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IS THE GUY A PLAYER???? 1) He's cheated on a girlfriend before 2) He's cheated on you before but swears it will never happen again 3) He has a bad reputation 4) A lot of girls seem to hate him 5) His friends are cheaters and/or don't treat girls well NOTE: Don't bother asking his friends about him, they are pretty much obligated to say nice things about him. Same goes for his family 6) You have an uneasy feeling he might be a jerk 7) You have to keep convincing yourself that he is a good guy and other people are wrong about him  He asks you to keep your relationship secret for whatever reason9) He seems reluctant to go public about hanging out with you 10) He is lovey-dovey with you in private, then whenever someone sees you with him, he suddenly drops your hand and talks to you like you're his sister 11) He gets uncomfortable when other girls approach him in front of you 12) The first thought you have when someone wants to speak privately with you is, "What did he do now?" 13) People have warned you about him 14) Your friends don't like him 15) Your mom doesn't like him OR 16) Your mom loves him because he knows just how to work her (and you've seen him in action!) 17) You've heard him lie to his parents/friends/boss/teachers and it sounds totally believable 1 You've busted him lying to you19) He steals from his friends or family. This shows he's willing to stab people in the back 20) This is a common one I've found: He claims that his ex girlfriend is a horrible psycho and it was 100% her fault they split up. Don't buy it girls, this is rarely if ever true. 21) His ex girlfriends hate his guts. DO listen to what they have to say about him- they may know better than you what he is really like. If they have horror stories about him, pay attention! 22) When he gets in trouble for something, he either turns it around on you so suddenly you feel guilty, or he starts playing the sympathy card and makes you feel sorry for him. If all else fails, he starts bawling his eyes out. Funny how he stops the second he gets what he wants! 23) He hangs out with girls that have "been around the block" and then claims they are his buddies friends and not his 24) He goes for a wild party night with his friends, then claims he "can't remember" anything. Later, you find out that the trashy girls were all over him 25) When you tell people who you are dating, they give you a funny look and say, "Oh, I didn't think he HAD a girlfriend" all confused 26) He makes a lot of out of town trips with his buddies and doesn't invite you... then when you ask what he did while he was away, he is eager to change the subject 27) He gets phone calls while you are together and he makes a mad dash out of the room and tells them quietly he'll call them back and not to call again 2 You find hidden 30) You catch him flirting with other girls, and when they flirt back he doesn't seem to mind 31) When you ask him to stop, he says he will but then you catch him at it again 32) He accuses YOU of cheating on him 33) When you're talking in a group and a girl's name is mentioned, you notice his friends winking at him 34) He tells you he is going someplace, then other people tell you he was somewhere totally different 35) You hear he is messing around, but he always has a cover story (which may include friends that will lie for him) or an excuse ie) mistaken identity, someone is out to get him, etc. 36) You hear he cheated, and he tells you he was too drunk to remember what happened so you should just let it go 37) Some girls are just a little TOO bold around him ( ex. they give him a full body hug whenever they see him and squeal his name) and you have to wonder why 3 His dad or brother is a cheater39) You notice he tends to put his needs first 40) If he cheated on you and you took him back under a list of conditions, he hasn't fulfilled any of them and doesn't seem to care 41) In order for him to be telling the truth about something, a number of people would have to be lying, all in a conspiracy against him, of course 42) You've caught yourself thinking, "He did that to (insert name here) but I know he'd NEVER do that to me!" 43) You find it hard to trust him, and wonder what he is really up to when you are not around 44) He acts like he is single and doesn't hang around you much when you are partying/clubbing 45) You aren't sure whether or not he'd stay faithful if he were given the right opportunity 46) You've heard him harshly put people down, then be nice to their faces 47) He already has a girlfriend!!! 4 It's never his fault, it's always somebody else's49) He breaks his promises 50) He says that that other girl that likes him is ugly, a stalker, he can't stand her, etc. yet you always seem to catch them together 51) You've said, "He's not as bad as everyone says he is" 52) Sometimes you get the impression that he is telling you what you want to hear and not what he is really feeling 53) You get the feeling he's more sorry he got caught than for what he did 54) Even though you care about him, even YOU have trouble believing him sometimes 55) Girls are all over him in front of you and he doesn't seem to think that it's disrespectful to you 56) You just have a feeling Well, there you have it. If you found yourself nodding to too many points on this post, BEWARE! You may be dating a player! Hiz4Ever † Vincit Veritas~Truth Conquers |
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6/3/2006 8:01 am |
Player and Jerk...  do not wait your time there... dust your feet and move on....
