we just accepting that "Things will get worse" and just doing nothing about it. When i sit down to watch a film i do not want to see more sex than stoyline, The producers seem to put scenes of this nature in at every opportunity, I love a good film, but i'm more ...


8 Comments, 161 Views, 14 Votes ,3.94 Score
warriorwoman 64 F
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Boundries   1/2/2006

Growing up we are supposed to be taught with nurturing and love. The examples shown us from birth forward are usually the mindsets we take into adulthood, and then on into parenthood. But for alot of us who are considered "baby boomers", the examples that we learned came from a generation of radical changes taking place in America and around the world. <br> Speaking for myself, ...


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TinaT 63 F
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OK , here we go.. How about the alcohol thing..Gesh.lol   12/27/2005

This is also another issue so to speak..."Why is it that people think you have to be intoxicated to have fun??? Being a people watcher I find that the intoxication is quite the opposite of entertaining..Before one says one must drink to have fun, one should look though ones glasses that doesn't drink and see where the entertainment begins..


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stev00400 43 M
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the past is not always harmful   12/26/2005

Even when the word of God wants us to move on forgeting the pasty, it does not mean we should forget whatever that has happened in the past. God wants us to remember the past but only allow ourselves to be influenced by those positive things of the past and be caution by the mistakes of the past as where so that we can plan adequately for the future. The past becomes harmful only when we ...


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stev00400 43 M
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the past is not always harmful   12/26/2005

Even when the word of God wants us to move on forgeting the pasty, it does not mean we should forget whatever that has happened in the past. God wants us to remember the past but only allow ourselves to be influenced by those positive things of the past and be caution by the mistakes of the past as where so that we can plan adequately for the future. The past becomes harmful only when we ...


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BLESSED2239 47 F
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The CONSEQUENCE OF BEING GULLIBUL.   12/23/2005

PROVERBS ;1-7 GIVES REVERENCE AND OBEDIENCE, TO THE HEART. FAMIILY CHARATERISTIC IS VITAL AND SHOULD BE OBTAINED , PRESS ON TOWARDS YOUR GOALS FOR WHICH CHRIST JESUS HAS CALLED .


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   2005-12-20

We need a place to communicate "Where the ones who truly beleive that not acting on temptation to the flesh before marriage". Do we have a chat room of this nature? I truly want to meet these people with this awesome quality and commitment to God.


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TinaT 63 F
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"Placing God first and Loving it"   12/20/2005

"A long road ahead and a vow to commitment". <br> <br> <br> I have been through two marriages and a few engagements in the past 25 years. I know one says "Wow" but no excuses for me..I have made my own paths my own way and have successfully lost at each relationship by not following God's Devine Plan. I have searched deeply and souly for answers as to why without ...


6 Comments, 81 Views, 10 Votes ,5.58 Score
stev00400 43 M
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focusing on our goals   12/16/2005

goals, desire, and ambitions are common things in life, <br> but while many would wish for the best as goal in life, only <br> <br> few are able to achieve their goals. But one important thing <br> <br> about achieving goals is the ability to face it and be able <br> <br> to identify alternatives that could give ...


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GramiJ
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People Pleasing at Your Own Peril   12/13/2005

I dated a "Christian" gentleman for over four years. I sometimes noticed the walk and the talk didn't always match up, but he was a sweet man, he adored me and we had so much in common, so much we could talk about for hours. <br> I knew in my heart he was not the right one, due to a lack of depth of spirituality and commitment, and I told him I wanted to end the relationship. I ...


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Food "no thanks" will help with dating   12/10/2005

Remember all the times in your life that you said "no thanks" when you were offered food that didn't sit right with you? It made you happy you didn't eat it- didn't it? It's the same for dating. You know when a match isn't right for you- say "no thanks" so you can stay happy. Remember the food "no thanks" and it will help you keep your perspective in dating.


2 Comments, 83 Views, 13 Votes ,3.65 Score
stev00400 43 M
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The joy of life in Christ   12/7/2005

Many of us seek for that joy that knows no hurt and pain, that joy that suffers no dissappointment and regret, that joy that comes from deep within, that joy that never fade, that joy of life which give satisfaction. But that joy of life came be found in no other place than in Christ. In Christ can man find the Joy of life.


