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Good Bye Big Church
busykydad
5/9/2008 1:04 pm
I feel my time here is finished. I might on occasion drop in and read blogs and possibly occasionally post something, but no promises. LOL. (I will linger for a few days to respond to some ongoing comments on my blogs.)

I've enjoyed many friendships here - some who have already left BC and some who remain today.

I came here in a time of crisis. I was trying to cope with the ending of a 21 year marriage and leaving the pastorate after 14 years. Blogging was my outlet.

Now, it seems BC has become a distraction to me getting on with my life. I tried to scale back a few months ago, but still find myself here too much.

Some of you have my personal email address. If you don't have it, and want to stay in touch with me, I will be happy to provide it.

I appreciate your prayers as I endeavor to seek His will and continue in this journey to heaven...

Solo Deo Gloria!!!
americandreamer
6783 posts

5/9/2008 1:46 pm

What a drag to lose you. And yet, the opinion's mine and God's will is much larger. I understand though, God bless!

Michael33333
2921 posts

5/9/2008 2:16 pm

I completely understand your path... and relate with the reasoning... Jim you have blessed me many times and you will be missed... Praying for your next leg of this journey!!! Blessings!!! michael



"THE PATH OF MAN IS TOO DARK, THE CROSS OF CHRIST IS TOO GLORIOUS, AND THE HEART OF GOD IS TOO GRIEVED, FOR ME TO QUIT NOW."

ReadingandRoses
3749 posts 

5/9/2008 2:18 pm

I totally understand! In fact, that's what drew me to the blogs - a need to work out things in my life, healing.... and as that happens, I know the time will come sooner than later to move on. I've noticed lately how much time blogging can take and keep one distracted from the real world, and from working on the physical, emotional and spiritual issues. Odd that what starts as healing can become the block!

ms_warriorthingy
2773 posts

5/9/2008 3:16 pm

I know what you mean, Jim! This place has a way of encroaching into your life and kind of taking over! I pray that God continues to lead you on a path of blessing and a future that is full of every good thing He has in store for you. See you when you visit next time! Love you lots!

spiritfilled052
8453 posts

5/9/2008 3:19 pm

Oh Jim - I will miss you - I pray God's blessings follow you down and completely overtake you!!

How can we NOT praise Him - Marilyn

MRAUTHOR2000

5/9/2008 3:27 pm

hi jim am going continue keep u in my prayers bro,u inspira me with your blog been reading offline.hope u decide come back visit.God bless u bro.

JERRY PETTY AKA MRAUTHOR2000

RaulTheScammer
(Raul )

5/9/2008 3:30 pm

Many on here have come for the same reason, including myself. It's been quite healing believe it or not. I do understand how it takes away from getting on with your life. Anything that has healed a heart is always hard to let go.

joybells55
2469 posts 

5/9/2008 3:49 pm

I'll miss seeing you here, Jim, but when God calls we must answer. I will keep you in my prayers.

OceanBlue122
5462 posts 

5/9/2008 3:56 pm

Awwwww....I will miss you, Jim!! But I know what you mean.....though it will be nice to see you around now and again!! God bless your footsteps as you go onward on your path to follow Him!!! Peace and love to you!!

looking4_mywings
318 posts

5/9/2008 4:20 pm

May the next leg of your journey bring you even closer, to Gods will for your life...God Bless You. Angel

BristerBate
2985 posts 

5/9/2008 4:21 pm

I will miss you too Jim! Or...

are you trying to tell me and others also to get the h... out of here too?

Do you really "know" if your presence here somehow "makes" a difference? If that little you may provide, still is helpful for others? Or do you think this is just the "wrong place" to provide anything at all???

I'm sure you got "disappointed" somehow, but...

wouldn't our "true Love" for the Lord always overcome any "obstacle"!


BB
________

momto3beagles
3073 posts

5/9/2008 4:27 pm

Well this totally sucks.

sensory
963 posts

5/9/2008 5:09 pm

You seem like a pretty level headed guy and I have always enjoyed your blogs,even the short ones.

aneleh
915 posts 

5/9/2008 5:39 pm

Yup, what Mia said.

Sophie1101
1996 posts

5/9/2008 5:43 pm

God Bless you, Jim!

Aslan17
1910 posts

5/9/2008 6:07 pm




Blogging interfere with real life? But blogging is real life, isn't it?

God bless.

