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P343_7 62M

8/3/2007 10:56 pm

I wonder If Jesus is anywhere near it?

Joe, You did not have that as a vote so I vote here

W W J D ?

GBU Bro and yours always

Jesus & Don

Get real for Jesus - He is coming soon
Stand fast and be watchful - The battle is on


Hisglory77
(Byron )
64M

8/3/2007 11:11 pm

Now this must be a new one, because last I knew, Myrrh was fighting with Sweethoney, and Frazzie was trying to pick a fight with _____ (Undefinable.

I have to join Greg and hope they can resolve their differences. We already have too much division in the body of Christ as it is.

Isaiah 66:2b; But to this one I will look, To him who is humble and contrite of spirit, and who trembles at My word.


_Frazzie 50F

8/4/2007 2:27 am

I'm actually apaulled that this sister couldnt answer a email and yet found attacking me in blogs acceptable..

My fight with ___ or undie is a past one.. and as far as I'm concerned what I said on her blog was a joke and I did apologise for my further conduct and umm... dont hold nothing against her now.. past is past.. best left alone.. was a stoopid fall out anyway..

However, when someone in the body of Christ, attacks you, you defend yourself.. and try to talk with them, and they refuse, is it really MY fault..?

I answer NO unless someone can show me different..


shouldknow
(Claudia T)
66F

8/4/2007 4:22 am

Well to be completely frank, I don't know everything about it but from what I can see it seems to be that the one person claims they are so sorry for what they have done in the past in the way of making videos or whatever, yet its as if they want everyone to know about it, especially the men, and then they keep changing their profile pictures with all these seductive poses on it. I mean come on... I'm all for forgiving and forgetting and putting the past in the past, but it seems as if they are quite proud of what they did and not truly ashamed of it and as if they are wanting everyone to know about it and to keep on thinking about it.

Secondly, I don't think if someone is having this sort of a "fight" that everyone on BC needs to hear about it as if it were some sort of "Show".

It appears each wants to present all the whys and wherefores of why we ought to all feel sorry for them or believe that God is on their side. Honestly, I think God would be disgusted with the whole thing from either angle.

I don't even want to hear about it.

Well anyway, thats how I feel about it. Mine is not likely to be the most popular opinion but what can I say? It's mine and you asked.


Ti:2:14: Who gave himself for us, that he might redeem us from all iniquity


shouldknow
(Claudia T)
66F

8/4/2007 5:04 am

And since Im on a roll, I may as well say this too, as far as the one person goes, keep your breasts to yourself, I dont appreciate a woman displaying her private parts to everyone anymore than I'd appreciate a man having his male private parts hanging out of his shorts for everybody to see.

I know everyone wont like me saying this, but at this point, I really just dont care.

Ti:2:14: Who gave himself for us, that he might redeem us from all iniquity


michellejm 56F

8/4/2007 5:57 am

Hey there. It doesn't excite me. I'm not going to judge people for getting into fights though. That happens and I hope that I don't get into any on BC. It can become difficult at times though as things can get heated.

I've only seen snippets of this situation and I believe there is a lot more to the story than I know. But I'm not going to lay judgements upon these two women.

I just hope that any parties caught up in a fight and if feeling hurt can find peace about it and the hurt healed. As I know that is what I would like for myself if caught up in a fight.

I see that Frazzie has said she has moved on from this.

I don't think that means we can all be friends though. Sometimes it just ain't going to work and for me when a relationship isn't working I just let the other person know I want them to not attempt to engage me anymore. People can forgive and still choose not to interact with certain people.


Tom45
(Tom )
68M

8/4/2007 7:00 am

"HolyMagi" ...

Hatred stirs up strife, but love covers all sins. (Pro.10:12)(NKJV)

Which one are you?

You shall know the truth, and the truth shall set you free.


apostle2day 82M

8/4/2007 10:29 am

Melikey ! (even tho I haven't read any of it)
It's 2 boring around here...
I hope there's blood.
I watch the ultimate fighters...in the cage. Too bad that couldn't happen here.
Great way to work off stress !
...and note that it's women. Most relish backbiting and fighting with other females, since they don't have husbands.
This is prolly a setup, just to get more attention now that dundeal has passed them.
Thayl prolly post an Aprils' fool statement shortly.

otoh...unity is tuff !!!



y a w n....