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stev00400 43 M
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About anxiety   12/5/2005

Anxiety is not only a pain which we must ask God to assuage but also a weakness we must ask Him to pardon; for He's told us to take no care for the morrow


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stev00400 43 M
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You can do all by taking them one sta after   12/5/2005

You can done all by taking them one step after another because attempting them all at the same time leads nowhere. In fact, No one can fully execute or finish any of all his vissions and goal when he wants to execute them all quickly and within same time. But the only one who does and execute all his vissions and goal with great success is the one who impliment and execute them one step at ...


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stev00400 43 M
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The meaning of living   12/3/2005

It will interest you to know that living is more than words as Halford E. Luccock has sumarised, that Living is learning the meaning of words. That does not mean the long ten syllable words we have to look up in the dictionary. The really great words to master are short ones work, love, hope, joy, pain, home, , life, death.


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stev00400 43 M
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the profit of patience   12/2/2005

I found this by Gregory the Great and felt everyone here should see it. <br> Hold to patience in your hearts, my friends, and put it into action when the situation calls for it. Don't let any abusive word from your neighbor stir up hatred in you, and don't allow any loss of things that pass away to upset you. If you are steadfast in fearing the loss of those things that last ...


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stev00400 43 M
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we should be bold to let go our pride   12/1/2005

Pride the bible says comes before fall, and this have denied many people of their happiness. When yo hold on to your pride you are bound to loss so many valuables. Many have lost someone they loved to their pride. But my counsel is that be willing to loss your pride to someone that loves you and whom you love that to loss some that loves you and tat you love to your pride.


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stev00400 43 M
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What to do after we are born-again   12/1/2005

What to do after we are born-again When we are born again we have Christ and the Holy Spirit inside of us but that is not enough for us to fight the issues of life because that only takes us from condemnation to life. Having be saved we need to equip ourselves withthe weapon of war from the word of God, this most christians fall to do even some christians who were doing this sometimes ...


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stev00400 43 M
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keep moving and don't stop   11/29/2005

“There comes a time in your life when you realize that if you stand still, you will remain at this point forever. You realize that if you fall and stay down, life will pass you by…so Keep moving and don't stop unti you achieve you goal”


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roseofsharon73 62 F
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No thanks is not so easy   11/26/2005

Not to offend, is a goal that we all work towards. Rejection sometimes causes a person to hurt and sometimes leads to criminal behavior posted in news papers and television. <br> This is why saying: not right now, or maybe sometimes later, or thank you so much, but I will have to pass. <br> I have found that putting myself in the other person shoes, has helped me to think ...


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saying no thanks   11/11/2005

saying no thank can be done in a mannerly and respectful way, people have a tendency to insult you than to say am sorry but no thanks.it also a very hard word to say especially if such a person is kind, tender and loving.but next time before you hurt someone gentle am sorry but no thank you.


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Itisi910 65 M
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Saying No means 2 Things   10/21/2005

When you tell a Person No Thanks it Means 2 Distinctive Things (1) I know you said no, and that is a 2 letter word that anyone with 2 Eyes and 2 Ears and 2 Arms & 2 Hands Understands (2) If you don't fully undertand the meaning of #1 you are likely to start losing Body Parts Starting in Reverse Order Hands, then Arms, then Eyes ETC.


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Itisi910 65 M
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Who me Totally Celebate!   10/18/2005

While I can say that I am a Man of God, I also am a Man and Satan is going to use any and every means he can to Attack my Spiritual Realm, Its just like any other form of Sin, When we first become Christians we Pray on a Continual basisabout 1 Sin or another we have a major Problem with and it is the same way with the matter of Sex we let our Spirit stay in Control of the Situation and hold ...


2 Comments, 76 Views, 10 Votes ,4.18 Score
nazarene45 78 M
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Sexual Immorality.   8/19/2005

How often have you heard the statement"Everyone is doing it." Couples living together unmarried. "If it feels good, do it". We don't remember what it says in the word, that nothing is hidden from God. Darkness and night, etc. You may get away with it now, but there will come a time, when you will weep, and wail for your sin. The Lord says, " We all will give account at the judgment, ...


2 Comments, 170 Views, 23 Votes ,5.11 Score
joydancing 72 F
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Not the   8/7/2005

NOT THE ONE? The profile was great, the emails were wonderful, the voice was captivating, you are excited to meet this person...What to wear? Where to meet? Oh my! You meet face to face for the first time and hmmmm after an hour, you are desperately searching for words to say, to thank them, to encourage them to keep seeking the "one". <br> NO REGRETS, each ...


