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When To Say I am Sory 7/30/2005
There is one problem with man which when over come could
make the world a good place to live in. That is the ability
to know that you have hurt somene and be able to say am sory
and there after stop the exhibition of such character.
In a relationship the best time to say am sory is whenever
your partner tells you that you hurt him or her or whenever
you discover so. it does not matter ...
2 Comments, 65 Views,
5 Votes
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0 Comments, 73 Views,
6 Votes
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God and White Water Rafting 7/12/2005
This is how cool God is! Last May I went down to West Virginia's
New River, with a group of friends from church (There were
about 80 of us!) we spent an entire Saturday on the River.
It was fun. There were times where we could just drift down
the river in the boat! There were times where we could just
drift down the river IN the river!! And at other times we
could, just get crazy and even ...
2 Comments, 149 Views,
9 Votes
,4.71 Score
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A way to prepare your mind for Good 7/6/2005
When we have a good mindset about our relationship, I belt
you that we will be better for it.And a way to do this is by
doing the following. We should have such mindset that helps
us believe that Failure will always be afraid of us; denounce
all forms of connection and or friendship with frustration.
Also to vow never to have anything to do with it contradictions
to God’s will (the ...
1 Comments, 45 Views,
2 Votes
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God's example for true relationship 7/1/2005
Many a times we shy away from facing realities, yet we want
the best that reality can offer to be in our possession especially
in a relationship.
The fact remains that God has laid down the best and basic
princinple for a genuine and lasting relationship, whether
between man and God or between man and man.That was what
He did by sending Jesus to die for our sins, and also to creat
a ...
1 Comments, 92 Views,
14 Votes
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Things You Should Do In A Realationship 7/1/2005
When you are in a relationship with someone, these are
some of the things you should do. Let the peace of Christ
keep you in tune with each other, in step with each other.
None of this going off and doing your own thing. And cultivate
thankfulness. Let the Word of Christ--the Message--have
the run of the house. Give it plenty of room in your lives.
Instruct and direct one another using good ...
1 Comments, 50 Views,
6 Votes
,4.50 Score
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Are you wearing your lipstick? 6/27/2005
So we are here for different reasons, on this site I mean,
but the majority are searching for someone. There are many
with wisdom and advice on how to find that special someone,
even those who are blessed with a Godly marriage/relationship
already.
<br>
This section is on building a relationship. Considering
that all relationships need to be continuously worked
on, by both ...
1 Comments, 150 Views,
16 Votes
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Wisdom in Connecting 6/20/2005
1. I love you not because of who you are, but because of who
I am when I am with you..
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2. No man or woman is worth your tears, and the one who is,
won't make you cry.
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3. Just because someone doesn't love you the way you
want them to, doesn't mean they don't love you
with all they have.
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4.. A true friend is someone who reaches for ...
2 Comments, 91 Views,
10 Votes
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Friendship, Fellowship, Relationship 6/20/2005
I've found a friend, of what a friend!
He cried, He bled, He died for me.
My heart, my soul, my dreams, my all
Are His, my best friend, His forever.
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Jesus made friends, casually, along His way.
He met them where they were at, exactly as
they were. He listened to them, He laughed
with them, He touched them, His friendship
is what changed them. It is how He discipled, ...
1 Comments, 91 Views,
7 Votes
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Guidelines to Building A Healthy Relationship: 6/12/2005
Love yourself before getting involved in a relationship
with another person.
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* Value yourself and know yourself.
* Know that you are lovable and capable.
* Be responsible for yourself.
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Be honest with yourself and others. Express your feelings
openly and truthfully.
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* Communicate your needs.
* Admit when you're wrong.
...
1 Comments, 113 Views,
19 Votes
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Invitation Only 6/12/2005
How would you describe the Holy Spirit? Perhaps as: A mysterious
force, a supernatural presence, a positive influence,
a spiritual power or a divine person. Many people, including
some people who have been in church for a long time, are pretty
fuzzy about the Holy Spirit. Lots of people, have a quite
clear picture of God the Father. His power and His grace
are quite clear to them. And they ...
0 Comments, 82 Views,
5 Votes
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What 's the point of lying? 5/31/2005
Most people here seem to pretty much want the same thing..
someone, the right one, to love and live with the rest of
their lives. I know I do. There is something that well just
boggles my mind, people that lie about who they are and expect
to get this.
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Do you seriously think that somehow the other person won't
discover this, or perhaps not mind that you made yourself
out to ...
4 Comments, 201 Views,
22 Votes
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Men of Standard making a difference! 5/21/2005
So much has been said concerning the allegations of "boys
gone wild" and "are their any men in the house"!
Well I just wanted to send out a notice to the disinfranchised,
disillusioned, and disappointed saved, single and sanctified
sisters on this side of the millenium! God is raising up
"Men of Standard" but sistes, you are going
to have to get your eyes off of the worlds standard, and ...
1 Comments, 136 Views,
13 Votes
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Courtship VS Dating 5/21/2005
Dating vs. Courtship
by Julie Foster
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The following is a list of words defined by Webster:
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Marriage: The institution under which a man and a woman
become legally united.
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Date: an appointment, especially with a person of the opposite
sex; a person of the opposite sex with whom an appointment
is made.
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Courtship: the wooing of ...
1 Comments, 110 Views,
7 Votes
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The divorce rates are so high because relationship rates are so low... 5/18/2005
If the truth could be told, we have americanized relationships
to outlaw the mandated biblical standards and perspectives
of the word of God! What dictates our mates or perspective
mates is mostly relevant to our cultures, our race and our
religions. Now I know that some of the prognosticators
will beg to differ, but I'm simply lending a "thought"
opposed to the usual arguments that ...