Independance
(Patricia )
62F

8/4/2007 11:01 am

well Magi, glad to hear about your femenine side (i never thought you could possibly have one), i voted for # 4, i belive that both members might be at fault and both are accountable for their behavior, however, i am dissapointed at the way that one of them has chossen to defend herself, it shows a lack of class, lack of christian values, but i pray that this foolishness is not asimilated or copied by other members here.

Life is an adventure.


shouldknow
(Claudia T)
66F

8/4/2007 11:13 am

    Quoting  :

Thats your uneducated opinion.

Ti:2:14: Who gave himself for us, that he might redeem us from all iniquity


michellejm 56F

8/4/2007 11:18 am

    Quoting  :

I'd love to have a look at your photos too.


_Frazzie 50F

8/4/2007 1:41 pm

    Quoting  :

hmm I was smart enough to email back.. she was umm... silly enough to bring it too blogs.. she wont back down.. shes like a doberman pincher on a neck - hanging on with every ounce she can till someone says... YoUR RIGHT...

at the end of the day.....WHO CARES .. I seriously DONT.. but you know.. I have a HUGE problem with being blamed for something I didnt do..

Anyway.. as a barrister would say.. CASE CLOSED>.. I'm too old for this childishness...


moveinspace 87M

8/4/2007 2:27 pm

I'm a male and you are actually asking me if a catfight excites or disappoints me? I'm hoping mud is involved


Hisglory77
(Byron )
64M

8/4/2007 9:40 pm

Okay, it's time to put a kibosh on this cat fight.

While you women are busy insulting one another, and responding to the latest insults, the devil is watching you and laughing at your foolishness. That's right I said foolishness, but I'm not saying you personally are fools, just your current actions are foolish.

What started as two women in a disagreement that should be settled between them and nobody else, is now escalating, and two more women are checking in for this one.

THIS IS NOT ABOUT WHO IS RIGHT, WHO IS WRONG, WHO IS CHRIST LIKE, WHO IS A HYPOCRITE, or any issues being quoted and argued back and forth.
This is about you women LETTING THE DEVIL TRICK YOU INTO DIVIDING THE BODY OF CHRIST!!


Ephesians 6:12 - For we wrestle not against flesh and blood, but against principalities, against powers, against the rulers of the darkness of this world, against spiritual wickedness in high places.

You girls are playing right into the devil's hands, and will do his dirty work of dividing the body of Christ for him if this continues.
Not to mention, you will also bring God's judgment against yourselves, and shut off your prayers from being answered.

Matthew 5:22 But I say to you that everyone who is angry with his brother shall be guilty before the heavenly court; and whoever says to his brother, "You good-for-nothing," shall be guilty before the Lord's supreme court; and whoever says, "You fool," shall be guilty enough to go into the fiery hell.
Matthew 5:23 Therefore if you are presenting your prayers at the altar, and there remember that your brother has something against you,
Matthew 5:24 leave your prayers unspoken there before the altar and go; first be reconciled to your brother, and then come and present your prayers.


This goes for sisters too.
So now let's end this, and do it like Jesus would want you too.
Forget about who said what to you that was wrong. You each know what you said to each other that offended your sister. Start with that, and ask your sister to forgive you. Even if you think you are right, your words offended her, and that makes them wrong.
Don't forget to forgive your sister as well. (even if she lacks the Christlikeness to ask your forgiveness, you be Christlike).

Myrrh, Frazzie, Shouldknow, and Sweethoney. All four of you have some apologies to make, and all four of you have some forgiving to do.
And none of this, "What did I say or do wrong?" You know which of your words offended your sister, and you are accountable for what you spoke. You are NOT accountable for what your sister said.

Now act like the mature women of God the Bible says you all are, and end this dispute.

As for the rest of you, please agree with me on this. Not because I'm right, but because it is in God's Word, and God is right.
Don't allow any more of the mud slinging to happen here.

Isaiah 66:2b; But to this one I will look, To him who is humble and contrite of spirit, and who trembles at My word.


soaringwithchris
(stephen m. )
67M

8/5/2007 3:41 am

Personally, I could care less. How is this situation going to go away when people keep drawing attention to it? This has happened before and I am sure it will happen again. Leave it up to the people involved to settle their own differences. Just my opinion. NEXT SUBJECT.

Half a Boy/Half a Man? Some women like us that way.

Soaring with Christ


shouldknow
(Claudia T)
66F

8/5/2007 5:52 am

HisGlory77

First off, you are not the decider of whether or not I am a Mature Christian Woman,

Secondly, you are not the determiner of whether or not God is going to hear and answer my prayers.

Just because you say something, doesnt make it so. And I have the right to state my opinion, just as you do.

Thirdly, if women are going to run around partially dressed in public and/or flaunt their past of doing nude videos/pictures or whatever to everyone, then Im going to say something about it... because I after all, have my own conscience before God to consider.....

1Tm:5:20: Them that sin rebuke before all, that others also may fear.

and nobody, including you, are going to be the decider of that for me...

Fourthly, if someone is going to accuse me of promoting "cultic" doctrine, I am going to set them straight on the fact that they are not only wrong but ignorant....

Mt:16:12: Then understood they how that he bade them not beware of the leaven of bread, but of the doctrine of the Pharisees and of the Sadducees.

Jn: 7 : 16: Jesus answered them, and said, My doctrine is not mine, but his that sent me.

...for this person is sadly lacking in true and right information regarding my Church's teachings. And they ought to really understand what they are talking about before saying it....

Prov:18:13: He that answereth a matter before he heareth it, it is folly and shame unto him.

So sorry, but I have no apologies to make whatsoever.

And you can think whatsoever you like about me. That makes no difference to God, He is going to think whatever He likes about me.

...and after all, its His opinion of me that matters.

I am going to follow my own conscience and not yours, when it comes to what I say to people. And you can do the same.

Thank you!

Ti:2:14: Who gave himself for us, that he might redeem us from all iniquity


Rebekka_returns 77F

8/5/2007 6:14 am

"Actually, it saddens my heart hugely.
I wish they would kiss and make up."

Me too. Life is much too short! Jesus is coming....AND SOON.


Lord, keep one hand on my shoulder and one hand over my mouth!


alyosha2 55M

8/5/2007 11:12 am

OK Myhrr and Frazzie!

In the love of God, will you both answer this question,,,can you forgive each other and try to make up???


firefromheaven
(firefromheaven )
68M

8/5/2007 1:10 pm

I meant to click on the smiley link but clicked on the guideline link. lol

BigChurch Blog Guidelines

In the interest of creating a safe and friendly blog community, please refrain from:

* Use of foul language, profanities, obscenities, or vulgarities.
* Harassing, threatening, degrading, intimidating, victimizing, or abusing any individual or group. This includes hate based on a member’s age, gender, ethnicity, disability, religion or sexual orientation.
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* Selling, advertising or posting ads or making solicitations, including URLs for other sites.
* Posting graphic descriptions or engaging in sexually graphic conversations.
* Posting any URLs, no matter what the intent or content, except in the places where it’s otherwise noted.
* Posting any personal contact information. This includes email or instant messenger addresses, phone numbers, etc.
* Posting copyrighted material or anything that’s protected by intellectual property rights. This includes text, photos, images, sound, and video files.
* Posting instructions or information on how to do anything illegal, such as shoplifting, hacking, etc.
* Any attempt to collect or post any other member’s username, password, or other private, personal information, such as telephone number, email/instant messenger addresses, home address, etc.
* Starting or allowing arguments which escalate into threats, harassment, or violence. Feel free to argue and defend your opinions, but keep it civil.
* Flooding a blog. This means you can’t continuously post the same comments over and over again to disrupt a conversation.
* Hacking.
* Transmitting or attempting to transmit a virus to other members.
* Impersonating or trying to pass yourself off as an employee of BigChurch, its parent company and/or affiliates or subsidiaries.
* Making defamatory statements about BigChurch or any of its affiliated sites.
* Unless we mentioned it above, anything you post to your blog or anyone else’s must comply with BigChurch's Terms of Use.

