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moveinspace 87M

7/20/2007 7:21 am

I have a feeling this post might open a can of worms.


firefromheaven
(firefromheaven )
68M

7/20/2007 10:20 am

Nothing personal undie but I don't know you and you live too far away and I'm probably and old man to you.


apostle2day 82M

7/20/2007 11:25 am

Well, this is a tough area for most everybody, cause most of us don't have the striking looks or fabulous bod that draws lots of attention....so....I wouldn't sweat this question much if I were you ! Look at us on this site ! There's only 5-10% that are striking.....the rest of us look more like we been struck !!!
(but that's okay....I like challenges, don't you ?)
...and besides, God gave most of us plain folks more sense anyways !







None of us need but one person to want us in this life, and I think most of us are pretty picky in this area, (at least us older folks) so we limit ourselves also.

I do think that blogging definitely increases anyones' opportunities because it helps get past just what the eye can see, which is about as far as most of our opportunities go. When we can get to know others a little, in the privacy of our computer, it helps a lot.

All that said....the easiest life is the single life, but we all would like to find the perfect one ! (it'd be the charm for me...3rd time)
But whether we do or not...God/Christ loves us whatever happens.

But whatever comes......I say just be yourself, and let the chips fall where you throw 'em ! (cowchips, that is)



Enjoy our short life....eternity is a comin' and we'll look back and laff, most likely !


michellejm 56F

7/20/2007 11:25 am

Hey there,

Yes, I would definitely be checking you out to see if we were right for dating if I was a guy. So I dated YES! Have started on this site but have seen you a number of times now. Guys - seems very attractive and date worthy to me. WHAT ARE YOU DOING?

Also I think you are very brave and strong putting that question out there about yourself. I don't know if I would be up to hearing all the feedback about myself at this point. So you seem to have much resilience and heaps going for you.


CoryLee 46M

7/20/2007 3:31 pm

not voting cause maybe aint listed


CoryLee 46M

7/20/2007 3:32 pm

And well i'm interested in someone to but you know that


cabbagerose 67F

7/20/2007 4:27 pm

michellejm! agree100% ! I sure wouldnt be asking that about myself! You on the other hand have nothing to worry about~~you are adorable~~from a female point of view


Independance
(Patricia )
62F

7/20/2007 5:14 pm

NO!, but my bachelor brother would!, he's over six feet tall, ugly, smelly, and cooks original dishes that nobody else would dare!, interested?

Life is an adventure.


ICorinthians13 66F
617 posts
7/20/2007 5:46 pm

I voted no because before I even realized you were female,
your ID ( _____ ) struck me as a little creepy with a
lack of commitment. That's just my opinion, o'course.
Have a nice day!


alyosha2 55M

7/20/2007 7:04 pm

Of course I would date you!

(This is not one of those psychological questions, right? )

The other question is, would you date me???

(This is not a test, or a psychological question either )


alyosha2 55M

7/20/2007 7:08 pm

    Quoting michellejm:
    Hey there,

    Yes, I would definitely be checking you out to see if we were right for dating if I was a guy. So I dated YES! Have started on this site but have seen you a number of times now. Guys - seems very attractive and date worthy to me. WHAT ARE YOU DOING?

    Also I think you are very brave and strong putting that question out there about yourself. I don't know if I would be up to hearing all the feedback about myself at this point. So you seem to have much resilience and heaps going for you.
I'd swim across the Pacific Ocean for you!


alyosha2 55M

7/20/2007 7:35 pm

And I do put the toilet seat down!


Aslan17
(Jeff S)
63M

7/20/2007 9:22 pm

I think you are adorable, but just a little young for me.

We are what we believe we are.
C. S. Lewis


Hisglory77
(Byron )
64M

7/20/2007 9:56 pm

I took the question at face value. A date is a date. It is not a relationship, not a $exual fling. But two people getting to know each other. Yes I'd take you on a date, and see to it that you had a nice time. Just like any other woman I take out, I would be a gentleman, try to make you comfortable, and not take advantage of you.

Now a romance is a whole different matter, because of our age difference. I have a daughter your age, so anything beyond an accountable platonic frindship, teacher, or mentor relationship, is out of the question.

However, if I were your age, and you were in my church, you wouldn't have ever posted this blog, because I would have already either asked you out, or began a friendship with you.

Isaiah 66:2b; But to this one I will look, To him who is humble and contrite of spirit, and who trembles at My word.


