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Dundeal 67 M
6251  Articles
Are You Like Jesus?   1/28/2008

A few years ago a group of salesmen went to a regional sales convention in Chicago. They had assured their wives that they would be home in plenty of time for Friday night's dinner. In their rush, with tickets and briefcases, one of these salesmen inadvertently kicked over a table which held a display of baskets of Apples. Apples flew everywhere. Without stopping or looking back, they all ...


0 Comments, 5 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
Building a relationship with god   1/15/2008

I feel like the lost amongst thieves. My relationship with god has been pretty dicey over my life time. I was bought up in an abusive family and lost my innocents at a very young age. I have decided thats the ache I feel every second of everyday. Thats what I am seeking, my innocents back. The people that it was trusted with did not protect it. When people ask me what I want in life I dare not ...


0 Comments, 19 Views, 0 Votes
Indescribeable 65 F
6  Articles
Grieving and forgiveness are necessary in any situation.   12/31/2007

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Grieving & Forgiveness




Understanding Grief a true story

Regardless of the loss you've suffered, whether it's a relationship, a job, a family member, or anything else, you ...


1 Comments, 15 Views, 3 Votes ,5.39 Score
DivaGirlICOC 42 F
10  Articles
Long-distance Relationships   12/20/2007

Long-distance Relationships

The development of any relationship is challenging ‒ but long distance does add some unique aspects to consideration. Although I am sure not all-inclusive, here are some thoughts that I believe one should consider as they entertain long distance relationships.

The initial interaction in a long distance relationship is ...


1 Comments, 158 Views, 23 Votes ,5.93 Score
Hiz4Ever 71 F
4  Articles
♥ ON HIS PLAN FOR YOUR MATE ♥   12/19/2007



♥ ON HIS PLAN FOR YOUR MATE ♥

Everyone longs to give themselves completely to someone, to have a deep soul relationship with another--to be loved throughly and exclusively. But, God to a Christian says, "No, not yet, not until you are satisfied and fulfilled and content with being loved by Me alone, with giving yourself totally and ...



1 Comments, 27 Views, 6 Votes ,5.64 Score
girliegirl222 48 F
1  Article
what's a girl to do   11/27/2007

i been on these sites long enough to know the difference between a man who is forreal and a man who is playing games. suppose i liked a man who is playing games. can you stop him and change his mind? or is he just an unleashed savage destined to crash.


3 Comments, 87 Views, 5 Votes ,3.80 Score
Free Pass: Out on a Limb?   11/25/2007

The grass surely is always greener on the other side. Lately there has been this new concept in dating called a free pass. This is where a couple in a serious dating relationship gives each other a break for one day, or 24 hours where they each go on a date with someonelse other than their partner. The idea is to explore, you know, the whole thing about being sure you are not losing out on ...


0 Comments, 65 Views, 7 Votes ,4.31 Score
Dundeal 67 M
6251  Articles
Red Roses:   11/17/2007

Each year, a husband sent his wife roses on their anniversary, and the note would always say, "I love you even more this year than last year. My love for you will always grow with every passing year." She trimmed the stems and placed them in a very special vase. The year after her husband passed away, the doorbell rang. She found roses sitting by her door. She just looked at them in shock. ...


0 Comments, 12 Views, 2 Votes ,5.20 Score
Dundeal 67 M
6251  Articles
How can I make my prayers effective??   11/10/2007

I urge you, first of all, to pray for all people. As you make your requests, plead for God's mercy upon them, and give thanks. Pray this way for kings and all others who are in authority, so that we can live in peace and quietness, in godliness and dignity. 1 Timothy 2:1-2 NLT

Paul urges Timothy to lift up requests, prayers, intercession, and thanksgiving. When we request something ...


1 Comments, 9 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
Dundeal 67 M
6251  Articles
Gray Areas   11/10/2007

The Bible is very clear on some things however there are other areas in the Bible where things are not spelled out in black and white. So if it is not black and white then I call these the gray areas. What is right for some is not right for others so we get in these big heated discussions and a lot of not so nice things are said. What I will share here is what I have found in the bible dealing ...


1 Comments, 13 Views, 3 Votes ,5.39 Score
JustChristian1 60 M
3  Articles
Scrambled Yokes.....   10/29/2007

Greetings all, Just curious. How many people think that two must be evenly yoked in a relationship? And what areas do you see others not evenly yoked?


0 Comments, 18 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
Dundeal 67 M
6251  Articles
All About Love   10/14/2007

I once had a friend who grew to be very close to me. Once when we were sitting at the edge of a swimming pool, she filled the palm of her hand with some water and held it before me, and said this: "You see this water carefully contained on my hand? It symbolizes Love." <br> This was how I saw it: As long as you keep your hand caringly open and allow it to remain there, it will ...


2 Comments, 38 Views, 2 Votes ,4.50 Score
Dundeal 67 M
6251  Articles
Do You Really Love As Jesus Loved?   10/14/2007

I would like for you to think about people that our in your life that you have a hard time loving. I know myself that there are quite a few that I can put on my list. There are always those around us whether it is at work, the neighborhood, even church that just rub us the wrong way for whatever reason. For some of us, that person that you have a hard time loving could even be yourself. ...


2 Comments, 7 Views, 3 Votes ,4.90 Score
monele 56 F
9  Articles
True Love   10/14/2007

I noticed there are lots of people who give up too soon on love! And they may be both Christians or say they quit because they are 'unequally yoked' a brand new term I learned on this group but that could be an excuse too so I think it is sooo important to hold on to faith and love always!!! There is nothing like love but God's love for all of us! tops it all and is never ending if I could ...


2 Comments, 26 Views, 7 Votes ,4.06 Score
monele 56 F
9  Articles
Christian Marriage   9/26/2007

Wanted to teach you guys some German!!!

So ys ago in my youth bible classes in Germany we learned that the German word for marriage is EHE. We had to look at the word more closer in class and it was explained like this:

you are both equal partners on both sides, (the 2 E's here in the word) and the H in the middle stands for the German word for the Lord which is 'Herr' and if ...


0 Comments, 17 Views, 5 Votes ,5.43 Score
Dundeal 67 M
6251  Articles
Simple Friend, Real Friend   9/13/2007

A simple friend, when visiting, acts like a guest. A real friend opens your refrigerator and helps himself (and doesn't feel even the least bit weird shutting your' coke/Pepsi drawer' with her foot!)

A simple friend has never seen you cry. A real friend has shoulders soggy from your tears.

A simple friend doesn't know your parents' first names. A real friend has their in their ...


2 Comments, 6 Views, 2 Votes ,5.20 Score
Ginasmom 70 F
1  Article
Work At Your Relationship   9/6/2007

I think most of you will agree that each relationship takes work. Just as you work on your job to keep the paycheck coming in, your car to keep it clean and running, your checkbook to pay the bills, so you must work at keeping the relationship healthy and happy. All of us are on this on-line dating for a specific reason; mine is to find a healthy relationship with someone who wants to go ...


0 Comments, 122 Views, 20 Votes ,6.57 Score
Friendship....Love It or Leave It   9/2/2007

I approached the new year with a blessed relationship with a wonderful girlfriend I have know for 7 years(we have had our ups and downs). I also approached the new year with a disappointed friendship with a girlfriend I have only know for 8 months. The new girlfriend is very thoughtless. She has been going through some very difficult times in her life. I don't know if I want to continue the ...


0 Comments, 28 Views, 0 Votes
kevin22 44 M
540  Articles
What's In Your Trash Basket   8/31/2007

What’s In Your Trash Basket?

Gwen Smith









Today’s truth “Jesus straightened up and asked her, "Woman, where are they? Has no one condemned you?" (John 8:10 NIV).





Friend to Friend

A precious little four-year old girl was overheard reciting the Lord’s Prayer, “…and ...