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6/3/2006 9:30 am |
Here is another one: He is gone all night or for several days, and upon returning says he can't remember or else he gives you 4 or 5 different versions of what he says he did......(ie: the car broke down and he had to stay with it all night, he had to stay at work, he ran out of gas, he got lost, etc)
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6/3/2006 10:11 am |
 LYNNIE 
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6/3/2006 10:27 am |
Hey, I know that guy!
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6/3/2006 11:40 am |
Amazing how many guys like that are out there. Their the reason why decent guys stay alone, because women don't trust anyone after getting stuck with a player... oh well, c'est la vie
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6/3/2006 2:14 pm |
Honey, wash your hands and thank God you can see him for what he is and obviously is not.
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I am afraid he is... What if you encounter a guy who tells you he has been this way BEFORE getting to know Christ? But today he is a NEW person in the LORD! Can someone please share their thoughts on that one! I know I will be faithful out of Jesus Name! Amen
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Will these guys ever learn.. even when they have Jesus in their hearts? *praying for them..
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How will they get to know the Love of JESUS when we move on?
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6/3/2006 6:37 pm |
According to DR Laura (I consider her my Jewish Grandmother) you should get to know someone at least 2 years before considering marrying them........you can see by their actions if they are the way that they were before ALSO.....have them go have Dad type chats with your Pastors or other friends. If you read "I kissed dating goodbye" it has great tips about this courting thing........If a Godly man is not willing to do any of this, then forget it......
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Beloved Sister,  I have found that there is somesort of signal we give off. It may be a lack of self-worth or a need to break soul ties. I am including the link to my post for breaking soul ties, at the bottom. ABBA Father, I ask in the name of Jesus that You would give this sister wisdom as to what she needs to do to be found by a good and God-fearing man. Thank You. AMEN † God Bless you With Great Love & Blessings, Hiz4Ever † BREAKING SOUL TIES On His Plan For Your Mate 9829 Vincit Veritas~Truth Conquers
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Beloved Jacintha, I know about the low self esteem thing. I had it, too. The LORD will help you to see yourself as He sees You. Just keep close to Him and let Him heal the hurts of the past and mold you into the Woman of God that He created you to be  God Bless you and yoursWith Great Love & Blessings, Hiz4Ever † Vincit Veritas~Truth Conquers
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Beloved Jacintha, He's a player for sure! Vincit Veritas~Truth Conquers
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Beloved Jacintha, The question is, what did Mum say? Vincit Veritas~Truth Conquers
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Beloved Jacintha, He's a player. Dump him forever! If a guy is serious he will chase you!.....Do not chase him. If he doesn't show you respect, he is a player and a Loser. God Bless youWith Great Love & Blessings, Hiz4Ever † Vincit Veritas~Truth Conquers
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Beloved Jacintha, You are too valuable and too worthy to be with a player like that. Seek the LORD and He will care for you and your children. HE alone can bring you the proper mate. Lean on Him in the mean time and He will cherish you like no other. God bless you & yoursMerry Christmas and trust in the LORD  With Great Love & Blessings, Hiz4Ever † Vincit Veritas~Truth Conquers
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Beloved Jacintha, Is this someone that you met online or on BC? God Bless you and yours and Merry Christmas With Great Love & Blessings, Hiz4Ever † Vincit Veritas~Truth Conquers
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Beloved Jacintha, Thank you With Great Love & Blessings, Hiz4Ever † Vincit Veritas~Truth Conquers
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