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I know I said I was leaving, and I am, but I did leave the door open for an occasional blog post...
busykydad
5/13/2008 12:46 pm
...so listen up. Irregardless of who said what, who's doing what, and whether or not you agree with what they are saying or doing...would you all just grow up???

If I hadn't already decided to leave, I would have after all of this. I'm gonna tell you like I tell my boys

If you don't have something good to say, don't say anything at all.

Now, if you all can't behave like good little boys and girls...

I'm gonna send you all to your rooms and take away your internet privileges for a week.

Now, go to somebody who you've had words with and seek forgiveness...that is Christ's command, not mine!!!

...and if you don't, it speaks volumes to your relationship with Christ!

"He is no fool who gives what he cannot keep to gain that which he cannot lose." - part of Jim Elliot's October 28, 1949 journal entry

One life will soon be passed, only what's done for Christ will last!
OceanBlue122
6962 posts 

5/13/2008 1:48 pm

I'm glad I missed whatever this horrific thing that went on on here!! And I don't wanna know what it is/was as.....I'm assuming it doesn't involved me!!

Can we believe that good will still come out of all this?

ms_warriorthingy
5647 posts

5/13/2008 1:50 pm

As I said to someone else.......perhaps a good dose of Castor Oil.......coz a good purging never hurt anyone!!

Rather than cast stones, I wish people would just get their Bibles out and work on their own salvation!! Imagine the different tone that would make on the blogs!!

Hey Jim.....good to see you!!


Penelope
Captive of Hope

jerseygirl1964
3535 posts 

5/13/2008 1:55 pm



* Sin is sin. Careful what comes across your lips & out your finger tips!!!
* We are all the Body of Christ. Let's treat each other as such, with the same respect we give to HIM!!
* Relationship advice: DO NOT make someone a PRIORITY, when they ONLY make you an OPTION!!
* A woman's heart should be so lost in God, that a man has to seek HIM in order to find her!!

racefan4
6738 posts

5/13/2008 2:03 pm

Hi Jim!

So glad to see you acting in the capacity of a dad! So many here are acting just like little children.
Can I have a small advance on my allowance? Please? I've been a good girl and am mad at no one, please? lol
God bless you!

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GODRULESGLO
6214 posts

5/13/2008 3:00 pm

AMEN AND AMEN AND AMEN, JIM!

I thought upon leaving my job on the weekend, I don't have to deal with all the arguments and the infightings...but every time I opened the BLOG PAGE, it seems, PEOPLE HERE ARE ACTING JUST LIKE THE GROUP HOME CHILDREN I've been dealing with for over 6 years now...SO SAD TO THINK THAT SO MANY ARE LIKE THEM, BUT THAT'S THE TRUTH!!!

I come here on BC at the very end of the day, after a very stressful job, to fellowship and interact with God's people, but it grieves my heart to see the unnecessary arguments, the name calling, the harsh words, the divisions! THE ENTIRE ATMOSPHERE IS SO GRIEVOUS, SO DISHEARTENING, SO DISCOURAGING, SO DISTURBING, SO SICKENING!!!

Like what you said, WHEN DO PEOPLE EVER GROW UP??? I have to search my self on this one...AS LONG AS OUR HEART IS PRIDEFUL AND SELF IS ENTHRONED, WE WILL NEVER GROW UP INTO MATURITY IN CHRIST! WE WILL CONTINUE TO OPERATE IN THE FLESH AND RUIN SO MANY LIVES BY THE WAY WE LIVE!

Just MHO!

Thank you Jim for this very relevant message! We needed to hear this today!

EXCELLENT POST!
glo


"Create in me a pure heart, O God!" (Psalm 51:10)

Teach me your way, O LORD,and I will walk in your truth; give me an undivided heart, that I may fear your name. I will praise you, O Lord my God, with all my heart; I will glorify Your name forever. (Psalm 86:11,12)

BristerBate
3884 posts 

5/13/2008 3:12 pm

americandreamer
8911 posts

5/13/2008 3:19 pm

Yay!! Jim I'm glad you're not leaving completely. What is it about this place that settles so deep in our heart? God bless!

P.S. I'll behave...


- Pat -

busykydad
3215 posts

5/13/2008 3:29 pm

    Quoting OceanBlue122:
    I'm glad I missed whatever this horrific thing that went on on here!! And I don't wanna know what it is/was as.....I'm assuming it doesn't involved me!!

    Can we believe that good will still come out of all this?
I've been responding to emails and goodbye comments, so each time I open BC I'm seeing the blog titles and don't have to look further to see Christ is not being honored...hopefully, those involved will seek reconciliation!