6 Comments, 437 Views, 70 Votes ,8.41 Score
seekingmyprince 45 F
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Just be honest   6/25/2005

I may still be single and alone, but I've NOT gone through what so many have in "bad" relationships. Why, because I want a mate that meets God's standards and the ONE God has chosen for me. I take dating seriously and don't believe it is something to be "casual" about. If there is just one thing that doesn't meet the desire God has placed in my heart, no matter how much I want to say ...


2 Comments, 146 Views, 29 Votes ,4.24 Score
joydancing 72 F
30  Articles
Saying NO when heart says YES   6/20/2005

Asking God for the courage to say no when your heart desires a YES, "I can make this work" this is obedience, and TRUST & OBEY is not easy. When faced with a strong desire to go against the tug on your heart, STOP, bend your knee, boldly go to God's throne, and ask for the courage to obey. BLESSINGS will come, and God will richly provide for those who rely on Him. <br> ...


3 Comments, 186 Views, 31 Votes ,7.17 Score
HawthorneHeights 39 M
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Saying   6/8/2005

No thanks.


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Sparkyman1000 51 M
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Saying 'No' to sex before marriage could save you from constant relationship break-ups.   6/2/2005

I for one can say this to be very, very true from FIRST HAND experience. I have lived the relationships and lost many as a result to eagerness to sleep with that special someone before marriage. Guys and Gals, my only hope is that you must wait. God would want that. So much goes wrong when we seek desires of the flesh. Many serious sins and horrible demons come into your life when you ...


5 Comments, 260 Views, 26 Votes ,7.34 Score
'No' Doubt   5/6/2005

'No' is such a powerful word that sometimes we're afraid to use it. Perhaps we don't wish to cause offense or diminish someone's affection for us. At other times, we avoid saying 'no' even though by not saying it we're not being true to who we are. I think this happens, in part, because the word 'no' has got a bad . We're taught to perceive 'no' in a context of negativity and ...


2 Comments, 80 Views, 17 Votes ,6.24 Score
conisings 57 F
21  Articles
Avoiding Temptation   4/16/2005

Temptation is something that we all, at one point or time, encounter. As you know, Jesus was tempted also while here on earth. To be tempted IS NOT sinful. However, it IS sin when we ACT on that temptation. There are many different areas that we can be tempted in. When we are tempted, it is SO IMPORTANT to realize what it is, and to act accordingly. Shall we look at some scripture that ...


1 Comments, 121 Views, 20 Votes ,5.29 Score
electedpraise 47 M
9  Articles
Never Quit   3/17/2005

Never Quit <br> I have discovered that success in life is about taking one more step towards it. To succeed we must decide from the start never to quit in our pursuits of the good of the universe. It was Dolly Parton who said, “I never stopped trying and I never tried stopping.” This should be our attitude too. <br> Do not quit now. I believe that right ...


0 Comments, 77 Views, 12 Votes ,3.51 Score
warriorwoman 64 F
56  Articles
Resisting Temptation   3/1/2005

Just got off the phone with someone I thought had been sent as the man I'd been praying for. We became very close, very fast. I had thought it was the Lord showing me from the beginning that he was the one. Prayed, read the Word, things were revealed by a Spirit, but I have to wonder if it was HIS Spirit. Since then this man has fallen back into alcoholism. With that the lying Spirit ...


2 Comments, 315 Views, 39 Votes ,5.19 Score
How do u explain to another culture that u only date your own kind without acting racist?   2/7/2005

I am not attracted to east indian, european, african, or asian men. I find that their cultures are too different from my own, as well as I just do not like accents, I find them very hard to understand. My parents are predjudiced and I want their blessing on who I date so that there is harmony in our relationship. Many times online I chat with guys without pics because they are interesting. ...


8 Comments, 401 Views, 31 Votes ,0.84 Score
My_Fortress 61 F
1  Article
What's Your View of Anew?   1/30/2005

Anew? What does that really mean? In the secular world it means bright and shiny, alluring and different than before! In the bible, it states that all things are made new through Christ Jesus. You are made anew and your sins are forgiven but your experiences, struggles and challenges are a part of you. The world would prefer not knowing about what "made" you the person you are today. ...


0 Comments, 42 Views, 9 Votes ,2.57 Score
pebbles1964 60 F
5  Articles
It's ok   1/13/2005

I would like it if when I email a guy, and he is not interested that he would let me know. Bottom line is I want to make friends first anyway. I'm capable of being a friend to others and accepting friendship if a romantic attraction isn't there. I think that men sometimes think that they are being mean to "no thanks", but for me anyway it is very appreciated. I like to be emailed and ...


3 Comments, 223 Views, 26 Votes ,5.07 Score
italiangirl58 65 F
1  Article
Honesty is the best policy   1/10/2005

Especially when it deals with someone's emotions. Telling someone "no thanks" early on is a blessing in comparison to letting them think there might be a chance and then breaking their heart.


1 Comments, 150 Views, 31 Votes ,4.97 Score
Widesmileangel 37 F
8  Articles
Run the Race   12/25/2004

No matter how hard live get <br> Run the race <br> No matter what never look back <br> Run the race <br> Choosing the right paths <br> Run the race <br> Praying on your face <br> Run the race <br> Hiding in God's hands <br> Run the race <br> Chasing after your dreams <br> Run the ...


1 Comments, 66 Views, 17 Votes ,2.28 Score
EMPYS 48 F
10  Articles
What about STD's?   12/23/2004

What about genital herpes? (or any other std for that matter) As Christians and plain human beings, how are we to handle finding someone that is a great person, loves the Lord, could be a great mate for you, but not by their own fault had contracted genital herpes? Do you go ahead and marry them if it calls for it in the relationship, or should you not consider that person to be your ...


2 Comments, 426 Views, 25 Votes ,4.35 Score
Widesmileangel 37 F
8  Articles
No thanks   12/22/2004

Saying "no thanks" and not no many think of it as respect. I myself was raise that it was the way. but it more then respect it a kind way to make people smile or make ther day a little better. Sometimes you have to say no. IT is always better to say no thanks


0 Comments, 69 Views, 13 Votes ,3.31 Score
VICTORIOUS JOY   12/14/2004

“Be joyful in hope, patient in affliction, faithful in prayer.” - Romans 12:12 <br> VICTORIOUS JOY How can we keep our circumstances from determining our mood? How can we emancipate ourselves from the limitations that life deals us? The last in the trio of commandments opens the door for the other two to be true -- we can rejoice in hope and we can be ...


0 Comments, 84 Views, 20 Votes ,4.15 Score
Good Morning!!!   12/6/2004

He spoke to firmament yielding lights Dividing this day from the first night. Saying let these signs be for the seasons. We count days and years for this reason. <br> The earth is enlighten'd from His Love Receiving the light from heaven above. <br> He then gave us a gift of two great lights. The bigger lites day; the smaller lites night. <br> He made ...


0 Comments, 30 Views, 6 Votes ,3.08 Score
Wounded Soldied   11/25/2004

I am the wounded soldier treading back to war. I do not brandish weapons, that's what faith is for.
The Messiah is my leader, and commander of relief. He is the Omnipotent Savior condemning disbelief.
The enemy is Lucifer; Masquerader, Tempter, Thief. His weapons are deception, and our very own belief.
The battlefield is chosen, it's every place we see, ...


0 Comments, 25 Views, 14 Votes ,3.78 Score
shehaspeace 59 F
3  Articles
seems simple enough......   11/19/2004

but its not!!!!..Just saying No thanks? It seems to me that people are alot more brazen and rude on the net then if you were to meet them in person. I have never had problems in a public social setting when I say "no thanks". I have never had the need for an IGNORE button while in public.


3 Comments, 123 Views, 17 Votes ,3.97 Score
1ofHisdotters 53 F
1  Article
Women that seem to not take "no" for an answer   8/22/2004

Well first Id like to start by saying, isnt it annoying when a woman sends you a message, along with their photo and your not interested in the least. So we skip it and keep browsing the ones we are interested in. Then she sends another message and possibly another, doesnt this woman give up?? Well guess what women are not trying to be annoying and obnoctious, they are not stupid, they ...


1 Comments, 202 Views, 58 Votes ,7.29 Score
albefun36 55 M
1  Article
Honesty and Integrity are Key   7/5/2004

It all starts right here with you profile. If we are honest with ourselves and other about who we are and what we are looking for in a relationship then it is easier to remain honest throughout the process. Ok. someone initiates contact that you are not interested in. You have two choices 1.) Ignore them. and 2.) Reply with a short polite note saying no thanks" If you have a clear reason ...


1 Comments, 76 Views, 71 Votes ,7.70 Score
When You're Not Interested   6/12/2004

What is the best way to say 'no thanks' to someone who is really interested in you? I've found that a lot of guys are personally offended if I say 'no thanks'. They want a reason. Is it ok to tell a guy that he's just not my type?


0 Comments, 121 Views, 126 Votes ,4.86 Score