We are what we believe we are.
C. S. Lewis

jerseygirl1964
3087 posts

5/9/2008 6:22 pm

selah62
374 posts

5/9/2008 6:32 pm

I wish you all the best, bro!

~ Believe His Word and trust His Grace ~

sabrefire45
799 posts 

5/9/2008 6:54 pm

To Zion...
GBU Brother and all that you touch,
sabrefire

Dundeal
14280 posts 

5/9/2008 7:23 pm

may the Lord bless you brother, in any direction you choose to travel, cheers

May the Lord bless you and keep you

gregduncan

5/9/2008 7:40 pm

Well Jim I know everyone hopes you will come back and visit from time to time, that would be really nice because you have many friends here. All God's best to you and your family bro! Greg

SiennaSun
1120 posts 

5/9/2008 8:24 pm

I'm sorry you are leaving Jim...was just getting to know you....God bless you on your journey and pop in from time to time.

Men never commit evil so fully.. as.for religious convictions

looking4aknight
892 posts 

5/9/2008 8:34 pm

Jim, Sorry I didn't really get to know you but I see your heart is caring and your a man after Gods own heart. Be blessed in all you do and I hope you're back in the pulpit full time. Be Blessed!!!

Please remember to keep our soldiers in your prayers!!! Kristy

Independance
2358 posts 

5/9/2008 9:16 pm

Adiaux, gxis revido, Ne!
Good-bye, see you later, Not!

appreciate
9286 posts 

5/9/2008 11:47 pm

Jim you have blessed us with your presence many a times...may your journey with the Lord continue to be exciting and fruitful wherever you may venture as He leads...God's wonderful and rich blessings be ever with you...

Man can make many plans...BUT it is the Lord who will direct his paths....

busykydad
3173 posts

5/10/2008 9:58 pm

    Quoting americandreamer:
    What a drag to lose you. And yet, the opinion's mine and God's will is much larger. I understand though, God bless!
Thanks Pat, your blogs have been a blessing!

busykydad
3173 posts

5/10/2008 9:59 pm

    Quoting Michael33333:
    I completely understand your path... and relate with the reasoning... Jim you have blessed me many times and you will be missed... Praying for your next leg of this journey!!! Blessings!!! michael
Thanks for your prayers Michael...we still need to meet up and ride bikes sometime...there's some great roads to ride in Kentucky!!!

busykydad
3173 posts

5/10/2008 10:00 pm

    Quoting ReadingandRoses:
    I totally understand! In fact, that's what drew me to the blogs - a need to work out things in my life, healing.... and as that happens, I know the time will come sooner than later to move on. I've noticed lately how much time blogging can take and keep one distracted from the real world, and from working on the physical, emotional and spiritual issues. Odd that what starts as healing can become the block!
Sounds like you know exactly where I'm coming from! GBU

busykydad
3173 posts

5/10/2008 10:02 pm

    Quoting ms_warriorthingy:
    I know what you mean, Jim! This place has a way of encroaching into your life and kind of taking over! I pray that God continues to lead you on a path of blessing and a future that is full of every good thing He has in store for you. See you when you visit next time! Love you lots!
You are so sweet Penelope! I'm sorry to be leaving as you are just returning...

busykydad
3173 posts

5/10/2008 10:03 pm

    Quoting spiritfilled052:
    Oh Jim - I will miss you - I pray God's blessings follow you down and completely overtake you!!
Marilyn - you are an inspiration! Keep on praising Him! How can we not praise Him?!

busykydad
3173 posts

5/10/2008 10:04 pm

    Quoting MRAUTHOR2000:
    hi jim am going continue keep u in my prayers bro,u inspira me with your blog been reading offline.hope u decide come back visit.God bless u bro.
Jerry, what can I say? Wow, what a blessing you have been. Thanks for the post - about me and I truly meant what I said in my comment to you!

busykydad
3173 posts

5/10/2008 10:06 pm

    Quoting RaulTheScammer:
    Many on here have come for the same reason, including myself. It's been quite healing believe it or not. I do understand how it takes away from getting on with your life. Anything that has healed a heart is always hard to let go.
Mr. Multiple Personality - you are 100% correct, it is hard to let go. Best wishes to you and Mia...you all are in my prayers!

busykydad
3173 posts

5/10/2008 10:08 pm

    Quoting joybells55:
    I'll miss seeing you here, Jim, but when God calls we must answer. I will keep you in my prayers.
Will miss seeing you too! Thanks for praying for me!

busykydad
3173 posts

5/10/2008 10:10 pm

    Quoting OceanBlue122:
    Awwwww....I will miss you, Jim!! But I know what you mean.....though it will be nice to see you around now and again!! God bless your footsteps as you go onward on your path to follow Him!!! Peace and love to you!!
Lisa, I will miss you too! Your humor has lightened many of my days! I'm sure I will occasionally drop in...

busykydad
3173 posts

5/10/2008 10:11 pm

    Quoting looking4_mywings:
    May the next leg of your journey bring you even closer, to Gods will for your life...God Bless You. Angel
Angel, you are an angel. Thanks for the sweet comment.

busykydad
3173 posts

5/10/2008 10:17 pm

    Quoting BristerBate:
    I will miss you too Jim! Or...

    are you trying to tell me and others also to get the h... out of here too?

    Do you really "know" if your presence here somehow "makes" a difference? If that little you may provide, still is helpful for others? Or do you think this is just the "wrong place" to provide anything at all???

    I'm sure you got "disappointed" somehow, but...

    wouldn't our "true Love" for the Lord always overcome any "obstacle"!


    BB
    ________


BB - I will certainly miss you! But, I will remember you each time I make carbonara!

Oh, I better answer your questions:

No, I'm not telling you or anyone else to get the h... out of here!

No, I don't know if my presence here makes a difference...or if the little provide is helpful for others.

No, I didn't get disappointed - here anyway. Life is full of disappointments though.

Finally, I truly love the Lord - but there are no obstacles to get over here. Here is the obstacle...I spend too much time here and I've not been very successful regulating that time. Blogging on BC is kinda addicting...like good carbonara!

Thanks for being a great friend!

busykydad
3173 posts

5/10/2008 10:19 pm

Mia, tell me what you really think... I pray the Lord will richly bless you and Raul, or Ken, or whoever he really is

busykydad
3173 posts

5/10/2008 10:20 pm

    Quoting sensory:
    You seem like a pretty level headed guy and I have always enjoyed your blogs,even the short ones.
Most people preferred the short ones! LOL

busykydad
3173 posts

5/10/2008 10:24 pm

    Quoting aneleh:
    Yup, what Mia said.
Hellen!!! I had to go to your profile to see if that was really you! Geesh, if I knew you were back I might have delayed my departure a bit...How are ya?

busykydad
3173 posts

5/10/2008 10:26 pm

Thanks

busykydad
3173 posts

5/10/2008 10:30 pm

    Quoting Aslan17:



    Blogging interfere with real life? But blogging is real life, isn't it?

    God bless.
Blogging is an addiction I suppose...I know there are real people on the other end of this connection, but I need to redirect where I spend my time...you have been a blessing!

busykydad
3173 posts

5/10/2008 10:33 pm

Ginny, Ginny, who can I turn to, you give me something I can hold on to... , I know, I know, its Jenny, Jenny not Ginny, Ginny... I will respond to your email when I can make some time to adequately respond. It will be a book, LOL

busykydad
3173 posts

5/10/2008 10:34 pm

    Quoting selah62:
    I wish you all the best, bro!
Thank you!

busykydad
3173 posts

5/10/2008 10:36 pm

    Quoting sabrefire45:
    To Zion...
    GBU Brother and all that you touch,
    sabrefire

Sabrefire, I will definitely read your blog when I visit - your writing is very inspirational! How much more school before you become a MT? And when will you take the test for ASCP?

busykydad
3173 posts

5/10/2008 10:38 pm

    Quoting Dundeal:
    may the Lord bless you brother, in any direction you choose to travel, cheers
Bill, you are a blessing! What can I say but, HAHAHA and cheers!

busykydad
3173 posts

5/10/2008 10:42 pm

    Quoting gregduncan:
    Well Jim I know everyone hopes you will come back and visit from time to time, that would be really nice because you have many friends here. All God's best to you and your family bro! Greg
Greg - I like your fervent heart...you've been a blessing. Try to keep everybody in line and deliver the mail on time...

PS - my Dad is a rural mail carrier and he will be 71 in November, how old do you have to be before USPS will let you retire?

busykydad
3173 posts

5/10/2008 10:43 pm

    Quoting SiennaSun:
    I'm sorry you are leaving Jim...was just getting to know you....God bless you on your journey and pop in from time to time.
I will "pop" in occasionally

busykydad
3173 posts

5/10/2008 10:45 pm

    Quoting looking4aknight:
    Jim, Sorry I didn't really get to know you but I see your heart is caring and your a man after Gods own heart. Be blessed in all you do and I hope you're back in the pulpit full time. Be Blessed!!!
Thanks, that's where my heart is...

busykydad
3173 posts

5/10/2008 10:48 pm

    Quoting appreciate:
    Jim you have blessed us with your presence many a times...may your journey with the Lord continue to be exciting and fruitful wherever you may venture as He leads...God's wonderful and rich blessings be ever with you...
Thank you for your kind words!

yendor2
6843 posts

5/11/2008 12:08 am

God Speed my friend...

chrissy56
4360 posts 

5/11/2008 7:28 am

Gods guidance,protection and abundant blessings Jim where ever this road may take you....May it be peaceful and may you continue to serve Our Lord and Saviour in every way.....
Luvs and Hugs always
Chris xoxoxo

God's Angel
The truth,The Light,The Way

THE LORD PRESERVES ALL WHO LOVE HIM........psalm145-20........

greeneyedkat
534 posts

5/11/2008 12:48 pm

I am going to miss seeing you here on the blogs! I can understand! I am so glad that I got to meet you!

Talk with you later!!

Call me!!!

busykydad
3173 posts

5/11/2008 5:15 pm

    Quoting yendor2:
    God Speed my friend...
Bless you bro!

busykydad
3173 posts

5/11/2008 5:17 pm

    Quoting chrissy56:
    Gods guidance,protection and abundant blessings Jim where ever this road may take you....May it be peaceful and may you continue to serve Our Lord and Saviour in every way.....
    Luvs and Hugs always
    Chris xoxoxo
Thank you Chris - I appreciate you and your kind words!

busykydad
3173 posts

5/11/2008 5:19 pm

    Quoting greeneyedkat:
    I am going to miss seeing you here on the blogs! I can understand! I am so glad that I got to meet you!

    Talk with you later!!

    Call me!!!
Katrina...I'm leaving because you never posted the azalea pictures!!! LOL. Next time I'm passing through Chattanooga at a reasonable hour I will give you a holla...but in the mean time, stay in touch!

jerseygirl1964
3087 posts

5/11/2008 7:49 pm

I've got beautiful Azalea's in my yard. If I post a picture will you stay??

I also have the most beautiful Cherry Blossom pics - OH MY - breath taking. We have a festival here that is even bigger than Washington, I am told! We went with people from Church on April 23rd I think. Yea, think that was the date. After Church went on the last day to grab up the beautiful sight. I'll post pictures.

See now you must stay.

Oh, yea, I will also send you a picture of what my son saw when he exited his school each day while they were in bloom. Let me know if it's ok to text multimedia to your cell as I have that pic on my cell phone. I won't tell you, I'll just surprise you if you say it's ok. I was awestruck at the beauty and how blessed we were to see that and that he got to go to this school. It's been one blessing after another since he's been there!! PTL!!

busykydad
3173 posts

5/11/2008 8:02 pm

    Quoting jerseygirl1964:
    I've got beautiful Azalea's in my yard. If I post a picture will you stay??

    I also have the most beautiful Cherry Blossom pics - OH MY - breath taking. We have a festival here that is even bigger than Washington, I am told! We went with people from Church on April 23rd I think. Yea, think that was the date. After Church went on the last day to grab up the beautiful sight. I'll post pictures.

    See now you must stay.

    Oh, yea, I will also send you a picture of what my son saw when he exited his school each day while they were in bloom. Let me know if it's ok to text multimedia to your cell as I have that pic on my cell phone. I won't tell you, I'll just surprise you if you say it's ok. I was awestruck at the beauty and how blessed we were to see that and that he got to go to this school. It's been one blessing after another since he's been there!! PTL!!