"He is no fool who gives what he cannot keep to gain that which he cannot lose." - part of Jim Elliot's October 28, 1949 journal entry

One life will soon be passed, only what's done for Christ will last!

busykydad
3215 posts

5/13/2008 3:30 pm

    Quoting ms_warriorthingy:
    As I said to someone else.......perhaps a good dose of Castor Oil.......coz a good purging never hurt anyone!!

    Rather than cast stones, I wish people would just get their Bibles out and work on their own salvation!! Imagine the different tone that would make on the blogs!!

    Hey Jim.....good to see you!!

Hey Pen, its a shame that those who claim the name of Christ act like that, imho...

"He is no fool who gives what he cannot keep to gain that which he cannot lose." - part of Jim Elliot's October 28, 1949 journal entry

One life will soon be passed, only what's done for Christ will last!

busykydad
3215 posts

5/13/2008 3:30 pm



"He is no fool who gives what he cannot keep to gain that which he cannot lose." - part of Jim Elliot's October 28, 1949 journal entry

One life will soon be passed, only what's done for Christ will last!

busykydad
3215 posts

5/13/2008 3:32 pm

    Quoting racefan4:
    Hi Jim!

    So glad to see you acting in the capacity of a dad! So many here are acting just like little children.
    Can I have a small advance on my allowance? Please? I've been a good girl and am mad at no one, please? lol
    God bless you!
Advance on your allowance??? Who cleaned up after supper tonight? I did! Who folded the towels and put them up? I did! And by the looks of things, if the trash is going out tonight, it will be done by ME!!! So, the answer is absolutely NO!!! =)

"He is no fool who gives what he cannot keep to gain that which he cannot lose." - part of Jim Elliot's October 28, 1949 journal entry

One life will soon be passed, only what's done for Christ will last!

busykydad
3215 posts

5/13/2008 3:34 pm

    Quoting GODRULESGLO:
    AMEN AND AMEN AND AMEN, JIM!

    I thought upon leaving my job on the weekend, I don't have to deal with all the arguments and the infightings...but every time I opened the BLOG PAGE, it seems, PEOPLE HERE ARE ACTING JUST LIKE THE GROUP HOME CHILDREN I've been dealing with for over 6 years now...SO SAD TO THINK THAT SO MANY ARE LIKE THEM, BUT THAT'S THE TRUTH!!!

    I come here on BC at the very end of the day, after a very stressful job, to fellowship and interact with God's people, but it grieves my heart to see the unnecessary arguments, the name calling, the harsh words, the divisions! THE ENTIRE ATMOSPHERE IS SO GRIEVOUS, SO DISHEARTENING, SO DISCOURAGING, SO DISTURBING, SO SICKENING!!!

    Like what you said, WHEN DO PEOPLE EVER GROW UP??? I have to search my self on this one...AS LONG AS OUR HEART IS PRIDEFUL AND SELF IS ENTHRONED, WE WILL NEVER GROW UP INTO MATURITY IN CHRIST! WE WILL CONTINUE TO OPERATE IN THE FLESH AND RUIN SO MANY LIVES BY THE WAY WE LIVE!

    Just MHO!

    Thank you Jim for this very relevant message! We needed to hear this today!

    EXCELLENT POST!
    glo

Hey Glo...all I can think is, geesh, how many will be drawn to Jesus by this behavior???

"He is no fool who gives what he cannot keep to gain that which he cannot lose." - part of Jim Elliot's October 28, 1949 journal entry

One life will soon be passed, only what's done for Christ will last!

busykydad
3215 posts

5/13/2008 3:34 pm

Hey BB!!!

"He is no fool who gives what he cannot keep to gain that which he cannot lose." - part of Jim Elliot's October 28, 1949 journal entry

One life will soon be passed, only what's done for Christ will last!

busykydad
3215 posts

5/13/2008 3:36 pm

    Quoting americandreamer:
    Yay!! Jim I'm glad you're not leaving completely. What is it about this place that settles so deep in our heart? God bless!

    P.S. I'll behave...

Well Pat, I haven't noticed you misbehaving, so I guess you can stay on-line for a little while longer...LOL

"He is no fool who gives what he cannot keep to gain that which he cannot lose." - part of Jim Elliot's October 28, 1949 journal entry

One life will soon be passed, only what's done for Christ will last!

ReadingandRoses
6053 posts

5/13/2008 3:47 pm

Noooo not my Internet! I'll be good, I promise!!!

Susan aka Red
God gives the very best to those who leave the choices to Him.
Now to him who is able to do immeasurably more than all we ask or imagine...to Him be the glory. Eph 3:20


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1god2
1778 posts 

5/13/2008 3:59 pm

Agreed, Jim. I just don't understand what is so important about always having the "right" answer. Can't we just agree to disagree?