1 Comments, 70 Views,
6 Votes
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What do we really want??? Do we really know? 4/25/2005
As I read various profiles here and other places I notice
that they all have one thing in common. All men are secretly
wanting Barbie, and all women (me included), are searching
for that infamous White Knight.
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Now, in all reality do these people really exist? And if
they do, could we live a lifetime with them?
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I have been divorced for 3 years now, (yes ...
0 Comments, 149 Views,
16 Votes
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the way to be sweet, or find. 4/24/2005
Over the years I have realised many women want to find that
special someone. Someone who is romantic, caring and compassionate
to God and them. Most women I have spoke to think there are
no such men like that in this world.
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Correction, there is. Remember is high school those people
who use to sit up at the front, and were always picked on by
being called "nerds". Infact ...
0 Comments, 110 Views,
7 Votes
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What kind of person do you want to end up with? 4/17/2005
I've gone from model to Mom, and realized that I don't
care what someone looks like...I want someone who I can
live with forever. Someone golden on the inside.
There seem to be a lot of guys on here who profess to be Christian,
yet only seem to care about appearance. Granted, personality
is a big factor - but online that's not always easy to
convey.
I just know this: that my ...
1 Comments, 315 Views,
36 Votes
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Standards are Sacred 4/11/2005
Have you ever settled for LESS than you deserve?
I know I have and I’ll like to share with you what I have learnt…
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To avoid settling for less than you deserve, get very clear
with yourself on:
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· How you want a relationship to work
· What you want out of it
· How you want to be treated
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Make an honest list on the above points ...
0 Comments, 226 Views,
28 Votes
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How Will I Know - A Five-Step Guide 4/11/2005
Firstly I would like to thank the brethren who have taken
time out to share their experience and knowledge in the
‘OPEN FORUM… How Will I know’ article.
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I have summarised the comments posted into a guide that
may better equip those of you contemplating a future mate.
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The initial question was:
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HOW WILL I KNOW THAT THIS IS THE ...
2 Comments, 265 Views,
23 Votes
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How do you rebuild a broken relationship? 4/11/2005
My husband and I were separated he fell in love with another
woman. We have remained close friends through the whole
separation. Recently he came and said that he wanted to
come home and try to work things out. I knew that he and the
other woman were not seeing each other anymore so I agreed
to give it a try. Well I have found out that they are still
talking and he still has feelings ...
2 Comments, 468 Views,
6 Votes
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How do we know which person to choose....... 4/10/2005
If we find someone on this site that fascinates us and we
have a few other potentials, do we just limit ourselves
to the "one" that seems spiritually right?
Or do we kind of "play" the field and get to know
each person. I am finding myself confused over what to do.
I have two people that I find very interesting, but one has
really got my attention. I have never met either, only talked
on ...
1 Comments, 55 Views,
16 Votes
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OPEN FORUM.... How Will I Know? 4/2/2005
I have a question that I believe many on this site are asking:
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HOW WILL I KNOW THAT THIS IS THE MAN... THE WOMAN... GOD HAS
PLANNED FOR MY LIFE?
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There is such a rich resource of knowledge and experience
from all the members on this site.
<br>
please share your wisdom, knowledge and experience by
posting a comment below.
<br>
Thank you.
1 Comments, 189 Views,
7 Votes
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God's Design for Relationships 3/31/2005
Every person in the world wants the same thing - a close,
intimate, personal relationship with another person.
Many try, sometimes over and over again, but the relationships
never seem to satisfy them. So, does God have anything to
say about relationships? Does He have anything to say that
might be relevant to us today? The short answer is a resounding
YES!
Let’s start at the ...
1 Comments, 62 Views,
13 Votes
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Differnt religions 3/27/2005
I was just wondering, what was your idea of marrying people
outside of your own religion?? would you do it? and would
you ever convert for your future partner if they asked you
too??
1 Comments, 84 Views,
1 Votes
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Always make-up 2/28/2005
It's very easy to break-up than to make-up over a fight
between two lovers. Never break-up over any irrelevant
issues, but instead, wake-up(realize ur faults) and make-up(come
to a compromise/an agreement), before it's too late.
0 Comments, 29 Views,
4 Votes
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Jealous of her sexual past 2/20/2005
Help me get a grip, please, before I go nuts and drive my lover
away.
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I know that the degree of jealousy I'm feeling about
my fiance's previous sexual activities is irrational
given the fact that we all have pasts and we've all been
in love and we shouldn't be made to feel ashamed about
that.
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Rationally, I know all that -- but I still cannot seem to
stop ...
0 Comments, 19 Views,
286 Votes
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Playing With Fire 2/20/2005
While at a large interdenominational singles fellowship,
I was invited by one of the women to her singles fellowship
that was held in various homes. She said the gatherings
weren’t announced in her church’s bulletin because it
was an “invitation only” gathering. She said she could
trust me enough to invite me. I wasn’t sure what she meant.
<br>
...
0 Comments, 21 Views,
16 Votes
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The Role of a Woman 2/19/2005
Pillars & Foundations
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The ROLE of a woman within a relationship and family is vital
to the stability of its structure. How many women today
truly understand or even value their role?
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King David describes his daughters this way in Psalms 144:12:
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“… and our daughters will be like pillars carved to adorn
a palace;” [NIV]
...
1 Comments, 96 Views,
10 Votes
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THE PROVERBS 31 WOMAN 2/19/2005
A PROVERBS 31 WOMAN is hard to find… IF it was difficult in
Solomon’s time THEN how much so in the 21st Century where
common values and decency are far from God’s ideal?
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“An excellent wife, who can find? For her worth is far above
jewels.” [verse 10]
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This verse sums up the position many men face when seeking
a wife:
· Her ...
1 Comments, 186 Views,
10 Votes
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