Multiple violations will result in deletion of accounts and any other accounts connected to this member. Previous violations will result in future violations being treated more swiftly and severely.

A Note on Safety

Be careful about giving out your personal information to anyone online. BigChurch employees will never ask you to post personal information or account details, like your email address or password. If anyone asks you for this kind of information, report it to our Abuse Team. The rule of thumb is: Don’t post any personal information in your blog. It’s just good common sense and will make your blogging safer, more secure and, in the long run, more fun.

It cracks me up that it says feel free to argue but keep it civil.


jerseygirl1964
(Ginny )
60F
3657 posts
8/5/2007 1:12 pm

MEOW............HISSSSSSSSSSSS.............

OUCH................


Can we get a PURRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR?



Pretty please?
thanks,
Jers


* Sin is sin. Careful what comes across your lips & out your finger tips!!!
* We are all the Body of Christ. Let's treat each other as such, with the same respect we give to HIM!!
* Relationship advice: DO NOT make someone a PRIORITY, when they ONLY make you an OPTION!!
* A woman's heart should be so lost in God, that a man has to seek HIM in order to find her!!


firefromheaven
(firefromheaven )
68M

8/5/2007 1:25 pm

Pro 26:20 Where no wood is, there the fire goeth out: so where there is no talebearer, the strife ceaseth.

Pro 21:9 It is better to dwell in a corner of the housetop, than with a brawling woman/man in a wide house.

Pro 25:24 It is better to dwell in the corner of the housetop, than with a brawling woman/man and in a wide house.

Jas 3:5 Even so the tongue is a little member, and boasteth great things. Behold, how great a matter a little fire kindleth!

Pro 25:15 By long forbearing is a prince persuaded, and a soft tongue breaketh the bone.

Pro 15:1 A soft answer turneth away wrath: but grievous words stir up anger.

Pro 15:23 A man hath joy by the answer of his mouth: and a word spoken in due season, how good is it!

Pro 25:11 A word fitly spoken is like apples of gold in pictures of silver.

Pro 15:18 A wrathful man stirreth up strife: but he that is slow to anger appeaseth strife.

Pro 16:28 A froward man soweth strife: and a whisperer separateth chief friends.

Pro 17:1 Better is a dry morsel, and quietness therewith, than an house full of sacrifices with strife.

Pro 17:14 The beginning of strife is as when one letteth out water: therefore leave off contention, before it be meddled with.

Pro 17:19 He loveth transgression that loveth strife: and he that exalteth his gate seeketh destruction.

Pro 20:3 It is an honour for a man to cease from strife: but every fool will be meddling.

Pro 22:10 Cast out the scorner, and contention shall go out; yea, strife and reproach shall cease.

Pro 26:17 He that passeth by, and meddleth with strife belonging not to him, is like one that taketh a dog by the ears.

Pro 26:21 As coals are to burning coals, and wood to fire; so is a contentious man to kindle strife.

Pro 28:25 He that is of a proud heart stirreth up strife: but he that putteth his trust in the LORD shall be made fat.

Pro 29:22 An angry man stirreth up strife, and a furious man aboundeth in transgression.

Pro 30:33 Surely the churning of milk bringeth forth butter, and the wringing of the nose bringeth forth blood: so the forcing of wrath bringeth forth strife.