RaulTheScammer
(Raul )
61M

7/20/2007 10:38 pm

So how old or ya, Cupcake? Ola Raul dates all kinds of chicks. Let me know when to pick you up. BTW, bring your checkbook!


_Frazzie 50F

7/21/2007 6:12 am

LOL.. can't believe the desperation of some polls..


walking_in_faith 48F

7/21/2007 6:56 am

hmm Frazzie, have you ever heard the statement if you have nothing nice to say don't say anything at all? I think her question is fine...she's just curious about what kind of ppl would be interested in her, there's no desperation in that. I think it's brave and shows that she's pretty secure with herself, to ask a question on a site with thousands of ppl viewing. God Bless and best wishes. I hope that God sends you someone very special.


_Frazzie 50F

7/21/2007 9:44 am

    Quoting walking_in_faith:
    hmm Frazzie, have you ever heard the statement if you have nothing nice to say don't say anything at all? I think her question is fine...she's just curious about what kind of ppl would be interested in her, there's no desperation in that. I think it's brave and shows that she's pretty secure with herself, to ask a question on a site with thousands of ppl viewing. God Bless and best wishes. I hope that God sends you someone very special.
Obviously there IS a element of desperation in it.. Desperate for number 1 polls and desperate too see how many would say YES to give her a *ego* boost.. and u think IF she was secure in herself she would need to ask such a thing? hmm my judging is NO..

But this is *blogs* and I guess we all have our own opinion on things... just some like to voice them and not keep closet on them


michellejm 56F

7/21/2007 10:05 am

    Quoting  :

Hey there, I'm wondering, Has being on this site and putting yourself out there helped you become stronger in, "disregarding the pathetic mindless wanderings..." of the things people write about you. As I would like to be able to disregard any unhelpful things people do or say about me. I guess feel more solid and secure. It sounds like you are.


_Frazzie 50F

7/21/2007 10:13 am

    Quoting  :

LOL @ calling me pathetic .. yet here you are with a desperate attempt to boost ya deflamed ego..

aaaanyway.. its not "wanderings" its "wOnderings"...

and I'm NOT bitter.. I'm just sweet and sour ..


michellejm 56F

7/21/2007 10:15 am

    Quoting  :

Are you talking about yourself because I think you have striking good looks, can't see your bod much but seems great to me and if you were with someone who really appreciated and loved you totally I believe you would be the most beautiful person they could ever imagine to which none other could compare - basically no competition. I think you look HOT! and admire your STRENGTH!


IAmNotKen 61M

7/21/2007 11:23 am

    Quoting _Frazzie:
    Obviously there IS a element of desperation in it.. Desperate for number 1 polls and desperate too see how many would say YES to give her a *ego* boost.. and u think IF she was secure in herself she would need to ask such a thing? hmm my judging is NO..

    But this is *blogs* and I guess we all have our own opinion on things... just some like to voice them and not keep closet on them

This woman has some major issues. Let's all pray she gets better. Mental illness is not to be ignored!


michellejm 56F

7/21/2007 1:07 pm

Oh boy, seems like things are getting a bit rough. Even if __________ were to need an ego boost and what if Frazzie does have some major issues and need prayer and has mental issues. JUST TO MAKE IT CLEAR I AM NOT SAYING THAT EITHER HAS ANY OF THESE PARTICULAR ISSUES. I do think, however, that all of us have issues, need ego boosting, (or maybe another way of saying it is encouragement and positive reinforcement), have some sort of mental issues - to varying degrees, don't get our spelling and grammar accurate (I do that a lot) and we all need prayer. So if you would all pray for these things for me that would be appreciated. I don't mind saying that I could do with prayer in all these areas. I don't know if people are just having fun with this, as what I have previously posted I meant but was also having laugh, but it seems this game might be getting nasty and I don't think that is beneficial. We all have needs due to flaws but isn't that OK and can't we help in meeting those needs.


_Frazzie 50F

7/21/2007 1:55 pm

Ok ok.. I hold my hands up and will say that my original statement was a JOKE...

I do have dry british sense of humour and by NO means meant to run _____ down or anyone else.. I know we don't get on.. but I ain't the kind to deliberately attack her or anyone for no reason..

Apologies..


archangel1954
(mike s)
69M
432 posts
7/21/2007 2:40 pm

based on what ? dont know ya but ya look ok .

2Co:4:3 KJV: But if our gospel be hid, it is hid to them that are lost: