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Everything that appears to shine, is not real gold 12/15/2005
Sometimes people get into a relationship for the wrong
reason. We meet someone for the first time and based on their
job, house, and car, we decide if we want to go further with
them.
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We make major decisions because of material things, and
later realize that we made a major mistake. We thought it
was a golden opportunity for our security.
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Building a ...
2 Comments, 30 Views,
4 Votes
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When you improve yourself 12/11/2005
when we spend more time trying to improve ourselves and
look less at people's fualt, and instead try to understand
them, we will always have good relationship. This should
be the christian attitude we should covet
1 Comments, 25 Views,
2 Votes
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Whare are your relationships like? 12/11/2005
Are your relationships nurturing, toxic, painful, loving
or indifferent ?
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Are your relationships so fulfulling that someone looking
at you would want to copy
for spirtual growth ?
1 Comments, 29 Views,
1 Votes
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Trust 12/11/2005
I have to say that it takes faith to trust someone on a dating
web site weither it be Christian or non Christian. People
are just not who they say they are. For those of us who are
trying to find a good relationship, it is made difficult
by those who try to fraud us and the sad note to this topic
is that, it just might be bad out weighs the good, and by saying
that, I mean, once burned ...
3 Comments, 54 Views,
7 Votes
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Do you only Obey GOD when it costs nothing ???? 12/11/2005
I was reading this article yesterday, and it said that true,
unconditional love is so complete, that if you have it,
then you would still love, and be happy even if your spouse
leaves for someone else?
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Matt 15:31 "This people draweth nigh unto me with
their mouth, and honoureth me with their lips; but their
heart is far from me.
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Have you ever felt ...
1 Comments, 41 Views,
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Keep moving and don't stop 12/7/2005
“There comes a time in your life when you realize that if
you stand still, you will remain at this point forever.
You realize that if you fall and stay down, life will pass
you by…so Keep moving and don't stop unti you achieve
you goal”
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Love is not hard 12/7/2005
I saw a post asking why is love so hard. But i find out that
love is never hard as the bible teaches but our greet and
selfishness made it seems it is hard. When we truelly love
and willingly express it love is so simple and interesting.
0 Comments, 39 Views,
2 Votes
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Long distance can't stop true love 12/7/2005
There is no long distance about true love, it always finds
a way to bring heart together, no matter how many miles there
are between
1 Comments, 35 Views,
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finding true love 12/7/2005
well i believe that we get what we want in most times except
with some times when we finds ourselve in the wb of pretender.
I believe there is true love in this site just as it is in real
life. But the fact is that it takes more than just saying
i love you on here to get true love. i take the grace of god
and his descerning power working in us to get it as there
are so many pretenders in ...
1 Comments, 43 Views,
5 Votes
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What to look for in a spouse 12/6/2005
What to look for in a potential partner....
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I recently came across this list of 1-21, and thought it
might be nice to share it, and useful to add other things
found in the Bible pertaining to qualities that we can look
for in a prospective spouse.. ..
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The Qualities of a Godly Husband - Proverbs
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1. A wise husband is kind and compassionate ...
3 Comments, 59 Views,
53 Votes
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building a relationship 12/4/2005
building a relationship takes great commitment, first
you have to be committed to yourself and then to others.
1 Comments, 62 Views,
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we should be bold to let go our pride 12/2/2005
Pride the bible says comes before fall, and this have denied
many people of their happiness. When yo hold on to your pride
you are bound to loss so many valuables. Many have lost someone
they loved to their pride. But my counsel is that be willing
to loss your pride to someone that loves you and whom you
love that to loss some that loves you and tat you love to your
pride.
1 Comments, 13 Views,
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Love vs. Lust 12/1/2005
When the Lord first started giving me a desire to be married
again, He took me to 1 Corinthians 13, a chapter that we are
all familiar with. He took me down through the verses and
showed me the difference between love and lust in a relationship.
Since then I have tried to continually make sure that I am
relating to men with love rather than lust because I love
the Lord with my whole heart ...
3 Comments, 75 Views,
10 Votes
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BEAUTY(EXTERNAL/INTERNAL) 11/27/2005
I was just thinking of this, when looking for a partner does
external beauty matter(reasonably yes) or should it be
love and understanding that matter ......wish all do realize
that 'beauty is only skin deep'...one might choose
and marry the prettiest girl or the most handsome man but
in course of time God forbid if it results in that beauty
being destroyed or taken away...would one cease ...
4 Comments, 64 Views,
3 Votes
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Validation 11/20/2005
When relationships go awry I've noticed, both in clinical
practice and in my own relationships, that what went wrong
is that the parties didn't understand one another.
They simply didn't listen, even discovering that
they were fighting for the same thing.
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When it comes to relationships, whether with friends or
mates, it's important to remember that there is an
us at stake ...
3 Comments, 52 Views,
3 Votes
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Who WE trying to Fool 11/9/2005
Looking for a woman/man that is well built, sexy, tall
and handsome, cute that is (pick 1) white/Black/other
decent. I am looking for the man/woman that God has for me.