Just some verses....But I fail at this more times then I care to.


michellejm 56F

8/5/2007 1:29 pm

    Quoting  :

HILLARIOUS!!!! I know the feeling. Had to stop myself from making a comment here earlier as I felt I was going to be drawn into battle. Originally Claudia got up my nose a bit - but that happens - but then - ah! -with Hisglory77's comments that was when I decided I really needed to turn the channel for a bit and refrain. Might get back to it another time when up to the challenge.
It seems that more battles are firing up due to this topic. I think if we were all in a room it could become Jerry Sringeresque. I can imagine that things could get very heated, with people being physically restrained and chairs thrown. We'd have a huge audience tho. I noticed many people have viewed this poll.
I think it's too funny the thought of you scratching faces. Just as well we're in different states and counties.


michellejm 56F

8/5/2007 1:37 pm

    Quoting  :

HILARIOUS!!!! I know the feeling. Had to stop myself from making a comment here earlier as I felt I was going to be drawn into battle. Originally Claudia got up my nose a bit - but that happens - but then - ah! -with Hisglory77's comments that was when I decided I really needed to turn the channel for a bit and refrain. Might get back to it another time when up to the challenge.
It seems that more battles are firing up due to this topic. I think if we were all in a room it could become Jerry Sringeresque. I can imagine that things could get very heated, with people being physically restrained and chairs thrown. We'd have a huge audience tho. I noticed many people have viewed this poll.
I think it's too funny the thought of you scratching faces. Just as well we're in different states and countries.


Hisglory77
(Byron )
64M

8/5/2007 1:59 pm

Claudia;
May the Lord bless you and keep you. I have said what I said, and I'm not going to argue with you about it. I will continue to pray for you, and that the other 3 have more Christ like responses. Even if they don't I will still pray for all of you. I have shared the Word, which never returns void.

Isaiah 66:2b; But to this one I will look, To him who is humble and contrite of spirit, and who trembles at My word.


crucified777 60M

8/5/2007 3:07 pm

bro.holymagi,

i just wanted to give my two cents.i have been reading not just this blog but allot of others as well.and when i read i try to listen to the HOLY GHOST in every situation.the one thing that comes up in my heart is: discernment!...In the cy ber world it's hard to discern unless,
under the power of the HOLY GHOST.fruit is the one thing here you can not see unless through the eyes of the HOLY GHOST.spiritual discernment is what is needed to see what really is going on.....

Jer 17:9 The heart is deceitful above all things, and desperately wicked, who can know it?
Jer 17:10 I the LORD search the heart, I try the reins, even to give every man according to his ways, and according to the fruit of his doings......notice the writer asks a question in verse 9 and then answers it in verse 10.....

Heb 4:12 For the word of God is quick, and powerful, and sharper than any two-edged sword, piercing even to the dividing asunder of soul and spirit, and of the joints and marrow, and is a discerner of the thoughts and intents of the heart.....
here the writer says it is only through the WORD OF GOD that we can discern.(and that only under the power of the HOLY GHOST)My words in parenthesis......we as brothers and sisters in the LORD need to ask ourselves the question.what is the real issue here?it is a matter of the heart......

Luk 6:45 A good man out of the good treasure of his heart bringeth forth that which is good and an evil man out of the evil treasure of his heart bringeth forth that which is evil: for of the abundance of the heart his mouth speaketh...
I am not saying that the people here at b.c. are evil.i am saying that we need to pray for one another,for things are going on that are not pleasing to the LORD GOD,and there needs to be true REPENTANCE......not just I'm sorry,or GOD knows my heart,or i don't need anyone to judge me only GOD can judge me.those things said are cop outs. if there is true REPENTANCE then there should be FRUITS OF IT.not just lip service and if we have our spiritual discernment on we will be able to see with GODS EYES NOT OURS...ARE WE NOT OUR BROTHERS AND SISTERS KEEPER?
and if we are, certain things need to be exposed,and that in the spirit of meekness and kindness considering ourselves lest we also be tempted, so that we can be able to pray for one another in a specific manner so that we can break any foothold of the enemy that he might have over our lives.please forgive me if i have strayed from the subject. i was just trying to say we need to open our eyes the time is short.and if we love each other then we will learn how judge each others fruit.lets examine ourselves and lets not be upset when we get examined by others,for if your fruits are being produced by the HOLY GHOST you have nothing to be ashamed......

LOVE ONE ANOTHER,PRAY FOR ONE ANOTHER,AND DIE TO YOURSELVES FOR ONE ANOTHER. GOD BLESS THE BRIDE OF CHRIST

Choose life,So that both you and your seed may live