Nancy
Let us share one anothers burdens and so fulfill the law of Christ

GODRULESGLO
6214 posts

5/13/2008 4:39 pm

Agreed, Jim. I just don't understand what is so important about always having the "right" answer. Can't we just agree to disagree?
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

Hi Nancy,
I've been blogging for almost 3 years now! I've encountered many harsh comments, and if I responded NEGATIVELY, what good would it do? But create chaos and dissension...So, I CHOSE TO STAY POSITIVE AND TURN THE NEGATIVE COMMENTS AROUND TO A POSITIVE ONE!!!

Is it easy to do? OF COURSE NOT!!! MY PRIDE WANTS TO SHOUT AND SHOW I AM RIGHT!!! But when our FOCUS IS TO GLORIFY GOD, EVEN OUR ENEMIES WILL MAKE PEACE WITH US!!!

It's HEALTHY TO AGREE TO DISAGREE! Nothing wrong with that!!!

GREAT INPUT! THANKS...glo


"Create in me a pure heart, O God!" (Psalm 51:10)

Teach me your way, O LORD,and I will walk in your truth; give me an undivided heart, that I may fear your name. I will praise you, O Lord my God, with all my heart; I will glorify Your name forever. (Psalm 86:11,12)

busykydad
3215 posts

5/13/2008 6:04 pm

Promises, promises...

"He is no fool who gives what he cannot keep to gain that which he cannot lose." - part of Jim Elliot's October 28, 1949 journal entry

One life will soon be passed, only what's done for Christ will last!

busykydad
3215 posts

5/13/2008 6:07 pm

    Quoting 1god2:
    Agreed, Jim. I just don't understand what is so important about always having the "right" answer. Can't we just agree to disagree?


It goes beyond being right, people are looking for acceptance through the affirmation of others. If they don't get that affirmation, they will go to extremes to convince others to give it...or, maybe I'm over analyzing this?

"He is no fool who gives what he cannot keep to gain that which he cannot lose." - part of Jim Elliot's October 28, 1949 journal entry

One life will soon be passed, only what's done for Christ will last!

1god2
1778 posts 

5/13/2008 6:23 pm

    Quoting busykydad:
    It goes beyond being right, people are looking for acceptance through the affirmation of others. If they don't get that affirmation, they will go to extremes to convince others to give it...or, maybe I'm over analyzing this?
You've hit the nail on the head, Jim. We know when we're doing right and when we're not. I think the vehemency of a response comes from knowing we're wrong but not admitting it to ourselves.

Nancy
Let us share one anothers burdens and so fulfill the law of Christ

busykydad
3215 posts

5/13/2008 8:09 pm

    Quoting 1god2:
    You've hit the nail on the head, Jim. We know when we're doing right and when we're not. I think the vehemency of a response comes from knowing we're wrong but not admitting it to ourselves.
Exactly!

"He is no fool who gives what he cannot keep to gain that which he cannot lose." - part of Jim Elliot's October 28, 1949 journal entry

One life will soon be passed, only what's done for Christ will last!

selah62
478 posts

5/13/2008 10:52 pm

Good and godly advise brother!

~ Believe His Word and trust His Grace ~

busykydad
3215 posts

5/14/2008 4:42 am

    Quoting selah62:
    Good and godly advise brother!
Apparently not being heard by many BCers..."He that has ears to hear, let him hear"

"He is no fool who gives what he cannot keep to gain that which he cannot lose." - part of Jim Elliot's October 28, 1949 journal entry

One life will soon be passed, only what's done for Christ will last!

SiennaSun
1140 posts 

5/14/2008 6:58 am

We have a small wolf pack on this site. Anyone that doesn;t agree with them, they band together to bring down the offending dissenter.

Their howls are loud or constant, and therefore they seem to be a larger wolfpack then they actually are.

They harry and pester the target, assuming the target will give up eventually and become a meal.


Men never commit evil so fully.. as.for religious convictions

busykydad
3215 posts

5/14/2008 12:39 pm

    Quoting SiennaSun:
    We have a small wolf pack on this site. Anyone that doesn;t agree with them, they band together to bring down the offending dissenter.

    Their howls are loud or constant, and therefore they seem to be a larger wolfpack then they actually are.

    They harry and pester the target, assuming the target will give up eventually and become a meal.

Interesting perspective...must admit, I see a lot of wolf like actions on here where there should be sheep

"He is no fool who gives what he cannot keep to gain that which he cannot lose." - part of Jim Elliot's October 28, 1949 journal entry

One life will soon be passed, only what's done for Christ will last!

BristerBate
3884 posts 

5/14/2008 1:29 pm

    Quoting SiennaSun:
    We have a small wolf pack on this site. Anyone that doesn;t agree with them, they band together to bring down the offending dissenter.

    Their howls are loud or constant, and therefore they seem to be a larger wolfpack then they actually are.

    They harry and pester the target, assuming the target will give up eventually and become a meal.

Sienna, Olga or Julie! (What do you like most, S, O or J?)