Its ok to send multimedia to my cell - text away!

sabrefire45
799 posts 

5/11/2008 8:45 pm

    Quoting busykydad:
    Sabrefire, I will definitely read your blog when I visit - your writing is very inspirational! How much more school before you become a MT? And when will you take the test for ASCP?
Wow somebody knows their health professions credentialing agencies! School's out! I just have to do the internship portion and then it's exam time. I have not decided on MT or Cyto - with my degrees I could do either really. I'm still tryin to feel out what path the Spirit would have me take...one of them- or neither.
I do hope you stop in from time to time Brother; the best to you and your family!
Gb,
sabrefire

aneleh
915 posts 

5/11/2008 8:50 pm

    Quoting busykydad:
    Hellen!!! I had to go to your profile to see if that was really you! Geesh, if I knew you were back I might have delayed my departure a bit...How are ya?
Yeah, it is me! I am very well. Thanks.

I'm sad to see that you are leaving just as I arrive.
Hope you stay in touch.

SmileyLove
269 posts

5/12/2008 12:15 am

totally understand Jim

pray God blesses and keep you and the boys for His glory..

hugs and many thanks for the encouragment and fun you have been here, have loved reading your blogs especially on those more challenging days in my life

see you in Glory HUGS!!!

Rachel xx


Vive, ama, ride ~ Live, love, laugh

truddie
87 posts 

5/12/2008 5:40 am

It was a delight to meet you Jim. Will miss your deep truths and encouragement. Be great to keep intouch. What's your email add?

busykydad
3173 posts

5/12/2008 6:04 am

    Quoting SmileyLove:
    totally understand Jim

    pray God blesses and keep you and the boys for His glory..

    hugs and many thanks for the encouragment and fun you have been here, have loved reading your blogs especially on those more challenging days in my life

    see you in Glory HUGS!!!

    Rachel xx

Rachel, you are a blessing. Thanks for always having an encouraging word!

busykydad
3173 posts

5/12/2008 6:06 am

    Quoting truddie:
    It was a delight to meet you Jim. Will miss your deep truths and encouragement. Be great to keep intouch. What's your email add?
Truddie, my email addy is on the way. Stay in touch, you are a blessing!

busykydad
3173 posts

5/12/2008 6:07 am

    Quoting sabrefire45:
    Wow somebody knows their health professions credentialing agencies! School's out! I just have to do the internship portion and then it's exam time. I have not decided on MT or Cyto - with my degrees I could do either really. I'm still tryin to feel out what path the Spirit would have me take...one of them- or neither.
    I do hope you stop in from time to time Brother; the best to you and your family!
    Gb,
    sabrefire

Been in healthcare 23 years - maybe I've learned a few things? LOL. Seek Him, He will guide you! Blessings!

busykydad
3173 posts

5/12/2008 6:08 am

    Quoting aneleh:
    Yeah, it is me! I am very well. Thanks.

    I'm sad to see that you are leaving just as I arrive.
    Hope you stay in touch.
ahh, I recognize this picture. Ditto on the stay in touch...

Louisiana
151 posts

5/12/2008 7:09 am

Awwww, but your'e one of the good guys on here! I was just getting to know you too. i can see that you are a man after God's own heart. May he bless you and keep you, always.

truddie
87 posts 

5/12/2008 8:15 am

It didn't come thro . try a blank email first

busykydad
3173 posts

5/12/2008 9:32 am

    Quoting Louisiana:
    Awwww, but your'e one of the good guys on here! I was just getting to know you too. i can see that you are a man after God's own heart. May he bless you and keep you, always.
Awww, thank you for making such a sweet comment!

busykydad
3173 posts

5/12/2008 9:35 am

    Quoting truddie:
    It didn't come thro . try a blank email first
Hey Truddie, let me know if you received either of the emails I just sent.

pinkypop
1 post 

5/12/2008 10:42 am

Hey.. I left BC about a year ago (dreamer4763) needed to move on and to grow in a different direction. I see some of the same faces here today but not many, seems that people grow and go. I wish that I had known ya you seem like a sincere, down to earth kind of guy.
peace and live
candi

1god2
1332 posts 

5/12/2008 5:28 pm

I will miss reading your posts, Jim. You have been a blessing to me. Feel free to send your email addy. God bless you.

Nancy
Let us share one anothers burdens and so fulfill the law of Christ

busykydad
3173 posts

5/12/2008 8:59 pm

    Quoting pinkypop:
    Hey.. I left BC about a year ago (dreamer4763) needed to move on and to grow in a different direction. I see some of the same faces here today but not many, seems that people grow and go. I wish that I had known ya you seem like a sincere, down to earth kind of guy.
    peace and live
    candi
Hey Candi, thanks for stopping by...enjoy your time back here!