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How many times have you read a intro like this? Well let me
ask you one thing.........Who You trying to Fool?
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God may have had someone for you until you just put limits
on him.
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Most ...
1 Comments, 61 Views,
9 Votes
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LOVE or LUST 11/8/2005
When we were younger, we were told that we were not in love,
but lust, because at that age we had no true concept of it…..Now
that we are older and Christians, is that still the case?
Are we able in our on minds capable of determining if our
love is true?
1 Comments, 43 Views,
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Are women choosing the wrong men? 11/5/2005
I say women because woman decide whether or not there will
be a relationship.
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Everyday we hear of so much abuse and death of woman and
at the hands of their spouse and father, and this situation
continues to increase at an alarming rate.
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Pro 18:22 "whoso findeth a wife findeth a good thing,
and obtaineth favour of the Lord.
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This verse suggests ...
1 Comments, 54 Views,
3 Votes
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HERE ARE SOME GOOD TIPS!!! 11/4/2005
WHEN BUILDING A RELATIONSHIP TAKE IT SLOW ONE DAY AT A TIME
DON'T RUSH , BE SURE TO DO SOME THINGS THE OTHER PERSON
LIKES.
1 Comments, 39 Views,
1 Votes
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A Blueprint ? 10/27/2005
I'm new to the BC and was reading some of the submitions
about relationships, breakups and love. There is one thing
for sure I know that when it comes to finding love, staying
in a relationship, and breaking up the end result is always
each persons lack of knowledge, stopping working, or forgetting
that we as humans are limited by our imagaination.
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I have listened, over ...
1 Comments, 37 Views,
5 Votes
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Divorce is a product of selfishness 9/28/2005
no matter what any says, God did not include divorce in his
program for human marriage. And when it is looked at deeply
one sees that it is a product of selfishness either way.
1 Comments, 43 Views,
7 Votes
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Meeting - A Man's Perspective - Pt. 1 9/26/2005
As I begin to write this article, there is the certain knowledge
within me that I do not have all the answers. Hopefully other
men will chime in here and in time we can offer a consensus
that the women who ask these questions can look to for advice.
And perhaps the women will do the same for us men, because
we have just as many questions, if not more.
In perusing the questions on this ...
2 Comments, 36 Views,
36 Votes
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Love is more of an action 9/18/2005
love is more than feelings, and is also more than words,
but it is an action is demostrated by God.
0 Comments, 41 Views,
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To Be excepted 9/1/2005
In dating, I have noticed that for the most part people have
picked someone to date usually by making looks the top of
the list. I can remember watching my choose a boyfriend
of a girlfriend, and the first thing they would ask eachother
was is he/she cute. In fact I still have s and a
still single, and to this day still making choices where
looks come first.
I was not sure if I ...
1 Comments, 47 Views,
6 Votes
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How Do We Know Who God Wants Us To Be With? 8/29/2005
God created Eve so that Adam would not be alone. Therefore,
it can be assumed that God does not want mankind to be alone.
But, how do we know who God wants us to be with? How do we know
if we are with our "soulmate"? Or, does God give
us the chance to choose who we want to be with and we just take
our chances? To me, that doesn't seem right. Surely,
God has already chosen our ...
2 Comments, 121 Views,
6 Votes
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when you draw back from God 8/24/2005
whoever that draws back from God for any reason, automatically
move closer to the devil and God has no pleasure in such person.
To continously be in God pleasure and favour, is to continue
to move close to Him
1 Comments, 13 Views,
2 Votes
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In God We Trust 8/17/2005
The world speaks differently then God. Others will judge
us and base their advice on history usually. The past. People
look at facts, but God looks at hearts. People judge, God
does not. People think that they have all the answers, but
only God does.
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Listening to others, without weighing all things, makes
it very easy for our minds to be filled with doubt and fear.
...
0 Comments, 31 Views,
6 Votes
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What do you do? 8/15/2005
What do you do when you want to build a relationship with
someone and you've been doing everything you can to
make and work and they never to talk to you to tell you how
they feel?
1 Comments, 145 Views,
6 Votes
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Becoming HIS Bride/Bridegroom 8/1/2005
After receiving some of my Grandfather's (86 now)
writings, a blessing of wealth and wisdom. I am led to share
this regarding us becoming the Bridegroom/Bride of Jesus.
When reference is made to bride, bridegroom, men, etc.
It represents All of God's , not male or female.
Ask the Spirit to reveal to you what HE thinks because that
is all that really matters.
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The ...
2 Comments, 72 Views,
7 Votes
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How is it Possible for a BELIEVER to ever become an UNBELIEVER? 7/31/2005
Have you ever become involved with anyone short-term or
long-term in a relationship, marriage or dating, that
had introduced themselves as a BORN-AGAIN BELIEVER in
JESUS CHRIST, and then during the relationship when you're
having problems with them, they state that they're
not a BELIEVER, and then they RETRACT those statement and
act REPENTANT, and then state they're an UNBELIEVER
...
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