I have often seen improvements and I've seen falling again in the same patterns!

Some fruits were starting somehow to look good, but after a while they regained their original "shape"! Keep on preaching the "God News!

Hope is nothing more than Hope! Just as Faith is Faith.

BB

SiennaSun
1140 posts 

5/14/2008 8:53 pm

lol...Julie? BB????

Who is Julie????


Men never commit evil so fully.. as.for religious convictions

BristerBate
3884 posts 

5/15/2008 1:53 am

    Quoting SiennaSun:
    lol...Julie? BB????

    Who is Julie????

From what I've read in recent posts, someone thinks you are!! LOL!

aneleh
2370 posts 

5/15/2008 7:39 am

    Quoting busykydad:
    Advance on your allowance??? Who cleaned up after supper tonight? I did! Who folded the towels and put them up? I did! And by the looks of things, if the trash is going out tonight, it will be done by ME!!! So, the answer is absolutely NO!!! =)
Okaaaaaaay, I'm seeing a little of what its like in your house! How ARE those sons of yours anyway? And what are THEY doing if you're doing ALL this on your own??


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busykydad
3215 posts

5/15/2008 12:01 pm

    Quoting aneleh:
    Okaaaaaaay, I'm seeing a little of what its like in your house! How ARE those sons of yours anyway? And what are THEY doing if you're doing ALL this on your own??
They really do help out around the house, most of the time. They do have their moments...don't we all though?

Helped move my oldest son to Louisville for school this past weekend...which was sad for me. The younger two are busier and have more energy than ever...that or my energy level is declining...maybe both!

"He is no fool who gives what he cannot keep to gain that which he cannot lose." - part of Jim Elliot's October 28, 1949 journal entry

One life will soon be passed, only what's done for Christ will last!

aneleh
2370 posts 

5/15/2008 5:22 pm

    Quoting busykydad:
    They really do help out around the house, most of the time. They do have their moments...don't we all though?

    Helped move my oldest son to Louisville for school this past weekend...which was sad for me. The younger two are busier and have more energy than ever...that or my energy level is declining...maybe both!
LOL, a co worker and I were just talking about our waning energy levels at this age! I was wondering about your eldest...so he's gone already. I'm sure it was nice to have had him at home for awhile but hard to let go again after getting used to that, huh?


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busykydad
3215 posts

5/15/2008 5:53 pm

    Quoting aneleh:
    LOL, a co worker and I were just talking about our waning energy levels at this age! I was wondering about your eldest...so he's gone already. I'm sure it was nice to have had him at home for awhile but hard to let go again after getting used to that, huh?
He was hear just short of two months, well, he slept here, LOL. He did manage to make it home for supper most every night! Seriously, I enjoyed having him here even if it was a short time...made his transition to Louisville a little easier on me.

"He is no fool who gives what he cannot keep to gain that which he cannot lose." - part of Jim Elliot's October 28, 1949 journal entry

One life will soon be passed, only what's done for Christ will last!

imadeit3
877 posts

5/15/2008 8:19 pm

Sorry I caught you as you were leaving...I came across your blog today and enjoyed you thoughts.

God Bless You!
Paula Marie
Truth is Black and White

Truth is Black and White
Paula Marie

jerseygirl1964
3535 posts 

5/16/2008 7:14 pm

So did you inherit the "grandpuppy" while he is at school?

* Sin is sin. Careful what comes across your lips & out your finger tips!!!
* We are all the Body of Christ. Let's treat each other as such, with the same respect we give to HIM!!
* Relationship advice: DO NOT make someone a PRIORITY, when they ONLY make you an OPTION!!
* A woman's heart should be so lost in God, that a man has to seek HIM in order to find her!!

busykydad
3215 posts

5/16/2008 7:54 pm

    Quoting imadeit3:
    Sorry I caught you as you were leaving...I came across your blog today and enjoyed you thoughts.

    God Bless You!
    Paula Marie
    Truth is Black and White
Hey Paula Marie...I'm sorry too, glad you enjoyed my blog thoughts...I will be dropping in occasionally, hope to see you when I do.

"He is no fool who gives what he cannot keep to gain that which he cannot lose." - part of Jim Elliot's October 28, 1949 journal entry

One life will soon be passed, only what's done for Christ will last!

busykydad
3215 posts

5/16/2008 7:56 pm

    Quoting jerseygirl1964:
    So did you inherit the "grandpuppy" while he is at school?
He got a little emotional when we left with all his stuff and had to tell Chloe good-bye...then he came back and got her...then she was miserable in the apartment so he brought her back. I told him since she was staying with me he would visit me more often, lol.

"He is no fool who gives what he cannot keep to gain that which he cannot lose." - part of Jim Elliot's October 28, 1949 journal entry

One life will soon be passed, only what's done for Christ will last!

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