1 Comments, 5 Views, 2 Votes ,5.20 Score
Dundeal 67 M
6251  Articles
Do You Want To Be Happy?   8/26/2007

A simple question, do you want to be happy? If the answer is yes then try a few of the tips down below. You will be surprised at how happy you will feel and become, cheers.

Free your heart from hatred. Free your mind from worries. Live simply. Give more. Expect less.


2 Comments, 8 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score
Dundeal 67 M
6251  Articles
Life Is Short   8/26/2007

Life is short, break the rules. Forgive quickly, kiss slowly, love truly, laugh uncontrollably and never regret anything that made you smile.


2 Comments, 10 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score
stev00400 43 M
1541  Articles
life   8/24/2007

Hello how are you doing, you have a sweet picture and profile in here. hope we can be friends. steven


0 Comments, 4 Views, 0 Votes
stev00400 43 M
1541  Articles
be on with God   8/1/2007

I just want you to always be on with God in whatever you do, say, see and think.Be focused in what you desire and armed at in life for the Lord your God is an awsome God


0 Comments, 9 Views, 2 Votes ,3.81 Score
kevin22 44 M
540  Articles
Seven Stages Of The Married Cold   7/15/2007

by Dennis and Barbara Rainey

June 29



Seven Stages of the Married Cold Hebrews 3:13 But encourage one another day after day, as long as it is still called Today, lest any one of you be hardened by the deceitfulness of sin.



Some clever observer has described the way family members often drift apart as the seven stages of the married cold. The pattern can ...


0 Comments, 4 Views, 0 Votes
stev00400 43 M
1541  Articles
THE MAKER   7/15/2007

The Maker of all human beings is recalling all units manufactured, Regardless of make or year, due to a serious defect in the primary and Central component of the heart.

This is due to a malfunction in the original prototype unit’s code named Adam and Eve, resulting in the reproduction of the same defect in all Subsequent units.

This defect has been technically termed ' S ...


0 Comments, 3 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score
Ebonypriestess 60 F
10  Articles
You look good..   7/5/2007

On the BC site, what would you say "winking" at someone actually means - you like the person; think they're cute?
A friend has recently joined BC and I want to make sure I understand - general consensus would be nice....


7 Comments, 95 Views, 7 Votes ,3.30 Score
Held 58 F
1  Article
What is Love?   7/5/2007

Love is not infatuation, that feeling you feel when you meet someone for the first time & always want to be with them. Love comes after that. Alot of people don't realize that this is when the work in the relationship starts. We have become an instant gratification nation. We want everything now! Love is when two healthy people who love themselves come together (keeping their own ...


1 Comments, 104 Views, 15 Votes ,4.97 Score
lonelygentleman2 51 M
3  Articles
Just stick with it   7/5/2007

I've written to a lot of woman on this site and one by one we found out things about each other that we didn't like or that wasn't compatible. I almost gave up hope and thought GOD had another plan for me until I met this lovely American woman with a big heart. We're totally in love with each other and have made plans for our future but if I didn't stick with it and didn't have faith in God I ...


0 Comments, 24 Views, 1 Votes ,3.70 Score
joydancing 72 F
30  Articles
Suddenly BAM, answered prayers!   6/24/2007

My adopted met Ronny on BigChurch and suddenly her hearts hope is realized. Ronnie is a youth pastor, he has introduced Hennie to his family and friends, all is well! <br> My co-worker Grace met her husband online. My co-worker Helen met her husband online. My sister-in-Christ Jan met her beau online. <br> SUDDENLY, yes God blesses us suddenly, in aninstant our lives ...


2 Comments, 72 Views, 12 Votes ,6.51 Score
HE7MAN73 57 M
11  Articles
"How Men Should Treat Women"   6/22/2007

When I was five years old, I saw my mother cry for the first time. The tears she shed was for a husband and father who was somewhere on the road, not caring about my mother nor myself. At five, I learned to dry hers tears, at five, I learned that when I put my small arms around her she would sometimes smile. For a while I became the man of the house, always reassuring her, telling her ...


8 Comments, 120 Views, 9 Votes ,6.20 Score